I have asked for support and what I should do as a socially disabled guy (with learning problems also), to have some modicum of sensuality in my life and the lot of you are telling me it can't happen, or other crappy things like "have zero standards."

Let me take a moment now, to point out that with your negativity you are supporting RP beliefs (status and money FIRST, before women--says the RP) and also supporting a degrading stereotype that goes like this:

  • Any "desirable" women, even of "average looks", requires money and social status for any arrangement
  • The only women who do not have such requirements, are "undesirable" or have complicated relationships (including married/cheating)

And yet.. here we have guys supporting this core tenet of RP, right here in this sub. When will this nonsense (both degrading AND untrue) go away?

Just remember that while you may delight in telling a lesser-abled man that his options are either "payment, or find those women you don't like" you know there's some homeless guy or some immobile guy stuck in a chair, who has the element of choice in his life.

Again, who are these so-called experts who think this:

"If you don't have status or money, approaching will accomplish nothing"

Is the truth and it's a good idea to tell some guy who can barely function? "Be good enough, keep up with the Jones" or "forget it." What rubbish.