Anyone know what I mean? I consider myself fairly brave and able to engage in a back and forth depending on the context, yet I am still considered to be on the quiet introverted side (of course not around people who are prone to liking my style of socializing or people with lesser social skills or values). I consider myself somewhat "stuff" in interactions because I don't enjoy jokin around in the typical sense. I am often called out for being quiet. However, every once in a while you'll get people who are super quiet and even more quiet than others, yet it doesn't seem that way. He will talk the same amount or lesser than I yet seem less awkward and more sociable. I've tried to figure out exactly what it is but can't. One quality that these guys seem to have is extreme comfort. Thing is, I am pretty comfortable too, so I don't get it. **i think looks play a big part in it.. Depending on what "look" you have people will interpret your words differently (bad boy, artist, nerd, "cute innocent guy next door")