Yo y'all! So learning game looks like a great thing to do for the rest of my life (j turned 22). Having trouble getting motivated though and i think my reason is very common and hopefully y'all can relate and offer advice :)

So I don't have trouble understanding the theories and techniques (all v straightforward and logical), have no problem going out, applying them, dealing with rejection, evaluating and tweaking my approach, learning from the mistakes, the usual. The whole process makes sense and works just fine.

The issue arises when I actually go out and do it; it feels like I'm just playing a videogame, w no purpose other than to win. It's very dull - "Apply this technique here, gesture here, say this here, gauge her reaction aftwerwards", etc. Even the 'getting real' part after opening and teasing feels meh. It's all just to get to the next stage.

Im sorta lost as to what I should do. It seems so right, like why wouldn't you want to better yourself, have the strong emotional connection, fuck, basically j live your life to the fullest? You should be happy doing it, but I don't. Whatch y'all think?