Answering these questions honestly gives me huge clarity about the situation, and let me be more objective about the emotions that I'm feeling and also let me see the other person in different light.

  1. Is she pretty?
  2. If she is pretty, is she the prettiest girl you’ve ever seen? Most probably no, objectively.
  3. If there was no sexual attraction would you have been friends with a person who had such a personality(includes career)?
  4. Have you had sex with her?
  5. Was the sex awesome?
  6. Is she the only person you’ve ever had sex with?
  7. Have you built future with her in your imagination?