I am disturbed

The_Stumper · 2018-09-03T21:46:40+00:00

The truth is ugly and usually needs a sugar coating to be swallowed.

Red pill rage is an actual thing the everyone red pilled goes through.

It seems like you’re already active in hobbies and activities so that’s good.

About women, try to deconstruct what about a women you want and find those components elsewhere.

Sex = porn. Companionship = male friends. Love = dog.

ThePenitentMan38 · 2018-09-03T22:48:37+00:00

Chalk it up as life experience. Women are duplicitous. They lie and cheat. They monkey-branch. You see it among your relatives; you hear it from your friends; you read about it in forums, but it would not sink in until it happens to you personally. You are depressed, but you should count your blessings, because you live to learn from your experience. A neighbor of mine killed himself after he found out that his live-in girlfriend had a new boyfriend while she lived in his house, ate his food, and spent his money. He locked her out of his house. She called the police saying that he threatened to shoot her. It probably was a lie. The police came and broke down the door and found him dead with a self-inflicted gunshot wound to his head. True story.

Psuedonym1984 · 2018-09-03T22:09:04+00:00

Weltschmerz.

It's German for "World Depression."

After burning through Red Pill Rage, I froze and have been thawing from Red Pill Blues (Happy Humble Hermit made an excellent YouTube video on the subject; I recommend you watch it).

The solution, in my opinion, is not to care anymore. Be selfish. Keep your house in order. Ignore the world's problems, except to the extent they impact your life.

Aaron Clarey's "Enjoy the Decline" helped to drop the iceblock of society's issues off my back.

As H.H.Hermit says, "Remember the freedoms and possibilities MGTOW affords you."

Best wishes toward a speedy thaw.

DangZagnut · 2018-09-03T22:05:25+00:00

Lean into it. The world changes. Adapt. Overcome.

nhendren23 · 2018-09-03T22:11:54+00:00

Stages of Grief: Denial, Bargaining, Anger, Depression, Acceptance.

Sounds like you're in the depression phase. Stay strong, keep your eyes on your goals in life, and it'll pass. The Acceptance phase is right around the corner.

Red_pilledman · 2018-09-03T21:57:21+00:00

Only advice I can give you All Women Are Like That . DONT waste your time.

strongandhappy · 2018-09-03T22:12:07+00:00

Focus on yourself and set high standards for anyone in your life. You'll find that filters out women on its own. Accept that in a relationship you are the prize, but no one's going to bother fighting for you because all women are entitled.

cafeorange · 2018-09-03T22:21:05+00:00

Wtf man, you cosidered yourself lucky some depressed man go to drug and get wasted with their health and mobey, and you? Workout, play music and read, things that is benefitial where many mgtow aspire to do. I can only say, do what you do, and excel. If a women comes by, fine, but u know what happens next, AWALT, so dont get into trouble, protected sex and screenshots to prevent false rape claim. But stay on your path, workout, read, play music.

If no women comes, fine, work out, play music, read. Youll be getting stronger day by day women or no women.

ploppylumpkins · 2018-09-04T03:31:47+00:00

Don’t hate the forces that made our species. Hypergamy has a lot of evolutionary function. I don’t hate female mantids for killing and eating their mate, nor do I hate women for divorcing their husbands right at the 10 year mark. It’s just life, and it’s not that big a deal - there are other planets like this in our galaxy and even other galaxies beyond that and you’re worried about love?

Don’t include love in your plan for self actualization, not only is it not a realistic goal, it has very little intellectual substance.

saralaya · 2018-09-03T21:45:19+00:00

As you grow older, you open up to deeper layers of reality.

Acceptance opens up the way to peace.

You’ve to find out what path of acceptance works best for you.

Suggested: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terror_management_theory

MenGoingTOWin · 2018-09-03T23:35:22+00:00

I always feel like I need to replace my ex with a woman

That's because you don't have your own validation stream. You're still indoctrinated in the bullshit lie that a woman should be your validation stream. That you should give all your power to a woman and hope she "loves you" ( women aren't capable of love. ) and returns it back to you. Women are very unreliable with this and will use all the power you give them to drain you before moving on to the next person.

Recognize that you have value. That you can set and reach your own goals. Your life can be more than being a voluntary slave for a lying thot to use you and throw you away.

Here's some links you may find useful to explore these ideas further:

https://therationalmale.com/2011/12/27/women-in-love/

https://therationalmale.com/2012/09/10/men-in-love/

balancedben · 2018-09-04T01:19:50+00:00

you just deal with the pain and it'll gradually subside. here's a red pill for you - women don't love men .... not unless they're their children and even that is suspect. i was a year younger than you when a 23 year old chick outright told me that women can't love and that it's out of the range of their capabilities. it depressed me. i fought it for years to prove her wrong but all the broken relationships i and others i observed were in proved her right. that was back in the early 90s when she told me that. by my early 30s i no longer lived in denial and made it known to any chic i was banging that there would be no marriage,cohabitation with,or breeding with and that any and all dates are dutch. that was before the concept of m.g.t.o.w. came about.

No1Buck · 2018-09-04T10:02:27+00:00

By appreciating the freedom you've gained by realizing the truth. You no longer have to stay on the plantation. It's like realizing there is no God. You haven't lost anything because it was all a fairy tale to begin with.

imlurkingdontmindme · 2018-09-04T01:34:49+00:00

It's your old habits acting up. If the first time hasn't convinced you, go again. If the second burn hasn't convinced you, try for the third. Or fourth.

IcebergHermit · 2018-09-04T06:14:56+00:00

Check out this you need to hear it https://youtu.be/I_XiYGb7vn0

throwaway12394847 · 2018-09-04T11:17:11+00:00

Read 'the manipulated man'. It'll change your perspective, and give you understanding as to why you feel this way.

Title	I am disturbed
Author	mars_doom
Upvotes	28
Comments	23
Date	September 3, 2018 9:39 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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