How to stop getting instant blowouts?

MrCheese67 · 2017-10-17T18:12:33+00:00

You might be coming on too strong/hard. How does a conversation go once you start talking with them?

grabbymouse · 2017-10-17T18:25:27+00:00

Entitlement - you probably think you wouldn't be talking to girls and you don't deserve them subconsciously. When you approach girls watch your body language and don't stress on words. Words will come, if you feel abundant inwardly and don't feel the need of acceptance by girls.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-17T19:37:01+00:00

You never got blown out, it never started in the first place. You're coming off too strong and you can't pass shit tests. You're not understanding the context, probably giving fucking weird vibes, being too direct and being creepy. Work on those.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-10-17T18:31:29+00:00

If a direct approach isn't working, try a more indirect approach, more like old school game.

JoeHallenweck · 2017-10-17T20:37:20+00:00

Correct me if I'm wrong, but it looks that you are doing mostly nightgame. Its pretty rare that many woman blow you out in less than 20 seconds during the day. I want you to try this; walk up to a woman and smile saying "hi" (don't creepy smile, it has to be a sincere smile, woman weel feel that, just smile because you are happy of meeting her), and don't spect anything of her, just walkup with the intention of saying hello and leaving, you'll se how simple it is and that you will have some good reactions. Then after this you try to entable a conversation with her. Don't expect anything about her, take some pressure off yourself. Start doing this and you will start feeling more confident. Just give it a try and tell me how it goes.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-10-18T05:30:02+00:00

How do you open? What is your technique, do you do a jarring cold open by sneaking up behind her and suddenly bursting in, or do you catch her eye first. You may think you aren't creepy but there are many things that can make you seem creepy.

Title	How to stop getting instant blowouts?
Author	BigBootyBear
Upvotes	0
Comments	38
Date	October 17, 2017 5:54 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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