So this girl and I like each other and have been talking for like 5 months. When I asked her out she said that her emotions are all over the place since she just got out of a relationship and she doesn’t want to do anything. Anyways, ik she’s attracted to me because she sent me nudes and shit and says I’m very handsome but she friendzoned me so I decided to back off. She messaged me a week ago asking how I was and I ignored her to build anxiety.

Anyways, I’m planning to lose weight and get a better sense of style in 4 months…which also happens to be her bday. I plan on finally breaking the silence and taking her on an extravagant date on her bday. She loves to race so I’m taking her race car driving and to go out and eat and just have a good time. I think this will re-kindle the feelings she had for me. However, is 4 months too long? She’s an over thinker so ik she’s thinking of me. But do u think she’ll forget me and not want ti go out w me? Should I msg her so it doesn’t seem that I cut her off entirely? We had a very good relationship so I’m counting she won’t completely forget about me