Where can i practice social skills?

Saltysaks · 2015-06-20T04:38:34+00:00

What helped me was getting a job where ai was forces to interact with people. Specifically i worked as a host. I found that it helped me break free of my shell, even though it took about a year. People are everywhere. Just go somewhere and strike up conversations. Talk about their day, the weather, sports. You can make conversation around just about every topic.

ihateusernames12345 · 2015-06-20T05:23:33+00:00

what about toastmasters?

charmand3r- · 2015-06-20T13:40:15+00:00

I would say everywhere, all the time when you interact with people. The bus-stop, stores, in the lift, everywhere. Let's say you see a nice chick that stands-out, maybe her dress really is nice on her: Go and tell her.

What I like to do occasionally when going out is to say shit to girls without any excuses and see what I can get away with and put my self in situations with a lot of "social pressure" in order to increase my social abilities and the way to maneuver both in conversations and body language under a great deal of pressure.

You'll have to get out of your comfort-zone. Let's say you go out, go to the absolute hottest chick in the the club, and tell her some silly stupid shit.

Additionally: Listen very careful to what other people say and try to ask questions based on what they are saying and keep the conversation flowing naturally. That being said some people are easier to have conversations with, but as a general rule of thumb girls love to chat.

It's not weird or creepy to strike up conversations with "strangers". It is a stupid mindset to have. Just don't be the creepy guy or girl. Another thing to avoid it: Do not show the girl that you want anything from them at all, IE sex if you are chatting with a chick.

shadowwada · 2015-06-20T07:38:43+00:00

You are choosing a dvd for tonight

ihateusernames12345 · 2015-06-20T19:05:21+00:00

are there any hobbies you are really into? for example if you like boating maybe join a sailing club or something. or if you like biking try and join a biking club.. i think finding a networking opportunity with a common ground (all into that hobby) it would help. do you have any extroverted friends that would have any suggestions?

Title	Where can i practice social skills?
Author	BigBootyBear
Upvotes	9
Comments	10
Date	June 20, 2015 4:35 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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