Not allowed to show weakness

Vaxel00 · 2019-08-07T19:21:50+00:00

Stop caring and you'll see how easy life becomes.

TigPlaze · 2019-08-07T20:34:15+00:00

I had a girlfriend who said, "I think it's sad how men aren't allowed to express their emotions. You're safe with me. You can express your feelings, you can cry any time." The instant I cried, she was out of there so fast, she would have won the 100 yard dash if she had been in the Olympics.

VOLK91P11 · 2019-08-07T19:52:18+00:00

they lose respect immediately as soon you show a little weakness, once After few years of relationship I got emotional while we were driving in a car and got teary eyes while I was talking about my father, how he is getting old and he get shaky head as soon he is nervous and got parkinson.. she was sitting quietly nothing... but few days later she startet a fight about nothing and again started with shaming... she said I was like a 12year old kid who cries for his daddy and she impersonated me how I was crying... just pure evil pure evil.. I'm 40 now have few long term relationships especially last one for 7 years was pretty eye opening... they are all possesed since eve was corrupted with seed of satan.. belive me.. they are evil... here to destroy lives... I don't care how many "happy" couples you see, it is all fake, they are with men just for benefits, they can't love... in 2012 I got dumped like a last dirt, I was in relationship for 5 years,last year together her father got cancer, in fast 5 months he died, it was painful to watch, her mother called me because she liked me and I visited him a couple of times and also been of funreal... nothing on her face.. everybody was shocked crying, she had absolutely no feelings, even when her father was in the hospital she slept like a baby, get on parties and sleeping around, she knew that he will die soon, she didn't even bother to visit him.... I have a lot of examples but I have this language barrier... this were just 2 of my relationships... they are possesed by demons satan use them to destroy men... I know many of you are not religious but so much evil and absolutely no regret you don't see in any being... you can spend years and years with her, ok if the things don't work ok you must separate but nobody with heart can't take this so easily, women show no emotions they can change you like an old used car...

[deleted] · 2019-08-07T21:07:49+00:00

Women will absolutely dump you on the side of the road the second you show weakness. Actually, if you ever want to have a chick breakup with you, just pretend that you're weak, sad, hopeless, depressed, crying, etc., and she'll be done with you in no time.

I thought this concept was bullshit, so I tried it on three women I no longer wanted to be with. I cried about my mom dying with one, some other shit with others, and, within a month of the weakness revelation, each woman ended the relationship. I know this was manipulative on my end, but I was done with them and wanted to test a theory; no excuse, just what I did.

BadWardrobe · 2019-08-07T21:32:48+00:00

I recall a time at my ex's parents house. Her dad had just died of a heart attack aged 45 (his wife, my ex's mother, had made his life a living hell). His only time away from her and his 3 daughters was work and playing cricket (the sad irony here is that he had a heart attack whilst playing cricket).

Anyway, this was the night of the day he'd died. Ex's entire family and many friends are all in the same room. Mood is incredibly sombre as you can imagine. Everyone is sobbing. I held it together for the the most part but seeing my girlfriend (who I loved very much at the time) in floods of tears and just the overall tragedy of the situation, I succumed to a few tears. Not full on blubbing but let's say "john coffey's death scene" kind of tears.

A few days later my ex said she was surprised that I had cried. Her dad had died literally a few hours earlier and still my ex had noticed, and taken a mental note of, a few tears from me in a room full of heartbroken people.

I stuck around and supported her through that awful time... And after she started to emerge from her grief she dumped me. Good story, good funny times.

LiveTheTruth321 · 2019-08-07T21:11:27+00:00

Women and men are not compatible. Women are not "maternal," they don't care about anything that doesn't involve them, they have nothting to offer in the long run.

Pankonuss · 2019-08-07T22:28:26+00:00

Also it's not about showing weakness to "some extent". You know, if my gf/wife has an illness I will still love her and care for her, do everything I can to make her situation better. That's what people do when they love others. But that's the thing. Women don't love. Except a mother usually loves her children. But she will never love any men. She uses them. I happen to have chronic depression since childhood and there are phases in my life where I just can't do much. I don't bother anyone with it. Never have. Never will. But people notice, I can't hide lack of motivation, bad mood, memory problems, ... So after a few months she always knows my weak spot. Some show their understanding first but after a while it's always goodbye. So fuck that. I have good and reliable friend and family. They care more about me as any woman ever will.

rdecatabletka · 2019-08-08T15:11:15+00:00

Same, as kid I was abused in any possible way, when I told her that (because it caught up with me in life, and I was a mess processing it) she was gone the next day. 8 years of being together to not even talking to me. Last thing she said was: it is funny how quickly you become a stranger, especially after so many years (it was one month after breakup she was already partying with others all the time, while I was still a total mess).

where_muh_good_mens · 2019-08-07T19:21:59+00:00

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Title	Not allowed to show weakness
Author	Pankonuss
Upvotes	62
Comments	29
Date	August 7, 2019 7:17 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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