Im 31, my history with women is minimal. Pretty much all of them were either at the same place as me day after day (cruise, summer camp, housemate) or really so obvious that they were into me. I’ve just come out of a 3 year relationship and changing how inam with women needs to happen. I feel like the thing i want more than anything else is locked up in a cage that i created. How do i begin? Ps, im terrified