Feminists like to claim to be sex positive - This usually means having an open, broadened and healthy view on Human sexuality and frequently borders on ridiculous definitions of consent, among others inconvenient "arguments". Here's some flaws I noted:

  • Sex-positivity frequently relies on the notion of slut-shaming being outdated, meaning that women can have sex with how many men (or other women) they want, as many times they want, and that they should be free of social judgment. While this is naive, I understand the idealism, but I think it vilifies and dismisses men and women who simply don't want to have sex with a lot of people. You don't need to bang every guy around the block to be sex positive, you just need a healthy, responsible and intelligent approach to sexual relationships and how you want to have sex. The problem with the anti-slutshaming, is that (1) It frequently states women should not be held accountable or judged by their actions - People will judge you no matter what, whether it is for sex, clothing or habits (2) That women are only liberated when they have irresponsible, promiscuous sex with a lot of men. This latter point is stupid because excessive sex can be bad even for men

  • Feminists like to focus on how trans problems matter, and how genitals don't determine your gender, but focus 99% of articles about sex on how to stimulate a clitoris and how a vagina works and how to please a woman - Not only do they contradict themselves by ignoring alleged women with penises, but they also assume men cannot be unsatisfied in bed, which is stupid.

  • Feminists are all about body acceptance and fat acceptance, and from my experience this usually leads to a focus on people with unhealthy bodies having sex and how they can have sex, but a dismissal and even hatred for attractive, thin women who have sex and have pretty husbands, etc. Sure, everyone can and should have sex if they enjoy it, but it's not helpful to focus so much on fat women as if it was men's duty to cater to it instead of telling her to lose weight or go after a normal woman.

  • Feminists have a ridiculous notion of consent that by its nature removes most pleasure that would otherwise come from sex due to the stress of never knowing if you're reaping someone or not. IF you're looking at healthy sexuality, let people explore each other. Many women like rough sex and have rape fantasies, most men and women have at least one or two kinky fetishes, there's nothing wrong in exploring that without ridiculous pressuring notions of consent that ironically only apply to women.

  • For God sakes, I understand some people have multiple partners and like to fuck many people, but the overwhelming majority of people in most societies like monogamy better and don't like having many partners or cheating at the same time - So don't act like healthy sexuality shouldn't involve talks on fidelity and improvement for monogamous heterosexual couples

  • In case anything is not in their favor, feminists argue that everything bad a woman did was a result of the patriarchy. There's nothing sex positive about feminism. It encourages women to have sex with every guy on the bloc, this diminishing chances of a future, stable, successful relationship with frequent sex. It encourages women to withdraw consent at any time without communicating with it and gives them and easier time claiming rape. It encourages women to feel ashamed of their desires and fantasies and preferences for X or Y when they really shouldn't feel ashamed for that. Do you like a hairy, Bond type man with muscles who is aggressive and displays testosterone? That's ok. Do you like guys who look more feminine? That's ok as well. What's not ok is to tell women what they should like and that everything that doesn't go according to the feminist agenda is a result of internalized sexism. My girlfriend of 3 years wants to have children and become a housewife with only a partime job. She wasn't taught how to be one, she dreams of being one since she was 4 years old. Why the hell do people feel entitled to tell other people their dreams and choices are not really choices?