Just a reminder that Ls are more than okay. As long as you’re putting yourself out there, as long as you’re making an effort to actively learn and better yourself, getting rejected, walking away empty-handed isn’t just okay, it’s part of the game. Don’t let it discourage you.

Of course you wanna succeed, of course you wanna get her number, get the hookup. But for me, taking an L is invigorating because I’m reminded, humbled, of just how much I have left to learn. Let it push you, drive you, ground you. And then let it go.