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[–]RytekBJJ 9 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Well, number one, go on a real date. Any more people than just you and her is not a date. If you're in an LTR then occasional group events are fine, but even then it's still not a date.
She's in control because you are insecure. Why would you give her crap for talking to other people at a party? If you want alone time with her don't go to a party (see above).
If you want to get back on track stick to dating her, not being her friend.
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[–]RytekBJJ2 points 9 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Insecurity is a confidence issue. You're worried those guys are better than you and she'll leave you for them. Fix your confidence issue and the insecurity goes away.
[–]446595252e 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link
You're the one going home with her at the end. You're the shit. I find confidence comes from meditating over a negative thought, keeping body language in check, full awareness and zero worries. That, and just easing your muscles. Try it. It works (Edited words)
[–]monkeyman114 0 points1 point2 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Reminds me of the infamous story about a girl who was playing pool with her BF and his friend, and she jokingly made a bet that she would suck his friends cock if he won the next round, he did and she sucked his dick right there, then showed her boyfriend the cum in her mouth. You know, there's a point when you just gotta say....so long.
[–]Andreas-Lubitz -3 points-2 points-1 points 9 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Last night were at a bar playing beer pong when she disappeared with a group of people 3 guys.
You're a spineless, doormat for not dumping her after this.
How do I reverse this and put myself back in control?
You can't. Just dump that manipulative cunt and move on. I know you won't do it but sooner or later she'll get tired of you and dump you herself. I won't be surprised if she's sleeping with other guys.
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