So I used to flirt with girls and then ask them out, but a week ago I was flirting with this girl and she was really attracted to me texting sexual things and putting hearts in a bunch of messages. I said something along the lines of "Wow I'm in love" or something and she said me too, then I asked her out, and now she's my girlfriend. Did I just not flirt enough or go deep enough with the girls in the past, or was this just a unusually good success? TLDR: I don't think I flirted with girls in the past enough but I'm not sure if my recent success was just really lucky or if I just asked girls out too quick in the past