How would I go about withholding attention without ghosting outright over text? I’ve gone on 3 outings with this girl and mutual friends. The first two times, she was interested in me. This latest time, she pulled back and bit and I made the mistake of pushing forward (I know 🙄), so now it is obvious that I like her. How can I regain my frame and set up another outing (where I’d appear less interested so that she’ll chase) without outright ghosting her?