As daughters grow and develop, dads shouldn't withhold physical affection

Blaidd_Dwrg · 2011-06-16T02:23:03+00:00

The day I need the Good ~~Dog~~ Men Project to remind me to hug my kids is the day I put my hands up and give up on the fatherhood thing.

Jesus, this shit is insulting.

xsdc · 2011-06-16T11:22:21+00:00

Down voted for 'the good men project'. This website is nothing more than an attempt by feminists and white knight supporters to subvert the men's rights movement.

The entire site can be summed up as 'men have some problems, but feminism is the cure for these problems, and women are the real victims any way' with a side does of what 'nasty, misogynists' men's rights activists are.

xsdc · 2011-06-15T21:05:53+00:00

Other fathers worry less about what their own reaction might be and more what others might think. “Maybe it’s paranoid,” remarks Todd, the father of a 14 year-old girl, “but I feel like every man who touches a girl is seen as a predator. Even dads. So I wonder what people might think if they see me being too affectionate with my daughter.”

Is this right? Do we see mothers who hug their daughters as predators? WHAT THE FUCK?

ManThoughts · 2011-06-16T01:50:32+00:00

Hugo Schwyzer is a horrendous mangina and female supremacist, but even a stopped clock is right twice a day.

2011-06-16T06:02:48+00:00

Maybe, because of the feminism stronghold held in America, he was afraid of being labelled a sexual predator?

Every man is well-aware that it's one false "sexual assault" charge - whether true or false - is enough to destroy his life, reputation, and everything he's ever worked for, forever.

This is the world you have created.

kloo2yoo · 2011-06-15T21:42:10+00:00

http://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/g4196/

getthefuckoutofhere · 2011-06-16T03:25:52+00:00

unless you have a daughter like this

I want to be comfortable around my dad, he's a great guy. I just do not trust him at all. I have this thought that he's a secret predator, or that he's cheating on my mom, or something. I don't know. I should trust him, I have no reason not to.

It's a terrible feeling. While I love my father, I feel like I can't actually be close to him- physically or emotionally. It hurts us both, I'm sure.

or this

Ever since puberty hit this has been on my mind. I worry that my dad is looking at my chest (and I catch his eyes going there for a second every once in awhile) and so I shy away from him. I can't walk around the house with no bra and a shirt on around him, I just can't. I don't want to put him in the position that he'll look and make us both uncomfortable. We don't hug anymore. Part of the problem, I think, is that I read incest erotica (usually dad/daughter) but have absolutely no interest in that in real life. None. But I've got in my head that dad's sometimes are attracted to their daughters and it squicks me out to think of my dad like that. Bleh, I hate it. I always find myself slumping my shoulders forward to minimize my boobs when I'm around him.

(from the thread in twoX)

thetrollking · 2011-06-17T00:23:34+00:00

Ever since puberty hit this has been on my mind. I worry that my dad is looking at my chest (and I catch his eyes going there for a second every once in awhile) and so I shy away from him. I can't walk around the house with no bra and a shirt on around him, I just can't. I don't want to put him in the position that he'll look and make us both uncomfortable. We don't hug anymore. Part of the problem, I think, is that I read incest erotica (usually dad/daughter) but have absolutely no interest in that in real life. None. But I've got in my head that dad's sometimes are attracted to their daughters and it squicks me out to think of my dad like that. Bleh, I hate it. I always find myself slumping my shoulders forward to minimize my boobs when I'm around him.

WTF? Really women, what the fuck is wrong with you?

Between rape fantasies and incest fantasies and drooling over "men with scars are so so sexy" and playing "let's you and him fight" and.....

What. the. fuck. is wrong with women?

Title	As daughters grow and develop, dads shouldn't withhold physical affection
Author	xsdc
Upvotes	5
Comments	14
Date	June 15, 2011 9:04 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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