I know some on here don't do OLD at all, but I wanted to share this.
This has likely been talked about before, but I wanted to emphasize the attitude that an FDS-inclined woman would take (as I see it) to dating profiles.
If a man has a certain limit to the amount of pictures he can post, the pictures he does post speaks volumes about him. The pictures he uses always speaks volumes, tbh.
When there's another woman in the picture (who's dressed up/etc. and isn't related) I think of it as a sign that the man sees women as status symbols or as objects to flatter themselves and make themselves look better. I've never talked to a high quality man who had pictures like this on his profile. Additionally, high value men have friends that are women because they can see them as people. I don't trust men who don't think men and women can be friends.
Same goes for any comments about women or relationships in general. He had everything to choose from and he chose that? That's how I evaluate.
Same goes for any negativity or excessive positivity. Shows lack of effort, unresolved interpersonal issues, or intellectual delays.
Anyone who uses the phrase "_____ or nah?" or emphasises a need to establish attraction some other way right off the bat is a no.
One guy also made a joke that he didn't have his make up on before we were about to hop on a brief video chat and I knew it was over right then too.
There's a lot to sort through! The faster, the better.
However, I've found that I want my own profile and attitude to be generally engaging and positive. I don't need all the LVM to throw my profile off for the ones who might count. (As in, putting some snarky comment or adding excessive qualifiers for the kind of men I'm looking for)
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