I read a post where someone mentioned how important it is to know your own value when dating. And several men asked " How do I show my value? How do I feel valuable?" "How do I become valuable?"

So here's my guidance.

When you know your value you don't need to impress anyone. You know you're good enough as you are. The way to show this for a girl, is to show her who you are backstage, the real natural you, beyond acts beyond expectations. That's where vulnerability comes in. Being vulnerable shows your self strength and self awareness. It's a proof of growth. Of someone stable. Share your fears in life, share your childhood memories, share your routines at home, share a time when you really struggled with yourself/ life.

For the wrong girls, you put up a show. For the right one. You bring her back stage.

So who are you when those curtains closes? Let a girl you vibe good with see who you are. That's how you will show you know your value.