Would like some advice

DangZagnut · 2019-02-04T03:12:44+00:00

I was with her for 3 years when I joined the Navy and broke up with her.

You're twelfth in line.

I have had many girls since then but she was different then them

That is a delusion. Did you see any mermaids when out at sea?

I know this comes off as being a beta but honestly I am at cross roads.

No one cares if you're alpha, beta, delta, epsilon, a hungry hungry hippo, the recommendation will be, she isn't different, and probably not worth your time, but you do you.

Do I say something to her and maybe we get back together or do I not and keep going on about my life. I know it's my choice regardless of what y'all say but I would like y'alls opinions on this.

I'm doubting anyone will recommend you wife her up or anything. But again, you're going to do you.

She's a navy chick, already a huge red flag, you have an on/off again relationship, also not good, and you've caught oneitis, which means you need to rub one out and go on a single man hike to the south pole to get your head on straight.

fartsnbarfen · 2019-02-04T03:10:45+00:00

One word: awalt

Im_Talking · 2019-02-04T03:15:56+00:00

Be careful that you aren't thinking solely of the good memories with this girl and forgetting the bad ones. The brain tends to do this. There must have been a reason for the relationship to end.

Personally, I would never go backwards.

Is there a particular reason why you want to go back in the past with this girl? Did you have a bad relationship with another girl recently and want to go back to safety?

Texian_Fusilier · 2019-02-04T03:26:24+00:00

Rub 1 out before asking yourself again, I'd say flake out and go get drunk with your friends. But if you do go see this chick, rub 1 out before you leave. Post nut clarity provides the answers to many questions.

NathanHollister · 2019-02-04T03:16:21+00:00

Well, ask yourself if she is worth losing your house, and half of everything else you own, and 25% of everything you earn for the next 20 years. If the answer is no, don't talk to her.

QuantumSanta · 2019-02-04T03:41:40+00:00

You broke up with her for a reason. Leave this behind you and move on with your life.

If she was interested in you, you would be together.

Maximum_Afternoon · 2019-02-04T03:44:54+00:00

You already left her once. You weren't wrong.

Liquid_Leopard · 2019-02-04T03:38:47+00:00

" I have had many girls since then but she was different then them "

Here is where you are going to get yourself in trouble already...remember, while you were gone there is a very solid chance she was on the CC in the time you were apart. The feelings you're having is for what you HAD, not for who she is NOW. Since you already have feelings, you're already in the blue pill wasteland and not acting RP or MGTOW.

Just my .02

Tercalerc · 2019-02-04T04:18:36+00:00

Look, bro. An Ex is an 'Ex'ample of what not to choose.

deathtocontrollers · 2019-02-04T04:26:35+00:00

Wrong sub. This is not r/adviceforbluepillmen

flee_market · 2019-02-04T05:19:37+00:00

This isn't /r/relationshipadvice

MonsterHipster · 2019-02-04T08:45:29+00:00

Awalt

jdutches13 · 2019-02-04T10:32:03+00:00

You're a big boy and your gonna,make your own decisions. So ill give you my advice that can be used whether you meet her or not

Above all else gaurd your heart, because everything you do flows from it

SET BOUNDARIES....protect and gaurd your emotions and feelings. You don't owe her anything! So don't fall into the trap of getting emotionally fucked

Keep it simple, there's no reason you can't meet for a cup of coffee....but tread carefully my friend

flow2high · 2019-02-04T12:21:46+00:00

Maybe go to r/askMRP (Married Red Pill) to get some wisdom, about being in a RP relationship.

jkarovskaya · 2019-02-04T13:57:26+00:00

Dating leads to mini vans and changing diapers.

Later on it can lead to losing 1/2 your investments and living in your car

MarketWatcher9456 · 2019-02-04T14:36:22+00:00

Never let an old flame burn you twice.

Title	Would like some advice
Author	TheTalkingLurker
Upvotes	8
Comments	32
Date	February 4, 2019 3:06 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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