What's good people

Currently, 20M and have a 0 all over and pretty bad receding hairline. Any tips or experiences you guys have for dealing with this. I have pretty intermittent confidence with girls. Some nights I pull, some I barely even find the courage to open because I feel like I look out of place in the club with no hair (basically really self-conscious some times).

I know conceptually game has less to do with looks and more to do with confidence and social dynamics. I just don't feel that way when I'm actually infield and I'm standing near massive confident 6'4 jocks with good game and full heads of hair. I'm trying my best not to frame this as a competition as I know it's all about making the most of what I have. I have a good personality and I'm funny and reasonably good looking.

I guess what I'm asking is, does anyone have any frames, techniques etc that helped them rise above physical insecurities and actually build their confidence up in social settings such as clubs and bars?