Why do we need all of this information?

rmbarnes · 2009-12-28T18:26:09+00:00

"If ordinary guys get laid why do I need all this information?"

Without even reading the article (I will do), I can already answer this question. There are 3 main points:

1. Ordinary guys don't get laid nearly as often as they'd like.

I read that the average number of partners that the average western man has in his lifetime is about 12. I'm only 27 and have already doubled that number, and it still doesn't feel like I've gotten laid nearly enough (maybe I just have a high sex drive, even for a man?).

Let's examine that number. Say men start being sexually active at 16, but stop having any more partners when they hit 28 and meet partner number 12 and get married to them.So that leaves 11 partners in 12 years (16-28). Lets say 2 of those 11 partners are from LTR, during which the men are faithful. Now lets say the two LTRs combined last 4 years. That leaves them 5 years of being single and sexually active, during which time they will have 9 sexual partners (12 - wife - two LTRs = 9).

I'm gonna make a bit of a leap and say those 9 partners are one night stands, or at most very brief flings. This means that our ordinary guy gets laid around 1.8 times a year. Lets round it up to 2. That mean's the average single guy gets laid once every 6 months. How many guys are happy with just getting laid that often (also this assumes a regular frequency of getting laid, when in reality there are likely to be long sexually droughts followed by getting laid a couple of times in rapid succession).

Also the figure 12 is average. Many men will be way worse off than this. I know a good few guys who didn't get laid till like the second year of university (when they were 20). They are now the same age as me and I'd guess they've only had around 6 sexual partners (I could be wrong about this though).

This is far short of what the 'ordinary' guy wants, so therefore he needs game. I think most guys, when single (or though polygamy ftw) would like around a dozen sexual partners a year. So an ordinary guy would like the number of partners he will probably have in his lifetime in 1 year. So he really needs game.

2: Guys often end up massively dropping their standards in order to get laid.

I've been there a good few times myself. You end up in bed with some fatty who you know just isn't hot enough for you because it's either that or you and you're right hand for possibly months to come. Guys need game in order to get laid with beautiful women, rather than just getting laid. Mystery recommends not trying to pick up and women who are less than a 6, and some accomplished PUAs (who without game may struggle to even pick up 6s) will only go after 7+ or even 8+. Game increases not just the quantity, but also the quality of pussy a man can obtain.

3: Men often get completely walked over by their gfs in order to get semi regular sex.

I'm sure you all know what I mean, and that the phrase "pussy whipped" will bring back some uncomfortable memories of how friends of yours have acted once they've got a gf.

I'm sure you've all had strong minded friends, who like to have a good time, celebrate their masculinity and will openly disagree with someone they think is wrong. Then they get a gf. Suddenly their behaviour becomes much more restrained. They act like farting the national anthem isn't cool any more. They never openly disagree with their gf, even when something is being said that you know they really disagree with. Thier gf often treats them like shit, but yet they don't ever call her out on it, yet if you act the least bit frat boy-esque in his gfs presence, he'll bemoan you for it in front of her, even though as soon as she's gone he'll act that way to. In short they become like little puppy dogs on a very short leash. A man who is no longer true to himself. So you ask him why he acts that way. He tells you if he doesn't, she might with hold sex from him.

Game can stop men being emasculated in this way. Most men think pussy is scarce and that there are an abundance of high quality men. Game teaches us that the reverse is true. This subtle shift in mind set is picked up upon very easily by women. A woman dating a man with good game is shown that he wont tolerate her BS. She knows instinctively that if she constantly tries to control and disrespect him he'll end up fucking her younger sister (probably in the ass) and leave her crying on some LJBF'd beta boy's shoulder.

So men need game to not become pathetic shells of a man when they're in a relationship.

2009-12-28T12:49:54+00:00

Excellent description of why men need pickup and game. Great link.

rmbarnes · 2010-01-02T09:28:24+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/AskReddit/comments/akn2b/did_anyone_else_not_get_laid_even_once_in_2009/

Title	Why do we need all of this information?
Author	psykocrime
Upvotes	12
Comments	6
Date	December 28, 2009 10:14 AM UTC (16 years ago)
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