when I get dates and lovers, it is because one of us is feeling the other, and the other person is into it, or open to it. Doesn't actually take much game or convincing.

I am not so good at turning unresponsive ladies into lovers. That kind of seems like the entire point of this sub.

What do you differently? Like if somebody is clearly not feeling you, is there any point to continuing? I tend to think.... no

I guess the distinction is, is it your physicality or your communication style that they are not feeling?