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[–]Hooosreddit 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
If you phrase it like that. Yes. If you ask her to grab a coffee after work or whatever. No.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
so like ask her if she wants to go to starbucks or something like that?
[–]Hooosreddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
Well do you want to go to Starbucks with her?
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
i mean it’s just an idea but yea sure
[–]Hooosreddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
Why ?
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
why what
[–]Hooosreddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
Why do you want to go to Starbucks with her?
[–]Zave__ 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
i thought she was really cute
[–]Hooosreddit 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
You want to go to Starbucks with every really cute woman?
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
well get to know her
[–]Hooosreddit1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
So if she says she doesn't want to go grab a coffee what would that tell you about her?
[–]Zave__1 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
that she’s probably not into me
Depending of how she said so: yes.
So regardless of her answer you would get to know her well enough?
perhaps as friends then i guess
No I didn't mean that. I meant: whatever she answered you would get to know her to the point that you know wether you are compatible or not?
[–]Lazlo25 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
With people in places you frequent (like your job and school), I would usually try to establish a flirty vibe, and at least some decent comfort (more than a few conversations worth) before making a move, because if they say no, unlike in cold approach, you’ll have to deal with the awkwardness for the rest of your time there.
Of course if you want to ask her out anyway, you want to make the request seem as casual as possible.
[–]Zave__ 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
we’ve had a few decent conversations so far so i think i’m good there
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