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I actually did get 6 matches on the first day that I downloaded Tinder (all real people, no bots. In fact, I have never actually encountered a single bot on Tinder). However, I got waaaaaay less matches afterwards (around 1-2 per week).
/r/seduction18/10/18 05:44 PM
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You did mention that you were swiping right on each girl. However, the algorithm will consider you to be a bot if you do that and will put you lower in the stack. In order to put yourself higher, I would recommend swiping right, right, left.
/r/seduction25/09/18 03:51 PM
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My personal problem is exercising consistently for those 3 years (and beyond that). The thing is that exercise is just so damn boring, because you're just doing the same thing over and over again. Also, spending 1 hour per day just to exercise is almost impossible (especially if you have a ton of homework from your college).
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:31 AM
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Nah, you're not ugly at all. You have a pretty symmetrical face, good hairstyle and smooth cheeks. The only thing that could maybe be off would be your jawline, but you can easily fix this with chewing gum for a few weeks and exercising. But even as it stands right now, your chin isn't hideous at all. However, if you want to go from 6-7/10 to perhaps an 8/10, I do have some tips for you. Exercise. Now, I know that this is very cliche, but it wouldn't be a cliche if it wasn't true. You should rea…
/r/seduction16/08/18 11:06 AM
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Can't recommend this enough. By having fun with the other guys as well, you are showing to the girls that you aren't just here to get laid, but actually there to have fun.
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:48 AM
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If I were you, I would put picture 1, 4 and Tinder pic 2 on your Tinder, in this order. Also, you don't have to worry about you being ugly, since you look just like an ordinary dude. Also, I would highly recommend using Badoo over Tinder, as you can get a lot more matches from that. It's not unusual to get like 4-5 matches from that per day (although, you will get matches from girls across the country).
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:43 AM
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First of all, you're not hideous (probably 6-7/10). It's just that your pictures aren't all that good. However, showing people what you look like IRL through a picture is virtually impossible. First of all, pictures are static, so we only focus on how you look in the moment. With a video, you are constantly moving, and we get a better feel of how you look in person. Second of all, cameras aren't perfect. Because of their lenses, they don't convey a perfect image. In fact, a pretty good example c…
/r/seduction16/08/18 10:29 AM
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(One more tip, when dancing instead of just grinding ass to dick, turn girl around bend one knee and grab her by lower pelvis and rub her Clit area on you thigh worked wonder this time) One question, how would you do this if the girl is wearing a knee-length pencil skirt (I really like that on girls for some reason). I mean, if she was wearing pants or a loose dress it would be a lot easier. I would guess that I could just put my knee underneath her skirt, but I don't want to get in trouble with…
/r/seduction10/08/18 10:01 PM
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It's not awkward at all. I've recently (well... a month ago) went out to a bar by myself without any money (I had gone to a nightclub before where I spend all of my money like an idiot). So, when I walked into the bar, I just headed for the dancefloor and started solo dancing. I saw some cute girl that was just twerking on the dancefloor and grinding on her female friends. I eventually made eye contact with her, approached her and introduced myself. Then I just fucked off from her, talked to som…
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:56 PM
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To add to this, this might be a completely personal experience, but in my opinion having sex with random people doesn't feel all that great. Please note: Everything that I am about to say is purely based on subjective and anecdotal experience and will be my personal hypothesis. Nothing here is backed up by any scientific study at all. Now, let me explain why I feel this way. It does still feel good to have sex (because we're hardwired like that), but having sex with random people that you have n…
/r/seduction10/08/18 09:46 PM
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To be honest, as long as you're not a total creep, nightgame isn't all that difficult. In fact, I am a bit below average (3.5/10), and I was managed to grind with a girl at a bar for quite some time. When I left her for a few minutes, I noticed that a quite attractive guy (perhaps 7-8/10) came up to her. However, he acted very creepy to her, and this girl immediately walked away and started to look for me. I actually feel as though uglier people can have it easier in nightclubs (especially if yo…
/r/seduction08/07/18 06:39 PM
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She had around 4-5 beers. So, not too drunk. I only had 2 beers. I entered the bar around 3:00 AM, and I started to grind on that girl around 3:30 AM. We left at 5:00. She was black girl, around 6-7/10.
/r/seduction08/07/18 12:50 PM
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Are you talking about a musical festival, a nightclub or a bar? If you are at a musical festival, you can almost be certain that those girls have taken some XTC, and won't be bothered by you approaching them. Just try to get in their line in vision in a natural way and strike up a conversation with them. (I can't be specific about this, since I have never festivals, so I only have my friend's experience to go on). If you are at a nightclub, most girls won't really look at the stage all that much…
/r/seduction07/07/18 08:27 PM
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Well... you don't have to be attractive. As long as you are presentable, you can quite easily get a couple of girls to make out with you by just smiling at them and grinding on them.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:43 PM
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What's wrong with not enjoying sex? I've had sex twice, and I didn't enjoy it at all both times. And even if I didn't dislike sex, I still wouldn't just try and seek after it to validate myself. If a girl whispers in my ear "I really enjoyed spending time with you. You are such an amazing guy" or something similar, I see that as validation enough.
/r/seduction07/07/18 06:41 PM
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Ok, listen. Despite the fact that yes, I didn't manage to have sex with this girl, I did manage to spend a bunch of time just making out and grinding. Also, I managed to get her phone number. However, my 'success' isn't really having sex in the first place. I've already lost my virginity, and if I'll be brutally honest, I didn't really like having sex at all. Just spending some time with a cute girl and making out is enough for me to consider the night to be a 'success'. Also, bear in mind that …
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:44 PM
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Yeah, I do both of them. Which one I do really depends on the situation. However, you do need to make sure that you're not just giving attention to the girl, but also to the guys. If you don't do this, you come across as desperate.
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:31 PM
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Yeah, people are just really overthinking this. In fact, I actually did this when I went to a school party when I was 14, before I even learned about pickup.
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:28 PM
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Here is some formatting help for you. If you put a word between asterisks, it will put in italics. If you put a word between 2 asterisks on both sides, it will be in bold. If you surround the first word with square brackets [] and the second part with regular brackets (), you can create a Link By putting an asterisk in front of a bunch of sentence, you can make a list, like I am doing right now. If you put a greater than symbol in front of a sentence, you can make a quote. Please don't quote me …
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:17 PM
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No, it's literally just this. Many girls that you do this to will give you a peace sign back, and quite often smile at you. If they do this, you can be quite certain that they aren't disinterested. If the girls are disinterested in you, they will let you know at this stage.
/r/seduction07/07/18 05:05 PM
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Here is what I do when I see a cute girl on the dancefloor. Make eye contact. Smile at her. If the girl smiles back at me, I'll give her a peace sign or a fistbump. I've only recently begun to do this, so I don't know how effective this is due to a small sample size. If the girl is twerking on the dance floor, I get next to her and rub my butt against hers'. If the girl likes this (which they mainly do), I can be quite certain that she doesn't dislike me. I get in front of her and make her grind…
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:59 PM
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Hmm... It was quite a small room, so there were only around 30-40 people in there. It wasn't too packed, but not empty either.
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:55 PM
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I totally agree. So many people are just like "How do I properly approach girls at a nightclub?". However, if you are just confident and just at the club to have fun, girls will automatically notice you. As you might notice from my FR, the only thing I really did was to make eye contact with her and smile at her.
/r/seduction07/07/18 04:54 PM
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Me: Well I must say your fiance has a good taste in woman. Anyways good to meet you. I really like that you said that, for some reason.
/r/seduction23/06/18 12:46 PM
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Also, can we please talk about the horrendous UI? If you want to see somebody's status, the only way to do so is by clicking a very tiny icon on the bottom right. Even if you decide to like or not like somebody based on their status, you are brought back to the main screen. This means that you judge somebody based on their bio, you need to press the little icon with your right thumb, and either like them with them your left thumb or not like them with your right thumb. Now, imagine if you are ac…
/r/seduction14/06/18 07:59 PM
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some small talk, get to know her, and talk about yourself too, and who you are. We've already done this on Whatsapp (mainly due to the fact that the Tinder messenger is just atrocious from a design perspective), so I don't need to worry about that. However, she does live around 1 hour away, so it would be quite difficult for her to take the train to my home just in order to have sex (maybe I can invite her to stay over for the night, thought).
/r/seduction15/05/18 09:13 PM
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First of all, it's very great that you've managed to get this many numbers in such a short timespan. However, I think that your problem is that you're asking girls for their numbers and you leave right away. You should stay and talk with the girl for a bit after she has given you her number. If you are already doing that, I would suggest taking the girl out on an instant date to see if she is really interested in you. Anyways, it's really great that you are making progress, keep it up :-D.
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:11 PM
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Well... the truth is that girls get a lot of messages every day. So, the chance of her even seeing your message in the first place is very low. Or, she simply might not be active on Tinder all that much.
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:08 PM
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If I can come up with a opener based on her bio/photos I do it, otherwise I go with “how’s the week treating you/how did your weekend go”. Very simple again and very little punctuation. Can't underestimate this. Most guys just comment "hey" or "you look beautiful". Try to stand out from those guys by showing them that you actually care about the person. For instance, I am currently speaking with a girl on Tinder, and she has a picture of herself on a sailboat, you can ask her "Hey, do you sail o…
/r/seduction15/05/18 08:01 PM
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To be fair, even if she isn't going to have sex with me for whatever reason, I will still be glad that a girl even considered having sex with me in the first place. Also, it's more about the journey rather than the destination (even though getting laid is still part of the journey). But yeah, you are right. I shouldn't 100% count of the fact that I am going to get sex. Even if she is willing to have sex, there might still be some problems on my end (especially when it comes to logistics).
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:43 PM
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I'm from the Netherlands. And yes, some clubs have 16+ nights, while others have 18+ or even 21+ nights.
/r/seduction17/04/18 01:41 PM
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I only did it because I didn't want to have any premature ejaculations while grinding. Better safe than sorry.
/r/seduction16/04/18 06:18 PM
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Oh sorry for the confusion. I meant 'this weekend' as in 'next weekend'.
/r/seduction16/04/18 05:52 PM
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I know. I have already read a lot about sex in preparation. But thanks regardless :-).
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:58 PM
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Yes, I'm still a virgin. I will have sex with her this Sunday.
/r/seduction16/04/18 02:38 PM
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The other way to do it is hit the streets during "golden hour". Basically when the bars and clubs close but people want to still party, roam the streets and go to an after party, or invite chicks to one that you're throwing. Any good ways of doing something like this? Also, most bars/clubs close around 5:00, which is just 1 hour of 'full night party'
/r/seduction05/04/18 03:46 PM
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Similar experience here. Talking to a random girl at club? Meh, no big deal. Approaching a girl on the street? Can't do it at all :-(.
/r/seduction01/04/18 09:31 PM
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How do you engage in a conversation at a nightclub with loud music? Also, what would be best to talk about, then?
/r/seduction01/04/18 02:50 PM
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Did you build any comfort or rapport with them first before asking to dance? Like did you talk to them at all or was it just introduction then ask to dance. Well... I usually make eye contact and smile at the majority of people in the club. I usually just throw up peace signs and fist bump almost everybody that I come across. However, at the other clubs, I didn't need to build as much rapport as first, since some of the girls had taken the initiative and approached me instead. Also, I'm not in D…
/r/seduction01/04/18 11:07 AM
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Stop with the floppy noodle shit What do you mean by that?
/r/seduction28/03/18 04:08 PM
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Meet each other half way, get a hotel room and bang it out. Sounds actually like a good plan. I just never tend to think of the simple solutions... Thank you for this :-).
/r/seduction21/03/18 09:43 PM
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I would highly recommend checking out RageGamingVideo's Binding of Isaac playlist. Notice how he usually makes a joke or story out the things happening in the game. Try to mimic him and apply it to dating as well.
/r/seduction21/03/18 08:01 PM
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Uhhm... 11% of 25 is 2.75. Do you mean 12% instead?
/r/seduction18/03/18 06:05 PM
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To be fair, it was mainly about my confidence (and alcohol) to just start breaking out dance moves. They don't really have to be all that good, just make sure that you move in rhythm to the music. However, if you really want to get serious, I would recommend looking up some dance channels on YouTube (pickupdance is quite a good one), or maybe even take some dance lessons in your city.
/r/seduction04/03/18 09:06 AM
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She just asked me if I wanted to dance with her.
/r/seduction04/03/18 08:57 AM
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making arduino robots in your bedroom NEVER! Arduino robots are dope as fuck! Also, if you get a girl to your house, she will most likely be like "HOLY SHIT, DID YOU PROGRAM THESE ROBOTS YOURSELF?!", which is a nice way to get her interested.
/r/seduction07/02/18 12:22 AM
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I have had girls approach me, and I'm about 4-5/10 in looks. Granted, it only happens 3-4 times per night, but it still does happen. This was the reason why I was so confused this night, because the majority of girls didn't even pay attention to me tonight.
/r/seduction07/01/18 02:56 PM
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That's probably my problem as well. I can be very social with other guys, but not with girls. The only time when I can approach girls with a normal mindset is when I'm just asking for directions or something similar. However, when it comes to flirting, I'm just extremely awful at it :-(.
/r/seduction07/01/18 01:47 PM
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I know. Maybe the receptibility of the girls also depends on the type of club that you go to. Because at one the clubs that I frequently go to, I get approached by girls (or they randomly grab my hand and dance with me), while at this other club, the girls didn't even pay me any attention. But as the other guy, maybe it's just my lack of confidence. I don't feel comfortable walking up to a random girl and just dancing with her within 30 seconds, even if she does like it.
/r/seduction07/01/18 12:13 PM
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And don't take your eyes off the ball: you may have "fantasized" about this, but let's be real: you'd rather have sex in real life, then sext. To be honest, I am one of the few guys that really sees sex as something extremely boring. I find porn with a main focus on sex extremely uncomfortable to watch, and I would much rather prefer to make out or cuddle with girls.
/r/seduction15/11/17 06:47 PM
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According to Eckhart Tolle, every person has a 'Pain Body', which is basically controlled by the egoistic thoughts. The Pain Body is your source of self-doubts and lack of confidence. I had a really great animation about the Pain Body, but I couldn't find it. This video will have to do in the meantime.
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:43 PM
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I would recommend listening to Eckhart Tolle or to read his book The Power of Now.
/r/seduction14/11/17 09:34 PM
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I would give you the advice to arrive early and dance with as many people (guys and girls) as you can. Also, make sure that you have enough alcohol to be comfortable with dancing, but no more than that. Around 3-4 beers would be good enough. When you are a bit tipsy, I would suggest to just do some solo dancing, and whenever you notice a girl making eye contact with you (and if you have moves like this, girls will definitely make eye contact with you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?list=WL11A869B…
/r/seduction04/11/17 12:00 PM
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Can you please elaborate on that?
/r/seduction25/10/17 07:30 PM
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Relevant video
/r/seduction12/10/17 01:26 PM
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I never mentioned that I pull whenever girls do approach me. After all, I go in with the mindset to have fun, which means that I don't even have any logistics to get a random girl home (it was already a nightmare to bring my best friend home with me). In hindsight, I probably could have mentioned that in the post itself.
/r/seduction10/10/17 05:29 PM
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What is going on with his forearms? They look really weak. I would suggest /r/griptraining or https://musclewiki.org/.
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:19 PM
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Alright, but how do you stand out from all the other guys that just stand near the walls and look at girls as well? Because in my experience, I have seen guys with a drink just standing near the walls and waiting for a girl to come over to them without doing anything interesting. Relevant video
/r/seduction24/09/17 07:04 PM
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I'm proud of you. I told you that you had nothing to worry about :-).
/r/seduction18/09/17 12:53 PM
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Dude, everybody knows that you need to make your videos at least 10 minutes for that extra ad revenue. Edit: Relevant video by EmpLemon. I would recommend watching the entire video if you have the time for it.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:50 AM
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Don't worry too much it, man. Just remember what I've said in my post. Make eye contact and smile. This conveys to the girl that you're not some creepy guy that just wants to grind. Dance with everybody, not just the girls. This is called 'Social Proof', and it can be very fucking powerful! If girls see that you can get along with guys, they won't think twice about dancing with you. Dance! Too many people just stand around and do nothing. Seriously, by dancing you actually get the attention of t…
/r/seduction16/09/17 07:31 PM
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Well... you can actually say the same thing for most guys. Only confident guys will approach girls :-P.
/r/seduction16/09/17 04:17 PM
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I really believe that the trick to getting girls to approach you is to dance near them (also, make sure that you arrive early, so there are only a few people), make eye contact with them and give them a smile from time to time, but don't stare at them continuously.
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:20 PM
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Ah, I see. To be honest, we didn't really grind for all that long (about 5 minutes max or something). We also didn't just grind on girls there, we also socialized with other people, which meant that our erections didn't last longer than 10 minutes at most.
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:15 PM
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I don't really have a video of myself dancing, but the dance style is quite similar to another friend of mine. https://gfycat.com/gifs/detail/TatteredColorfulCanary https://gfycat.com/gifs/detail/GaseousFancyAtlanticridleyturtle As you can see, our moves are quite relaxed and 'flowing'. I can't really describe how it feels, but try to avoid sharp, thought out moves. Just let your body take care of itself.
/r/seduction16/09/17 12:06 PM
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To be honest, I only took 2 videos for this exact reason. And the only reason as to why I took the videos in the first place was because they started to take pictures as well. Also, I only tried to take pictures after we grinded/made out, because if they didn't like it, it wouldn't be that much of a loss. Edit: However, I can't say the same for my friend. He had taken a lot more pictures that he hasn't even send to me yet. He was basically taking pictures all the time.
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:33 AM
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RemindMe! 10 hours "Remind Blueeyesboi to read the whole post"
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:18 AM
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I'm not sure what you mean by 'blue balls'. According to Urban Dictionary it means that girls actually injure your balls, but they didn't do that to us. Yes, the girls that grinded on me did grind quite hard, but it didn't really hurt. As for my friend, they only touched his dick, not his balls.
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:17 AM
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dress better, working out some, and contacts I'm literally (not really, since I'm not doing it right now) working on improving my clothes and I have been exercising for about 3 months now (got from 83.2 kg (183 lbs) to 72.9 kg (160.4 lbs) in that time :-D). So, the only thing left for me to do is to get contacts instead of glasses.
/r/seduction16/09/17 08:15 AM
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To be honest, I don't actually like receiving gold. When one of my stupid joke comments received gold, my first thought wasn't "Holy shit, somebody gave me gold!", but it was more like "You could have spent those 4 dollars on something else!". I understand that it supports the Reddit servers, but I really think that Reddit needs to have a 'Don't give this comment gold' option, where the gold would just go to the parent comment, or to a random comment if you make a post.
/r/seduction22/08/17 07:11 AM
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I have to disagree with your point about smoking pot. When I used weed, it was quite frightening. It felt as if time kept repeating over and time, and everything felt as if it was happening in some other realm. It also felt as if the floor was moving up and down, but I've had similar experiences as to when I was drunk. The only good thing about me getting high was that I learned that my parents didn't care if I were to get high, and they even came home from work to support me during my bad trip.…
/r/seduction21/08/17 09:24 PM
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(I love figuring out how things work in general) I totally agree. The components in place to make things work is really fascinating.
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:43 PM
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Can't really remember the official video, but it was something where you actually 'scan' their sentences for things that you can talk about. However, Models by Mark Manson has some great sections on actually holding conversations with other people as well. It even includes a section on how to properly tell stories and jokes. If you're looking for something like that, I would recommend reading it. For some examples, I would recommend to watch RageGamingVideos Binding of Isaac series (I like to wa…
/r/seduction07/07/17 05:39 PM
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/r/nothingeverhappens
/r/seduction17/05/17 02:48 PM
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The acronyms are from the Myers Brigg's personality test. Explanation of the acronyms
/r/seduction05/05/17 07:39 PM
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Well... AskReddit would just give you a bunch of fake over-the-top sex stories, a bunch of pun threads, 'this didn't happen to me, but one of my friends' and a few stories that actually happened.
/r/seduction24/03/17 07:12 PM
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The thing that you need to realize is that you're at least making progress. My assumption is that this was the first time that you actually approached a girl, and since this was a new experience, your brain decided to not go too far right away. I was at a nightclub with a few friends, and some random girl approached me and she made out with me after 20 seconds of talking. However, when we were done making out, I just ejected like you did. I didn't ask for her to go somewhere more private, nor di…
/r/seduction21/03/17 08:58 PM
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Yes, it is true that your facial attractiveness plays a role in your overall appearance. However, you can make alterations to your face, primarily by getting glasses and growing a beard, which can 'mask' your facial imperfections. And yes, it is true that your results will be a lot lower if you're not good looking, but it doesn't take away from the fact that it is still possible. Just because you don't have good looks doesn't mean that you're disqualified. This is a picture of George Cardiner, w…
/r/seduction10/03/17 10:12 PM
1

To be honest, you are just very slightly overweight (you also need to realize that your muscle mass contributes to your total weight). However, I wasn't referring to you personally, I was just making a general statement about factors that make people (un)attractive. In your case, you should just stop caring about how you look. Yes, there are physical features, such as facial symmetry, which are set in stone. However, you can change your looks if you were to put in the effort. Buy some new clothi…
/r/seduction10/03/17 04:41 PM
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Your facial symmetry is just one of the factors that contributes to your attractiveness. Also, you need to realize that you can modify your face in various ways (glasses, facial hair and your facial expression). As I've said before, your face isn't the only factor that contributes to your attractiveness. How fat are you? What are you wearing in terms of size and color? What is your current posture? Are you complying with cultural norms? Even if you are ugly, you shouldn't feel down because of it…
/r/seduction10/03/17 12:04 PM
1

Listen, even if they do reject you, it's always possible to get some other girls. I know that this is pretty cliche, but there are plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:57 PM
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I have to admit that this is actually a very good point about using the 1-10 rating system. However, you can still think "I thought that the previous girl was better than this girl", but it doesn't come with the added hassle of applying a number to the girls. To take your restaurant example, you can still rate a 'good' and a 'great' restaurant as '1/1'. But if you want to think "hmm, this restaurant isn't as great as the other restaurant", who's stopping you from thinking that? However, this arg…
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:41 PM
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Listen, I know that this post can spark some confusion, so let me try to clear that up. First of all, I am not forcing people to use the binary system over the 1-10 rating system. This post is just meant to inform people about the positive aspects of the binary rating system. However, /u/MisterIceGuy did raise a good point about using the 1-10 rating system "why would we settle for good if we can get the best?". Secondly, using the 1-10 rating system doesn't solve the 'black and white' problem e…
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:32 PM
1

Listen man, just try to approach this girl in person. If you try to contact her through Facebook, it give the girl a bad impression. If the girl rejects you, for whatever reason, just move on. Just go to another party, and find some other girls. Seriously, there are bound to be a few girls at every party that will find you attractive.
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:10 PM
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Well... not really, as 'f(x) = x mod 2" would just return this. x -2 -1 0 1 2 3 f(x) 0 1 0 1 0 1 What I'm thinking of is more among the lines of "f(x) = (x mod 2)/(⌊2-|x| ⌋ + ⌊2-|x-1| ⌋)", which would give. x -2 -1 0 1 2 3 f(x) UNDEF UNDEF 0 1 UNDEF UNDEF
/r/seduction08/03/17 07:03 PM
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But on what scale would you base this? Would you base this locally, regionally, nationally, globally? Also, the results on Tinder aren't really representative of how attractive a person is. The majority of guys just swipe right on everybody and tend to actually analyse the profile the moment they have a match. The majority of girls can just reject most guys on Tinder, as they know that the best looking guys swipe right on everybody anyways. However, I do think that extremely good looking guys wi…
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:44 PM
2

Can I get some context here? For how long have you known these girls? If you've known them for at least 2 weeks, their initial interest in you is quickly going to fade. If you haven't known them for very long, try to make eye contact with them during class. Once you have the eye contact established, try to provoke a reaction from them, usually by giving them a slight smile. After that, you need to avoid looking at them for a little bit (I would recommend not making eye contact with them for at l…
/r/seduction08/03/17 06:27 PM
2

If you're a complete beginner, don't even worry about the majority of advice that's given in the pickup community (most of it is crap, which makes it seem like this whole process is more complicated than it actually is, just to get you to buy more stuff from their websites), just focus on basic social interactions. The only thing that you need to do is to approach some random people, and just start a general conversation. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything and say that this is easy, because if …
/r/seduction07/03/17 09:17 PM
2

S2E4 'White Christmas' is the first ep that came to mind.
/r/seduction27/02/17 04:53 PM
1

Just tell her "Hey, you want to do something after this class is done?". If she accepts it, it's not a sign that she's interested (she might just think that you're being friendly). If she rejects it, you can be certain that she isn't interested in you, and you need to move on.
/r/seduction09/02/17 07:22 PM
2

There are always exceptions to certain things, especially if you add alcohol into the mix. Like Shifu said, the girl was probably drunk or she was just extremely desperate for a guy. Your friend just so happened to be the selected target for that girl; it was just random chance. Also, you don't have to be good-looking to have this happen to you, you just need to be unique. For instance, I was wearing a hat at a nightclub, and while most girls were like "Uggh... what a jerk", one of them came up …
/r/seduction09/02/17 07:20 PM
1

For the 'Leagues', you need to stop rating girls on a scale from 1-10. Just use a binary rating system instead.
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:38 PM
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/r/nothingeverhappens
/r/seduction30/01/17 07:11 PM
3

Guy 1: "Hey, did you hear that Tim just approached some random girl on the street? She totally rejected him". Guy 2: "Wait, you mean the same Tim that made out with some random girl at a nightclub?" Guy 1: "He did?!" Guy 2: "Yeah, Mike told me so." Guy 1: "Wow, Tim sure seems extremely desperate. I bet that girl only made out with him because she felt sorry for him." Guy 2: "Yeah, I totally agree. I thought he was cool when I heard that, but now he just seems totally desperate." Guy 1: "And the …
/r/seduction17/01/17 09:52 PM
3

As an exercise to get started losing your fear of publicity he suggested just comfortably lying down on the ground somewhere in the city, noticing people passing by and realizing you don't care what they think. That's probably not going to work in my country, The Netherlands. People are quite anxious of a terrorist attack (not as much as a few months ago), and they might think that some random guy lying on the street might trying to get attention and he's probably carrying some sort of bomb. It …
/r/seduction17/01/17 09:36 PM
6

Don't worry, it's just about approaching girls that I'm interested in. If I'm just asking some 80-year-old grandma how her day is going, there's no problem, since the conversation is friendly. I mean, nobody's going to think "This guy is so desperate for conversation that he's approaching random old people on the street". At most they'll think "Alright, why did he approach he that grandma? Is he going to steal her bag?". I mean, people have friendly conversations with each other all the time, bu…
/r/seduction17/01/17 09:33 PM
2

Dude, just give no fucks (the worst she'll say is no, and if you never bother, then she said no. Nothing to lose) I have some troubles with that as well. Like, what if somebody I know is in the same venue as me, and that girl rejects me? I just fear them being like "Hey, [name] approached some girl at Starbucks yesterday, but he got rejected.", "Lol, what a stupid guy. What did he think would happen?" at school the next day. And even if nobody that I know is there, what will the people there thi…
/r/seduction17/01/17 05:21 PM
1

Alright, the thing is that there are some people on this subreddit that just try to sell you their various products. Also, can this 30-day challenge be done over a longer period of time? The thing is, I don't have the time to commit to this challenge. Of course, the current challenges don't take too much time, but I'd guess that challenges can take more than 3 hours. Edit: Am I required to film myself with a webcam/smart phone for the gratitude routine, or can I just record my voice with a micro…
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:55 PM
1

One question, is this totally free? Because I don't want this to be "alright, you've done 1 week now. Please pay me in order to continue to week 2".
/r/seduction15/01/17 07:12 PM
56

Because they want to think that talking to girls is more complicated than it is, just so they can sell you 'all of the essential things' that you require to get results.
/r/seduction10/01/17 09:35 PM
1

Your confidence will rise naturally as you realize most girls will not think you as a creeper or weird. This is so true. The primary to get confident with women is to realize that they don't see you as a creep at all. Sure, this is a catch 22 'You need to be confident with women to approach women to become confident with women', but you just need to take that first step. The first 3 approaches that you'll do won't be pleasant. It will be extremely difficult and you probably won't close, but that…
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:27 PM
1

I remember how awkward my very first conversation went. I went to the park on my bike, and I had a 'Fuck it, I'll just approach ANYONE.' attitude. I just approach a woman around 50 years old age. I remember that I actually said my first and last name when she asked for my name, and that I couldn't make eye contact for the life of me. There were also a lot of awkward pauses in the conversation, and I just spouted the most random stuff like "So... what do you think of Brexit?". However, I felt GRE…
/r/seduction30/12/16 03:41 PM
1

Yeah. I had a girl literally make out with me for 2 minutes the moment I asked if she would like to dance. Of course, there are also those that are like "No sorry, I already have a boyfriend" or even "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!", but there will always be girls like that. However, you should really focus on eye contact. The stronger your eye contact is, the lower the chance is that she will reject you.
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:29 AM
1

Look, I'm going to tell you this right now. It's not going to be pleasant the first few times. If you're somebody who used to be socially anxious (like myself), it can be really, really stressful for you. This video from MamaMax really portrays how I used to be. I know that I'm linking that video in almost every recent comment, but that's because it hit so close to home. However, with enough time, it will start to get better. A few months ago, I was almost crying myself to sleep because I was so…
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:26 AM
13

Maybe this video will convince you that it's possible to get girls, even if you used to be the biggest loser. Seriously, this other video from the same guy really shows how much of a socially anxious nerd he used to be.
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:05 AM
2

Dude, don't bother with books and videos if you haven't put it into practice yet. If you study too much theory, you'll be overwhelmed and don't know how to put it into practice. It's best to experience this stuff by yourself instead of learning it from a book. I promise, it's not as complicated as the books make it out to be. If it was, how are some people able to get a ton of girls without them even reading a single book or watching a single video? Just go outside and start talking to girls. I …
/r/seduction30/12/16 11:01 AM
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First of all, I have to say that you're doing a great job so far. The fact that you've actually taken action means that you're not one of those people that just reads about pickup and never takes any action. Now, you did mention that you have spent months just learning theory, reading books and watching videos. The fact is that you only need about 1% of the theory. The only reason why the theory 'works' is because it makes the guys think 'This is scientifically proven, so it must work', which in…
/r/seduction30/12/16 10:54 AM
1

It all depends on the type of girl that you're talking to. Not all girls are the same. Some girls might be like "Uhh, what are you doing? Go away!" while others might be like "Hey, how are you doing? Want to make out?". How they react isn't really up to you, it's up to them. The thing that you need to do is to stand out. Once you stand out, the opinion of girls about you in going to change a lot. Of course, there are going to be girls that don't like 'the guy that stands out', but some girls are…
/r/seduction29/12/16 10:31 PM
2

Dude, this is Reddit, nobody reads the article. If you want to see this in action, just go to /r/worldnews.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:14 PM
2

I know what you're getting at, but I'd rather be a surprised pessimist than a disappointed optimist.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:11 PM
1

I actually just remembered you from my previous post, and you said that I had to drink beer in order to dance properly. I've actually read a lot on how to dance properly, and the grinding session during the make-out went a lot better than the previous grinding sessions at clubs. I think that was mostly due to my nerves taking over and saying "Dude, you're not allowed to do this!", but my nerves were like "Meh, whatever. Just go for it, man.". I think that it basically boils down to "don't let yo…
/r/seduction29/12/16 01:52 PM
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Yes, if I don't save the number of the girls, I won't get too attached to them. This allows me to move on to other girls instead of just being attracted to that one girl.
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:06 PM
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Nah, I asked her if she had alcohol afterwards. She said that she only drank some Redbull. As for the 'right place right time' thing, they're right about that. However, there were a lot of guys near that girl that she could have danced with, but most of them didn't really look like they were having a good time. The fact that I was one of the few people that was wearing a hat definitely set me apart from the rest of the guys, but I guess that she would have reacted positively if I were to approac…
/r/seduction28/12/16 07:03 PM
5

Yup.
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:48 PM
2

It was a special night at a particular club. Most clubs in the area are 18+, however.
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:47 PM
5

Yeah, I also didn't have any social experience as I was mostly isolated at my elementary school because I had a cleft lip and was therefore different from the rest. Everybody's just saying "OMG YOU DIDN'T GET HER NUMBER! YOU ARE LITERALLY WORSE THAN HITLER!", while they don't understand that it's just one girl of a thousand. I didn't go for a number once? Well, that just means that I'm going to try to get a number the next time.
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:32 PM
1

No, she said that she would be 17 years old on the 28th of December. However, I thought that she said that was 28 years old. After she said that she was actually 17 years old, I asked if she would like to dance with me.
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:21 PM
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The legal age to have sex in my country (The Netherlands) is 16. She just turned 17. I didn't have sex with her, I just made out with her. I'm just 2 years older than she is.
/r/seduction28/12/16 05:48 PM
2

I know. This is why I'm so happy about this. The fact that this is just a stepping stone makes the end result much more appealing. It's just the feeling about doing something like this for the first time that makes it feel so awesome.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:57 PM
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I honestly thought that a lot of girls were willing to make out within a minute of meeting a guy... I didn't know that girls like that were a rare breed.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:29 PM
5

What do you mean by "you're dressed for the girls you don't want."? Do you mean that 'ghetto' girls are primarily attracted to a look like that?
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:14 PM
3

Netherlands.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:12 PM
13

Alright, the next time I'm going to make out with a girl, I'll try to get her number.
/r/seduction28/12/16 04:07 PM
16

Pretty much, yeah. I was totally oblivious to signals that girls give to show that they're interested. Coupled with the fact that I was too anxious to actually take the initiative, it was pretty obvious why I didn't have many girls that liked me. If I still had my anxiety to progress further, I would never have asked her to dance with me, and I would just have kept the status quo of the two of us talking.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:36 PM
1

Alright, let's say that I didn't know about the seduction community at all and the same thing were to happen. Here's a scenario that might play out if that was the case. Her: "Hey, I like your hat.". Me: "Are you being sarcastic right now?" Her: "Oh, nonono. Not at all. I really think that you're cute." She makes strong eye contact with me and gives me seductive smile. Me: "Oh, thank you." I don't notice the fact that she's smiling at me at all. Her: "So, what's your name?" Me: "Oh, my name... M…
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:27 PM
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Why would I go for her number? That make-out was just about 2 horny young adults releasing their hormones. If I were to get her number, we would probably keep texting for 2 or 3 days before we realize that we can't see each other in person (she doesn't live close to me). Also, I think it's best not to save the number of any girl that I meet in a club, as it reduces the chance of me getting oneitis.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:14 PM
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This is what I was wearing on the evening of the party. I know that it looks a bit too 'ghetto', but apparently, it worked.
/r/seduction28/12/16 03:11 PM
2

I fully agree. You're just assuming that everything in the world revolves around you (almost everybody does it, even if you're just doing it on a subconscious level), so you're ignoring the fact that the girls have a life of their own. Most people are just thinking about the most mundane stuff, like what they're going to eat tonight or what they should give their family for Christmas. However, if you're new to the seduction community, like myself, it's just best to approach girls that you're mak…
/r/seduction24/12/16 08:03 PM
3

Uhhmmm... you can go after girls that aren't with their parents. It's not like you can only approach girls that are with their parents. I mean, it's like saying "Why aren't you flirting with that girl that's currently performing CPR?", "Why don't have you approach that girl that looks like somebody who belongs in an insane asylum?" or "I have a big exam tomorrow. I should approach some girls today instead of study.". It's not that you need to approach every single girl that you see.
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:55 PM
1

Sorry if this message doesn't make much sense. I am slightly drunk, which makes this message quite ironic (even though it's not really the definition of irony). I know what you mean when it comes to the influence of alcohol. I actually had alcohol at my high school prom, and my dance moves were a lot smoother, and I managed to dance a lot better with the girls (up until the point where I had too many beers and I literally just crawled on the floor like a dog). However, I still don't want to cons…
/r/seduction24/12/16 07:50 PM
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get a few drinks in you As the designated driver, this is impossible. Also, I've mentioned that I don't want to rely on outside stimulation to help me. I think that it's just best for me to do meditation/yoga and read The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle.
/r/seduction23/12/16 01:13 PM
2

focus on dancing yourself And that's my biggest downfall. I can't do any solo dancing for shit. Also, I'm with a big group of people (around 20 people or so), and most of them get into a big circle and start bumping into each other. While it is a fun activity to be a part of, it doesn't really attract any girls, because it's so rough. So, I have the choice between being in the big group of people, or trying to go out on my own in an attempt to do some terrible solo dancing. I'm going to go to th…
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:59 PM
1

But how do you actually make the approach? Let's say that there are some cute girls on the dancefloor, but they have their back towards you. Do you get in front of them and make eye contact with them, or do you do something else? Also, do you remain stationary in one spot, or do you move around the club in order to make sure that you're seeing as many girls as possible?
/r/seduction23/12/16 12:50 PM
3

The effectiveness of eye contact and body language is immensely amplified at bars and clubs. The volume is often so loud that you can't have a regular conversation, so you need to rely on your body language a lot more.
/r/seduction23/12/16 11:46 AM
2

Yeah, most of MamaMax's video hit so close to home.
/r/seduction20/12/16 12:19 PM
1

You need to put "https://www.16personalities.com/" instead of "16personalities.com" for it to work.
/r/seduction14/12/16 02:19 PM
1

Oh, I'm 19 years old, and she's 18. However, the thing is that I don't see her all that often. I see her like once or twice per week at the lockers. We also don't have that many mutual friends.
/r/seduction13/12/16 05:32 PM
6

Don't use Tinder. Meet girls in person.
/r/seduction12/12/16 09:31 PM
1

Exactly how "free" is that webinar?
/r/seduction04/12/16 07:55 PM
1

Agreed. It's just futile pursuing non-receptive girls, as they're not interested in a relationship. Even if you managed to get a non-receptive girl, would you really want to date them for a long period of time?
/r/seduction21/11/16 10:51 PM
1

Your penis size doesn't really matter at all. However, if you think that your penis is too small, it can affect your confidence. Just don't mention the size of your penis at all. Even if you had a 12 inch cock, you still shouldn't say that you have a 12 inch cock. If you've managed to get the girl to the bedroom, the size of your penis shouldn't really matter all that much. However, if your penis is really a problem for you, you can probably get some penis enlargement surgery.
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:53 PM
1

Sure, looks don't matter all that much, but that doesn't mean that you can ignore your looks. If you never shower or brush your teeth, wear clothing that makes you look like a clown and weigh 300 pounds, you're not getting any girls.
/r/seduction21/11/16 09:50 PM
2

Just approach her. You can easily avoid getting 'bad rep' and being 'that guy'. Just approach them and say "Hey, I thought you were incredibly cute. I just had to say hi to you" or something like that. Many girls in high school like it when you're showing your intentions from the start and you're not 'that guy' that uses stupid pickup lines on them. Also, here are a few tips. Don't use pickup lines. They don't work and they make you look like a desperate dude. Make eye contact. Many guys in high…
/r/seduction20/11/16 08:39 PM
1

Listen, for every 'harsh rejection', you'll get 50 regular rejections. The majority of rejections are just "sorry, but I already have a boyfriend", because they know that it's no use to make random people feel bad. The worst rejection that you can get is "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!", and it's hardly as bad as it seems. It happened to me once, and I almost burst out laughing. Don't worry about those 'harsh rejections', they are incredibly rare (like 1 out of 1.000 rejections are as bad as the "GE…
/r/seduction16/11/16 08:06 PM
1

Dude, this isn't your fault at all. This girl probably had a lot of stuff on her mind at the time. She even said so herself "I'm trying to do some things". Just pay no attention to it, because she's already forgotten that you approached her all.
/r/seduction16/11/16 07:30 PM
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/r/nothingeverhappens
/r/seduction14/11/16 08:45 PM
1

You are thinking too much about this. Just say 'hi' to her, and just let your 'autopilot' take care of the rest. I had this huge flowchart in my head when I went up to a girl, and the conversation went terribly. My brain was just 'buffering', and searching for that perfect response. Afterwards, I went over to another girl and I just said "Hi, I thought you looked cute. I just had to come over to hi." to her. After that, I've let my 'autopilot' take over, and the conversation went a lot better. J…
/r/seduction10/11/16 03:33 PM
2

Yeah, what if some random guy that has just gotten fired his job sees you getting rejected and he thinks that life is just unfair for everybody. He goes to the bar and is willing to spend his entire paycheck on alcohol. When he gets to the bar, he trips into a muscular dude. That muscular dude thinks that he did on purpose, and punches him in the face. After that, he gets thrown out of the bar. Some rich dudes are about to enter the bar; but they see the muscular dude getting thrown out, which l…
/r/seduction25/10/16 09:18 PM
2

"Hey, I'm memedealer. Wanna buy some dank memes? I have some vintage 'Dicks out for Harambe' memes, or if you prefer 'dat boi' or 'damn Daniel', I have a few left in stock.". Seriously, just go over to them like a normal person. Just make eye contact and introduce yourself. Don't try to memorize any lines, or use any routines. As for approaching a girl who's with her parents, just don't do that. I know that it can work in some instances, but it simply isn't worth it. Here's how I usually open. I…
/r/seduction23/10/16 10:23 PM
2

I understand what you mean, I have the same thing as well. When me and my friends went to a nightclub, I did like 3 or 4 approached per hours for the first 4 hours. When my friend mentioned that he wanted to leave in 5 minutes, I finally did some rapid fire approaches. I don't even know why I approached so much because of that, I think it was because I was on the "everything or nothing" motto.
/r/seduction22/10/16 08:56 PM
1

That's why the 'three second rule' exists. Even if you fail, it's not the end of the world.
/r/seduction22/10/16 04:12 PM
1

Seriously? Have you tried adjusting yourself in the pictures? Simple actions, like titling your head upwards, can make you seem more attractive. Also, you shouldn't bother with dating apps. It's better to go outside and talk to girls in real life.
/r/seduction22/10/16 04:09 PM
3

I know what you're talking about. The girl says one thing that you're not prepared for, and your brain just goes into 'buffering' mode. The trick is just to embrace the awkwardness, because she will most likely have forgotten about you in an hour. In fact, I saw a guy in the mall doing something really strange and I was like "Hmm... I should remember this; just to show the kind of weird things that other people can do, and that doing pickup isn't seen as weird as all", and I've completely forgot…
/r/seduction21/10/16 09:49 PM
3

Just do it. What is the reason why you're not doing this? If you're afraid of rejection, let me tell you that the WORST rejection is just "OMG GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!". Most rejections are just "No, sorry.", and that's it. I have to admit, the first few times you approach a girl, it's going to be terrifying. But it gets easier and easier as you approach more girls.
/r/seduction21/10/16 01:34 PM
1

Don't drink too much alcohol. A little bit of liquid courage can help you, but don't get more than 3 beers.
/r/seduction12/10/16 03:34 PM
2

"and silence the mental noise " How does one go about doing that? I've tried meditation, and it seems to help slightly. Are there any other methods of silencing the mental noise?
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:31 PM
2

A rule of thumb is just to hold eye contact until you feel uncomfortable. However, if you want a more scientific answer, you can find some studies online, like this one.
/r/seduction24/09/16 02:30 PM
2

Because you phrased it in that way. You didn't get turned down by most girls you approached. You were accepted by some girls that you approached. Also, what do you see as being 'turned down'? Do the girls just run away right away, or they still have a nice conversation with you but reject you for a date in the end? If the girls run away right away, you need to change your actions. If the girls reject you for a date, that's perfectly normal. Even if 9 out of 10 girls reject you, that's still that…
/r/seduction24/09/16 09:47 AM
1

Let me tell you something. People won't notice as much as you think they do. It's all about your actions, not about how you look. And if your skin is so bad that you can't go outside for fear of being seen as freak, then just conceal it in some way. All those advertisements for skin cream aren't just there to make you waste your time.
/r/seduction24/09/16 09:43 AM
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Listen, the WORST outcome that you can have is a girl just saying "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!", and that situation is so infrequent, that you need to approach girls for a month before you even encounter that. Also, just because that girl says "GET THE FUCK AWAY FROM ME!", doesn't mean that you're the cause of her anger. Maybe she was just upset because her grandma died, her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend or she just got fired. Anyways, to answer your question of "What to do if the…
/r/seduction04/09/16 10:14 AM
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It's pretty much equal to the "Like, favorite, subscribe and don't forget to donate on Patreon." thing on YouTube. Regardless, you should try to find out if she's interested in you as well.
/r/seduction26/08/16 03:49 PM
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So true. You have no idea what another person is going through. Maybe that girl's grandpa and dog just died, got fired from her job and her uncle's house burned down. Maybe she tried to go out to forget all about it, but a bunch of douchebags and 'nice guys' tried to hit on her constantly.
/r/seduction18/07/16 11:34 AM
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Let me guess, you probably approached her from behind and tapped her on the shoulder? Because that was the reason why she rejected me so violently. It's probably because 90% of the guys just grind right away, and she thought I was probably one of them as well. Edit: I also typed my first message in a hurry, so let me make myself a bit more clear. If you want to completely blow the girl away, you should do the following. 1: Make eye contact with the girl. If she smiles at you, you should approach…
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:31 PM
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Dude, you have to realize that rejection in nightclubs are a lot worse than on the street. I've had a rejection like that as well. It's probably because the girl is just tired of guys hitting on her and she just wants to be left alone. But you shouldn't be too affected by it, in fact, I even laughed when I got rejected like that. Now, to reduce this in the future, you should make eye contact beforehand. If she smiles at you, you should approach her.
/r/seduction17/07/16 04:11 PM
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Just remember these points: -Smile. -Make eye contact. -Make sure to wear deodorant. -Even if you fail, you will still learn a valuable lesson.
/r/seduction30/06/16 01:09 PM
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Just remember that most girls give out their numbers nowadays. However, I'm glad to see that you're getting the balls to approach girls. And don't worry, after those first few approaches, it will all be easier. Also, don't worry about future possible rejections, it's not that big of a deal. There are plenty of girls out there.
/r/seduction27/06/16 05:23 PM
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Don't worry, it's normal to have anxiety. I used to have social anxiety so bad that I didn't dare to talk to my driving instructor about everyday stuff.
/r/seduction24/06/16 10:32 PM
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Also, you shouldn't be too anxious when approaching a girl. I always used to think that some big guy was going to come out like "WHY THE FUCK ARE YOU TALKING TO MY GIRL YOU PIECE OF SHIT?!!!!!", but the WORST REJECTION that I've ever gotten was "GET THE FUCK AWAY YOU FUCKER!", because I approached her from behind, and tapped her on the shoulder without her noticing. Also, just some ego tips: -Don't get too focused on a single rejection. That girl was probably in a bad mood, shy or on her period.…
/r/seduction24/06/16 09:58 PM
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Great job, it's just those first 3 approaches that are the hardest to execute. After you've done that, it's smooth sailing from there :-D. Just remember this for next time: -Eye contact is important. -Stand upright to look more confident. -Smile, but don't overdo it.
/r/seduction24/06/16 09:38 PM
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Being 'present in the moment' just means that you shouldn't worry about the past and future. Let's say that you see a girl and you want to approach her, your mind is going to fabricate all sorts of excuses for why you shouldn't approach her. If you're present in the moment, you're basically like "I'm just going to approach her, and the outcome be damned!".
/r/seduction21/06/16 04:17 PM
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This is just pure speculation, so please correct me if I'm wrong. Even if she would have rejected you, she would probably still be flattered by your directness. It takes balls to ask a girl to go out right away (it also helps that he has said 'hi' to her on a couple occasions, so she at least knows who Okeanos315 is). Most guys would probably would probably wait for 5 texts until they make a subtle comment about them going out. The fact that he was so direct differentiated him from the other guy…
/r/seduction21/06/16 12:02 PM
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Start by smiling at old people and kids I'm actually very afraid of smiling at kids myself. I don't want to come across at as a pedophile.
/r/seduction19/06/16 10:42 AM
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Maybe you'll enjoy this 53 day challenge to get over your social anxiety.
/r/seduction18/06/16 08:52 PM
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Maybe this might be something that you'll enjoy.
/r/seduction14/06/16 03:18 PM
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Yeah, my tip is just to improve one or two things at a time. If you want to focus on eye contact, you can practice with yourself in the mirror. But it's great that you're still going strong. Failure is just a part of success :-).
/r/seduction12/06/16 05:05 PM
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Yeah, did you read the book How to win friends and influence people? It can help you with socializing in general.
/r/seduction12/06/16 04:16 PM
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I'm so happy to see that everybody is getting good results with this sub. Great job bro, posts like these are really motivational to people that have just started with pickup. Keep up the good work :-D.
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:41 PM
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How did you approach them? Did you approach them from the front or from the back? If you approached them from the front, did you make eye contact and smile at her? If she smiles back, you should approach. If she doesn't, move on to the next girl. If you approached from the back, did you put your hand on her shoulder? This is most likely to lead to rejections right away, but some girls can also be interested by it. Now, you shouldn't let rejection control you. Listen, I've gotten rejected hard wh…
/r/seduction12/06/16 03:16 PM
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Yeah, I'm currently at the 'about to get comfortable approaching' stage. I really hope to be in the 'kiss a random girl' (not right away, but after a conversation) stage by the end of June. What is your current stage?
/r/seduction11/06/16 10:20 PM
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Well... There was no alcohol at that party. But who knows, maybe she drank alcohol beforehand. But wow... I can't believe that I got the worst type of rejection as my first rejection, it feels like an achievement! :-D Edit: You are kinda right, most girls actually responded pretty well to me just making eye contact and smiling at them. Some of them were even 'rolling' their bodies (I can't really describe it too well), as to invite me to dance. It's a shame that I didn't approach most of them, b…
/r/seduction11/06/16 07:45 PM
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Listened, if you're scared of rejection, you should realize that rejection isn't bad. Like... at all! I've been rejected yesterday at a club when I wanted to dance with a girl. She wasn't even like 'I have a boyfriend' or 'I'm quite tired right now', but more like 'GET THE FUCK OFF'. You know how I responded? I just walked away and ignored it. It was my rejection in my life, and I felt fucking great afterwards. Because it was a violent rejection, it was the worst that I could get as a rejection.…
/r/seduction11/06/16 12:52 PM
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Meh, I can't wink for shit. Also, it's just one girl out of like 200.
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:41 PM
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I was just dancing in the club and I just said 'hi' to a girl that was dancing with other girls. It's probably either because I approached her from a weird angle (kinda from behind but not directly). But this shit happens, I'm not going to cry myself to sleep because of it :-P.
/r/seduction10/06/16 11:24 PM
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This podcast is really great.
/r/seduction10/06/16 02:39 PM
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Alright, I will do it tomorrow. Thanks for your advice :-D.
/r/seduction26/05/16 08:18 PM
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Alright, I don't know if I've mentioned this, but I don't have any problem when I talk to guys. When it comes to girls, though, I always assume that they think that I'm only talking to them just to date them; I don't want them to think that I'm just out there to date them.
/r/seduction26/05/16 07:47 PM
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Speak from your diaphragm and through your lips, not the nose or back of your throat. How do you do that?
/r/seduction23/05/16 04:36 PM
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