The worst dating advice you will ever get is the age old quote of "Be Yourself." For one, if everyone followed this advice then there would be no appetite for personal growth. I have a distinct feeling that you are on this page to learn how to improve your skills with females, and if they are self-admittedly subpar then motivate yourself to do better as opposed to accepting meritocracy.

I challenge you to ignore the advice of "Be Yourself," and improve your life to become what you want to be.