[Discussion] Empresses vs Moids

DM-ME-CATS · 2019-11-04T20:11:49+00:00

Its about the same but different if that makes sense. Both genders come to the table with baggage it's just different types. It's person to person on trustworthiness ect. I've dated pretty evenly between both genders and honestly most people suck but thats just how it be.

Tbf tho I'm never worried about being murdered or being decimated by domestic violence (it still happens in same sex relationships but you're normally around the same power level) by women, so there's that.

reddituser39682 · 2019-11-04T21:36:35+00:00

I've dated women before and it didn't work out. The difference between them and the men though is that I wasn't mentally damaged after the relationship ended. Most of the time it ended amicably and I didn't have hard feelings toward them.

In contrast, zero men I've ever dated have left a lasting good impression on me. They've ALL left me worse off in the end than I would've been had I never met them.

birchbeared · 2019-11-04T21:57:30+00:00

It really depends. I tend to favor partners in terms of cleanliness / similar interests / empathy / not a scrub / matching libido. I can find moids and women meet those standards. The difficulty lies in that I like femme women who look a particular way and it's hard to find girls who are my type aesthetically and also meet the above criteria. I also live in kind of a small town, so lesbian / bi girl dating pools are miniscule.

The few women I've dated have all been great, except for libido. Always way lower than mine, and that's just a fundamental mismatch for long term relationships. For moids, the usual discordance lies in the cleanliness (completely useless with chores even when a moid says he's "tidy", always require delegation and basically chore chart mommying which is Infuriating), empathy levels (but my problems! they're more important. they want sacrifice from you but won't do the same back or they're literally codependent and want you to be their therapist)

and finances (It's feminist to go dutch now don't you know (even when they're way more wealthy than you), expecting you to pay more for things, all the things that fall under the no scrubs umbrella .) The only thing they can offer that women can't is the capacity for kids, which sucks. If I had to chose only one for life though, girls all the way. The ease of daily life and just day-to-day chores, issues, discussions, safety and comfort > better with other women.

Title	[Discussion] Empresses vs Moids
Author	Aigonorus
Upvotes	9
Comments	13
Date	November 4, 2019 7:39 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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