What do you do when you disqualify I’m some way maybe slightly early on something like sexual in a disqualification way like we aren’t making the sex tonight and they say oh I don’t wana do that with you at all so they don’t seem like a slut I know they can’t agree with me on something like that so they say I don’t do that, I usually say something like ok cool I feel safer now but I wana find out a better way to do that