Ask yourself, did you provide value?

That girl that you only had eye contact with her and talked a bit on Facebook and Twitter, and you even made her 'hahaha' a couple of times? That you asked on a date, but cancelled? Yeah, you really provided no value.

That girl at the club that you only grinded with for 10 minutes and then kissed? But she didn't want to date you? Yeah, you didn't provide value there neither.

I could go on and on, but the thing is, you have to provide value. Why would she want someone that wouldn't provide any value for her? That wouldn't make her life better than without you? You have to provide value, value she wouldn't normally get, delivered with confidence.

This is in essence what gets you the girl, and leaves her with a craving for you. Without this, you'll never get the girl.

If you want to provide value, and haven't for some fucking reason read the sidebar yet, read this:

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/11yjkw/above_the_game_part_2_fundamentals_of_attraction/