That's a trend I noticed quite a few months and years ago but it's getting ridiculously lately and I'm wondering if anyone else noticed it:
Every time there is some thread from a male's perspective in the tifu- or advice-sub with a sexual problem or tifu, the comments nearly 100% and exclusively blame the male OP, no matter the actual tifu or problem. And the comments all read absolutely identical from thread to thread, like copy-pasts from the last one about some sexual problem. It's always something like "he fucked her like a sex doll", "he went on her like an animal", "he didn't care enough about her", "he didn't communicate", "he was just selfish", "he probably didn't do enough foreplay", etc even when nothing in the original post implies anything like that. More often then not there's not even a single comment suggesting that the female partner could maybe also be at fault and how good sex depends on both parties. But very often instead there is some joyfully over eagerness in the comments which are telling OP how he fucked up and failed.
The comments are always suggesting the male has to do 100% the work during sex and if she isn't perfectly satisfied it's 100% his fault, even expressing pity for the women because she had to suffer through horrible sex - while ignoring the fact that he also had horrible sex. It's so weird how providing good sex is completely the duty of the man, never the women and if he doesn't have fun it doesn't matter, only her fun and orgasm is important.
And I really don't get where this misandristic view is coming from, especially when it comes down to sex. Are these people all just a bunch jealous male virgins and entitled pillow-princess? Otherwise I can't explain it to myself because it's so detached from reality.
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