Can...be a MGHOW?

JStheHammer · 2016-10-09T20:52:19+00:00

Welcome buddy.

nexus974 · 2016-10-09T23:23:46+00:00

Why wouldn't you be welcome?

Klimthourglass · 2016-10-09T20:50:56+00:00

Of course. But friends are overrated. Most of my best friends are getting married or into serious relationships these days and they always leave you behind for the bluepill life. Finding friends who are actually worth maintaining relationships with is a hard task.

I lost my best friend of 4 years to a girl he met online less than 6 months ago several countries away who he's planning to move away to and marry. It's just what happens. My new best friend is also in a relationship but shares a lot of MGTOW beliefs; I feel like if he gets out of his current relationship he'll probably GHOW. Tbh, as much as I cherish the memories I'd probably be better if I didn't waste so much time on all the friends who've dropped off over the years for girls.

You can never tell when they're going to flip into full bluepill mode, even when they seem redpilled. Half the time I feel like I sold my soul to the devil when my friends starting falling over girls, so you have to be careful, too. When it's just the guys and you're bullshittin', you'll inevitably starting talking about girls and exchange thoughts on relationships, etc. 99% of the time when a guy is single he'll be in redpill mode and say how he never wants to marry and all that, then you agree and tell him your thoughts "fuck women, amirite". But then guess what. The next day he tells you he met a girl in a country on the other side of the globe on some international dating site and they're official now and he can't be friends with you anymore because you're an extreme mysoginist. Gotta be careful, I've been there and it sucks.

vonEschenbach · 2016-10-09T21:08:48+00:00

Nope, the 1st rule of MGTOW is that you MUST conform. Please close the door behind you /s

blue_magoo_62 · 2016-10-10T02:14:26+00:00

are you kidding, you could well be the leader with those credentials. that is if there were any leaders.

StaySingleStaySane · 2016-10-09T20:58:03+00:00

MGTOW isn't a group activity. Going your own way is a solitary endeavor by its very nature. Making friends is something you can certainly work on, and I see no reason you can't be successful at it, but it's an issue that's entirely independent of MGTOW.

slappydapussy · 2016-10-10T01:59:49+00:00

Of course, it's about what's best for you.

reptilianoverlord94 · 2016-10-10T10:47:10+00:00

I always only had a small group of friends. Definitely introverted and an intj according to the Myers Briggs test. I guess I'm not the only one.

nigelh · 2016-10-10T17:59:49+00:00

You can lock yourself in your basement and interact with the world only with your computer and be MGTOW. We don't recommend it, even a shy introvert can do better than that and you deserve better than that.

Banned_For_Opinion · 2016-10-11T20:50:23+00:00

What is a MGHOW?

Title	Can...be a MGHOW?
Author	PaulH23
Upvotes	12
Comments	21
Date	October 9, 2016 8:44 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/56o6e3/canbe_a_mghow/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/canbe-a-mghow.618375 https://theredarchive.com/post/618375

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