Hello again. So, if you've read my previous FRs, you might know that I am writing this FR directly after I returned home from the club, so I might be quite drunk and tired. I will correct any logic/grammar errors the next morning.

Previous posts:
First approach and rejection
First make-out at a club
Best club experience so far!
Worst club experience with 0 closes
Lit AF house party

Ok, so the first thing that you need to note is that I went to the exact club that the 'Worst club experience with 0 closes' story occured at. I honestly thought that the fact that I had 0 closes was due myself, but now think that it due to the fact that the club itself had a ton of bad things that makes rejection more plausible.

However, before I talk about my 'club theory', I would like to talk about the FR itself.

FR

So, before I went out the club, I made small talk with random people on the metro and in the line for the club just to get my 'social muscles' working. And to be fair, this did work out quite well.

However, the moment that I entered the club, I froze up right away (similar to the beginning of the 'lit AF house party' story). Now, before you are you going to shout "OMG, YOU ARE AN IDIOT! THIS MADE EVERY GIRL THERE THINK THAT YOU WERE SOME SORT OF WEIRDO!", you are wrong about that. First of all, there was a bunch of smoke in that nightclub, so the girls wouldn't have seen me all that much. Second of all, the majority of girls didn't arrive until 1-2 hours later.

Anyways, when I began to become more comfortably in approaching girls due to the alcohol, I just approach them with "Hi, I'm Tim. I really like your outfit", and the majority of girls responded positively (some of them even said "Thank you so much and you are quite cute as well."). However, when I asked them to dance them to dance with me, all of the girls rejected me. And to be honest, I don't have any idea as to why all of the girls rejected me. Even at the 'first approach and rejection' story, I still had 1-2 girls that have had a lot of interest in me, but I was too nervous to ask them out).

Eventually, my female friends showed up. Now, I thought that they could serve nicely as 'winggirls', but they didn't. They were waaaay too drunk to help me to get some girls. So, I had to flirt with all these girls myself only to get a rejection afterwards.

The only time when I really managed to flirt with a girl was when I was walking to the bus stop, and she began talking to me by
asking when the bus would leave. After that, we had a bit of small talk, but we didn't exchange any numbers.

'Club theory'

I'll add to this tomorrow, but for now, you have to make do with these bullet points.

  • Smaller clubs tend to have less excitable girls.
  • The more guys there are, the higher the chance of a random guy being an asshole that harasses girls.
  • Wearing brighter colors will give yourself more attention
  • Smiling is helpful as well
  • Try to stick with a group of 2-5 friends. Any more is too much.