Why Cold Approaching Doesn't Always Work

brokenmess · 2016-12-30T22:12:28+00:00

one advice: don't attach you ego to the whole thing. if you see a pretty girl, walk up to her and begin a conversation. that;s it. if it leads to something great, if not, move on.

TimHatesChoosingName · 2016-12-29T22:31:03+00:00

It all depends on the type of girl that you're talking to. Not all girls are the same.

Some girls might be like "Uhh, what are you doing? Go away!" while others might be like "Hey, how are you doing? Want to make out?". How they react isn't really up to you, it's up to them.

The thing that you need to do is to stand out. Once you stand out, the opinion of girls about you in going to change a lot. Of course, there are going to be girls that don't like 'the guy that stands out', but some girls are going to all over you.

You don't have to be extremely different from the girls, just some slight differences is enough to attract girls. To give an example, I went to a club 2 days ago and I was one of the few guys that was wearing a hat. Of course, there were those girls that thought "Uggh, he's wearing a hat inside? What a jerk.", but there was also this one girl that came up to me and said that she liked my hat. Within 20 seconds of her talking to me, I asked her to dance with me, and she made out with me right away. I didn't have to show her my 'cool vibes', my 'dope friends' or my 'interesting life'.

Of course, if you want to have a girlfriend, it is best to have an interesting life, but cold approaching is still important. She doesn't have to know about your interesting life right away, tell her about that when you're on a date with her.

Title	Why Cold Approaching Doesn't Always Work
Author	tslmiami-2
Upvotes	4
Comments	2
Date	December 29, 2016 10:15 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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