You see it every day.

“If I say this line, I’ll feel like a creeper.”

“If I walk over there she might be busy, and she’ll think I’m a creeper.”

“If I make eye contact, she might tell her friends I’m a creeper.

“How do I escalate kino without being a creeper?

“If I look at her Instagram pics, is that being a creeper?”

Blah. Blah. And fucking blah…… This is all complete BULLSHIT.

Newsflash gentlemen: It’s OK to approach women. It’s OK to talk to them.

Lines are NOT creepy. Walking up to a girl you’re interested in is NOT creepy.

Making eye contact with another fucking human being you want to talk to is NOT creepy.

Looking at photos of a chick -- who btw put them there SO PEOPLE WOULD LOOK AT THEM -- is not creepy.

You know what IS creepy?

YOU’RE FUCKING CREEPY.

You’re mindset is fucking creepy.

And what does “creepy” mean when you really think about it? It means only one of two things:

  • Either you’re too nervous.
  • Or you’re too nice.

That’s it. Those are the only two choices.

Imagine if you worked in a store and some dude was like:

“Um….excuse me sir.” He eyes were looking at the floor, his feet were slightly pigeon-toed, his hands were stuffed deep in his pockets. “Do you know where...uh....the toilet paper is at?”

You’d think: This guy’s fucking creepy. Probably needs the full 36-pack to clean up all that spooge dribbling down his knuckles on the daily.

And what makes him creepy? Is it the actual question he asked? No. There’s nothing inherently wrong with asking where the fucking toilet paper is located.

What makes him creepy is he’s acting nervous as fuck.

What if he was overly nice? Like:

“Oh thank you so much. I really appreciate a fine and knowledgeable gentlemen who knows where all the important bathroom articles are stocked in this wonderful store. You’re really doing an excellent job as an employee.”

What would you think? Yep: Creepy as fuck.

And why? Because he’s being overly nice. To the point where it makes you feel weird.

The feelings a women gets when you are overly nervous or overly nice ARE EXACTLY THE SAME FEELINGS you get reading those examples.

So quit fucking thinking like that.

Everyday there are posts on this sub about Mindset. They all tell you what you should do. Rarely do they tell you what not to do.

So before you become some strutting, alpha, dominant, endless conversation making, panties dripping with your eye contact, magnetic stud, start by expelling the word “creepy” from your vocabulary.

It does you no good to think about everything in seduction in the context of “might be creepy.” When you do that, guess what happens when you finally sack up and try to approach a girl? Yep, your body language, vocal tone and everything else comes across as...creepy. All because your mindset is creepy.

And finally, remember that seducing women is not only necessary for the survival of our species, it’s also fun, exciting, exhilarating and well….just a damn fucking good time!

Unless of course you’re a creepy motherfucker.