me(40) GF(38) live together in her apartment she has. Lease is up end of the month and she is moving with me into a house I rented. March 1st. Lately she has been not showing up to school, which is only 16 hours a week, shows no affection, plays video games online for hours etc. I tried to confront her about not feeling desired, our lack of sex, she forgot valentines day and she just got mad and me and twisted things. Best thing to do is just leave her alone to play video games, everything else revolves around that. In the beginning, she didn't have internet, she cooked, we watched movies, laughed, everything was good. Now I have to beg her to clean anything, I am a minimalist and she has a pile of boxes. I want to end this, but I don't want to leave her homeless either. She says everything is fine, I am the problem, I said clearly there is a problem if I am not happy and she just won't go there. Do I just pack my crap, and disappear to another place? I can fit everything in one suitcase and be gone. I hate to leave her in a bind, but I see the writing on the wall. She does have good qualities, she is not a cheater, not many guys in the past etc. fuck i am confused.