I got a question...

Badthrowaway2928 · 2018-09-25T17:31:58+00:00

Totally up to you little bro. Don't cohabitate don't marry and don't get yourself overly invested. Just play the field my dude

CiceroVoltaire · 2018-09-25T17:35:48+00:00

welcome, read the sidebar materials, ask questions, etc.

in the end, the choice is yours. define what you want for your life, and take steps to make it happen. your life, your future, you decide what it means to you. depend on yourself and work toward your goals. focus on you.

for me personally, I've adapted the following outlook for my life:

Greed is good.

Selfishness is good.

Non serviam (I will not serve).

I work for me (and my son), what I want in life and for my future. My time is mine to do what I want as a free human. I minimize my interactions with, and financial support of, society-at-large. I've left the plantation, no looking back, no going back, only forward to what I want for my life.

you decide what life, value, goals, objectives and priorities are important to you. realize you have the innate ability as a man to shape your world in your own image. take control of yourself and your life, make it what you want.

PhDinIDGAF · 2018-09-25T18:45:56+00:00

Think of MGTOW forums and youtube channels as a repository for information you either won't find or is rejected elsewhere. It offers the "other side" of the relationship story, based on the experiences and observations of tens of thousands of men.

What you choose to do with that information is up to you, but I would like to think making a more informed decision is almost always preferable.

When you buy a house, it would be foolish to only listen to the bullshit the realtor feeds you about how perfect it is for you. He or she has an incentive to sell it to you, whether it's a good deal or not. You should do your own research too. What is the housing market in the area like? How much are the property taxes? How are the local schools? How is traffic in the area during the morning and evening rush hours? Are there problems with flooding? Etc. etc. It's smart to treat commitment to a woman the same way.

No matter what road you walk, take control of your own happiness. Don't let life just be about the things that happen to you. You always have the power to say, "This isn't good enough," and choose a different path.

Bazat91 · 2018-09-25T18:17:30+00:00

I suggest you do some research on what love actually is, especially how it manifests biologically and you will realise that its organic substrate is basically almost identical to a powerful narcotic, meaning its effects on your brain will slowly degrade with time releasing lower and lower amounts of endorphines. So if you're chasing love note that it's not some seperate mystical entity like the women and media want you to believe and it's basically just a very strong and potent addiction. Its purpose is of course procreation. The way you're probably looking at love atm is an illusion. So being armed with this knowledge, it's your choice how to proceed further, but the default answer is definitely no. Don't date. Ever. And the reasons are multiple: laws against men, women's biological behaviour, women's cancerous behavior emaculated by this gynocentric society, the underline organic aspects of "love", not being free to do whatever you want etc...

JohnBravo9990 · 2018-09-25T18:18:34+00:00

Remember when “modern” women say they love you it means “I’ll use you until I find something better, get bored, or you become inconvenient “.

Treat them like they treat men and you won’t be disappointed.

Rohanisawesome · 2018-09-25T19:04:58+00:00

Once you go your own way, it's up to you. You can have short-term relationships or even long-term ones as long as you don't get married or have kids (simple rule)

You might notice that sometimes we don't even suggest dating because of metoo thing, but MGTOW ideas are just regarding to marriage and kids. Just be careful, if you want to date I'd suggest you an audio recorder just in case...

And don't put them in a pedestal, date, but never put them above your hobbies and projects.

flee_market · 2018-09-25T19:49:53+00:00

If you have to ask, then the answer is yes because you haven't been burned badly enough to have the experience needed to see the truth for what it is.

Go get burned. Then come back. We'll be here.

Infinitewisdom1984 · 2018-09-25T21:50:02+00:00

You can do what you like. DO NOT ever let your brain think you are "in love" with a girl ever, ever, ever, ever. Never let a female think that she means more to you than you do to her. Never show vulnerability, never cry in front of her, never tell her any of your 'weaknesses' and never stay with a girl who has cheated on you - also never take one back that has cheated on you. Do not get her pregnant, do not marry her, do not move in with her. Other than that, go for it!

Also: if she shows any semblance of being progressive/feminist, DO NOT ENGAGE, not even for a one time fuck. Do not do it.

bjjefx · 2018-09-26T00:26:14+00:00

Just tell them to bend over and shut up ,don't put up with the non-sense hahah, but find your passion and a career you can really enjoy. STEM and jobs that actually make a difference and are productive. Learn a skill like Jiu jitsu, welding, painting, whatever the fuck your into, it's good to know and refine a skill throughout your life. Exercise and eat right, it absolutely affects how you think and act.

At 17 you got the world by the balls kid. Don't take shit from nobody and work your goddamn ass off. Find whatever you love doing and work your fucking ass off because one day it will all pay off and you can live knowing you gave 100% of your effort. Never half ass anything, that shit eats you inside and will eventually catch up to you.

I don't mean to sound like your dad haha but I wish someone would've told me those same things. Be the best big man.

Title	I got a question...
Author	Rohanisawesome
Upvotes	6
Comments	19
Date	September 25, 2018 5:14 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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