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| 4 | Girls grind on me on the clubAppreciated my brother. I have the confidence you will overcome your demons in the future and be a more complete man. Make us proud :) | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 01:38 PM |
| 7 | Girls grind on me on the clubI don't mean to offend you, especially after you've agreed with me despite talking so directly with you. But you still asked me the question iv'e told you to ask yourself. Even if I would answer it, and you'd agreed with me, why would you ever act up on it? One cannot escape depression by merely acknowledging it's existence, even though it's a step in the right direction. I can give you clues on where to look, but the walking is up to you. Start by stopping to ask for permission. | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 01:09 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]You don't. This is why your DNA has double the female than male ancestors. Throughout history until now, the trend has been the same (though with numerous variations) - high status males have harems or extramarital affairs. Average males have monogamous relationships with whatever female they are lucky to end up with. Low status males are mostly cuckolded, marry later, or never at all. The average male will never bother to expand any non-negligible effort to become better with women. This is wha… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 12:45 PM |
| 14 | Girls grind on me on the clubNot only you are well aware of why it happens, you know exactly how to respond and capitalize on it. You are just so willing to dismiss women's attraction to you to whatever the fuck reasons cause coming to terms with the fact women desire you implies you are desirable, and for whatever reason, it's a realization worth avoiding even at the price of easy sex. You need other people to validate that theory to you (otherwise why make a post?) because you have consciously eliminated yourself from the… | /r/seduction | 28/09/21 12:31 PM |
| 1 | How to stop spending time on matches/interactions doomed to flake?It's so weird. Girls agree to a time and place only to unnmatch or ghost. Like wtf, don't you got better things to do? I don't get why women waste their time like that. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stop spending time on matches/interactions doomed to flake?Second, the first clue is that you’re pretending to get them engaged after few minutes. So, at least you look like someone too tied to outcome, hence needy. Third, maybe, maybe, you’re looking at the wrong demographic, even if you said some of them agreed for a date Could you explain? Like, how am I pretending, and what kind of demographic? | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Do not underestimate the value of having friends, especially female friends. Expand your social circle and you will thank yourself later.How do you recommend doing that during covid19? | /r/seduction | 11/12/20 07:05 PM |
| 1 | "Why are you talking to me?" < why do girls ask that, and how to answer it?They sure are. Keep up the good work! | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | "Why are you talking to me?" < why do girls ask that, and how to answer it?Thanks for the insights. Do you mind me asking why you browse this sub? Almost all the content is male-oriented. Is it just general curiosity? | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Strategic friend zoningI only said it cause i've lived it lmao | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 05:46 PM |
| 3 | Strategic friend zoningIf one woman made you develop the kind of elaborate plan of action I wish China's airport security would adopt, you're already not at a good place. You want her sexually? Escalate. You want her platonically? Don't escalate. High value women go for high value men, not men that tricked them into a believing they're high value. Do you think a high value man sits all day masterminding on tricking his (supposed) female friends into a relationship with him? And don't bullshit us about how this is an "… | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Even if you "passed" the "I have a boyfriend" response, was it ever worth it?Great answer. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 05:18 PM |
| 2 | Even if you "passed" the "I have a boyfriend" response, was it ever worth it?So essentially what you say is that while cold approach and pickup principles CAN get you results, you get a much better return on your time investment if you put it towards achieving high status (club promoter, hustling in your small business, delivering lectures in your domain of expertise etc). Now that I think about it, even RSD and the early PUA's all realized in one point or another that social circle game is the best type of game. Even in the Mystery mPUA cringe days Neil Stratuss wrote i… | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 12:09 PM |
| 1 | Even if you "passed" the "I have a boyfriend" response, was it ever worth it?I also feel the same about some, but not all parts of PUA. If we even consider the same stuff "PUA" to begin with. Mind sharing the ensuing graduation you have learned? | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 07:41 PM |
| 1 | A large part of the girls I approach are confused about my intentions, or even think it's a joke. People who had this happen to them - how did you fix it?I don't understand. What do you mean by "you're giggling"? | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:50 PM |
| 2 | You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract WomenI agree. None of us truly have our shit figured out. | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 07:25 PM |
| 7 | You've Got To Get These 3 Things Sorted Before Trying To Attract WomenIt's the sad reality for us men. Women, especially in their sexual peak have sexual appeal just by existing. We men however must "figure our shit out" even if we are as good looking as our female opposite to be a sexually viable option. The silver lining is that once you do get your shit figured out, you are sexually relevant for decades, while your female counterparts are sexually relevant only until they are 30 and then its all downhill. The need for personal development is optional for women.… | /r/seduction | 27/03/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.Well thanks anyways. | /r/seduction | 12/02/18 08:22 AM |
| 1 | I'm John Mulvehill, JMULV from JMULV Pickup, Ask Me Anything.What is the best way to get better game as someone with aspergers syndrome? If you are not acquainted with the syndrome, it's basically a brain that is wired differently - the areas responsible for language are physically smaller than a "normal" brain. One of the problems that arise is that I don't learn from experience. Hence I make the same mistakes over and over without being aware of them. I record myself, make field reports and go out often, yet I am stuck. Is there a way to learn game for … | /r/seduction | 11/02/18 12:52 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?I will record an interaction and type it | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Really thanks for the link! Thing is I already have all of Todd's products lol :) Ill rewatch it though. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 04:41 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?More disheartening.. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Im trying "unique" compliments but it doesn't really change my fortunes that much | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Daygame. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?So how to be smoother? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?No I don't ask them out within 20 seconds. Just stating my intentions. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Yeah and how do you excuse them stopping their day to get social with you? A "hello" and segue into conversation would work at a bar. But a girl that's walking towards a purpose (day) needs to be provided a reason as to why you've stopped her. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 04:42 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?But isn't the opening not that important anyways? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 04:40 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Then after this you try to entable a conversation with her. So you mean to be indirect? Just start talking rather than giving her a compliment/stating intentions? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?But a lot of RSD instructors are direct during daygame. Hell, even Cody from Angrypicnic (a prank channel) is direct and hes having great interactions with women. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?I try to catch her eye first. Im starting to think this kind of problem cannot be solved through the internet... | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:04 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?How do you work on those? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?How do you open indirectly in daygame? | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:01 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Nah ill say stupid shit during sets | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Nah, ill just open like this: "Excuse me, gets her attention I really like your style" then ill start conversation. | /r/seduction | 18/10/17 06:00 AM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?How do you build entitlement? | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 06:35 PM |
| 1 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?Isn't it just avoiding a problem? I want direct game to work for me. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | How to stop getting instant blowouts?What does that mean coming on too strong? Talking to loudly? Sounding too enthusiastic? About conversation... I'll just be improvising some shit. Free association stuff. Like how RSDMax talks to a glass for 4 minutes in The Natural. | /r/seduction | 17/10/17 06:33 PM |
| 1 | How to use improv to improve your conversation skills?So until I have the life that I want I should just be quiet? | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How to use improv to improve your conversation skills?Then how do i create Tyler Durdens Millon Dollar Mouthpiece? How do i start knowing what to say always? | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How to use improv to improve your conversation skills?I got this exercise from https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2odwz0/the_i_dont_know_what_to_say_dilemma_or_im_boring/ | /r/seduction | 09/10/17 05:34 PM |
| 1 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?If it happens it's by "accident", it doesn't last long, and I don't know how to replicate it. | /r/seduction | 24/06/17 07:54 AM |
| 1 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?I have hundreds of approaches under my belt but i still don't know how to flirt. I really don't. The problem is that I don't know how to "practice flirting". Like, if I want a bigger chest I do bench presses. If I want a bigger flirt muscle... What do i do? | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 02:55 PM |
| 3 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?I don't get the FORD method. What is there to talk about someone's family? "You have siblings?" "Yes" "Oh nice how many?" "2 brothers and two sisters." "Oh ok." What do you do then? | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 12:25 PM |
| 1 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?But what if I don't have a garden? And about the flirting - I don't know how to do that. My conversations with girls rarely cross the logic fact exchanging phase, and I have no idea what to do about it. | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 12:24 PM |
| 1 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?I rarely get in that situation. Most approaches for me are: "Hey I love your style/face/etc" "Thanks." "Whats your name" "name" "me trying to talk about random things. Most of times they respond with "yeah" until they excuse themselves" | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 11:23 AM |
| 1 | How to think up of quality statements on the spot to keep the conversation going?Theory wise I know everything in pickup, but I have no idea how to apply it in set. Qualification is one of these things. How do you just come up with something that makes her qualify? | /r/seduction | 23/06/17 11:20 AM |
| 1 | How frequently should girls blush/get excited when you approach them (daygame)?Heh, I have read up on so much theory... I fear it's classic dunning kruger - too incompetent to notice own incompetence. | /r/seduction | 22/06/17 06:28 PM |
| 1 | How frequently should girls blush/get excited when you approach them (daygame)?What if I don't know what I did wrong? | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 06:10 PM |
| 5 | Can I game the police?You really do have no idea how socially retarded your idea of a "good approach" is now do you? Classic dunning kruger. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 06:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you just "talk about what you want to talk about"?Ok. But how do I start talking about that subject? Just blurting "mirror neurons" is awkward. How do I make a connection between the current conversation and what I want to say? | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | How do you just "talk about what you want to talk about"?But how do you ease into these subjects? There should be some kind of connection. Ex: Guy: Hey I thought you were cute Girl: thanks Guy: Whats your name? Girl: Shannon Guy: The thing about freud is... It just sounds weird. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How do you get better at text game?I dont replace it. I do meet people in person. I just want to know how to hold a conversation online. | /r/seduction | 05/06/17 07:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you get better at text game?Well I struggle with that kind of online conversation. | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 01:42 PM |
| 1 | How do you get better at text game?What about online game? | /r/seduction | 04/06/17 10:11 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingHow can I tell then? I don't feel nervous when approaching but people told me I look nervous. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 09:14 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingBut somewhere down the line you'd have to provide reason to why she's snobby. Maybe if she has daddy issues she will qualify and say "no im not snobby because bla bla" but most girls with high confidence will just say "i don't think so" and it ends there. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 08:58 AM |
| 1 | No matter how much I go out, I don't learn how to tease girls and be challengingI can't have a genuine conversation because I am blown out of the water in the first 60 seconds. I always get a "I have a bf" or she wants to leave. | /r/seduction | 14/04/17 08:57 AM |
| 2 | I can talk forever, but the verbal content is horribleI do. Just was back from 8 days in Europe where I visited Museums, saw buildings and met new people. But somehow I have no stories to tell. | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 05:39 PM |
| 1 | I have no interesting stories to tell. What should I do about it?What does that even mean? What qualifies as an adventure? | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 12:47 PM |
| 2 | I have no interesting stories to tell. What should I do about it?Can you give an example about being passionate about breakfast? Like, a true story you have told that would have been lame had you not delivered it well. | /r/seduction | 19/03/17 07:38 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to cold read EVERYONE?I guess my need for "cold reading" is more for coming up with comments about a girl that I can turn into statements I can tease her with | /r/seduction | 03/03/17 01:39 PM |
| 1 | I am kind of salty about online dating. Can you tell me if it's justified, or I am having a limiting belief?Isn't cold reading liked by girls? How is it different from palm reading which is considered as "chick crack"? | /r/seduction | 02/03/17 11:43 AM |
| 1 | I am kind of salty about online dating. Can you tell me if it's justified, or I am having a limiting belief?What is cringey about it? | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 10:13 PM |
| 4 | I am kind of salty about online dating. Can you tell me if it's justified, or I am having a limiting belief?I am talking about messaging the ones who put an effort into a bio. I just wonder - if a guy who gives a shit about your bio is so rare, why is a conversation with him so dispensable? | /r/seduction | 01/03/17 09:16 AM |
| 6 | What're your thoughts on the 'Bro's before hoes' mindset?Your bro's are the hoes man. Find real brothers | /r/seduction | 26/02/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you think ahead of answers to questions girls (and guys) might ask you?Yeah I should do that. Smart advice. Thanks. Could you elaborate on the "she will tell you how to seduce her"? I know I should pick up on threads like "oh I loved Paris" but a lot of times the threads are not that obvious to me. | /r/seduction | 18/02/17 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think ahead of answers to questions girls (and guys) might ask you?Better to have an empty mind when talking to people than a full mind crunching scenarios. Saved that one. Good advice bro. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think ahead of answers to questions girls (and guys) might ask you?Given for headache. But my brain goes "oh she sees the pills. She thinks something is off with me. Should think of way to play it off" when in reality I should just shrug and say "none of your business nosy!" or something like that. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you think ahead of answers to questions girls (and guys) might ask you?What about you? With girls and men - do you do what I do only not as much, or not at all? | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Comedians and game?It's a very popular troupe in pickup that "comedians don't get laid". Which is kind of true. Yes being funny is a bonus. But "get a woman to laugh and make her do everything" is bullshit. Without being man to woman, passing shit tests or conversation skills you'd be a dancing monkey. I seriously had sets where I made the girls fucking CRY from laughing and at the slightest logistical obstacle they fucking left. I am a really funny guy, but it is actually a hindrance because if I don't tone down … | /r/seduction | 02/02/17 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Best response to 'I'm busy on X day or, can't this weekend'It's really dumb. I have had multiple successful dates with women who didn't suggest an alternate date. A lot of girls are passive. A lot of times there is attraction for her to meet up, but not enough for her to chase you. That rule also demolishes any # closes from short interactions where you could not build enough attraction. And some girls are just weird or socially retarded. And the biggest thing I find annoying about the Brad Pitt rule is that Angelina Jolie wouldn't drop anything to meet… | /r/seduction | 01/02/17 02:59 PM |
| 4 | How do you guys get day 2's after reviving dead numbers?If you had an abundance mentality, you wouldn't want to revive jack shit. You look at it wrong. Don't ask "how I revive dead numbers", but ask yourself "How do I look past these dead numbers to see all the fresh potential hotter, smarter, and more enjoyable numbers in the wild waiting to be taken?" | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis got hit by a car. What to do during and after her recovery?The best course of action is to never talk to her again. Never. It doesn't matter that she is your dream girl. You have a shitty scarcity mindset about women. You are needy. You think too much. There are more dream girls. Stop talking to this one. Talk to others. Develop a better mindset and move on. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Oneitis got hit by a car. What to do during and after her recovery?You have already figured out 50% of the solution. I have to say, you surprised me. I imagined you would just reply with "what" but instead you've put your thinking to it. You are not a normal chode. You are aware of your problems and are willing to take action. And I believe you know the rest of the 50%. You are just too afraid to put it to words. But you need to now. You already know what to do. Tell me - what should you stop doing? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 04:21 PM |
| 3 | Oneitis got hit by a car. What to do during and after her recovery?I think I know the perfect solution to your problem, but honestly I doubt you will even consider trying it out for yourself. Which just shows how much you need to do it. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I have never heard the cliche "Let's just be friends". Does that mean women are uncomfortable around me?Oh. I just thought that since I never got that line, women wouldn't want me as their friend. But you are saying it's not the result of a failed date, so I guess im ok. | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 08:51 AM |
| 1 | I have never heard the cliche "Let's just be friends". Does that mean women are uncomfortable around me?I what way? Care to elaborate? | /r/seduction | 10/01/17 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I have never heard the cliche "Let's just be friends". Does that mean women are uncomfortable around me?Then when do people get "i just want to be friends"? Is it solely a friend that tried to make a move on another friend? | /r/seduction | 09/01/17 10:50 PM |
| 8 | breakup, no friends, how to go out alone?Heard about it as well. Fucking brilliant. | /r/seduction | 22/10/16 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?How do you go from speaking to a group to speaking to a specific person in that group? | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 07:07 PM |
| 1 | How do you let a girl know you want her in bed.Then how do all these Russian immigrants can afford all the bowling games they keep inviting me to? | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:32 PM |
| 1 | So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure?Thought this much as well. The suggestions could be great for fourth or fifth date, but not first dates. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:30 PM |
| 1 | So many girls post that they want an "adventure." What are some good ideas /plans to take them on an adventure?About 80% of your suggestions involve a woman with a man she has just met in a non public space. It sounds cool but in practice won't most women find the idea of going to an abandoned locomotive with a man they have known for hours very creepy? | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:28 PM |
| 4 | How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?Any way to transition from talking to a group to talking to a person? I sometimes approach a group and I can make them laugh etc, but I have no idea how to make a personal 1v1 conversation with one person in the group. | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 04:25 PM |
| 36 | How do you turn a normal conversation into flirting?"How do you escalate a normal conversation into flirting?" | /r/seduction | 21/10/16 03:50 PM |
| 0 | How do you lead a girl who does not want to be lead (but is interested)?Any idea why the massive downvoting? | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Opinion: Asking a girl out via poem.Fuck no, no no no. Nothing says more nice-needy-guy-disillusioned-with-false-ideas-of-romanticism-from-disney like writing a fucking poem just for a date. Trust me - the more you try to make a move on someone in a more cute, romantic, witty, or creative way (ESPECIALLY creative), the more cringey it turns out in real life. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 10:23 AM |
| 30 | [FR] A retelling of my first 'first date' in 14 years. (It's a long story...)To the fucktards who downvote this but upvote shitty pseudo inner game which is actually recycled motivation jizz from r/getmotivated, you are the reason this subreddit sometimes sucks balls. First fucking date in 14... What is wrong with you? How is this downvote worthy?! At least upvote it so someone useful could see it and give him some feedback. | /r/seduction | 30/09/16 10:17 AM |
| 1 | How do you get good REALLY fast?Just think about it - somewhere to someone who knows how to make new friends, your "it's hard when you aren't in your 20's anymore!" sounds as much as an excuse as what your friends are saying. Find some cool hobby like rock climbing, pottery, karaoke nights... Whatever man. Find a hobby, go to meetups and talk to everyone there. If you don't mind hanging around with "pickup people" an easy solution is joining your local RSD inner circle and meeting people in events. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Women - what do you feel when a man does kino (is touching you)?What attraction feels like to you, and what comfort feels like to you? I never got the perspective of a woman about these things. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What am I doing wrong? Why do girls act like I am a creep?Or it is just my luck? Can it be just "Most college girls don't want to socialize?" or something like that? This is what we call limiting beliefs. The fact that you talk about luck, or how college girls don't want to socialize (really?) tells me you have negative views about how the world works. Your idea that maybe a group of women would not want to socialize says you need to talk with more women. As friends. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 09:43 AM |
| 1 | I can stop the girl and make her laugh, but she is often not invested or showing signs of attraction. Why?So you mean I am trying comfort stage without going through the attraction phase? Short of weirdass DHV's, how do you build attraction? | /r/seduction | 18/09/16 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Good response to when a girl says they're passionate about 'sleeping and eating'?If you think it's boring then say it and demand she gives you something interesting. Qualification material right there. Seriously when people say that shit I say they are boring straight to their face so they are forced to come up with something. And as always, ignore the cringey sophisticated lines in this thread. Oh and remember you are more than welcome to just leave the girl right there. "But she's hot" is not always an excuse. Have some self respect and learn to reject uninteresting people… | /r/seduction | 13/09/16 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Introverted Sedditors - do you feel drained after going out?Is there a way to develop endurance for going out? I went out once with a guy that had sick game. He was going 200 miles per hour and it was very hard just to keep up. I was physically exhausted the next day! | /r/seduction | 13/09/16 04:31 PM |
| 1 | I tried talking to a girl and had a panic attack. Again. (Sort of an FR?)Wrong therapist. Get a good social skills coach like the ones from Simple Pickup. | /r/seduction | 02/09/16 05:53 PM |
| 1 | I tried talking to a girl and had a panic attack. Again. (Sort of an FR?)Guys don't be idiots - he doesn't need our advice, he needs therapy. Close the computer and get help. Nobody can help you beside a therapist. Get help now. | /r/seduction | 02/09/16 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Anyone can get good at anything with enough dedication and persistence. If you want to get better socially, go out and talk to people. If you want more confidence, keep working on yourselfUnfortunately much more than 1% think like you, so your number is way off. | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 09:32 AM |
| 2 | Is it wrong to think a lot about a girl who likes you as well (not oneitis)?What I am having trouble with is that even when I force myself to do something it's still there in the back of my head. Like a pilot light - you can turn down the oven but there is still a flicker of flame that is on constantly. That is subconscious, and I get that we can control our emotions only to some degree. I wonder however if that "pilot light" is due to some inner game problems, or it's just something you have to deal with. Like how even Eric Clapton gets butterflies before a big concert… | /r/seduction | 29/08/16 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Let's get a reading list goingWent into thread to see if comments already mentioned "How to win friends and influence people" It was mentioned in post. r/seduction did not let me down today. | /r/seduction | 11/07/16 12:48 PM |
| 2 | I asked out 100 women in real life and got 14 numbers and 4 dates. I asked out 100 women online and got 0 responses. Online dating is a fail.How did they respond to you running? Girls in my country barely can handle the idea of cold approach alone, not to mention it in high velocity. | /r/seduction | 02/03/16 05:22 PM |
| 3 | How To Be Funny - An In-depth Guide!Write or talk a fuck ton. Make it a habit to become unsatisfied with any analogy you make to describe a situation and don't leave whatever you have written until you found a good analogy. I am no Chandler Bing, but I have some form of wittiness, and I can tell you there is no easy way around it - you either write a fuck ton or talk a fuck ton. Writing part is easier because you can't hear yourself talking to know where you sound too "weak". A good exercise is to find crazy analogies for stuff yo… | /r/seduction | 18/02/16 10:49 PM |
| 1 | I have this theory about how to measure your messages efficiency in online datingOh I am sorry if I gave the impression of posting a guide. I just wanted to confirm a theory of mine. I am far from making a guide! | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 04:55 PM |
| 1 | I have this theory about how to measure your messages efficiency in online datingDon't you agree that knowing what is wrong is superior to knowing something is wrong? | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 09:52 AM |
| 1 | How can you find out if a person is fat by looking at the face in the profile pic?Cold approaching is not a possibility in where I live (though I did cold approach more than a hundred women and got numbers and dates) so I have to use online dating until I move to a bigger, more liberal city. I took notes of your pointers and hopefully will find a way to measure body fat from face alone. | /r/seduction | 03/02/16 12:59 PM |
| 0 | To the guys here that record themselves: what kind of recording gear should i use?People on YT videos seem to be cool with recording. LAWHF, Simple Pickup etc tell the people they were being filmed and they were cool about it. | /r/seduction | 05/11/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Autistic bro here. doing fine, but just need some feedbackHey man could you bring back the post? Some autistic bro might find it when googling. You want to pay forwards the knowledge, or at least just let people know they are not alone in this. | /r/seduction | 04/11/15 06:45 AM |
| 2 | How to Pick Up Women while DRIVINGDude i love your approach but PLEASE lose the background music. At best is detracts from picking up on the nuances of tone of voice and demeanor. At worst it just makes it impossible to hear and requiring the listener to rewind. I do understand your need to incorporate epic music, so it will be great in the beginning, or the ending where you give a great motivational speech - just not while we are trying to hear you! | /r/seduction | 03/11/15 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Autistic bro here. doing fine, but just need some feedbackAutistic bro reporting in. Yes its normal. But - do you know what? In fact its not. Nature has destined you to fail miserably with other humans. Only in the last 30 years it has progressed from "Hes just a lazy idiot" to "he has autism". The fact that you manned the fuck up and taken responsibility to get better instead of attending another bullshit support group puts you in the 0.1% of people on the spectrum, and honestly above everyone else. Nobody knows what is it to learn what everyone takes… | /r/seduction | 03/11/15 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?So i dont get it. Most men dont cold approach hundreds of women. The majority of men find their partners through their limited social circles. While not every man is a pansyass, most will only ask out maybe below 40 women in their entire lives (in said circle). But that still "yields" couples. What is different in cold approaching? I really work well with examples. Do you have any examples for that cool thing? | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 04:06 PM |
| 3 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?I meant fuck PMs more like "i have nothing to hide, i wish for others to learn from the conversation". Didnt mean for it to sound dickish. Anyways you say it may not be relevant, so ill send a PM. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?I cant just develop any topic into vulnerability. That means that if vulnerability is my goal, then i need to "bait" vulnerable subjects. Am i right? | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Yeah but i want results, not just progress. Maybe i have hit a plateau and being hard on myself is the only thing that will drive me forward? | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 08:49 AM |
| 0 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Fuck PMs. Whatever i learn from you should be available to everyone. You have any idea how i can present a sexual vibe? I have literally zero experience with women. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Do you have an explanation for why daygame phone numbers turn into flakes? Is it because women dont trust men on the street? Is it because women wont bother with men they cant vet through their social circle? If daygame is so shitty, then why so many people do it? Do you say that Simple Pickup just teach you to get numbers but not dates? I also thought that nightgame numbers are shittier than daygame number. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 08:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?I mean conversationally. How do you elevate yourself from shitty small talk material to honest, vulnerable things? How do you lead yourself to it? I have only recently managed to get a grasp in small talk. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 08:42 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?I use simple pickup. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Its not concentrated. I should have probably called it a metropolitan area. Bottom line is that i checked every place that should attract people in the day and there are not alot of people. | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:47 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?But how you get to that? | /r/seduction | 29/10/15 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?I would have easily gotten to a thousand if i didnt live in such a small town. The area has around 400k people, but ive yet to find places busting with people. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Thats the fukin problem. Most guys never do that, so it makes sense that if you do something the majority isnt willing to, you would get better results. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 09:30 PM |
| 3 | Do women even WANT men to cold approach them?Fuck, ill just do what Jesse says and film myself. Thanks for the willingness to go over the audio! Im 22. All the approaches were daygame though. What i talk about? I just let the conversation flow. If their name is unique ill talk about that. Sometimes they are taken aback by me approaching (this isnt LA. Even for hot girls i was probably the first guy to ever cold approached them in daylight without liquid courage) so ill talk about that. But most times i just ask if theyre from the area, wha… | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 09:28 PM |
| 1 | If you don't want to do cold approach or online dating, how else can you meet hot girls?So you cant offer sexual value, and you dont bother to make up for that by trying to offer social value (boldness, social status) or material value (money). Remind me again why you are entitled to a hot girl? Im all up for greed and ambitions, but you have to SOMEWHAT deserve what you ask for. | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 09:53 AM |
| 3 | Why Women Lose The Dating GameI believe that the writing style tells us even more than the lack of sources. The writer is too fast to jump to conclusions, only interviews people that support his point (almost every journalist includes the opinion of the other side), pigeonholes people into 1 dimensional stereotypes (either alpha, beta, picky 20 year old or shriveled 30 year old) without nothing in between... Its just bad journalism, even IF the point the article is making is true, which im skeptic to believe because sociolog… | /r/seduction | 28/10/15 07:01 AM |
| 2 | I'm writing a "First Date Survival Guide". What would you like to see included?How to know if shes comfortable with opposite seating (two people facing each other in a table) or something more intimate (both on couch). How to lead to that. Kiss on first date or no? | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Im getting too many "genuine" i have a boyfriendSome girl just didnt speak - just pulled up her phone and showed me a phone with a case of her with some guy at prom. Im pretty sure i could make millions selling that shit to women fed up with PUAs xD I get what you mean, but on the internet there is ALWAYS bound to be a guy that is 100% certain you could have smashed with "more kino" or "more push pull" or whatever the fuck. You cant tell :) | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 06:04 PM |
| -1 | Why Women Lose The Dating GameDateonomics I will add it to my reading list. Though i am still pretty sure that if some researchers have managed to quantify amount of sex in a given area or group (we cant even get data on the sexual partners a person has in a lifetime) i would have heard about it. | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 06:01 PM |
| 7 | Avoiding AwkwardnessTo never get better. Can you get ripped without pain? Can you become a guitar god without ripping your fingertips skin to shreds? Can you become a UFC fighter without getting the shit kicked out of you in training? There is a saying in fitness, "If you didnt sweat it wasnt a workout". If you dont experience awkwardness, not once, not twice, but EVERY single time you go out you are not pushing yourself enough. Awk, blood, sweat, pain - its all temporary. You missing out on progress just because o… | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Im getting too many "genuine" i have a boyfriendSo dont give a shit about BF excuses anyways? | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Im getting too many "genuine" i have a boyfriendSay that to an engaged woman? When her friend/mom is watching? Isnt it ridiculously disrespectful to do that to someone who shows you pictures? There is a difference between an ambiguous "i have someone/bf" to telling you "im meeting him for lunch". | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 05:42 PM |
| 5 | Why Women Lose The Dating GameI get a really TRP vibe from that article. Some parts felt like i was browsing 4chans /rk9/ (like TRP, only these guys dont even try to get laid). Data from American colleges show 20 per cent of males - the most attractive ones - get 80 per cent of the sex, according to an analysis by Susan Walsh, a former management consultant who wrote about the issue on her dating website, hookingupsmart.com. How the fuck did they get that data? Does a D type dating startup is what that constitutes as a sourc… | /r/seduction | 27/10/15 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Getting lots of dates but still no resultsLogged in just to upvote this! Old RS was the best! | /r/seduction | 22/10/15 07:52 PM |
| 1 | I am so proud of myselfI understand what you say. A lot of times i would feel the urge to comment on someones post - and that was in the period before i even approached one girl! But i restrained myself because i knew it was ridiculous. Sounds humblebraggy as fuck but not all people have that self control and we do get a lot of armchair PUAs. But i still dont believe it means you should avoid all seduction advice on the internet. There is some genuinely good out there, including here. You just gotta find that. The pro… | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 06:53 PM |
| 2 | I am so proud of myselfThe advice is also opposing. Mind telling me whats stinks and what doesnt? | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I am so proud of myselfWhat if you live in a big but boring city with no "new hip" coffee shops, no interesting bands and no cool restaurants? No beautiful parks either. There is a beach though, but seems too much for a first date. | /r/seduction | 16/10/15 05:04 PM |
| 9 | The Author of the Game Says It Is NonsenseEveryone that includes "truth" in his book title is an insufferable cunt - no matter how good is the book. No its not the truth. Its never the truth. Its YOUR flawed, biased perspective that is likely to be disproved within the next 100 years like everything else. I also cant stand this "bad boy repents his sins and gone good" kind of self righteous comebacks. Apologetic memoirs, apologetic interviews - Americans eat that apology shit right up. | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 09:24 AM |
| 2 | Can anyone give me a honest review of Models by Mark Manson?I have read Magic Bullets, The Mystery Method and Day Bang. Most of them are filled with ridiculous bullshit that wouldnt work on any girl with half a brain. Dont take it the wrong way. They have some nice stuff as well, but 90% of the routines and techniques make me and every normal person cringe. I just follow Simple Pickups advice. Use your hands when you talk, smile, stand up straight, reduce uptalk etc. What i do agree with you though is a thing i have learned by myself from experience whic… | /r/seduction | 08/10/15 07:28 AM |
| 1 | "You go too fast, we barely talked"Its legitimate, yet how they expect me to build rapport, provoke a reply, be sexual, and do it all at a level that keeps their interests from the other 100 horndogs that matched with her? | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 02:48 PM |
| 0 | "You go too fast, we barely talked"There are many guides here of people that claimed to date/fuck a good amount of women over tinder. Maybe they build rapport better? Ive seen alot of screenshots of women giving their # after a couple of lines so i dunno. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 02:46 PM |
| 6 | Are women attracted to neon beer signs?This is far too epic to not upvote. | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Do i only have one shot in small venues?How do i go about that? Im an aspie so being outgoing and social doesnt come naturally. | /r/seduction | 22/07/15 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Why my flake rate is so high ?Brb im dying. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Responding to "Woah you're tall"This. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 08:56 AM |
| 7 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!I would like to read what you have dared to call "master notes" but i just cant bring myself to do that with this formatting. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Yes! Thank you r/Seduction!!!!Joining in on the question. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 06:14 AM |
| 1 | A friend of mine found out I do pickup and laughed at me. Why do I feel so ashamed? How do I stop being so anxious about stuff like this?Do what i do. Visualize going out with your friends to a bar, and 30 minutes later leaving with the hottest chick in the bar. You can add a part where they all say to each other "how did he do that?" Visualization is how you manufacture motivation out of nothing. Practice it as a skill, and your life will improve in every way possible. Allow yourself to dream, and allow yourself to claim those dreams as real life goals. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Currently the biggest achievement in my lifeBravo man! | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Tired of the hunt?Solid reply. | /r/seduction | 20/07/15 07:14 AM |
| 0 | Witty users of seddit, how did you sharpen your silver tongues?Great post man! I have problem with "Watch standup" advice, because it sounds like saying "listen to Eric Clapton if you want to be good at guitar". Yeah i can get good at that, but practicing songs probably will make me better faster. Question is - what can be practiced in wit? | /r/seduction | 19/07/15 08:24 PM |
| 1 | "What's up sluts!?" Approach...Mind giving an example of an openers that only naturals can pull off? | /r/seduction | 18/07/15 05:51 PM |
| 1 | I instantly become attached to the feeling of being with a girl as soon as she starts showing interest..I think there are more reasons to this besides desensitization. It may sound weird, but try figuring this out while meditating. Meditation helps us to understand much about ourselves that we cannot do so otherwise. This is all i can help you about this. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 06:29 AM |
| 2 | I instantly become attached to the feeling of being with a girl as soon as she starts showing interest..Things that cannot be fixed through hard work - now thats fuckin depressing. | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 12:10 AM |
| 1 | I want to get feedback about my appearance. What makes me so unattractive/not sexual?Psychologist, not psychiatrist. Drugs wont help your case. Rereading my comments until you stop making excuses will. Subscribe for Project GO. I have autism and look worse than you. What the fuck is YOUR excuse? | /r/seduction | 17/07/15 12:07 AM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successThats why you gotta be congruent with yourself. And regardless of that, telling myself im awesome and walking like a man really improves my posture and mindset. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 06:07 PM |
| 1 | (23, m) I have Asperger's and I'm ugly (pics included), I feel totally inadequate around girls and don't know how to deal with itI have aspergers as well. So you are shit out of excuses. And you are ugly. When you are not smiling that is. Seriously. You have a great smile. It improves your appearance by 1000% But that frown makes me think to myself "with what power tool is he going to kill me?". I was like that once. Make a note to yourself - never frown. You have what is called a "Resting bitch face". Anna Kendrick has that as well, and shes hot as fuck, so dont get all mopey. Just always smile. Simple is it? Also, forge… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:29 PM |
| 1 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successFirst things first - NEVER make general assumptions based on a small sample size. When 100 women tell you that, then you have a case. Second thing is girls dont know what the fuck they want. So what if she said that? I guarantee that she would fuck guys below your appearance if they came with a different approach. How i know your approach wasnt good? Because of your mindset. Youre a man. You say to yourself youre rational, and you can separate emotion from analysis.. You cant. Youve gotta believ… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 05:13 PM |
| 2 | I want to get feedback about my appearance. What makes me so unattractive/not sexual?Did you try to game those girls? Did they see how confident you are? How witty you are? How non supplicant you are? And dont give me the "but im not those things". Well you CAN be. Fuck your face and what you were born with. Send your parents an angry letter about your genetics if that makes you feel better. You have so much things to change about you - why dedicate your limited time to the things you cant change? Dont focus what little time you have on this planet trying to change the unchangea… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 02:53 PM |
| 4 | Day Game SuggestionsUsually the hardest part for me is finding grounds for interaction without sounding like a complete creeper/asshole Working on this will yield better results than witty openers. Seriously, its not what you say, its how you say it. But if you want a witty opener, you can say you know palm reading, BS her a bit with kino on the hand only to say "you will meet a handsome man on the subway" with a smile and say "i just made that up to talk to you because i thought you were cute." Worked for a guy he… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 01:10 PM |
| 40 | I instantly become attached to the feeling of being with a girl as soon as she starts showing interest..Quite simple. Beat the pavement until you have generated a girls interest at least a dozen or so times. Its all about desentization to everything - a girls beauty, a girls rejection, a girls interest... Push yourself into situations where you experience these things until they have no effect on you at all. Theres no seduction trick to this problem - only hard work. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 12:17 PM |
| 16 | I;ve gamed for 5 years with zero successPractice makes permanent, not perfect. And if you actually had read "Outliers", the source of the 10k hour rule, you would know that. Judging by your writing, you have practiced thinking like a chump for 10,000 hours. Zero success? More like 100% success. And im sure you got in the end what you have wanted - an excuse. Even if an expensive one. If you had WANTED to succeed you would write your exact issues instead of this attention whoring post. Fuck, youve done 10k - you cant write a one hour d… | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | How to game people you are not interested in?You see? You made a comment. You didnt jump into conversation immediately. Thats what i meant. What other "openers" can you use for people you wish to be social with. Example: 2 guys who seem cool lean on the wall and talk. You want to strike a conversation until your friend comes. How do you initiate it? | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 08:09 AM |
| 1 | How to game people you are not interested in?How do you initiate a conversation to a person standing in line? Did you use elderly chat technique of roosh V and asked questions about the butter? | /r/seduction | 30/06/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | What Do I Talk To Women About?There are shy people. There are closed people. Sometimes i need to throw a few tries at a person thats giving me not interested look until he gets hooked into interacting. There is a skill though for transitioning someone from "let me read my boring FB feed alone" to "oh yeah so am I! By the way last week..." | /r/seduction | 29/06/15 08:18 AM |
| 1 | What Do I Talk To Women About?Not everyone was born with the gift of socializing with no conscious effort. | /r/seduction | 28/06/15 05:33 PM |
| 1 | A powerful suggestion technique for seduction, . { lvl:Easy }What date you take her to? It got to be adventurous to justify your routine, but adventurous date invite like "hey lets go rafting this friday" may scare her, or she may flake (and then you have booked a raft for nothing). | /r/seduction | 27/06/15 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Any good Body Language Books?Allan Pease - Body language Joe Navarro - What every BODY is saying Leil Lowndes - Undercover Sex Signals Just remember these things: 1) always judge signs in CLUSTERS. Never make an assumption based on one cue. 2) Never rely on what you see 100%. Not even 90%. 3) Interpret in context. Closed body language may be actually a person that is being cold. 4) Be skeptical about EVERYTHING you read. Never get a body language book that isnt written by a world renown expert. There is a LOT of garbage. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 10:51 AM |
| 1 | Any good Body Language Books?Amazing book. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 10:47 AM |
| 5 | Scared of approaching when other people are nearby. Advice?Youre not the only one thinking about it. The girl you will approach will say "In spite of all the people he STILL approached me. What balls of steel!" An audience actually works in your favor. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 10:44 AM |
| 1 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]Thank you, i am stealing that. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:26 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Then i wont call it a neg. Call it an "ego equalizer" or EE. It bears resemblance to a neg, but it isnt a neg. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 06:52 AM |
| 2 | In five minutes, the next five minutes will be gone forever. Whether or not you talk to that girl. [Inner Game]the cool thing is – every single success eclipses the last hundred failures. Damn, that might get me off my ass today. Fuck that, it WILL get me off my ass today. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Thats actually one of the few "negs" that i believe can work on intelligent women. Maybe good negs shouldnt be backhanded compliments, but just comments that make her reevaluate her value? | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 05:11 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Others have said questions are ok. Am i to deduce from that that questions are good, but turning them into an assumptions is a great bonus? Also, im kind of looking for a couple of general assumptions i can make on a fairly large group of women. It sounds regimented but thats just how i work. Its hard for me to make things on the fly. Got any? | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 05:09 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I am but im not gonna wait until i have new experiences to meet women. | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")And what if you dont have a story? I dont have much stories. Aspie and all - didnt go out for most of my life. Most advice comes to "So go out duh" but i gotta start somewhere. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 02:53 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Mind providing me with examples from your experience? | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 11:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Ok so asking is good, but i want to know that quick story technique youve mentioned. Obviously i wont just start telling my experience with a certain movie. I get the part about a quick story. But how do i fit it in the conversation? | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 11:08 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Aspies need a regiment in everything. It may seem wrong to you, but thats because you are not on the spectrum. Trust me - social rules are working for me. Thank you for the answer. | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 09:12 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Maybe ill combine open questions with parroting? "So where youre working right now?" "At Bloomingdales. Its blah blah, and blah blah." "Bloomingdales you say? (parrot what she says). How is that treating you?" Something like that? | /r/seduction | 24/06/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I see what you mean. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Ive read about what you say somewhere. Its called a "whatzit" - an item that sparks conversation. Got any suggestions about items like these i should wear? | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 09:17 AM |
| 4 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")No problem, ill just calibrate my tonality and expressions. Heh, its not like i have something like high functioning autism to stop me! (Now only to apply that friendly sarcasm in a conversation and it works - right?) | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 07:05 AM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I know youre supposed to talk about these subjects. My problem is how to lead up to them. | /r/seduction | 23/06/15 05:24 AM |
| 3 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")That sounds reasonable. Written that one down. Any more lines like that? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Im sorry but it just doesnt work for me. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:14 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Are you sure? Have you seen how cringey my "jump" to movie was? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:13 PM |
| 3 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")But how do you get to know her without making it an interview? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:11 PM |
| 1 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Ok you make some sense. Problem is that while you can use the elderly chat Roosh talks about with a girl thats sitting, you cant use that on a person youve stopped. It feels off. Yet, sometimes you see a girl youve gotta stop. What you do then? And btw, i really like the idea of Daygame. In nighttime everyone got balls, but my willingness to go to any girl in the day shows confidence which compensates for my lacking social skills. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:10 PM |
| 2 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")I thought about something along the lines of "Oh is that dress from Spain?" "No" "Well it just looks like one i saw in Barcelona. Beautiful city. Where have you been to lately?" Is that good? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:07 PM |
| 2 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")How the hell do i go from "Hi i thought you were blah blah" to "5 oceans" without it sounding cringey? And why in the world would she care about that? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:06 PM |
| 5 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Examples? I dont wanna go into interview mode. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:04 PM |
| 5 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")People keep saying that. But how do you do that? "So what are you up to?" "Not much." (start a new topic) "Have you seen the new Dwayne Johnson movie?" I dont know, i still cringe when i picture this. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:02 PM |
| 2 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")Could you show me a sample of a non lazy conversation? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 09:00 PM |
| 27 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")What girl with a functioning brain and a shred of self esteem will react positively to "Oh bummer you looked very interesting from afar"? I mean, im not a girl, but if i were i would tell that guy to fuck off. I may be downvoted to hell for this, but i just CANT picture the women i know to respond positively to this. | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 08:58 PM |
| 23 | What do you say after an opener? (classical "i dont know what to say")"So what are you up to now?" "Not much" Got that a couple of times. Where do i go from here? | /r/seduction | 22/06/15 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Where can i practice social skills?Ill consider joining some clubs. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 21/06/15 10:25 AM |
| 1 | Where can i practice social skills?Ive thought about the idea of striking conversation with stranger, but been told its weird and creepy. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 06:38 AM |
| 1 | Where can i practice social skills?None in my country. | /r/seduction | 20/06/15 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Can you help me with this Magic Bullets part?What if she ends up having a crappy job? Wouldnt it come off as weird ? | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Can you help me with this Magic Bullets part?Thanks man. You give solid advice. Really appreciate that. | /r/seduction | 23/05/15 03:42 PM |
| 1 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?Its not a mindset, its a syndrome. Saying to an aspie that he has a mindset problem is like telling to a cancer patient he simply needs to change his attitude. The conversation cant just "flow". Nothing ever "flows" in my social life. And i cant make it flow. Thats why i need a systematic method like DHVing. | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 07:38 AM |
| 2 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?If a tree falls in the middle of forest and no one heard it - did it really fall? Same thing here. How do i display high value? If there is something interesting about me, how i push it with context to the set? None of this is obvious to me as an aspie. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 11:21 AM |
| 1 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?Assume im the most interesting person in the world - if i didnt know how to demonstrate it it doesnt matter. Im on the autism spectrum. I just dont know and have no experience in displaying value. And dont tell me that if i have value it just shows - these tips just dont apply for me. | /r/seduction | 17/05/15 11:17 AM |
| -9 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?Ive read the Amazon review summary. Its not what i need. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 09:17 PM |
| 1 | How do i DHV without negging and lying?Demonstrate Higher Value. | /r/seduction | 16/05/15 09:17 PM |
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