In the dating advice subreddit, some 29 year old thot is asking "am I shallow for wanting a guy with a decent job?"

She goes on to state that all the guys she dated thus far didn't have good jobs.

I think her post is the perfect example of female thinking: alpha fucks, beta bucks, AND how they blame anyone but themselves. Notice how she framed the question? "Am I shallow for wanting a guy with a "decent" job?" She phrased it in a way that would make her look reasonable for "simply wanting a guy with a "decent" job." She is looking for empathy, and she is putting the blame on "guys" for failing to have "even a decent job."

But in reality, what is going on here is: she is 29, so up to now, she has been CHOOSING the guys WITHOUT decent jobs, while CONSCIOUSLY AND VOLUNTARILY AND ACTIVELY REJECTING the guys WITH decent jobs. She mentioned how one of the guys she dated up to now was an "up and coming rapper." Hm.... strong Tyrone vibes. But NOW that she is 29 and wants to settle down, she is looking for a provider. This is why NOW, all of a sudden, she decided to value a guy with a "decent" job. Also, we all know by "decent" job she means high paying job that will allow her to sit and home to scratch her pussy and drive an SUV around the neighborhood while her beta husband with the "decent" job pays for all of that and enables such a lifestyle for her.