‘Nuff said.

2340000 · 2020-04-01T17:11:41+00:00

I wish men (and the majority of society) would believe this and stop ABUSING people when they want better or someone different.

When I was with my ex, and very blind to abuse, I asked to spend more time together and for him to call. Both he never did. In response to my requests he called me negative. Told me I had unhealthy expectations of him. That I was constantly criticizing him. He was vindictive sexually and repeatedly gaslit me. Why abuse me that much when you could just say, "hey I'm not willing to give what you want. We shouldn't be dating"

Is that so hard? Apprarently it is for the millions of narcissists who'd rather abuse/manipulate/gaslight people they KNOW are too good for them. And if you leave it triggers them and suddenly they're all over you. I'm so done.

TheOGJammies · 2020-04-01T16:21:31+00:00

Men spend a lifetime trying to convince or bully us into thinking otherwise

gursky0 · 2020-04-01T19:14:29+00:00

If you're not getting what you want out of a relationship, you need to walk away. You will never get it from him. Asking him to treat you with care and respect, again and again and again, won't change anything. Wish I'd learned this a year ago.

Title	‘Nuff said.
Author	BasieSkanks
Upvotes	273
Comments	14
Date	April 1, 2020 4:20 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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