How do i DHV without negging and lying?

omark12 · 2015-05-16T21:41:47+00:00

Fuck negging and fuck DHV. Why are you trying to hide be behind of a facade of someone you're not. Go read Models. Watch Sasha Daygame and Simple Pickup. Fuck everything else.

ech87 · 2015-05-16T22:42:16+00:00

All this negging shit is dumb old school style pickup. Fill your life with high value interesting shit, goals and passions. Then just talking about yourself becomes one big DHV. Things like travel experiences 'that reminds me of the time I went to x it was so crazy the x and the y did z! What about you? Where's the most interesting place you've been to?

Your displaying value, you have money to travel, you care about cultures and like adventure, by asking her your showing an interest, keeping conversation going and now flipping the script so she has to qualify herself to you its a statement and a question. Reading between the lines its - here is why I'm interesting now you tell me why you are/ why I should care about you.

Don't have a good job/money to travel doesn't matter chicks don't care about that use dreams and goals.

I'm really into working out nowadays I used to be a slob but turned it around I hope to compete in x/ do marathon y but it's hard work! what's your passion?

Or

Yea I work in digital but my real passion is music I've been learning guitar for x/making beats/whatever what kind of music do you like

Or

I went skydiving the other week, it was for charity to raise awareness for x was crazy cause I'm terrified of heights but I did it cause xyz

Or

I've been taking cooking classes recently I'm a sucker for good food haha! Does that make me pompous? She says yes no a little bit - doesn't really matter then ask her about her favourite food maybe tease her a little - "my favourite food is pizza" mm yeah I can tell, pinch her belly.

Be an interesting person and be interested in her and that's all you need

Big_TX · 2015-05-17T01:44:01+00:00

Honestly, Just BHV. If you are high value, as you interact, your value will shine through.

Adopt more resourceful beliefs (self development)

Get experiences then Share them when they naturally come up.

Become confident.

Become more funny (that's a trick one because like being funny increases your value, but being high vale makes you funny to the girl)

Get fit.

Being non needy

Have a cool lifestyle (don't be stupid with your money though)

The more interesting things you do and read about, the more interesting you will be. What you put into your self comes out. If you let yourself be board, you will probably be boaring.

I don't think you should try to DHV, except for playing it cool. You don't wanna snobby the pull a Ted Mosby haha

FreedomTribe · 2015-05-16T20:33:54+00:00

Dude fuck those terms. Read models by mark manson lol

Mechanickingpin · 2015-05-16T20:01:58+00:00

what is DHV?

caesarfecit · 2015-05-16T21:51:38+00:00

The best DHV is not feeling the need to. Do you feel the need to DHV yourself amongst friends? If so, you're insecure.

DHVs are for situations where you don't have rapport and the situation objectively calls for you to prove yourself to build that rapport and/or interest. But less is always more. Trying too hard is a fatal mistake in seduction, failing to make a strong first impression slightly less so.

TacticalBouncyCastle · 2015-05-17T02:59:22+00:00

Don't drink the koolaid, negs work. These days they go by 'tease' or 'push'. Just pick some arbitrary thing about her you don't like and say it playfully. There's more intense ways to use them, but not necessary early on.

zserjk · 2015-05-17T01:44:12+00:00

People suggested to you to read models by manson. I havent read it, but i have ordered it some time now and waiting for it to arrive. But i honestly think it will be a good one. And i am saying that on the basis of what the book is about and litle parts i 've read only on pirated versions and stuff and the fact that in my previous interactions as soon as the material ended i was back to being my old nerd that cared about being on the highest rank possible in every videogame i played.

The hole point of game or pick up, name it what you want. Is to help you achieve your goals with women. Maybe someone is a virgin, someone has trouble closing to them, another is looking for a lifepartner, one guy wants to make the girl per week into 5-6 per week. Its all a matter a goals. Those goals, are set by each one of us individually.

I also invite you to read the tab on you browser it says Seduction, Self- Improvement. The hole point here is to improve yourself and become a better version of yourself, on this sub we are focusing on seduction.

Now what you do with DHVing with lies and stuff? You present yourself like something you are not. What happens if you find a girl you really like and figure out you want to get on a serious relationship? I can guarante you that as soon as your routines run out. You go back to shit just like i did.

Now how you DHV in reality? Improve yourself. Both in appearence and spirit. Start working out, finish your education if you havent yet, look for success in your job, learn how to groom yourself properly, start reading books, expand you knowledge, try out activities you havent yet. Get life experiences, learn how to dance, play an instrument, improv/drama classes, parachute dive, learn to fly plane, magic, paint etc. Try out things and stick with the ones you really enjoy. Find your passion and make something great out of it. It's a long process.

Accept that you are not compatible with every person out there male and female. Sure be social and friendly with everyone but not everyone is gonna be your best buddy, not everygirl is gonna be the one you are looking for.

DaveYarnell · 2015-05-17T00:43:50+00:00

So first of all don't call it DHV that's fucking stupid. You're asking "How do I express confidence and value, and appear attractive to people?"

Well, what makes you confident? What are you proud about? Who are you?

Talk about those things.

Title	How do i DHV without negging and lying?
Author	BigBootyBear
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	May 16, 2015 8:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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