When to text after getting fb/number etc

hunterpua · 2020-07-01T20:10:12+00:00

But when do you typically try to set something up after getting their contact?

Its best to make plans during the conversation when you first meet them.

The plans you make to hang out will be what justifies exchanging contact details.

Its fine. If these are 2 of your first few numbers then you're already doing a lot better than you were before.

When to text after getting fb/number etc

Write them within 2 hours of meeting them.

Especially if they don't know you that well, they can quickly forget how you made them feel.

The girls you met may have really been into you when you met them but after going through their days and having their focus shift around in a hundred different directions, they will quickly be out of that state of mind.

One of the things I do is message the girl as soon as we exchange contacts.

Like right then and there while were still in front of each other.

I just make a conversation with her that she wouldn't want anyone else to hear like maybe I'll message her saying, "Fuck, marry, kill - the 3 people right next to us."

And we'll have that whole conversation over messaging right there.

That'll make it so that by the time you go your separate ways there's already a full thread between you two in her messages so when you message her again it won't feel like a stranger is writing her, it'll feel like you're just picking up where you left off.

And that's what you should do whether you used this little trick or not.

Don't say it was great meeting her or anything, you already showed her how you felt about her when you actually met her, just go straight into the conversation you had before.

Like lets say, if you were talking about spiders, just write in your first message, "I found that species of spider you were telling me about."

And since you hadn't made plans with the 2 girls whose numbers you got yet...

All you need to do is find out what you have in common with each girl.

Find out what you and her both like doing or what you're both into.

And suggest doing an activity or a place related to that.

Theres your plan to hang out.

No need to make it clear that its a date. As long as she can get to know you and you can get to know her then attraction can develop.

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romdeodelta · 2020-07-01T19:59:52+00:00

Start new thread with name, and start immediately. They have very short attention spans. Only be texting to: a) build rapport, or b) setup a meet. Know which, and have your goal in mind.

rickyroyal37 · 2020-07-01T20:46:12+00:00

"What's your sign?" is a great low investment text

"What are your top 3 passions?"

Is a great one to find out what some of her emotional buttons are you can use later to tease her with or establish rapport.

Title	When to text after getting fb/number etc
Author	asagurachan
Upvotes	4
Comments	5
Date	July 1, 2020 7:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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