This is what I've learned from studying and practicing seduction:

Touching is important in general. This goes beyond seduction. It comforts people and creates a bond.

When I told people of my struggles with relating to people they told me to listen. This didn't make sense at first because their definition of listen and mine are clearly different. You may be struggling with this too so I'll describe my understanding and what I think theirs is.

My understanding of listening is to hear the words, and appreciate their meaning and follow logically from there. What we say is mostly irrelevant. When people say to listen it seems they mean be present for the other person, let them speak, and hear the words, their meaning should be accepted, but that is not the focus. As David Wygant said a woman will seduce herself IF YOU LET HER.

My goal is to cultivate in myself the personality of the high quality man. Kinda like the buddha or jesus. RSD calls this a 10 on the man scale of attractiveness. He is comfortable anywhere. Everyone likes him. He gets along with everyone. He does not need your approval, and he won't tool you because it's unnecessary. He is everyone's friend.

By the by, I'm leaving for Sweden tomorrow. I just finished college and I'm traveling through Europe living out of a 30 lb backpack. Anyone wanna meet up?