When do you quit?

Hormander · 2012-01-28T11:25:11+00:00

I move on when I stop having fun and start having the impression I am making a lot of efforts.

ge99 · 2012-01-28T12:58:57+00:00

Are you having fun?

For similar logistics reasons I waited until the 5th encounter/date to have sex with somebody. Every date was an absolute blast and she was really cool. The sexual tension got to the point where I could feel it in my shoulders and ankles.

On new years we finally had some of the most passionate and intense sex I've ever had. I arrived at her place, put my hand on her back and it was like a nuclear bomb went off.

In 3.1 seconds I was carrying her to the bedroom. We knocked over an ottoman, knocked pictures off the wall on the way. It was like Mt. Saint Helens and Hiroshima all over again. Clothes were ripped off, not taken off.

If I gave up at 2-3 dates this wouldn't have happened.

Shit, good memories... I'll be in my bunk.

bolxrex · 2012-01-28T16:54:13+00:00

You are just calibrating to this particular girl. There is nothing set in stone about the number of dates acceptable. The idea is just to always escalate. Have you gone further (even if slightly) with her on every encounter? She is probably letting things move as slowly to build up your desire to date her rather than just have a romp. If you move too fast for her she may lose interest, if she moves too slow you will lose interest. Just find the middle ground and go see her on sunday because it sounds like she'll be ready soon.

Oreoman8404 · 2012-01-28T12:00:42+00:00

2 If she had any intent this post wouldnt have even happened. Time to move on

Title	When do you quit?
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Upvotes	9
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Date	January 28, 2012 8:04 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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