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UnclePutin/r/seduction26/09/18 03:39 AM
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UnclePutin/r/seduction07/11/17 10:19 PM
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1) a man creates the perception that he is far less invested in her than he actually is (neediness disguised as non-neediness), You have missed the entire point of Mark Manson's "Models." I suggest you re-read the entire book. There is no creation of any sort of persona. The whole point of his book is that you need to create a genuine and truthful representation of what you really want out of life. If you want a girl, or if you are interested, you should express that desire unappologetically in …
/r/seduction23/11/18 03:36 AM
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You fucking idiots are still using the "natural" argument? It broadcasts your lack of intelligence.
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:04 PM
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If you cannot find a way to be at least partially interested in other people, you will never get what you want in life and you will never have the love that you want.
/r/seduction18/11/18 04:36 PM
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She and her 3 roommates are all saying the same thing, Birds of a feather flock together. I guarantee you that if you are upfront with sex, you'll encounter a lot of girls that are appalled by your behavior because they're expecting something more traditional and relatable. Filter for the girl you want.
/r/seduction18/11/18 08:42 AM
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Are you drunk?
/r/seduction18/11/18 08:38 AM
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What is Step 1 in developing social competence from almost nothing? Rejection and failure. How does one approach alone when almost no one under 40 goes out alone anymore? Doesn't being demonstrably friendless indicate low value? People under 40 don't go out alone? What? Being demonstrably unfriendly demonstrates low value. I could literally go to any given bar and befriend any person I wanted because I recognize one thing: people are interesting and I want to get to know them. Everyone is my fri…
/r/seduction18/11/18 08:32 AM
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Your fallacy is in thinking that all girls are the same. Some girls react positive to one thing, and other girls react positively to another. There is no other answer to this question other than the fact that people aren't entirely similar, and respond differently to different things. What more do you need to know?
/r/seduction18/11/18 08:21 AM
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They're so... simple! They just seem so... shallow. False false false false false. Guys in general are not simple nor shallow and most leave rich and complex inner lives that is the complete antithesis of what you see on the outside. Guys are as insecure, anxious, lonely, and sad as women get. The reason why guys don't show emotion is because they have been through negative conditioning by society (perpetrated by both men and women) to not show it. Hence, the brick wall you encounter.
/r/seduction09/11/18 12:18 AM
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I've been doing pickup for 6 months, but was fucking around (and not in the good way) for 6 years doing things I thought would get me laid or get a date. After 6 years, I finally have a girl who I'm going to ask tonight to be my girlfriend :) The point /u/pentakiller19, is that the only way to ensure your utter failure is to give up. I know it doesn't feel like you can keep going on but believe me, once you let your frustration subside a little, you HAVE to keep trying. Are you just gonna be a l…
/r/seduction09/11/18 12:05 AM
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It depends on how you respond to the comparison, now doesn't it?
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:58 AM
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It's not about what opener you use, it's about the energy behind the opener. I guarantee you that if I were to view your approaches, you would be coming across as a needy and insecure energy. One of my favorite approaches to do is to say something like: "Hi there! I'm single, I have a job, and I'm sober. Want to get married?" When you say that with the right energy, it's fucking hilarious. Girls eat it up because the underlying message is simply funny. It's not about what I say, it's how I say i…
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:57 AM
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The controversial marker is kind of disappointing to me. You mother fuckers have no idea how true this comment is.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:51 AM
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Seriously, what is with this double standard??? I'm a slut. Let girls be sluts too. Everyone benefits.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:50 AM
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This is naive and kind of cute, in a pitiful way. Girls will shit test you by telling you about other guys in their life. That's how it is.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:49 AM
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This is a very common thing that I do, where I pretend to like the guy (in whatever situation) more than her. I'm quite straight, but I've often said "wow, look at THAT guy. I want to fuck the shit out of him." It's never failed me.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:49 AM
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I never endured the kind of childhood abuse that you have (some emotional abuse, but never physical) but I can definitely relate to the fear of making girls feel uncomfortable. One thing that I realized after simply trying to be physical is that if you couple your physicality with a strong understanding of how the girl is responding to your push, her responding negatively is really not that huge of a deal. I've found that when a girl responds negatively to a physical ping, and you recognize that…
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:42 AM
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I can't really tell you because I'm pretty anti-religious. I grew up in a church and pretended to be religious for the longest time but after a while couldn't take it anymore. I tend to avoid religious girls like the plague. I feel like there's just too many rules about how you're supposed to court a Jesus lover. Sorry if that's not helpful, just my initial thoughts.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:33 AM
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My brother, I fucking love you and I want all the happiness for you. This is the first step. You're going to rock it.
/r/seduction04/11/18 03:29 AM
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If you look at a few of the RSD Max in-field videos, you can see that he makes out with some of the girls within just a few minutes of meeting them. However, the key to this all is that he pings where the girl is at, and making out with them is highly situational and depends on how they're feeling at that particular moment. If you can understand this, then certainly you can make out with them at the beginning of the date if the stars align in your favor. The question of "can I make out with her …
/r/seduction31/10/18 08:22 AM
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Observing people perform better than you, coupled with the desire to practice their ways, is the best thing you can do for yourself. It kicks your ass and makes you wonder what the fuck you've been doing with your time.
/r/seduction30/10/18 06:26 AM
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The less experienced men didn't assume anything, and so were able to adapt their style very quickly. Look at this very interesting dichotomy. The less experienced men do better, so you say, yet in our society those less experienced men are also the least likely to meet a new girl. They are also more desirable for me as I know I am one of very few people they have chosen to be with. More desirable to you. Coming from my personal experience and the testimony of pretty much all of the world's top p…
/r/seduction29/10/18 03:52 PM
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Nobody said anything about sex being a one size fits all. I agree you should attempt to understand what each individual woman likes, but the fact of the matter is that the advice of "you just gotta get a girlfriend" is kind of dumb because that's for most people the entire reason for getting into seduction and pickup. Instead of waiting for The OneTM , you can go out and meet lots of women anyway and yes, get practice with sex. You don't like that? Well casual sex is one huge act of using the ot…
/r/seduction29/10/18 12:06 AM
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If I do things to change myself, I will not be authentic anymore. False. Your authentic self may be a pitiful, boring, unmotivated person. You should typically strive to be your authentic self as this creates congruity, but you should absolutely strive to change yourself into a better person. but at the same time I feel that I can act better than that. Better in what way? If it's on your mind, say it. No filters (within reason, you don't want to be blatantly offensive). Yes, it's okay. It really…
/r/seduction28/10/18 08:38 PM
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Lol you think that's one of the worst things that can happen? You need to get rejected more.
/r/seduction28/10/18 07:07 PM
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I mean I wouldn't say it's wrong lol
/r/seduction27/10/18 03:04 PM
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There are so many beautiful women out there my dude. Really, you do not understand that for every beautiful woman you meet, there are 5000 more beautiful women to meet. This girl is not special. She's just another girl. If the conversation isn't going well, I'd say just keep the fact in mind that there are so god damn many other girls in the world dude.
/r/seduction26/10/18 08:58 AM
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It's alright my dude. I've done the exact same thing and I know exactly why you wanted to do it. So as one brother to another, I just want you to know that I understand, but just know you can't do that shit. It sucks but that's the world we live in.
/r/seduction26/10/18 08:40 AM
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All over the place you are conflating the idiosyncrasies of your personality with who you are. Surprisingly, you are not your personality because it is subject to change. Yes, personality is malleable. Likes, dislikes, passions, preferences, are so too. You are not your personality. I have some mental disorders that contribute to this (bipolar disorder ect) so I’m often scatter brained at first. No, don't even mention this. This is nothing. You can train yourself to be other ways. Should I still…
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:38 AM
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but i really want my first sexual experience special No, I'm telling you that this is the wrong mindset to have. It's not that it's morally wrong, but just that you are setting your expectations for sex way too fucking high. You're putting pressure on the woman and you're putting pressure on the situation to be stars and fireworks. That will make her stressed and make you disappointed, respectively. i never had a girlfriend so Neither have I. So? before i become a pickupartist or a fuckboy in co…
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:20 AM
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confident, invulnerable, cocky, flirtatious guy, and you just save all the real shit for your therapist. I am partly responsible for propagating this bullshit. It's not true. You can share with your woman that you have vulnerabilities, but you should do it in a calibrated manner. Read Models by Mark Manson for reference.
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:12 AM
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Oh boy oh boy. You are literally (in the words of Chris Traeger) a carbon copy of myself not even two years ago. You see, this is your first real rejection and the wealth of insecurity and mistakes should be obvious to someone who is lucid to the reality of how this type of thing works, but of course I cannot criticize you because you did the first step and went on a date. Way to go my man. If you want some good ass advice, you should aim to get rejected 10 times more this month because rejectio…
/r/seduction26/10/18 07:10 AM
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Fuck relationships, you need to get experience with many women first. If you want a great woman, you will need to choose her from an abundance of other women so that you can choose the cream of the crop. The only way this will happen is if you become a fucking player who is capable of pulling many different women. Also do not be fooled, relationships will not provide you lasting happiness. It can give you short term dopamine hits, but it will not make you happy. Happiness comes from within, not …
/r/seduction26/10/18 06:47 AM
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What is your question?
/r/seduction26/10/18 06:29 AM
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It's messed up man Put yourself in their shoes. Men react terribly to being rejected all the time. Why would any reasonable woman subject herself to the likelihood of getting a poor reaction when she can just say nothing at all? It may seem messed up to you but look at it from their side and realize you'd do the exact same thing if you were them.
/r/seduction23/10/18 06:19 AM
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I practice general sociability whenever I can. You don't have to be at a nightclub to do this. However I am a full time student and can't afford the time to go out on the weekdays, but I do go out either Friday or Saturday (or both). If I went out during the weekdays, I probably would be able to get enough sleep to be awake enough for class/work.
/r/seduction23/10/18 05:39 AM
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and I refuse to play with a woman's emotion Unfortunately, that's how the game works. If you want to win, you gotta learn how to play.
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:14 AM
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"Only if you give me a kiss" with a smile
/r/seduction19/10/18 04:04 AM
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I agree, too forward and I think you scared her off. My response to "Not if you think you're getting some" would be something funny like: "Don't worry, I'm a kissless virgin." I know you're a father, but the joke doesn't have to be logical. It's just mild self-deprecating humor. The other mistake I think you made is that you were upfront with wanting sex. You have to realize that the woman has to feel as if sex "just happened" and that she didn't explicitly want it to happen. If she explicitly w…
/r/seduction18/10/18 05:10 PM
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Shit tests are actually a very good thing. It's a great sign if a girl gives you shit tests because it means that she's interested on some level and is pinging you to see how confident you are. Girls who aren't interested typically won't shit test you. RSD talks about it a lot. Basically the correct response to a shit test is to not apologize (Her: "you say that to all the girls don't you?" You: "Only the hot ones."), not backtrack, and just laugh it off and see it for what it is: cute in a sort…
/r/seduction18/10/18 05:02 PM
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It solely depends on how she is reacting towards you. Before you hug (unless you just first met), you should already be pinging her with physicality to see how much she likes you. If she's constantly giving me neutral or negative responses to my pings, I'll tone back the physicality and maybe give just a dumb "side-hug." If she's giving me lots of positive responses, I'll give her a huge bear hug and gauge how she reacts while I'm doing it. If she's into it, I continue the bear hug and playfully…
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:56 PM
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You are being a pussy. When I am out hustling, I approach everyone I see. Literally... if I see them and I am not preoccupied with something else (like if I'm not currently talking to someone else), I will approach the first person I see. Yes, this means both men, women, fat, short, tall, skinny, ugly, beautiful, stereotypical, white, brown, green. The reason why is because you will get stuck in a downward loop if you only approach people who meet all your check marks. You will start making excu…
/r/seduction18/10/18 04:52 PM
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In general, getting a number is not that huge of an accomplishment. Girls will often give their number just to be polite and avoid the awkwardness of saying "no" to you, so giving you their number means almost nothing. Also, making a girl laugh is again not that huge of a deal because if you practice it enough, you should make everyone you interact with laugh. What do you guys think I'm doing wrong with my cold approaches? Probably nothing. The fact that you're approaching is good, but you have …
/r/seduction10/10/18 04:15 AM
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Realize that getting fit only gets a foot in the door, and nothing else.
/r/seduction07/10/18 06:51 AM
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I have to say this is quite the paradigm shift for me, I'm gonna have to keep this in mind for the future. Thank you so much for sharing you sexy animal.
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:54 AM
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This is fucking hilarious. How well does this actually work for you? I could imagine some of the girls getting pretty pissed off, although I still see the amazing humor in this because it's so awesome.
/r/seduction04/10/18 03:07 AM
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Yes it definitely is. It means she's thinking of you in a sexual way, which is a very good thing.
/r/seduction03/10/18 11:38 PM
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Fuck yeah Illinois! We got corn and soybean, but not much else.
/r/seduction03/10/18 03:24 AM
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Shit sorry for the late reply, meant to respond to this but forgot. The two are not mutually exclusive. I am definitely going to be the river of good vibes because it's honestly just fun when you can conjure fun and positivity out of nowhere. It makes you more likable. It's a good thing when women know that there are other women in your life. Certainly the ultimate goal for myself is to choose one woman, but I will find the best woman for me by meeting hundreds and hundreds of others.
/r/seduction03/10/18 03:19 AM
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I fucking love it when I see women practice game and seduction because it's commonly seen as a male-only thing, but it really isn't. I want to say that there is no reason for you to be lonely because you should be joining groups and making friends with people. A partner should not be the only thing keeping you from loneliness. Of course we are all lonely from time to time no matter what, but in general it should be independent of your relationship status. Ultimately, this life is all you've got …
/r/seduction03/10/18 02:52 AM
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Depends on what actually happened. Generally I would say apologize, but don't expect or ask for anything in return. Apologies that are attached to an ulterior motive are not apologies.
/r/seduction02/10/18 11:06 PM
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After doing game seriously for about 6 months now (still a newbie I'd say), but spending the previous 5 years of my life desperately improving that life, the core principle about game that I have learned can be summarized thus: Game is not about the girl. What is game actually about? To summarize the hundreds of hours of practice and dozens of books I've read on the topic, what I've learned is that ultimately you will never get the girl until you don't actually need the girl. Right now, I am so …
/r/seduction02/10/18 11:01 PM
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Wow, this is a lot for me to grasp. It's really rare for girls to give their affection out so easily. Bro, she was literally the one trying to pull you! I don't really know what else to say other than you just need to realize that kissing girls is not a huge deal. It's a fuck ton of fun and I guarantee you that it will feel natural to you when you do it. You will never have it so fucking easy as you did with this girl. Like someone else said, your fear of failure is greater than your desire for …
/r/seduction02/10/18 10:37 PM
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Indicators of interest.
/r/seduction02/10/18 10:23 PM
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Echkart Tolle calls the "Dark Passenger" the Pain Body. They're talking about the same thing. I would strongly recommend people read The Power of Now to understand the pain body better. This topic is only one of many in the book, but it ties in with everything else the book discusses.
/r/seduction26/09/18 04:09 AM
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Whoever says that is so embarrassingly mistaken about how women think. The implicit message you have to always send to women is that you have an abundance of women to choose from and that you have lots of sex.
/r/seduction25/09/18 09:15 PM
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On a semi-related note that I discovered, you mother fuckers need to get yourselves some pictures of you with girls in it. Pictures where you are in the center of a group of girls, and more importantly girls who look like they're enjoying your company. I did this recently and was shocked to see how much of a difference it made in my match count. I've even had more girls straight up propositioning me for sex now. This is easy to do if you go out to the clubs and practice your pickup game, just be…
/r/seduction25/09/18 06:59 PM
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What is the point of this post?
/r/seduction23/09/18 09:51 PM
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The other 1% just hate my fucking face. Likely this tells me it's nothing wrong with what you're doing, but rather you just found that person when they were in a negative mood.
/r/seduction23/09/18 09:48 PM
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That is fine. The only point I'm making is that your answer shouldn't cause negative emotions in the interaction. For instance if you get defensive when she asks that, that's bad. The best response is humor, like saying you're a virgin or you've been with 1000 girls.
/r/seduction10/09/18 03:40 PM
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This is not good advice. If you completely avoid saying anything, you'll come across as hiding something. You should at the very minimum respond with humor. I do agree though that you shouldn't give a logical, exact number of how many you've been with, but you also should not feel insecure about your number, whether it be low or high.
/r/seduction10/09/18 03:24 PM
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Literally what is this shit hahahahaha. What the actual fuck, my dude. This is the most pathetic thing I've read all month.
/r/seduction10/09/18 12:34 AM
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I tend to use exaggerated humor, so I'll say something like 500 girls.
/r/seduction09/09/18 06:13 PM
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Some general seduction pro tips for you: Move out of your parents house. Especially move out of a Christian house. Hit the gym and find your passions in life. Pursue both things relentlessly. If you're gonna be a Christian, then don't get wrapped up in the prudish, white knight, no sex before marriage bull shit.
/r/seduction03/09/18 06:07 AM
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There are probably multiple ways to look at this. I'll show you my way. I have been working out for 5 years and have become very, very muscular and fit. The reason why I did this is because I hated how I looked and wanted to feel good about myself. I have just about maximized the attractiveness of the body I was born with so I'm happy with myself now. I'm not the most attractive man ever, but I can say for sure that I've done about everything I can to be as attractive as possible. It is because …
/r/seduction03/09/18 05:48 AM
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Took the words out of my mouth. One of the things in my life I've been trying to do is to appreciate what I have now and not fall into the trap of the grass always being greener. In general it allows me to life a more content life and to not get upset about things I don't have. I want a girlfriend very badly but I'm learning to appreciate the freedom of being single right now. The single life has its ups and downs, the coupled life has its ups and downs. It's simply a value call on which state y…
/r/seduction01/09/18 05:59 PM
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My second opinion is that a like with no reply is worse than just texting "lol." It is such low effort that it's barely distinguishable from not replying in any way at all.
/r/seduction03/07/18 05:08 AM
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Agreed, my first reaction was a visceral one. My soul is in an eternal state of cringe after reading how pathetic this is.
/r/seduction27/06/18 10:57 PM
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It appears to be a paradox but it's really not. Social interactions are a skill that you can practice, and although practicing it when you're bad can in fact be draining, once you understand how they work and the general patterns behind it, it begins to feel more natural. It's literally like anything else. If you want to play guitar, it's going to suck the first few months because you don't know anything. After a while, you're able to play real music without much thought.
/r/seduction27/06/18 07:24 PM
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The focus should not be on "being the life of the party" or being everyone's friend. Those who are the life of the party have a very certain mindset, and that mindset is to have fun, be open, and be friendly with people. It's very hard to have the energy sucked out of you when you're having fun and connecting with people. If you are an introvert (like me) who often finds yourself being drained of energy in social interactions, it's because you're not doing it right. You're being drained because …
/r/seduction27/06/18 02:57 PM
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Of course my own stomping ground is a night club or some bar with lots of music. Normally I have to work up the sexual tension, but you've already got that so unless you're a moron, you can't go wrong.
/r/seduction27/06/18 02:59 AM
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As a man? No, never. A woman's idea of "approaching" is making subtle hints that she wants you to talk to her. That's just how it is. In that regard, I can usually interpret these hints and act on them if I feel like it.
/r/seduction26/06/18 09:10 PM
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Yeah I was completely shocked when I heard her say that. For a second I thought I misunderstood her. I don't expect that kind of reaction a lot though, I think I just found a girl who was unusually sexually forward.
/r/seduction24/06/18 05:36 PM
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It's definitely not too late. I think the types of venues you should go to will be a little different than a young guy like me. I go to a lot of college bars where most girls are around 20-21. I think you'd need to go to actual clubs where the crowd is maybe more mid to late twenties. You can befriend and date whoever you want, but you may have luck with women who are late twenties onward. RSD Owen is 35 I think, is balding, isn't all that attractive, and yet he still rocks that shit.
/r/seduction23/06/18 11:55 PM
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Yeah I know some people too. Honestly I think sometimes a drunk girl would be totally fine with you the next day but you always gotta err on the side of caution, you know? She was at a point where it was clear she could not make rational decisions so I thought I'd just pass. Then again maybe she was only going for me because she was drunk but hey, gotta start somewhere lol. I don't have any specific ones I could pull up right now but I'm a big fan of the infield breakdowns. Unfortunately a lot o…
/r/seduction23/06/18 08:05 PM
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Thanks man! I wouldn't say that I know what I'm doing, but I'm definitely learning. Tonight was the clearest signal I've ever received that I'm doing something right. I had a good night four weeks ago at the same bar, so the fact I've done it twice know kind of proves to myself that it probably wasn't just a coincidence. It seems like you hold on to eye contact even more than me. I definitely didn't realize the power of it before but it does seem to work. Keep at it man, and if there's any other…
/r/seduction23/06/18 03:43 PM
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Damn, thank you so much for writing this. I really needed to hear this. I've been pretty damn depressed with approaching women, it's very interesting to hear that just focusing on being happy and having fun is attractive to people.
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:28 AM
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And thus I declare to the world: fuck everything.
/r/seduction15/06/18 04:56 AM
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"yeah I'm free this Sunday, I enjoyed hanging out with you the other day" Is exactly what you should say. It's not clingy at all. You had fun, so state it unapologetically.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:19 AM
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Owen often talks about how attractiveness plays into the seduction game, and what causes a woman to be attracted to you. If you look at his videos, he always makes fun of himself as being a balding, aging ginger. And it's true. He's not who you would think of as being a player, but he's so charismatic that it doesn't matter. I hope you give it another try because there is a lot of wisdom in there :)
/r/seduction10/06/18 04:54 PM
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Have you ever seen videos by Owen (RSD Tyler)? He is not a good looking man. I appreciate your point of view but saying it doesn't apply to you is kind of a cop out.
/r/seduction10/06/18 03:51 PM
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First, I shouldn't imply all women when I say "women", but what I'm explaining is something that is likely the majority of women. Women LOVE it when they feel a man is capable of easily getting other women. They HATE it when the man is predictable and always does what they want, who is a "knight in shining armor." You hear men who've been cheated on lament all the time "but I treat her like a princess!" Well that's exactly their problem, they put them on a pedestal and treated them like a prince…
/r/seduction08/06/18 10:45 PM
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Amendment: if she's being a cunt to you, and won't stop, leave her for some other girl. Don't even waste time being a dick.
/r/seduction08/06/18 06:14 PM
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RSD really does work. I've never bought any of their products (so fucking expensive) but I drink from their YouTube channel like a fire hose, mainly Max and Owen. I've been able to glean enough of what the main points are that I feel I probably don't need to buy anything from them. The main elucidation was in how women actually think. I'm a fucking retard when it comes to women, and I feel RSD helped me understand where women are coming from. In fact, last weekend was the first time I ever made …
/r/seduction07/06/18 11:40 PM
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OP needs Jesus.
/r/seduction06/06/18 12:52 AM
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Going to the gym hurts me too, but you won't see me bitch about that. Your pain is irrelevant because it is bound to happen. You're in pain because you tried to connect with a human being. You're in pain because you are a human being. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/seduction05/06/18 10:52 PM
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This is pretty solid advice. I used to be needy and I put women on a pedestal all the time. After I realized how shitty, cruel, and just downright nasty women can be, how dumb their bullshit is, it made me realize that women should only be here to amuse me, never to "complete" my life. Another epiphany I had was when I started to really talk to women, I realize just how many beautiful women there are out there in the world. If this chick won't text me back, I'm hardly phased because I know I can…
/r/seduction05/06/18 06:06 PM
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Yeah I'm bad at this :'(
/r/seduction05/06/18 05:48 PM
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Right, lots of computer programming. I get to program on some of the largest supercomputers in the world.
/r/seduction04/06/18 03:03 PM
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Bro you're way above the vast majority of men already. Girls love you. Thanks for sharing my man!
/r/seduction04/06/18 02:16 PM
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I'm a climate science research programmer :)
/r/seduction04/06/18 05:05 AM
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Your approach seemed kind of weird to me but her response was easily one of the most mature and friendly ways to let a guy down. Shit dude if all my rejections acted like that towards me, rejection wouldn't feel so bad.
/r/seduction04/06/18 03:51 AM
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What these women do not realize is that men become "fuckboys" precisely because that seems to be the only way to reliably attract women. Being a goodie two shoes who just wants everyone to get along is not a sexually attractive man. The vast majority of women are guilty of not understanding this on an intellectual level. They often don't realize that the guys who are actually worth keeping are typically not the loud, forward, hyper confident sex machines they find in night clubs. OP is right, it…
/r/seduction03/06/18 11:43 PM
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People hate it because people hate being proven wrong, so if you want to get on people's good side, don't ever point out their mistakes (unless there are extenuating circumstances). You can either be right, or you can be liked.
/r/seduction02/06/18 03:27 AM
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Nope, don't ever point fingers. You have to realize that women are slut shamed all the time, and when you say things like "oh but you started it," it makes them feel guilty. Also don't ever say you're a gentleman. That's one step away from tipping a fedora. Tell her how you feel, that you'd love to have sex, but you'd also love to meet with her more, and most importantly, don't ever try to justify or qualify yourself (i.e. "I'm such a gentleman!") to her. Be unapologetic in everything you do. If…
/r/seduction02/06/18 02:48 AM
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When a girl gives you shit saying things like "oh you only want to use me for sex," the incorrect response is to minimize how much you want to have sex. This is in fact a classic shit test. You should say something like this: "of course I want to have sex with you, I mean look at you. You're fucking gorgeous. But I'm not going to pressure you to do anything you don't want to." That is an attractive response, because it shows security. It also shows the woman that sex for you is a positive thing …
/r/seduction02/06/18 02:39 AM
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The excuse that she lost her phone and doesn't use any social media has exactly a 94.3% chance of being complete bullshit. That's a lazy excuse for why she didn't respond to you. She didn't respond to you because she didn't feel like it, she wasn't interested, or whatever reason it may be. She didn't lose her phone, and even if she did, she would have gotten another one pretty shortly after she lost it. Also, her giving you a fucking email address is about one step away from her outright saying …
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:21 AM
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There are a million resources, and a million different opinions. Personally, one of my favorite pickup artists is RSD Max. He breaks down a lot of how the female brain works, signs to look for, how and when to escalate, etc.
/r/seduction30/05/18 02:07 AM
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Even though I am a staunch atheist, I can't help but find the beauty in some religious passages. “Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on…
/r/seduction20/04/18 06:16 AM
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I disagree. If she hurt my ego, I would be similarly upset if she rejected me because she genuinely wasn't interested. I respect those cases. I don't get upset when people feel that way. It's when people actually do want to be with me but play stupid mind games, playing "hard to get", that I feel is disrespectful towards my time and energy. I really don't have the energy to determine whether someone is actually not interested or if they're just playing games. I tend to take words and actions at …
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:07 PM
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Our ideas of fun are very different. I've got better things to do with my time than navigating around someone who won't be upfront.
/r/seduction05/01/18 03:10 AM
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Oh believe me, those girls exist. None of them are worth being with, but they exist.
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:11 AM
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Lol if a woman rejects me because she wants to test my reaction, she can fuck right off. I'd lose all respect for her if she did that, though I will still respect that decision if they genuinely weren't interested. I don't tolerate shit tests.
/r/seduction05/01/18 02:07 AM
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I was going to ask why any of your parents have to know where you are in the first place, but you guys are 15 and that seems pretty normal for parents to do. Pro tip, your parents don't have to know. You don't need to ask permission to hang out with someone.
/r/seduction05/01/18 01:37 AM
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How old is she? 12?
/r/seduction04/01/18 06:56 AM
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What you are doing is narcissistic and manipulative. You should have no notion of "punishing" people who don't do what you want, that is abusive and if you carry that selfish mindset into an actual relationship, you're going to end up hurting the people you care most about. Your actions have consequences so don't be surprised when your shitty behavior isolates you from the love you could be experiencing.
/r/seduction09/11/17 10:49 PM
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I feel like the second half of what you said is still relevant whether or not experience is the goal. It would still be a shitty thing to do to her, would it not?
/r/seduction08/11/17 03:53 PM
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Thank you for this. I think I just needed someone to talk me out of the selfish side of me. You are right that it's tempting to be able to say I have a girlfriend, especially considering how lonely I feel, but I will just have hold out and believe you when you say it's worth it.
/r/seduction08/11/17 06:48 AM
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I mean it's a nice gesture, doesn't necessarily mean she's super into you, but at the same time she might be. This statement is true and applicable for literally every single interaction with women. Nothing is certain but death and taxes.
/r/seduction05/11/17 08:40 PM
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Maybe not true for you, but I'm just saying that many people classify any sex whereby either party is intoxicated as rape, because the intoxicated individual cannot legally consent.
/r/seduction02/11/17 05:24 AM
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The way I've heard it described is that the one who is less invested always holds the power. I suppose that's true, although the corollary would be that you have the most power when you don't allow yourself to be invested in anyone, and that seems to be self defeating.
/r/seduction01/11/17 06:10 PM
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If the roles were reversed where the woman was drunk and had sex with someone who she later regretted having sex with, this would be considered rape. Not relevant to your question OP but I thought I'd point this out.
/r/seduction01/11/17 05:41 PM
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As someone who is pretty wary of toxic redpill culture and who doesn't post on this sub very often, you just gave me an extremely good impression of this sub. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:06 AM
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Do you have any good links on the comfort aspect?
/r/seduction11/10/17 06:55 AM
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This is the correct answer. You cannot force people to be attracted to you. If she wanted to spend more time with you, she'd respond. One message is enough.
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:21 AM
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You might still have a chance as long as you're the girl in the relationship.
/r/seduction21/09/17 04:07 PM
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I am going to one up you :P I've been working out for over 4 years, I am extremely talented, I love my life, my job, my passions, and still girls won't so much as look my way. So I can confirm that focusing on your own life is not a magic pill.
/r/seduction21/09/17 03:47 PM
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So we're cool with blatant racism and sexism now?
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 02:49 PM
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You're saying you want women and minorities to be unable to vote again? Come on now, you don't seriously believe that do you?
/r/MGTOW14/04/17 06:39 AM
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Or better yet, get the body that YOU want and fuck anyone that doesn't like it. It's much more important to be happy with yourself than to pander to what other people want. Of course there can be a balance between the two but if you want to be a muscular god, fucking go for it.
/r/seduction12/07/15 12:21 AM
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Maybe I should move to Germany.
/r/seduction11/07/15 11:44 PM
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I'm sorry, but where is this rule that says you can't show your true emotions to your woman?
/r/seduction05/07/15 01:51 AM
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The thing that frustrates me so much is that I have to force myself to be someone I'm not just so that a girl will be interested in me. That's what fucking pisses me off about this whole thing, I can't just be myself because women apparently aren't attracted to someone that is honest about their weaknesses, doubts, anxieties etc. I have to pretend that I'm some invincible superman that in reality doesn't exist anywhere. Sorry, just my thoughts.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:43 PM
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