Why Being a Nice Guy or Dick Isn't Effective

2017-08-04T18:54:15+00:00

He covers both extreme ends of the spectrum in the article. Both stem from insecurity, and both require you do whatever to ingratiate yourself with the other party.

There's a difference between being nice and a pushover. There's also a difference between holding a steadfast frame and being a dick. If you're in the game, you need to find a happy medium between the two. Assertive, but not pushy. Aloof and amicable, but not at the expense of your own dignity.

PreFrontalClarity · 2017-08-04T20:54:16+00:00

Great post. From my experience, when you're an "asshole" , if you dont make serious moves to bang the girl on the first week.. she'll convince herself she doesnt like you..

When you're a nice guy, they'll walk all over you and take advantage of you, unless they are also genuinely nice girls.. Then you can have a john legend/chrissy teigan type relationship.

Now being a gentleman, with a sense of humor and knows how to flirt and tease.. and still has that confident edge.. you will win. Its about keeping a balance and staying positive in all situations.. Any signs of negativity or assholeness can ruin this unless its very subtle. It all boils down to emotional balance.. Guys who get too excited at times which is basically the typical asshole are susceptible to failure unless they have massive sex appeal (big tall, muscular, tatted, handsome)

meh613 · 2017-08-04T18:24:16+00:00

Another ding-dong, virgin, loser, pontificating online when the most experience he's had with seduction is that of seducing his own hand.

Title	Why Being a Nice Guy or Dick Isn't Effective
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Upvotes	3
Comments	11
Date	August 4, 2017 6:02 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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