Imo, mine is kinda rough. I do some negging and or poss but only depends on the girl or girls I'm surrounded by. If their like very girly than I'll mix it with an equal amount of both poss and neg. If they're the so called "independent alpha females" I'll do some more negging than poss. It gets awkward once these two types of women hang out with me and they think I want them. Ik it's kind of manipulative but damn, it's gotten me results lol