They always move on first

FrancoNore · 2020-03-24T21:07:48+00:00

Because women will always have dudes (simps) in their inbox pining for their attention and don’t care that she’s in a relationship. At the first sign of feeling sad shell start giving in to this attention and often times it will continue to escalate. By the time she’s single she’s got multiple dudes there waiting to take her out and make her forget about you.

Most dudes don’t want to hear this, but the straight truth is that the majority of women are entertaining other dudes while in relationships, even if it’s just casual messaging. Back when i was a sucker i was often the dude flirting with girls with bf’s. Most of them never wanted to do anything physical (at least that’s what they said) but they happily took the attention and flirtatious messaging.

TigPlaze · 2020-03-24T22:16:57+00:00

Most women have backup boyfriends, so they can make an instant change if things go wrong. This practice is obscenely unethical, not that they care. They think it's perfectly moral and normal to solicit a boyfriend behind their current boyfriend's back. Men are usually appalled by that. We value loyalty. Women value extracting resources.

roflcopt0rz_returns · 2020-03-24T22:12:05+00:00

Women aren't invested into the relationship as much as men are. As a common comparison, women see men like computers, while men see women as actual human beings. If you had to dispose of an old computer to upgrade to a new one, you probably wouldn't be that sad about it. That is how women can dump their old man to jump on the new man's dick so easily and quickly. Men cannot just move on like.
Women are already planning on breaking up MONTHS before she actually pulls the plug, if not years. Once you've had enough time, you'll eventually get over it. Men however are often blindsided by the betrayal which is why most of them are in shock, and at the beginning of the breakup are usually just at the entry point of the Kluber Ross Grief Cycle, and that will obviously take a lot of time to progress and finish at the acceptance stage. Women however, are already in the acceptance stage of the grief cycle by the time they officially pull the plug, and that's assuming they were even grieving to begin with (they usually aren't).
For example, if a man is completely blindsided by his woman dropping the divorce papers this is when he gets into serious trouble and gets anally rammed in the family courts because he's taking every compromise possible in the hopes that she comes back (denial phase) which only makes things worse. However men who find out how she's a cunt before she actually drops the divorce papers have time to finish the grief cycle, can think more clearly, and can fight back properly.

rayedward363 · 2020-03-24T22:01:46+00:00

It's easy out there for women (less easy right now, but the point stands) so they never have to look hard. Odds are they already moved on and have been talking with at least one other guy. So don't bother with it, the first sign a woman plays games, leave.

selfism_mike · 2020-03-25T00:31:50+00:00

Women are incapable of love, thats why. Its just business for them, nothing else.

BroscienceGuy · 2020-03-24T22:48:22+00:00

When you find out you are nothing to her anymore

You were nothing to her in the first place. There are no exceptions to Briffault's law.

You either benefit her or you don't. If in her mind you don't benefit her anymore she drops you -> emotionally distancing. Breaking up. Whatever.

You know yourself how their feelings determine their reality so they don't feel bad at all because it's all your fault...appearantly.

quarantineboy · 2020-03-24T23:47:34+00:00

When this corona stuff is over, I will really start playing this game even more ruthless'

Or just stop playing the game at all. What is there in life without chasing women? Everything else.

Cabshear · 2020-03-25T00:09:00+00:00

I’m sorry you’re feeling rough. The sad truth is most women have beta male orbiters. All those guys on her phone that are “just friends” they’re waiting for their turn to fuck her. They’re orbiting her, funding her, feeding her emotional needs, simping and shit talking you, when she complains, as they white knight. It’s all brownie points for sex.

...Sorry man. Stay strong. Female validation is a mirage. The only validation you need comes From you.

Fuxk1n · 2020-03-24T21:19:10+00:00

💯

shmegtow · 2020-03-24T22:54:27+00:00

I don't agree that they always move on first. It's easy to think that way though when you're blindsided by a breakup because they often do have offers lined up.

EmotionalDrift · 2020-03-25T00:39:40+00:00

Unicorns dont exist, AWALT..

bpdloveoflife · 2020-03-25T02:35:27+00:00

Reminds me the song "He stopped loving her today" by George Jones.

Unfigured · 2020-03-25T11:02:41+00:00

Watch TFM's video "she never really loved you" (I think that's what it's called). When it comes to women, men need to remind ourselves of the truth brutally and often.

RIchardjCranium · 2020-03-25T03:00:50+00:00

I feel ya bro been there done that...

VlogIt · 2020-03-25T14:31:26+00:00

I went through the same thing. I actually realized why. Long story short it is us men who puts effort and invest into the relationship.

Do you ever see a woman coming up two guys and asking them out? We then can except or reject the offer and let them take all the initiatives for the relationship. That way we can be spoiled and if we get bored or whatever we can just leave for somebody else.

Do you see what’s going on here? The more you invest, putting money and resources into someone else, the more spoiled they get, and they will never appreciate you.

Our mistake as men is we love somebody too much. The good thing that I did is when my girlfriend told me do not blame her if she leaves me for someone else, this was over money, the very next morning I dumped her ass.

But men are too much of a Simp or a white night. They will bend over backwards just to please a girl but then after find out that she has been under appreciating you because of all the things you do and has already or thought of swinging to someone else. They are all the same no matter how hot or cute.

My suggestion is either to rent or get it for free, never buy.

Grant1412 · 2020-03-25T16:59:39+00:00

Women do not love men. This is fundamental within the nature of women, there's no exceptions. If she is with you, it's because she is getting something she wants. If she is with you, it's because the benefits outweighs the costs.

You valued the familiarity of her uniqueness, you "loved" her. It is entirely impossible for any woman to feel that way about any man.

walkersm · 2020-03-26T08:19:36+00:00

They do not move on till they have the next one locked in. If you ever think you caught your woman cheating, nope, it was just time for you to find out and make the next guy feel guilty enough for putting her in the situation that he stays with her.

shark30k · 2020-03-25T10:58:20+00:00

It's Nature's gift over all these years of evolution to women. Back in older days(or tribal culture) after a war the winner would take the losers woman and make her his own. So nature gave them this mental lightswitch effect (it's as quick as turning off a light switch). To get over dead/lost partner they can move on quicker and accept the new guy very quickly compared to men. It was developed for their survival. [Source : TRP Sidebar]

I don't judge them for this however I judge myself if I fall into the same trap despite knowing these things.

Title	They always move on first
Author	30RITUALS
Upvotes	67
Comments	25
Date	March 24, 2020 8:59 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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