Why do some people always trigger hostile responses?

ImJustSo · 2018-09-23T14:54:07+00:00

This is something I think about a lot, but from a slightly different perspective. My perspective and what I have to think about pertaining to myself is: Why do people see me as this

As we know some people can just walk into a room and immediately light everybody up. Their energy, posture etc are all so inviting that those around them wanna talk to them before they’ve even said a word.

This is my experience and it exists without me doing a single thing. I can simply look at a person and that's enough for them to beeline me and start talking. If I'm standing quietly with a group of people, they constantly drag me into the conversation. Hell, I was just standing outside a bar to get some fresh air and a guy comes by with a first date. He says, "Hi?" I said, "Good evening...?" He says, "You just look very important..." I finished the small interaction with, "My mommy says I am!" and they both laughed and walked in. That shit fucks with me though, why did I look important? What makes me stand out?

having a very punchable face (I’ve met guys like this who fuck so if this is you don’t get too hung up on it)

Here's another thing I've noticed about how others react to me. I'd say 99% of the people I meet instantly love me. The other 1% just hate my fucking face. Anything I say is an attack on them. They get defensive instantly. They are needlessly aggressive or refuse to cooperate. I'd say it's equally men and women. I have nothing at my disposal to fix this and I don't know that I really care to fix it. I figure those fuck heads are just wrong and I should keep being who everyone else loves.

stylerTyler · 2018-09-23T23:45:04+00:00

The majority of the people who appear hostile usually feel threatened by your presence. They may give you shit subtly or punch you in the face depending on the situation and location.

Nobody really cares if you have bad posture or a punchable face as long as you don’t take what they are trying to take. In other words you are not competing with them. When was the last time you got defensive when you saw a homeless man on the street? Probably never unless he had a knife and asked you for your money.

I usually subtly flip it on them (or ignore it) which makes them look stupid. They usually just accept that I’m a cool guy and give into my frame.

Last but not least, if you don’t affect those people directly positively or negatively, those people don’t give a damn about you. All the scenarios you think about are only in your head. People probably didn’t even notice you.

Title	Why do some people always trigger hostile responses?
Author	megaghost9
Upvotes	9
Comments	4
Date	September 23, 2018 12:49 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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