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I'd rather see him falsely accused of rape and sent to prison.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 03:03 PM
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A person aged 18 or over (A) commits an offence if I should have made it clearer but that's only for section 9 where a girl is between 13-15. Section 5 (the first link) is in regards to girls under 13 and doesn't mention an age for the male involved.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 12:57 PM
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Looked into it further, looks like the legislation doesn't care if a girl under 13 lies about her age, whereas if a girl between 13-15 lies about her age then they take it into consideration. It's pretty fucked considering some girls go through puberty early. https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/section/5 https://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/2003/42/section/9 Adult female teachers actually raping underaged pupils get less of a punishment :S We live in a fucked up gynocentric world
/r/MensRights15/07/23 12:38 PM
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Not exactly free. He has an 18 month community order and is on the sex offenders register.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 12:00 PM
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Good on the victim's girl's father to hand in the evidence on her phone. The judge is still a prick for sentencing the boy to a community order and having him sign up on the sex offenders register.
/r/MensRights15/07/23 11:57 AM
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Exactly. Do I think he's guilty? No. But we still need to prove beyond doubt that these women lied. We've been complaining about the juryless courts for rape cases that they're implementing in Scotland. This isn't all that different, just applied to false accusations.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 07:06 PM
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I think we should assume he is innocent since he's been found not guilty. However, charging these women with a crime should also require evidence proving that they lied.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 06:53 PM
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these people writing articles know nothing about their gender That's because women aren't a monolith but some, especially the loud ones, speak as though they are.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 03:01 PM
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I've never heard anyone call a woman who tries to fix a man a controlling, abusive misandrist. This is another arbitrary rule made up that only applies to men. What do they want him to do? Stay in the relationship and force her to change? Sure he could compromise but walking away is another valid option.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 07:51 AM
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Nah, they have alternatives like menstrual cups and pads.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 08:55 PM
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Haven't browsed parenting but generally, relationship subreddits are dominated by women so it isn't unusual to see misandry. It's not perfect but r/daddit is probably less toxic.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 06:14 PM
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Authors say many young men have 'little to bring to the marriage bargain' Yeah, dating up is always a bargain it also conveniently provides a safety net in divorce.. Complaining that women are now working and feel entitled to find men who earn more than them is ridiculous.
/r/MensRights13/07/23 01:19 PM
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My gut feeling was that, that would be the case.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 08:46 PM
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I once had an admin remove my comment for inciting violence after sarcastically saying someone should be shot. Apparently it's against Reddit policy. I wonder if they will bother with those comments.
/r/MensRights12/07/23 08:42 PM
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This is the first I'm hearing of this, I guess this isn't the type of thing that western media will want to report on. The article seems sympathetic towards the bride and the groom seems to have stockholm syndrome. 'All the three brothers are now happily settled with their wives. As the saying goes, "Every good marriage begins in tears."' Seems like kidnapping is a-ok now 👌
/r/MensRights12/07/23 02:58 PM
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No problem
/r/MensRights12/07/23 11:13 AM
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IMO there is nothing wrong with two consenting consenting adults being in a relationship or having sex. People are just more rational when the woman is older and not making up arbitrary rules like 'people aren't adults until they reach 25'. Feminists are constantly looking for ways to demonise men even when it doesn't make sense, this why when women do the same thing it becomes a non-issue. This applies to a lot of other things such as: Preferences are bad when men have them, but if a woman chim…
/r/MensRights12/07/23 11:12 AM
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It’s a shame that it became gendered. I’d be interested in reading your post, thanks.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 05:33 PM
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Thanks, subbed and liked.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 02:24 PM
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To provide emotional support without ever needing any yourself. I particularly hate this. Men are expected to be emotionally supportive to women, the 'rock' in the relationship. But when men need emotional support, suddenly 'she's not your therapist' and you need to pay to get some semblance of support.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 02:12 PM
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What's your channel?
/r/MensRights11/07/23 02:08 PM
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UK law of rape only applies to men and trans women who've not had genital surgery. Rape (1) A person (A) commits an offence if— (a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis, (b) B does not consent to the penetration, and (c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents. They then post statistics stating that 99% of rapists are men, like no shit the law is written to produce that result. Women are charged with "sexual activity without consent", w…
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:50 PM
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Was it the post I made? https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/14awyax/uk_sexual_offences_act_2003_research_led_by_women/ I don't know about the political leanings of the others but Betty Moxon describes herself as a liberal woman on Twitter.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:33 PM
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It's funny that a lot of girls call themselves romantic but what they mean is that they enjoy being romanced. I have heard a bunch of girls in real life say that they will never put effort into the romantic part of dating because they 'have dignity'. Tells you a lot about how these types of women see men. That stuck in my head and since then, I only give back the energy I'm receiving.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 12:22 PM
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We can find ways to work with the distinctive traits and powerful stories that already exist — risk-taking, strength, self-mastery, protecting, providing, procreating. We can recognize how real and important they are. And we can attempt to make them pro-social — to help not just men but also women, and to support the common good. Typical, all gender roles for women are bad but men are expected to provide and protect for women. I'm guessing risk-taking is seen as a good trait since you need that …
/r/MensRights11/07/23 11:54 AM
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Some people are saying that he got into the relationship knowing she was like this, to which I respond: Woman gets into relationship hoping to change a man = naive. Man gets into relationship hoping to change woman = misogynist, emotional abusing, controlling.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 11:31 AM
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Interesting read, thanks for sharing. They were almost half of slave owners, yet my education focused on male slave owners.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 10:56 AM
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Lots of people go into a relationship hoping to change the other person which I think is naive. I too would not classify it as abusive or misogynistic. It's also possible that he didn't realise these things would bother him until experiencing them first hand.
/r/MensRights11/07/23 01:29 AM
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Hyperagency vs hypoagency, and gamma bias. Bill Burr has some good stand up on it. But let’s go back in history here, okay? You guys stood by us toxic white males through centuries of our crimes against humanity, you rolled around in the blood money and occasionally when you wanted to sneak off and hook up with a black dude, if you got caught you said it wasn’t consensual. Yeah! That’s what you did. That’s what you did. So, why don’t you shut up, sit down next to me and take your talking to. [ap…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 10:01 PM
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I've never met a woman who actually wants to pay for everything, only read about them online saying that they exist. I'm sure they do, they just don't seem common in the real world.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 05:10 PM
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I've not checked out her insta but the 'bathing suit' part is just part of a quote from Jonah.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 04:46 PM
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You don't have to compromise if you don't want to, you have the ability to walk away which is what he did. You make it seem as though she is entitled to a relationship with him.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 03:22 PM
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Whilst I do think it's pointless to expect someone to change I don't think it is misogynistic, emotional abuse or controlling to have boundaries or deal breakers. He seems to have realised this but he wasn't telling her to stop doing those things and instead said that he is not the right person for her. She's bringing this up long after they broke up and coincidentally he is having a child with his current girlfriend.
/r/MensRights10/07/23 02:41 PM
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If you need : -Surfing with men -Boundaryless inappropriate friendships with men -to model -to post pictures of yourself in a bathing suit -to post sexual pictures -friendships with women who are in unstable places and from your wild recent past beyond getting a lunch or coffee or something respectful I am not the right partner for you. If these things bring you to a place of happiness I support it and there will be no hard feelings. These are my boundaries for romantic partnership. She calls hi…
/r/MensRights10/07/23 11:21 AM
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That’s the obvious purpose for marriage given it’s financial safety net if it fails. For whatever reason, people hate this being pointed out. The type of men that women ascribe ‘husband material’ to gives you a clue.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 10:43 AM
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Same here. I’ve always heard about guys getting screwed in divorce regardless of circumstances. People bring up that you can’t make medical decisions for your other half unless you’re married but I’ve never had them ask for proof of marriage in the UK.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 09:15 PM
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No I just mean their past
/r/MensRights08/07/23 09:07 PM
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Muslim girls living in the west are not much different to non-Muslim girls in the west. They sleep around when they’re young and then become religious when they’re ready to settle down. I used to work in healthcare where plenty of Muslim girls would come in for sexual health checks and morning after pills. A lot of the married ones have a note on their records stating not to mention their sexual history in front of their husbands.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:43 PM
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That's the thing, girls do sometimes want it which is why statutory rape laws exist in most countries. They forget that girls also fantasise about male teachers and celebrities, and that rape is not always violent or forced (that doesn't make it right of course). The whole poing about having statutory rape laws is so that an underage persons consent does not matter. If you try to prosecute a paedophile with standard rape, it likely will not hold up since you could just say 'they wanted it'.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 12:38 PM
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I don’t know whether they’re dismissed as menstruation but I can imagine doctors dismissing their health concerns. You know why? Because it’s no better for men either. A lot of doctors I’ve seen just don’t give a shit, some are lazy or overworked and some are incompetent. As a result of my experience, I’m less likely to go to the doctors unless it’s something serious because it seems like I’m wasting my time. With the NHS you’re only allowed to register to GP’s if you fall into their catchment a…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 11:54 AM
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Permanent alimony means that old men of retirement age will have to continue working so that they can pay their ex wives. Getting rid of it was a good thing.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 07:25 PM
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I don't know what you call them but those articles have authors with more authority assigned to them. So when you try to add anything, they just revert it or lock the article. They cherry pick the type of sources allowed and ban users who try to edit the article. For example: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Talk:Misandry You can see binksternet asking for sources proving misandry but his opinion, 'The word "most" is actually not going far enough; just about every scholar who writes about these top…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 05:58 PM
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That suggests that therapy tailored towards men should be offered. When they're discussing men who did seek help, they seemed to be referring to things like employment services and the justice system as well. No, they sought help from the following: 'most often primary care services (82%); half (50%) had been in contact with mental health services, 30% with the justice system (i.e. police, probation or prison services). 2% were in contact with employment services, despite the high rates of unemp…
/r/MensRights05/07/23 05:43 PM
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Another one, 'Who's the most beautiful woman on the planet?'.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 05:19 PM
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Yeah, that is also true. I've seen some women compliment another and then chat shit behind their backs.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 05:01 PM
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Also, look at how honest can you be to a woman before your called a dickhead. You can’t say (at least not directly) that a woman is bad at sex, that she’s putting on weight, that she smells. Instead of pointing these things out, men are advised to very gently suggest fixes, for example ‘don’t tell her she smells, tell her you want to take a shower together’. You’re expected to make her feel like the hottest woman on the planet. Whereas if you’re given a blunt answer from a woman, you’re told to …
/r/MensRights05/07/23 03:59 PM
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Women and Equalities Committee I though men are the only ones who have power and influence though? This reminds me of the sexual offences act 2003 revision in regards to rape.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 03:02 PM
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Can we start sending female teachers on training courses to stop ‘sleeping’ with teenage boys?
/r/MensRights05/07/23 02:33 PM
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Women who don’t take no from men often claim that they thought men are always dtf. When do we start teaching girls about respecting consent? When do we start teaching boys that it’s okay to say no? Edit: of course the UK sub discussion is about how ‘incels’ are complaining that they’re more worried about being vilified than girls being raped.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 01:43 PM
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You are spot on. It is such a shame how most of society just blindly believes anything feminists say without looking at actual data. They are in positions of power and influence, making decisions for men. Yet they claim that all our issues are the result of patriarchy.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 01:25 PM
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They always circle back to chivalry and traditionalism when it comes to protecting women and male gender roles.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 12:22 PM
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I think the confusion may come from calling out lgbt communities online (reddit, twitter) where misandry is expected in order for you to fit in. There's is some discussion on it here. I'm open minded and respectful when it comes to sexual orientation and gender. We're all human after all.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 12:17 PM
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They cause those insecurities in some men and then blame men or the porn industry for it.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 06:53 PM
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They always use insults like those, wonder why men are insecure about those things and blame other men for it. ‘You’re behaviour is giving off small dick energy’ ‘Why are you insecure about your dick size?’ ‘You’re insecure because you have porn addiction’
/r/MensRights04/07/23 06:47 PM
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For the ones up top it’s definitely intentional. They push misleading statistics and the government funds them for it. With the drones it’s a mixed bag. Reddit feminists almost always disappear when you provide a source since they don’t care for the truth.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 06:19 PM
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Reminds me of that time when a Reddit admin investigated reports of 'rape threats' by twox users and found that the vast majority were sent to themselves from alt accounts lol. I'll try and find it but this was a very long time ago.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 12:35 PM
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If she doesn't get her way, she will be grumpy so keep her happy at the expense of your own happiness. I don't agree with it as I see it as mental abuse and it enables controlling behaviour. It's a miserable way to live.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 12:17 PM
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It's why they're so adamant that there's a patriarchy. They can just blame everything on men. It's an extremely black and white way of looking at things with no room for nuance. Like religion. God is the force for all good. The devil is the force for all bad.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 12:02 PM
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Whilst at the same time, they want men to discuss issues without bringing up women. Somehow talking about abusive women is still misogyny lol.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:36 AM
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Feminists will tell you that the cause for male suicide is toxic masculinity, i.e. men are afraid to seek help. An actual study found that 91% of men in the sample, sought help but the help was either hard to access or just ineffective. https://documents.manchester.ac.uk/display.aspx?DocID=55305 Listening to feminists will solve nothing because they’re going on what the feel and not reality. Probably intentional since a lot of them don’t care about men to begin with.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:29 AM
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Of course dowry is illegal whilst mahr is still legal in India. Mahr is a Muslim tradition where the bride demands a sum of money from the groom that is to be paid once they are married.
/r/MensRights04/07/23 11:13 AM
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This is true. In the UK they made the crime of ‘sexual activity without consent’ as an afterthought. The lawmakers (liberal women) said that they do not believe female-on-male rape should be classified as rape. This is after mentioning that rape is the most serious and harmful type of sexual assault. The punishments were made with the intent to imprison male rapists only. ‘Sexual activity with consent’ which applies to female rapists, carries much more lenient sentencing which often is suspended…
/r/MensRights03/07/23 07:23 PM
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Based on the crap they've been churning out at hollywood the last few years, I have no intention of watching this. These people love to claim misogyny, transphobia or racism when their movies flop. Writing, acting and directing are what makes or breaks a movie for me, not demographics. The Thing remake is one of my favourite movies of all time. If in some parallel universe they had used capable female actresses instead of an all male cast and changed nothing else, I'd still love it. Now if you'r…
/r/MensRights03/07/23 04:12 PM
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It’s just unexpected that for once, rational people have drowned out the people calling for him to be cancelled. I’m not complaining though lol.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 02:00 PM
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He’s able to verbalise what we’re thinking very well but I have no idea how he’s not called an incel or misogynist.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 01:37 PM
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Bill Burr was right about them. They ‘ally’ themselves with minorities and then place themselves at the front of the queue because for some reason their issues are the most important.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 01:08 PM
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Or they say you’re ignoring all the bad movies from back in the day. At least those movies had decent actors in them and were still watchable. Also, you can’t deny that midbudget movies have pretty much disappeared.
/r/MensRights03/07/23 12:42 PM
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Hollywood is experiencing a peak that will be short-lived before it gets taken over by people who do not care about movies and who only want to suck the fun out of everything I feel like this already happened. After around 2010 we began getting more movies with terrible writing and then around 2020 it felt like the vast majority of movies were full of terrible writing, acting and directing. I find most of Disney, Netflix and MCU content to be shit. I feel like people’s standards have dropped or …
/r/MensRights03/07/23 01:11 AM
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They lack empathy towards men
/r/MensRights02/07/23 08:21 PM
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The feminist guy talking about how dv is overwhelmingly one sided with men as perpetrators and women as victims, annoyed me the most. He dares to say it’s a zero sum game for MRA’s despite the fact that it is a zero sum game to him and feminists. He’s the one suggesting male dv victims don’t need resources whilst suggesting that men only bring up their issues to take away resources for women. Absolutely delusional.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 03:15 PM
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She says ‘men were generally doing so fine that they were the one sociodemographic group you could lovingly … beat up on a bit.’ Feminists say shit like ‘kill all men’, ‘male tears’, ‘incel’ or whatever, with hatred. You don’t get to brush it off as loving banter. Men and boys aren’t going to change if they receive negative attention for showing certain emotions or open up about their feelings. It’s not to do with homophobia. I was told by my teacher that ‘boys don’t cry’ when I was around 6 yea…
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:59 PM
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It’s misogyny because men won’t be providing for modern women who want best of both worlds. To be able to choose the life they want whilst still expecting men to provide for them. On top of that, hypergamy means that men are likely to lose in divorce. I’ll never marry.
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:49 PM
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In instances like these it's like you said, it's an attempt to end a debate by confusing the person. Especially people who aren't as good or inexperienced with debates.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 11:51 PM
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They do recognise it but the argument is that feminism isn't truly left wing since it excludes men. They're not the same as mainstream left.
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:27 PM
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Feminists talk about 'toxic masculinity' and want men to help each other, but they won't even let them have safe spaces to talk about their issues. The whole 'entire planet is a male space' thing is a lie. They know how women talk about men in their safe spaces and they assume men would do the same. Their online spaces like twox, the vast majority of their posts are about men. They've exclusively labelled it 'locker room talk' for men, even though men don't really share details of their sex life…
/r/MensRights28/06/23 01:04 PM
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These are important questions as well
/r/MensRights27/06/23 12:21 PM
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The bar may sound low but I’m sure most men will agree these are common issues. Reciprocate effort, probably the biggest one and no, sex isn’t a gift lol. Don’t make it about yourself, start crying, share with others, or use it against me later when I share something personal with you. Don’t expect me to provide for you, especially when we don’t have kids together. Respect my boundaries and don’t have double standards for your own as well. If you don’t like me hanging out one on one with another…
/r/MensRights26/06/23 09:07 PM
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Never married but I’ve experienced this irl with my mum and an ex-girlfriend lol. Whenever she was on her period she would get stroppy when I merely talked to my mum because she didn’t like me giving attention to anyone but her.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 08:17 PM
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Yeah, they’ve recently made staring fall under sexual harassment here. I don’t stare at people outside unless they’re doing something unusual. However, I’ve heard female friends say ‘that guy is staring at me’ when it was just a mere glance.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 06:31 PM
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Very intentional. The cause for it is that they do not want to acknowledge that misandry exists.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 06:04 PM
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That’s a good one. I would label myself an egalitarian rather than mra. I don’t see it as an issue since we’re both fighting for the same thing anyway.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 06:02 PM
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Most of these are taking on volunteers National Coalition For Men 1in6.org ManKind Innocence Project Men's sheds
/r/MensRights26/06/23 02:22 PM
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Unless they're mother in law's Women have a whole subreddit complaining about them lol
/r/MensRights26/06/23 11:17 AM
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Notice how they won’t use toxic femininity
/r/MensRights26/06/23 10:21 AM
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Why do they hate men who enjoy massaging knees? Seems like a weird hill to die on.
/r/MensRights26/06/23 10:19 AM
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I'm having doubts that more men than women have been informed on how to identify and report sexual harassment as well as access resources for it. Usually we're only taught on how to avoid perpetrating sexual harassment.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 12:33 PM
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Literally just saw an example of this over on r/uk. https://np.reddit.com/r/unitedkingdom/comments/14gwf31/paris_mayo_guilty_of_murdering_son_hours_after/jp7sef5/ Actual victim not mentioned, murderer must have raped by a male pedo, her father must be abusive and anyone who blames her is a misogynist. It’s scary that these people might be selected for jury service.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 11:22 AM
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They’re adamant about due process when it’s a woman being accused of rape.
/r/MensRights24/06/23 10:06 AM
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Got any examples?
/r/MensRights23/06/23 08:28 PM
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The study showing that was retracted as the result was incorrect due to miscoding. https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/pdf/10.1177/0022146514568351
/r/MensRights23/06/23 07:07 PM
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I can’t do the walking on eggshells thing anymore. Anyone who’s been through it will tell you it’s mentally exhausting.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:38 PM
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Exactly. In my experience, it’s mostly a western cultural thing since we coddle girls growing up. Me and my girlfriend are both British asian, but we lean more towards Asian cultural background than western, if that makes sense. We’re not dicks to each other but we can be honest without being afraid of hurting each others feelings.
/r/MensRights23/06/23 04:35 PM
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You know it's funny when a guy asks for advice regarding his wife or girlfriend smelling down below. All the advice is for him to say it in the most gentle way possible so as not to trigger her insecurities. Example from AITA: "NTA, but maybe try not to "tell" her. If you're intimate enough together, maybe offer to shower or bathe together, and you can help her wash her hair or something. Or if shes coming over, maybe prepare a nice hot bath with bubbles or candles or something." Yet, these peop…
/r/MensRights23/06/23 01:01 PM
7

It’s so stupid that they classify male victims of domestic abuse as victims of violence against women and girls. https://data.parliament.uk/DepositedPapers/Files/DEP2022-0294/Supporting_Male_Victims_March_2022.pdf Local authorities must now fund male services if required. My gut tells me that VAWG is used to suppress male victims in statistics so that they can continue to fund female only services. Erasure of male victims is a tactic they’ve been using since the beginning. They also dropped the …
/r/MensRights23/06/23 10:51 AM
20

The average Reddit feminist by the looks of it
/r/MensRights22/06/23 05:36 PM
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15 years is the minimum prison term for a life sentence in the UK, they’re then on license (probation) for the remainder of their life. Let’s see how long they keep her in prison.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 05:32 PM
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Respect for the senator Hanson. Like most countries, there is little to no support for male victims of any kind of abuse due to lack of government funding. Feminists have done a good job at maintaining DV as a women's problem. For anyone who missed it: The domestic violence movement historically framed its work on a gender binary of men as potential perpetrators and women as potential victims. This binary was an essential starting point to defining and responding to domestic violence. The moveme…
/r/MensRights22/06/23 02:25 PM
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“His passenger shot him in the head because she believed he was kidnapping her and taking her to Juarez, which was not the case,” the driver’s wife, Ana, said in an online post. I'm willing to bet that she made this up to reduce her sentence or avoid prison completely.
/r/MensRights22/06/23 02:14 PM
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Hanson made a 999 call for an ambulance and she said that she stabbed her husband "just out of anger" after they had an argument. The fuck is wrong with this jury
/r/MensRights22/06/23 11:59 AM
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Sign a contract where the other party benefits from breaking it and give them an expensive ring on top of that? No thanks to both. So my answer is to not give one in the first place.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 06:51 PM
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Non-American, but thanks for the history lesson. Opposing the right for black people to vote is the wrong way to go about it.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 05:47 PM
11

‘ Furthermore, women engaged in significantly higher levels of controlling behaviour than men, which significantly predicted physical aggression in both sexes.’ I’m not surprised. They pretty much rarely get in trouble for it and aren’t taught that it’s wrong for them to be controlling or violent. On the flip side, men are taught to respect girls and not harm them from a young age.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 10:51 AM
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Such a spot on line. These feminists make appeals to minorities to get them on their side and then prioritise themselves over all others.
/r/MensRights21/06/23 10:42 AM
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Feminist organisation fights against funding of gender neutral abuse service organisations. https://www.womensaid.org.uk/iwd-womens-aid-petition-local-authorities-fund-womens-domestic-abuse-services/ Other feminists have admitted that they have historically applied a ‘strategy of containment’ in regards to male victims so that they can maximise funding for their organisations. https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/72839546.pdf Here is what liberal women who designed the UK legislation for rape in 2003…
/r/MensRights21/06/23 10:24 AM
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It's really annoying. There's a post on r/malementalhealth about how men need to accept the victim blaming term, toxic-masculinity. Cool, you're right, we're wrong, how does that help men with their mental health? If female hysteria was still recognised as a medical term, would you push women to accept it? These people aren't here to help, they're here to push their agenda.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 11:32 PM
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neither men nor women who experience SA are taken seriously through the lenses of sexist social constructs. In my experience, feminists bring this up to dismiss men. Rape legislations in many countries can only be applied to male perpetrators. This affects both sentencing length and statistics. It is different to the difficulties of trying to prove that it happened, which I agree is a problem that both genders face.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 10:39 PM
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Silly as in the study and conclusion don’t make sense. I agree that it is propaganda as well.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 08:45 PM
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They didn’t actually include men in the study to prove that women are suffering more lol. The 250 participants were all women which doesn’t make any sense. It tells us that women are suffering but it does not mean that men are doing any better.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 07:41 PM
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The woman they used as an example actually said that father’s are facing the same problem. ‘It's also fathers out there that are struggling too. If there are men's support groups out there, they should let themselves be known to provide support.’ It’s the professor who is focusing only on women. ‘The research focused on a group of 250 women in Northern Ireland.’ No men were part of the study so it’s silly to say that only women are ‘bearing the brunt’.
/r/MensRights20/06/23 07:35 PM
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Great points. Internet feminists are unimportant compared to those with actual influence and power, the ones behind government policies and legislations. The typical internet feminist is no good either. They always complain about how men only bring up their issues because we want to diminish women’s issues. However, they do this exact thing every time outside of this subreddit. Make a post about male suicide with no mention about women and someone will say women attempt more. Post about DV or ra…
/r/MensRights19/06/23 08:01 PM
9

And people wonder why men stay in relationships with abusive women. It's the same story with consent.
/r/MensRights18/06/23 12:42 AM
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I don't know how common it is but in most work places I've been in, men are the ones expected to do any heavy lifting like moving things around or handling large parcels.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 06:19 PM
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It’s estimated women do 29% more office housework than white men. Comparing women of all colours against only white men to make the percentage as large as possible lol. Also, the actual study says: It found that women were 29% more likely than white men to report doing more office housework than their colleagues.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 02:04 PM
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It has the same concepts as a religion or cult. Belief in the patriarchy = belief in a higher power or the devil. Feminism fights the patriarchy = religion saves you from evil forces. Misogyny = sin Hostile towards any other egalitarian groups = how religious groups treat people of other religions, disbelievers or infidels. The ones at the top know that a lot of the stuff they say is bullshit but they’ve got a very large group of followers who will believe anything they say. This gives them a to…
/r/MensRights17/06/23 12:16 PM
1

It still would not be rape under UK law. That would be assault by penetration.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 09:42 AM
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Spot on. Shove toxic masculinity in there as well, e.g. men hide their emotions because they don't want be seen as feminine. Therefore, it is toxic masculinity rooting from misogyny and not misandry. Why are you afraid of behaving like a woman? Completely ignoring society's lack of empathy and often disgust towards men who display said emotions, which is misandry.
/r/MensRights17/06/23 12:16 AM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights16/06/23 11:43 PM
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aggravated if the perpetrator forces the victim to become pregnant. No mention is made of the perpetrator forcing the victim to impregnate her. There is no talk of which one is worse in the parent comment. You're the only one who has done that. All they said was that the latter is completely ignored.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 11:19 PM
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The ones in ftm or trans related subs still support feminism and believe in the patriarchy. They call it trans-misandry, as though these things don’t bother men who’ve been treated this way their whole life. There are quite a few who post on r/leftwingmaleadvocates which are much more reasonable.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 08:12 PM
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I meant to say that’s how rape is defined in UK law. I don’t agree with it.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 07:11 PM
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I don’t know what a recognisance bond is but it sounds like they let her go free even though they found her guilty?
/r/MensRights16/06/23 07:10 PM
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Rape is defined as penile penetration of the vagina, anus or mouth. It would still apply to trans women who still have a penis.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 05:39 PM
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I have actually had discussions with feminists who have said this law is the fault of the patriarchy since it was created by men.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:27 PM
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I'm familiar with that article, but yeah, it's amazing how they want to keep rape an exclusively male perpetrated crime.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:17 PM
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He tried to report it but wasn’t taken seriously and one of the policemen even giggled at him! Not surprised. Even female victims who were raped by women have said the same thing. https://www.bbc.co.uk/bbcthree/article/95769958-f129-416c-9610-c8f96504ce77 She spoke to a close friend of hers who worked in the police force, and who advised her against reporting her rape. She told Cailey: “This is a minefield. If it was a man we might be able to get somewhere but prosecution is unlikely because it’…
/r/MensRights16/06/23 04:15 PM
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The entire sexual offences act legislations are worded with 'he' as the perpetrator. I haven't looked extensively, but other crimes say 'any person'. It's very silly.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:28 PM
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Yet you'll still have people assume that only men were behind these laws.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:17 PM
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Here is one of those studies https://documents.manchester.ac.uk/display.aspx?DocID=55305
/r/MensRights16/06/23 02:08 PM
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Yep, as evidenced by The Office for National Statistics. They always do crime surveys for rape and 'assault by penetration', comparing genders of victims and perpetrators. However, they've not done a single one for 'sexual activity without consent' or 'sexual activity with a child'.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 01:56 PM
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Ah, the "cute" pyscho. Most online relationship stuff is dominated by women so the content is often gynocentric. Teaching men relationship "skills" (catering to women's needs), women defending their abusive behaviour, etc. Woman is lazy? She must have depression. Woman is abusive? Probably has PMDD. Dead bedroom? Are you taking her on dates? doing chores? etc. If the genders are switched then the woman will be told to leave him.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 12:05 PM
22

Why would you marry again after going through this
/r/MensRights16/06/23 11:22 AM
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They fancy the money, not necessarily the men who have it.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 01:39 AM
8

No man shaming gets through to me anymore Same, the actual man shaming part doesn’t bother me. I’ve never taken it personally despite their attempts. I still call it out though since it does do harm to some men.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 10:44 PM
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Prime example folks
/r/MensRights15/06/23 09:41 PM
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Despite what women say, a lot of them dislike insecure men because it’s seen as not masculine. Society has no problem ridiculing insecure men. On the other hand, society coddles women with insecurities and a good man is expected to do the same with his wife.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 12:09 PM
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No, you are actually a misogynist since you are displaying toxic Asian masculinity by being an Asian man who loves noodles.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:38 AM
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What’s annoying is when progressives justify the term “small dick energy” or “short man syndrome” by saying they’re ridiculing insecurity and not body shaming. They’re literally associating certain groups of people to negative behaviour based on physical attributes.
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:27 AM
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Becky is now a misogynistic term 😂
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:21 AM
23

They love to have a gay “friend” but then use gay as an insult when they get rejected
/r/MensRights15/06/23 11:04 AM
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For real, those guys would be scrutinised by our media until they get sacked.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 06:42 PM
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Lol that’s probably true. This is what you get when you have women deciding things for men. We did consider whether there was evidence that a woman could force a man to penetrate her against his will but, although we found a little anecdotal evidence, we did not discover sufficient to convince us that this was the equivalent of rape. Membership of the Sex Offences Review Betty Moxon OBE (Home Office) Chair Su McLean-Tooke (Home Office) Secretary to the review Haydee Scarsbrook (Home Office) Admi…
/r/MensRights14/06/23 06:30 PM
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They also realised how gullible people are. They know they can pretty much say anything and most people will just lap it up without question. You get the dumbest shit from "air conditioning is sexist" on mainstream news, to "Stats show that women don't rape men". Like no shit, feminists fought to have rape laws gendered in regards to the perpetrator, so of course statistics will reflect that.
/r/MensRights14/06/23 11:38 AM
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I have nothing to do with it, just quoting the message from the sub.
/r/MensRights13/06/23 12:31 AM
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We are closed in protest of Reddit Inc disregarding its users and moderators. You can find us on https://kbin.social/m/men and https://mastodon.online/tags/maleadvocacy.
/r/MensRights11/06/23 06:57 PM
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I agree and a lot of misandry is systemic too. Lack of shelters for homeless and abused men. Gendered rape laws which also contribute to the above point via statistics. Biases in family court. Misandry is completely fine on all social media platforms. Female equivalents of Andrew Tate are everywhere on social media. They are all over TikTok, Twitter and there’s a whole bunch on FDS, witchesvspatriarchy, fourthwavewomen, etc. Pretty much every kid I know uses TikTok so the vast majority are expos…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 09:29 PM
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I’ve noticed STD’s are only bought up when it’s convenient. When it comes to birth control it’s forgotten but when they’re discussing why stealthing only applies to men they can’t stop mentioning it.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 07:00 PM
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Ah, an incentive to murder to your husband. What could go wrong?
/r/MensRights10/06/23 04:16 PM
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Well the first study that pops up already goes against your claim of penile sensitivity. Unless you're going to cite something, your claims are meaningless with nothing to back it. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:58 PM
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You keep mentioning studies but have yet to cite a single one
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:48 PM
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How could you say that the feeling is different? Personal experience and studies. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23374102/ The analysis sample consisted of 1059 uncircumcised and 310 circumcised men. For the glans penis, circumcised men reported decreased sexual pleasure and lower orgasm intensity. They also stated more effort was required to achieve orgasm, and a higher percentage of them experienced unusual sensations (burning, prickling, itching, or tingling and numbness of the glans penis).…
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:43 PM
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How? The vast majority of men were children when it is carried out.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:30 PM
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It's only racist if you're against male genital mutilation. Being against female genital mutilation is completely fine though. They have posters about reporting FGM in every doctor's surgery or hospital, I've never seen anyone claiming racism. Should we also make wife-beating legal too whilst we're at it? Don't want to be racist after all.
/r/MensRights10/06/23 02:11 PM
1

Yes, that too.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 04:49 PM
1

Wow! You should pay for my drinks because I’m attractive. I think you’re a 10 so pay for my drink. Why are u gae? She is entitled, manipulative and sexist.
/r/MensRights09/06/23 12:59 PM
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Yeah, me and my girlfriend are living like this, not getting legally married. No kids, we both work and share chores. There are no cohabitation laws here so if we did end it, there'd be no splitting of assets or spousal maintenance.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 06:29 PM
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To rub it in, they spent £85m recently making a women’s prison all nice and cushy. It’s worse when you realise only the worst type of female criminals will go to prison in the first place.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 04:48 PM
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There’s a name for it now, the gamma bias. In short, men are generalised when they do something negative but individualised when they do something positive. Women are individualised when they do something negative and the action is downplayed but they are generalised for doing something positive.
/r/MensRights08/06/23 01:11 PM
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That's probably malementalhealth. Women don't run it but there are a bunch of regulars who diminish, victim blame and promote feminist views there instead of actually listening to the men seeking help or venting.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 07:12 PM
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I agree. Also when men do harm, it's all men that are bad. When women do harm we're reminded that women are individuals and that it's rare. Yet when a woman does something great they become collective.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 07:05 PM
2

I just realised I've been pronouncing gynocentrism with a soft g even though I use a hard g for gynaecology lol.
/r/MensRights07/06/23 06:50 PM
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"I've always wanted to visit; it looks so picture perfect,' she says. Alas, such a holiday costs a high, four-figure sum and 52-year-old singleton Tracey has no intention of footing the bill." "If we're going to have a relationship, then they have to put the same effort into it as me, and that means financially, too." "That person must meet some pretty strict criteria, she says. No, he does not have to share her love of tai-chi, nor be possessed of a George Clooney-esque physique. He need not be…
/r/MensRights06/06/23 11:10 AM
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Lowest compared to males in other age groups, not compared to females.
/r/MensRights06/06/23 02:32 AM
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They also tell us that women are happier single than married so divorce should be a positive thing for women.
/r/MensRights05/06/23 08:44 PM
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It’s hard to say since comments that go against the hivemind get censored through downvotes or outright removed by mods.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 06:21 PM
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Female subs will probably just bully or ban them as well tbh
/r/MensRights04/06/23 01:17 PM
20

That’s madness. Courts always forget the part where the wife has been living rent and bill free.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:51 PM
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Exactly. Also, you are expected to continue providing after a divorce but she’s not expected to cook and clean for you.
/r/MensRights04/06/23 12:12 PM
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Because some women hate hearing that they’re undesirable and shift blame on to men to protect their ego’s. It’s the same story with woman who are fat, have onlyfans, etc. Ever rejected a woman before? You’re gay, not a real man or you rejected them because you’re afraid of “strong” women who ask you out. These are all coping methods from being rejected. Claiming you’re an incel makes you the undesirable one so they can tell themselves that your opinion is meaningless. Edit: come to think of it, …
/r/MensRights03/06/23 01:22 PM
5

Tell that to the guys paying child support to their rapist
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:37 PM
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You’ll need spend 10’s of thousands getting custody first and you probably won’t get it since you’re both male and a child.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 06:16 PM
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I like how they’re saying that amending rape legislation will cause issues. The legislation that feminists pushed for. Translation: statistics* will no longer show that only men rape people
/r/MensRights02/06/23 03:56 PM
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When she gets pregnant, decides to keep it and you’re liable for child support with back pay once you start working. Atta boy?
/r/MensRights02/06/23 02:50 PM
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The thing is girls also are sexually attracted to their teachers, favourite singers, actors, etc. It doesn't make it okay for the adult to have sex with an underage person. Also men would probably change their tune if they realised that their rapist may become pregnant, they'd have no say over it and they might be liable for child support.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 02:20 PM
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It gets labelled toxic masculinity instead because feminists think discrimination against men is actually misogyny and that misandry isn't a thing.
/r/EverydayMisandry02/06/23 02:16 PM
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No, which is why I wrote it is completely untrue. You can compare the sentencing tables here Sexual activity without consent Rape Categories 2 and 3 are more lenient for the former. The minimum for the former is a community order but for rape it is 4 years custodial. Sentencing for SAWC can also be suspended unlike rape.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 02:03 PM
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They like the term toxic masculinity because they believe that all men's issues stem from misogyny and the phrase conveniently does not acknowledge the existence of misandry. For example, they blame male suicide on men not opening up (TM) because it is seen as feminine and therefore misogyny. In reality most men seek help but don't find it adequate. This is completely intentional since they are adamant that misandry is not a thing. It is also a motte and bailey fallacy. When you call out the vic…
/r/MensRights02/06/23 01:57 PM
2

This is the thing, so many girls have told me things about their partner that I should not know, they would not be okay with their partner doing the same. Some girls you open up to and they have to one-up you and make it about themselves. This means you end up consoling them instead. I don't even trust my mum with certain info because I know she will tell my aunts and then my entire family knows.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 12:39 PM
1

The annoying thing is every subreddit outside of this one is pretty much a feminist subreddit. Even in askmen a certain mod will delete posts if she feels offended. Like this one from last night, also note the feminists coming in towrds the end saying that these men are lying about their issues lol: https://np.reddit.com/r/AskMen/comments/13xqdrp/how_would_you_react_to_a_man_who_says_society/
/r/MensRights02/06/23 12:23 PM
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Nonce teacher rapes pupil is what the title should be. Unfortunately, women are legally incapable of being rapists in the UK. Edit: I see it got linked to unitedkingdom on the other discussion tab. Lots of feminists saying that the sentencing for "sexual activity without consent" is the same as for rape, which is completely untrue.
/r/MensRights02/06/23 12:19 PM
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Some like Joss Whedon promote feminism to appeal to women but he’s been exposed as a creep lol
/r/MensRights01/06/23 05:15 PM
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I've said it before but a lot of western Indian women are the worst kind of feminists. The users of twoxindia are 34x more likely to participate on FDS according to subreddit overlap. Even in their home country, Indian women protested against recognising male victims of rape. Also adulery is legal for women but not men and women are legally allowed to beat their husbands.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 01:52 PM
2

I've read that testosterone levels are at their highest during the morning. Don't know if it's true but I do sometimes feel grumpy when I wake up.
/r/MensRights01/06/23 12:07 PM
1

A lot of women be receiving suspended sentences over here
/r/MensRights01/06/23 12:35 AM
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Ahmad was also charged with stabbing her former boyfriend six years before the fatal attack on Tai. She denied both murder and wounding with intent Why has it taken 6 years to charge her for this and why wasn’t she on remand?
/r/MensRights31/05/23 04:46 PM
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I think some men are brainwashed by the media and our education, others are too scared in fear of backlash.
/r/MensRights31/05/23 02:09 PM
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That’s relationship advice in general. Women are born perfect but men need fix up. Women are taught to look out for red flags whereas men are to taught how to treat women. When a woman does something bad you will be reminded that women aren’t a monolith but when a man does something bad then all men are bad. This works the other way round when it comes to doing something positive.
/r/MensRights30/05/23 05:57 PM
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I guess because people would actually listen to women criticising feminism instead of just brushing it it off as misogynistic men. Pickme is a term invented to invalidate those women.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 09:43 PM
5

This is rich coming from a feminist since they always spout that men aren’t owed sex or whatever.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 01:29 PM
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When a woman was accused, the founders of metoo wanted due process. They act more rationally when it’s one of their own but if it’s a man then he is automatically guilty. Something like metoo or believewomen would only work if all accusations of rape were true and we know that isn’t the case. You’ll always have psycho’s regardless of gender.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 12:27 PM
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Ignoring the feminists calling her a pickme, it’s nice to hear some positive news for once.
/r/MensRights29/05/23 12:17 PM
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They only imprison women who commit serious crimes so this prison is for the worst kind as well.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:26 PM
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Because not all of them are attractive and they would greatly outnumber me. Edit: I should expand that because of the last point, I don't think you'll actually be doing the selecting.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 08:02 PM
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I'd either try to find a deserted island or off myself
/r/MensRights28/05/23 07:54 PM
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I get your point and agree with it. Just want to say that other than cases of rape, pregnancy is a choice. They are choosing to have sex and they can abort in most countries as well. Adoption is another option if women don't want to go through pregnancy.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 04:08 PM
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I'm guessing because she never actually loved her son and was planning to use him to get child support. This is also often presented as "saving" the child from not being with their mother, which seems to be a rather specific type of projection...? I see it as narcissism. It's rightly called out when a father does it but a understandable when a mother does it. Mum's know best after all.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 03:43 PM
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Housewives with no children seem to quite common where I live. You’re correct though, most household chores are pretty easy nowadays. Some won’t even do that though and claim that housework is unpaid labour. They are living rent free and spending someone else’s income, the least they could do is the household chores. Divorce/alimony laws seem to forget that part, they think the woman sacrificed her career. Edit: I meant to say girls who want to be housewives with no children are common here.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 01:48 PM
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Also marrying some who wants to be a stay at home wife is financially a stupid idea as laws currently stand.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:55 AM
5

Besides resources, in dating I feel like my wants and feelings are secondary compared to hers. When men have issues with their partners, people suggest he puts in more effort in some way like listening to her more, taking her out on date nights or doing more chores. Almost no-one suggests compromise, guy just has to do what she wants.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:45 AM
1

This is why I can’t pick a side, both options are shitty to me.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:35 AM
2

Do you know if it’s considered rape or sexual assault? Either way, OP should try to report it.
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:06 AM
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I’m aware that’s the case. I was only responding in regards to Sweden as it applies to OP. Edit: Confirmed by another person below that this would be rape in Sweden
/r/MensRights28/05/23 11:01 AM
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I used to think so too but it seems to be one of few countries where rape legislation isn’t gendered.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 08:53 PM
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Sorry this has happened to you. I don’t know how it’s handled by the justice system in Sweden but legally, rape seems to be defined as sex without consent.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 07:05 PM
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Don’t know what world they’re living in, they often receive suspended sentences. Also, in the UK they suggest imprisoning women for serious crimes only.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 06:48 PM
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In my experience, they usually deny that there is a sentencing disparity, say that female criminals are extremely rare or that they have past trauma which accounts for reduced sentencing.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 03:47 PM
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The projection is real when they claim that men only bring up their issues to play down women’s issues. They all claim whataboutism unless it’s themselves minimising men’s issues by making it about themselves. There was a similar case in the UK where a woman “accidentally” knocked her boyfriend down and then turned around to “accidentally” drive two wheels over his head.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 03:00 PM
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Girls have fantasies about sleeping with their teachers as well. It’s why statutory rape is a separate crime. The consent of the child is irrelevant. Difference is that girls are taught that this is a bad thing growing up, but boys aren’t. Probably because most people are unaware that it’s so common. This is pretty fucked since if the teacher gets pregnant, it’s solely her decision on whether to carry it to term and the boy will be on the hook for child support. Guys like this are fucking idiots…
/r/MensRights27/05/23 02:23 PM
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Even feminists over at The Guardian have reported that this is a myth. https://web.archive.org/web/20230109201339/https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2012/mar/19/myths-about-rape-conviction-rates It was at 58% (10 years ago, now 68%), the same conviction rate for any other crime. When you hear some low like 1%, what they mean is attrition rate which is actually 12%. As the article says, they only do this for rape so you can’t compare it to other crimes.
/r/MensRights27/05/23 12:55 PM
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A few have said to me that it’s better that innocent men be wrongly imprisoned than to let a rapist go free.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 08:53 PM
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Agreed. Women’s DV groups have historically hidden male victims of abuse, feminists have even written an article about it themselves. Also you could pretty much take any women’s subreddit and see that there’s endless misandry there.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 02:53 PM
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According to feminists this is completely men’s own fault and society doesn’t need to do anything. Nothing to do with boys being moulded by mothers or female teachers, and how men are portrayed in the media. Only when transmen speak about the issue do people take some notice, but for some reason they think it’s only an issue for transmen and not men in general.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:31 PM
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This article was posted in the psychology subreddit as well where someone said that men need to be better allies to themselves but they shouldn’t group themselves together because it will only create hate groups.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 01:18 PM
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I see this all the time. “Female rape victims aren’t taken seriously either”. Men can’t even be legally recognised as rape victims and there are no services or shelters for them.
/r/MensRights25/05/23 08:26 PM
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But they're the primary victims of war because they're losing their husbands, fathers, brothers and sons - Hilary Clinton
/r/MensRights24/05/23 10:48 PM
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From my experience, it's not even something most women care about lol.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 06:26 PM
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Physical strength and no periods. Those are biological traits though not rights. Perhaps men have the right to go topless, though it’s not illegal for women in some western countries either. Can’t think of anything else where men have more rights than women. There’s plenty the other way round. Women legally cannot be rapists, protected against being mutilated at birth, can vote without signing up for selective service, favoured in family court, face more lenient sentences for the same crime, hav…
/r/MensRights24/05/23 01:16 PM
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Mod locked the post because criticising a specific woman for doing bad things is misogyny lol. I bet they were itching for a reason to lock it.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 12:32 PM
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Nvm found it: https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/13o5otp/fiancee_23f_upset_cause_i_30m_wont_put_her_name/ The top comments have changed a bit since I last saw it but some are still telling OP to give her 50% ownership.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:55 PM
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Looked for a good 10 mins but I’m guessing the post was deleted, sorry.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 09:38 PM
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100%, Joss Whedon is a good example of that lol. When these male feminists describe men’s thought processes I always think wtf are you going on about mate? We are not alike.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 08:56 PM
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You'll have to ask feminists as they know me better than myself
/r/MensRights23/05/23 01:06 AM
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They claim that male centred spaces attracts extremists which makes it into a toxic, misogynistic echo chamber. Projection basically, because all female centric spaces seem to be toxic, misandric echo chambers.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:25 PM
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I don't do it because it would be awkward and disrespectful
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:19 PM
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It's funny how they talk about erasing "toxic masculinity" and say men need to open up but then this is how they respond when men do open up. Their worldview is stupidly black and white. Every problem in the world is caused by men (the patriarchy), this leaves no room for nuance. It's why when women face discrimination they call it misogyny but when men face discrimination they call it toxic masculinity, i.e. they believe sexism faced by men is still misogyny and that misandry is not a thing. Th…
/r/MensRights22/05/23 10:13 PM
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Ironically, it's first known use by Mike Jebbett in 1997 was directed at women losing privileges due to equality lol. Women like her are suffering from a condition I call “Advanced Pedestalism”. Which basically means that they [women] have been living on the high side for so long, equality looks like oppression.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 09:43 PM
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I don't see anyone saying that when it comes to paying child support or alimony. That's when suddenly all women magically become housewives who are doing all the chores the house. They act like they're in the early 1900's where laundry and dishes were done by hand. It takes very little effort to do these things in the modern world. I do chores around the house every day, you're not fooling me. Abortion is a woman's right! In the UK, they also have the right to unilaterally give their baby away f…
/r/MensRights22/05/23 09:31 PM
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It wasn't even so bad on Reddit like 5-6 years ago. Yeah, the misandrists over at SRS used to brigade certain posts but now there's no need because they're everywhere.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 09:13 PM
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It's not even that private, some women engage in locker room talk openly all the time. The level of detail they go into is creepy, which is why they're scared thinking that men do the same thing. It's extremely uncommon amongst men to be describing their partner's intimate bits or other private information. If they think it's disgusting then they need to police themselves, not men.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 09:08 PM
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One of the biggest mysteries of all time is how I have been with a woman for several years and was raised by another woman for many years but I have failed to learn anything about women at all. I must be completely oblivious. Feminists somehow can explain my knowledge and experience better than myself.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 09:00 PM
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It’s their way of coping to protect their ego. Rather than admit that you’re not attracted to them as a straight man, they’d rather just believe that you’re gay for rejecting them.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 02:02 PM
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I believe this is because when some women are ready to settle down, they look for men who are “husband material”. Basically, a guy who preferably has a house and is financially stable or well off. If they are physically attracted to him then that is a bonus but not a necessity. I think most of them weren’t attracted to their husbands to begin with.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 09:35 PM
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Glad to hear the outcome. It's funny how with male criminals, they want to believe that that men are just born evil or assign reasons no one will sympathise with, like not getting laid. With female criminals, they suddenly want to comb through her history and find out which male made her that way because all women are somehow pure.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 03:59 PM
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They never call them paedophiles either
/r/MensRights20/05/23 12:21 AM
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Hopefully any potential employers will think to Google her name bringing up all these articles and avoid her.
/r/MensRights18/05/23 02:47 PM
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In my experience, most Indian feminist I’ve encountered are FDS types to a tee and right now it seems like they have a lot of influence. Edit: You can see how much overlap there is with twoxindia and fds here. Spoiler: it’s pretty high lol.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 07:12 PM
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Thankfully, in the UK you can demand a paternity test to get out of paying child support (if it’s negative of course). I think it costs around £400.
/r/MensRights16/05/23 03:05 PM
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Master manipulators... It's scary how true this can be and how often men fail to realise it.
/r/MensRights15/05/23 03:40 PM
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It’s the double standard that gets me. Woman doesn’t want husband having female friends? It’s a healthy boundary, think about it from her position, etc. Man doesn’t want wife with male friends? He’s insecure and controlling. I’ve learnt more from their actions than their words.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 07:58 PM
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“The study, while revealing, should be taken with a grain of salt: It's not entirely clear which words were considered misogynistic or how the data was gathered, so the results may not properly reflect the full context of a tweet, its tone, or whether it was part of a larger conversation.” Take it with a grain of salt because the study is flawed and the bar for misogyny is practically on the floor.
/r/MensRights14/05/23 11:52 AM
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It’s been neutered somewhat, not for misandry since Reddit doesn’t care about that, but transphobia.
/r/MensRights13/05/23 06:26 PM
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The blatant double standards of feminists and their magical ability to describe my experience for me. For example, why only teach boys to seek consent but not girls? Upon speaking with a few, they say it’s not important because they believe female perpetrators are rare. The reality is that they don’t give two shits. Why are they so against gender neutral legislations for rape? Why hide male victims of abuse? Why lobby against shared custody? The list goes on.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 07:41 PM
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It’s really odd but expected how they avoid it lol
/r/MensRights12/05/23 07:34 PM
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That would fall under “assault by penetration”. The sentencing, unlike rape, may be suspended.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 07:31 PM
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Genders aren’t mentioned in the link itself nor in the PDF under groups most at risk. However, on page 30 it does mention that loneliness in males causes risk of suicide whilst for women it causes risk of self-harm or hospitalisation.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 03:49 PM
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The question is right there in their comment if a man, legally changes their gender and rapes someone, will they only be charged with what a biological woman would be charged with?
/r/MensRights12/05/23 02:22 PM
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The law specifically requires the use of a penis so unless they have had surgery, it would still be considered rape.
/r/MensRights12/05/23 12:37 PM
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You'll sometimes see nicegirls in the comments due to the overlap with niceguys
/r/MensRights11/05/23 11:29 AM
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Age of consent is 18 if student and teacher are involved.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:53 PM
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Whilst correct the average person isn't bothered with the distinction. I've never heard anyone call a person an ephebophile.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 10:44 PM
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Weekly news of female teachers “having sex” with their students. It’s hidden from stats because only men can be rapists in the UK. On top of that, notice how she was sentenced for 1 year in prison but the sentence was suspended. For rape, you will get 4 years minimum and the courts cannot suspend the sentencing. Plus if you’re imprisoned for 30 months or more, you’re permanently on the sex offenders registry (basically guaranteed if you’re found guilty of rape). Another thing she avoided.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 08:27 PM
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This is the same charity that bullied Erin Pizzy for wanting to help male victims of abuse.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:41 PM
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No, it's a comment from the UK subreddit.
/r/MensRights09/05/23 12:33 PM
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It is essentially the male equivalent of slut shaming but it’s empowering when women do it
/r/MensRights08/05/23 01:26 PM
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They make it sound like a huge community, I remember a uk article saying that there’s around 650,000 incels online. However, their forum only has 20,000 registered users lol.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:01 AM
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I have a bachelors in Chemistry and now thinking back on it, they paired every guy up with a girl for practical chemistry. It’s not a dig, a lot of the girls in that class new what they were doing. However, there were a few that didn’t really seem interested in Chemistry and just relied on copying others.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 04:55 PM
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It’s okay for them to partake in behaviour they would normally condemn from the opposite sex because they’re “punching up” or some bullshit.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 02:53 PM
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The usual go to is that women were raised to believe men always want sex so you should treat them kindly when they disrespect boundaries. Some of them always have excuses to defend other women when they would never tolerate such behaviour from a guy. Still, they only teach boys about respecting consent.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:24 PM
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We know men have a lower likelihood of going in for minor illnesses so yes, it's likely they had shorter waiting times due to how triaging works.
/r/MensRights04/05/23 10:17 PM
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She then drove her car into the back of a lorry on the A299 in a failed attempt to kill herself. The idiots over on the uk subreddit would be empathising with her had she not failed. I'm surprised she got a prison sentence at all though and not let off for PPD.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:20 PM
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I wish there was a similar UK based study. The main one, Office for National Statistics, never include "sexual activity without consent". Here's an example. They only cover rape, assault by penetration, indecent exposure and unwanted touching. Due to genitalia, men are the perpetrators of rape 98.5% of the time. Trans women and women guilty through joint enterprise make up the remainder. Also interesting that they the separate rape and assault by penetration, by gender but not the latter two for…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 05:10 PM
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No one will abuse this in any way. What could go wrong?
/r/MensRights27/04/23 04:37 PM
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As usual, no reply to a factually correct comment lol.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 01:43 PM
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Reminds me of Rose McGowan when MeToo was applied to a woman. "Let's wait for more information and be kind."
/r/MensRights27/04/23 11:36 AM
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Oh I see, they are talking about two separate things. Reduction of jury size for criminal trials in general and a special court for sexual offences.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 11:19 AM
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The conviction rate for rape and attempted rape is down from 53 per cent in 2011-12 to 51 per cent in 2020-21 Maybe it’s just me but that doesn’t sound like a “low” conviction rate. Slightly confused, it talks about juryless trials but in the middle of the article it says they’re reducing the jury from 15 to 12. The former will likely place innocent people in prison since their goal is to bring up the conviction rate. I have a feeling if they made rape laws gender neutral in Scotland, they would…
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:30 AM
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I thought this was meant to come out ages ago. Are they delaying it in hopes of people moving past Amber Heard’s history?
/r/MensRights26/04/23 06:37 PM
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Appreciate it, thank you. Looks like what I mentioned is in the article too. Can we really expect them to take a pill every day? If he forgets his pill pack on vacation, you’re rolling the dice. Basically, what guys have been doing the last few decades. Men get told to wear condoms, so if this were to ever become a thing, women can continue to use their preferred BC for their own peace of mind. They talk about the old myth that the male drug being cancelled due to the same symptoms women have be…
/r/MensRights26/04/23 05:42 PM
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Can't read because of paywall but why do some women, especially on Reddit, talk about not trusting men to take these pills? Projection? It's not about your peace of mind but ours.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:34 PM
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That's an interesting one. There seems to be a push to rewrite history in the media. For example, GPS was apparently invented by one woman. In reality, it was a collaborative effort. Gladys West did contribute to it, it just wasn't invented by one single person.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:28 PM
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Providing, sheltering and protecting is expected from men, so on the flip side you're playing the fatherly role.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 01:11 PM
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Good. Women's gender roles are completely optional in the western world. Meanwhile, men are still expect to initiate, romance, propose, be the breadwinner, sign a financial agreement and pay the other person for breaking that agreement.
/r/MensRights26/04/23 12:58 PM
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I don’t think it does either for the record.
/r/MensRights25/04/23 02:57 PM
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Looks like the victim was going to expose her to her husband which is why they killed him. I’m guessing they’re going to go for a revenge porn angle in which case she should have told the police that instead of killing him. Perhaps also not have an affair in the first place. I don’t think I could forgive my kid either if they went that far to cover up an affair for their mother.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 08:00 PM
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They can even murder their children and people will still see them as a victim. https://np.reddit.com/r/unitedkingdom/comments/yydrpf/young_mother_27_behind_on_bills_and_rent_took/ If a man did this he would labelled a narcissist who saw his children as an extension of himself.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:56 PM
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Men don't face any problems other than toxic masculinity which they themselves are responsible for. You shouldn't expect feminists to fix your problems either, men need to form their own movement. The movement can't be called men's rights though because that implies men don't have rights. Also, you can't criticise the religion that is feminism and you must believe in the higher power that is the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights24/04/23 02:48 PM
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One of the founders stated that misandry does not exist. They do pick up on some issues but censor others. Stuff is viewed through a feminist lens (patriarchy, toxic masculinity). Another thing is that it has a lot of overlap with women’s subreddits with trollx and witchesvspatriarchy at the top.
/r/MensRights22/04/23 10:42 PM
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I remember that person defending the term toxic-masculinity in another post. Now they’re convinced that the number of male teachers having inappropriate relationships with female students is underreported, despite weekly articles of it happening the other way round.
/r/MensRights21/04/23 06:48 PM
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Not the answer to your question but in the UK, rape guarantees a prison sentence if found guilty and only men can be guilty of rape, excluding joint enterprise. With the female equivalent “sexual activity without consent”, the offender may receive a community order or suspended sentence. Also, the way prison sentences work in the UK is that around half is spent in prison and half on license (probation). Feminists are pushing to increase this specifically for rape. If I’m not mistaken they’ve alr…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 05:24 PM
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Feminists have conservative attitudes towards men
/r/MensRights19/04/23 11:15 AM
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Eppstein has disappeared since his last edit in 2021. The bit about Koss talking about male victims is now in the career section as OP pointed out. On the issue of male victims of rape, Koss has written: "Although consideration of male victims is within the scope of the legal statutes, it is important to restrict the term rape to instances where male victims were penetrated by offenders. It is inappropriate to consider as a rape victim a man who engages in unwanted sexual intercourse with a woma…
/r/MensRights19/04/23 12:25 AM
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You're right. They were removing it but stopped doing so recently. Looks like David Eppstein, the editor who kept reverting the changes, has been inactive for a while now. AnomieBOT added that bit last August and has been left untouched as of yet. You can see the editing history and the numerous times Mr Eppstein had reverted the article here: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Special:History/Mary_P._Koss
/r/MensRights19/04/23 12:17 AM
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If I'm not mistaken, her saying that women raping men isn't rape but "unwanted contact".
/r/MensRights18/04/23 10:20 PM
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It’s useful for most things that don’t involve politics or anything controversial. You can’t update these types of topics because they have moderators of sorts who will either lock or revert it.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 08:55 PM
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Another one I see becoming more common is people telling men that vasectomies are easily reversible. Although this one is mainly from dumb Redditors and not medical bodies.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 08:35 PM
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Some women say that their concerns aren’t taken seriously by doctors and I don’t doubt them. However, they assume it’s because of their gender when it’s not. A lot of doctors are overworked and tired or just aren’t bothered about you. They’re like any other humans, some of them are assholes. Feminists don’t know men’s experiences with doctors but they seem to think they do, nothing surprising there lol. I’ve had experiences with many dismissive doctors which is why I don’t go in anymore unless i…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 08:30 PM
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For abusive women, I'm guessing because it's something that works for them as valid defence in legal matters (not always) but also socially too. Look at how mainstream media and people in general reacted to Amber Heard when she claimed Johnny Depp was abusing her. People took her side. Even now, after their court case, there are still people that believe her. This doesn't work the other way around, even if the accusation is true. MeToo went all out in believing women but when one of their own, A…
/r/MensRights18/04/23 03:04 PM
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I used FDS for the same specific reason before it got neutered into whatever the fuck it is now. It was also proof that they exist and they had a pretty large userbase too.
/r/MensRights17/04/23 06:41 PM
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Online dating advice is mostly useless for guys. Post as a man and people will try to read between the lines, make assumptions and comb through your history to paint you as the bad guy. Post as a woman and people take your word exactly as written. Besides that, gender double standards are rampant. You can easily change responses by switching genders. They’re quite forgiving of abusive women with excuses like PMS, PMDD, depression, BPD, etc.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 06:07 PM
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The Guardian is a feminist source which obfuscates information in order to peddle propaganda to its readers. The current narrative is that women are not safe on the streets despite the fact that men are way more likely to face harm. They do not value men's lives. If they post about these men being killed or harmed, people will begin questioning that narrative.
/r/MensRights16/04/23 03:41 PM
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Worse. You only have to serve half of a custodial sentence in prison. So she will only be in prison for 2 years and the remaining 2 years out on license, which is like probation.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 04:27 PM
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Funnily enough, common law marriage or cohabitation laws aren't recognised in the UK, not yet anyway. There were BBC articles a few years back warning women about this.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 04:19 PM
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I have a feeling that feminists would push for cohabitation laws to get around this. That is if they don't currently exist.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 04:14 PM
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Two years in prison is way too short for a person who tortured someone for 20 years
/r/MensRights15/04/23 04:09 PM
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I know and one in particular is always removing posts which trigger her.
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:52 AM
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We are raised to believe it's a good thing by society and the media. It's a financial safety net for most women since the majority do not date down. It's a financial win if they stay married since men are still expected to be providers and still a financial win if they get divorced, through alimony, even if they're working. I've seen people recommend marriage to women so that it's harder for her partner to leave her, especially if they have kids together. IRL, I've never had a problem talking ab…
/r/MensRights15/04/23 02:04 AM
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I agree. On the bright side there’s no common law although I suspect they might change that since marriage rates are dropping.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 06:18 PM
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Happens in men’s spaces too like askmen. There was a post about backlash when discussing men’s rights and men’s mental health. The top comments were about bringing up those issues without mentioning women’s issues. Whilst women were engaging in how they have it worse in subsequent comments lol. It’s basically a zero sum game. They believe that bringing awareness on men’s issues will take the focus off women. Want the government to fund men’s shelters? No because that money could have been spent …
/r/MensRights14/04/23 06:05 PM
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Good thinking on his side lol. 31 year old gold digger preying on a 19 year old, she shouldn't be entitled to half his property anyway.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:39 PM
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They're not enforceable in some countries like the UK. A judge might accept a prenup if both spouses have similar earnings but there's no set guideline so it's still a gamble.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 05:33 PM
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"Misandry is from women's personal experience" I'm not even sure what this means. Misandry from women's point of view? It sounds like a feminist femsplaining men's experiences. I wouldn't try to make any sense of it since all they're trying to do is keep men's issues on a back seat. The only male issues feminists acknowledge are loneliness and mental health. They think suicide is solely caused by men bottling up their feelings, despite evidence. You'll never see them mention other issues which a…
/r/MensRights14/04/23 02:00 PM
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Thanks and sure
/r/MensRights14/04/23 01:32 PM
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Thankfully, I caught on when I was young since it usually involved someone manipulating me into doing something I didn't want to do.
/r/MensRights14/04/23 01:49 AM
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Same tbh, but I think that's normal for a first time business.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 10:20 PM
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Yeah, I'm going to do it with my younger brother so we'll split the income in half. We won't be super rich, but we will be earning significantly more than we currently are working for another company. I plan on working my ass off the first 10 or so years to maximise income. I'll then hire employees so that I can retire early. Anyways, here's to hoping it works out for the both of us.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 10:19 PM
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Didn’t watch but it makes sense where I live. Salaries haven’t risen along with inflation and organisations are recruiting for low level jobs as though they’re prestigious. On top of that some companies are engaging in “positive” discrimination. Can’t wait to start my own business instead, I just need to save a little more.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 07:14 PM
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Literally nothing. She's wasted so much police time.
/r/MensRights13/04/23 03:11 AM
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Given that it's the UK, she will serve between 1/2 to 2/3 of her sentence in prison. Not a gender thing, just how custodial sentences work in the UK. She will likely be out in 16 months. They need to do this to my girlfriends neighbour before she gets some guy put in prison. She is a crackhead prostitute who brings men to her home then calls the police claiming they raped her. Thankfully, the entire neighbourhood and the police know that she's a prostitute so her claims haven't done any damage y…
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:10 PM
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Touche
/r/MensRights11/04/23 08:30 PM
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Misandry is acceptable in pretty much anywhere whilst misogyny is socially unacceptable in most western countries. There are quite a few terms like this: Toxic masculinity - the female equivalent is called internalised misogyny Short man syndrome - no equivalent, body shaming women is unacceptable Small dick energy - no equivalent, body shaming women is unacceptable Mansplaining - no equivalent, anyone can be condescending Fuck boy - slut shaming women is unacceptable With manchild, I think it m…
/r/MensRights11/04/23 12:13 PM
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Makes sense since she wants people to believe that trickle down equality will help men with their problems. They will just receive support and funding from men and then forget about them as they have demonstrated the last few decades.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 08:47 PM
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I've noticed that the users on that sub become very traditional when it comes to a man proving his commitment through marriage or basically, putting his money on the line. Saw some comments in your link saying that men on 30k a year are "broke". I'd argue that if your income is low, it's even more of a reason to not marry. If you divorce, you'll probably be struggling with alimony payments and could end up in prison. Which in turn will make finding employment more difficult. Not wanting that is …
/r/MensRights07/04/23 04:16 AM
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Yet Reddit feminists will tell you that fathers who ask for custody receive it majority of the time. They really want you to think it’s as simple as asking. Edit: I just read in the other subreddit that reunification camps are a thing in some parts of America. They will attempt to convince the children that their mother is actually a nice person and threaten them until they comply. Wtf!
/r/MensRights06/04/23 07:55 PM
8

I like that they care enough to look their best for me. If you ignore their insistance that they don't wear makeup or dress up for men.
/r/MensRights31/03/23 04:14 AM
9

Tumblr user takeover of Reddit is now complete
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:09 PM
19

Women and children first was just an isolated thing that happened on the Titanic. It totally would not happen in todays world.
/r/MensRights30/03/23 11:08 PM
38

I’d say internalised misandry is the more appropriate term to use. Even more so since the definition of the term seems to change as OP mentioned in their post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/03/23 06:04 PM
75

The experienced judge said he was concerned whether or not Ooms' victim had actually been harmed by their illicit liaisons. 'Often in these situations the harm is what comes from other people after it becomes public,' he said. Does he mean people telling the victim that what happened was wrong? Wanting to have sex with your teacher isn’t something limited to boys. Girls also do this but learn that it’s wrong when someone else finds out. Which is why statutory rape laws exist, to take consent out…
/r/MensRights29/03/23 04:32 AM
5

As far as I know, circumcision was one of those traditions that Islam inherited from Judaism.
/r/MensRights28/03/23 08:08 PM
40

Some actually think that being psycho is cute
/r/MensRights25/03/23 11:48 PM
11

You can’t have expectations for women nowadays without being labelled an incel. I think this may be because some women see men as lower than them so the idea of them having expectations is insulting to them. Provide emotional support? It’s uncommon to find a woman who is willing to provide emotional support for their man. People justify it with the excuse that she isn’t your therapist. Meanwhile, men are expected to be their emotional rock.
/r/MensRights25/03/23 08:03 PM
6

Toxic masculinity according to feminists = men being assholes Toxic femininity according to feminists = women being victims
/r/MensRights25/03/23 03:14 PM
8

They want best of both worlds. Empowered but also powerless when it benefits them.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:33 PM
2

The CDC says it’s more common than you think Being Made to Penetrate (Men): About 1 in 9 men (10.7% or 12.6 million) in the United States reported being made to penetrate someone in his lifetime (Figure 2, Table 2). Being Made to Penetrate (Men): Most male made to penetrate victims (69.6%) reported only female perpetrators, 17.9% reported only male perpetrators, and 8.2% reported both male and female perpetrators during their lifetime.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 08:01 PM
5

Maybe I’m worthless to some women because I’m not interested in providing for them but I honestly don’t care. I don’t feel worthless.
/r/MensRights24/03/23 12:47 AM
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I respect that. Most people just stop responding.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 09:05 PM
18

Psychologytoday is mostly junk anyway and isn’t scientific. Also, anything men do is misogyny these days, the bar is so low that it has lost its impact.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:53 PM
46

Other articles have posted her details, she is 29.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 06:23 PM
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The woman cannot be named to protect the identity of her surviving child. They always find an excuse for women, they don’t really care about the child. If they did care they would do the same for male criminals or suspects. They didn’t care for the family members of Eleanor William’s victims. The good news is the that PPD wasn’t considered as a mitigating factor as she’s received a life sentence.
/r/MensRights23/03/23 03:55 PM
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I am, thank you for asking. Like you mentioned, I was one of those men who were listening and no longer tolerate things like that.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 07:21 PM
40

They will happily accept it if the law is gendered so that only men can be charged for it, like with the rape law. Coercive control of men is seen as comedy by our society and media. Most men don't even realise it or just think it's a normal thing that must be accepted. When Googling coercive control, the first result that comes up is Women's Aid and I can say that I've experienced most of the examples they've listed.
/r/MensRights22/03/23 06:09 PM
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Even a few years back they would blame the guy either way. Either he doesn't do enough chores or when it's the other way around he must have porn addiction.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 12:29 AM
14

Let him find a good stay-at-home mom and build a virtuous moral family. He’d be putting himself at risk of potentially being liable for paying alimony. He has a responsibility towards his kid, so does the mother.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 08:01 PM
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Was she like that before you got married? My mum who was born and raised in a third world country used to believe that wives themselves are a gift to men. I personally cannot be with a girl who won’t reciprocate effort which she understands now.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 07:41 PM
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It something that starts from the get go. I’ve actually heard girls say that they never bothered putting in romantic effort towards their current husbands because it’s “undignified”. A lot of girls call themselves romantic but the truth is they like to be romanced.
/r/MensRights20/03/23 04:02 PM
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One out of 30 million or so men in the UK, I stand by what I said.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 02:38 PM
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You are using the true definition of incel. The thing is, they lump people who participate in subreddits such as this one as incels regardless of their sexual status. The reality may be that some men here are annoyed over things such as rape legislations, family court bias etc., but to them they just think we hate women and are incels.
/r/MensRights19/03/23 03:38 AM
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They want to believe that men are angry simply due to being unsuccessful with women. It’s quite narcissistic if you ask me.
/r/MensRights18/03/23 08:25 PM
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Couple things here. The article links incel culture to a rise in domestic violence. Those men by very definition are not incels. Also, “Incel” mass shootings aren’t a thing in the UK. I have no idea what sort of violence caused by “incels” that they’re referring to. The word incel has lost all meaning. People seem to think that misogynistic men are actual incels and vice versa, any man who can’t get laid must be a misogynist. There are plenty of men on forever alone who are involuntary celibate …
/r/MensRights18/03/23 08:05 PM
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The main reason for the “gap” is because in the real world, most women want children and will stay at home to raise them whilst the dad goes off to work to bring home money. Women are also more likely to work fewer hours or just find a man who will provide for them. The vast majority of men do not have that privilege. If they want to close that gap then it’s on them to persuade women to stay in work, not have children and not rely on men to provide for them. Paying women more than men to close t…
/r/MensRights18/03/23 07:47 PM
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Technically, I hold left wing values but I'm neither left nor right wing. I admit that I don't feel welcome as a man on LGBT forums on social media due to rampant misandry. However, I don't have anything against them simply because they're gay, lesbian, bi or trans. They're individuals so I am cool with them as long as they're cool with me but that goes for anyone and isn't something exclusive to people who identify as LGBT.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:56 PM
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It seems okay for now, but I do think we need a backup.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:25 PM
13

Most of the ones I grew up with used to fornicate, smoke weed, drink alcohol but always drew the line at eating pork lol.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 06:23 PM
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I honestly don't know any men that seek virgin women apart from a few Muslim guys I know. That's like finding a needle in haystack, even with western muslim women (something I learnt from working in health care). In general though, it seems like feminists want men to have zero standards. Perhaps it makes them feel insecure for not meeting those standards or they see men beneath them, so men having standards angers them.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 04:38 PM
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It's been that way for the last 2-3 years. Imagine us waiting around on askfeminists or some other subreddit just to downvote every post or comment. It's just a bunch of pathetic feminist lurkers, mods can't do anything, but it's not really much to worry about anyway.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 04:26 PM
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So her male partner got done for manslaughter back in 2021 and they are only now merely considering whether she should keep her job or give her a warning and sack her. She used a baton on a man who was immobile and on the ground after being tasered.
/r/MensRights17/03/23 03:07 PM
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A dating app boss has complained 'whingeing, easily offended feminists' are ruining romance for other women by having a go at blokes who have 'good manners' and offer them their seat or offer to pay the bill. She wants to have her cake and eat it. Women are capable of working, they don’t need men paying their bills. For me there’s no half and half where women get to be “modern” but men must remain traditional just because the former get to benefit financially.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 08:38 PM
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The article makes it seem as though she got charged with both crimes but acquitted for murder. I’m not sure how they decided that it wasn’t murder either. She’ll be out in 10 years.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 08:28 PM
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No shit there's increased risk of violence, there's a bloody war going on over there. It's not limited to women and the women weren't forced to stay unlike the men. Also, it seems UN Women lack empathy for young boys as well. They only care about women and girls.
/r/MensRights15/03/23 10:53 PM
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This should fall under 'stealthing' laws but as usual, most countries and feminists don't care when it happens to men.
/r/MensRights14/03/23 03:14 PM
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I agree but given it’s the UK, I’m expecting to see a community order let alone a seven year custodial sentence.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 10:29 PM
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Looking at the guidelines, it seems she at least falls under category 1 with high culpability. "Serious consequences for an innocent party(ies) as a result of the offence (for example time spent in custody/arrest) Serious distress caused to innocent party (for example loss of reputation) Serious impact on administration of justice Substantial delay caused to the course of justice" So she should be looking at between 2-7 years custody. We shall find out tomorrow.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 07:59 PM
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There was strong evidence of Flack being abusive towards her boyfriend at the time. Why would the met need to justify charging her with a crime? The family aren't owed an apology. An example of female on male abuse and what do we get? "Be kind" and the police apologising for charging an abuser. It's also weird that CPS declined to prosecute even given the evidence. Normally, they wouldn't care if the vicitm doesn't wish to prosecute but the genders played into their decision.
/r/MensRights13/03/23 05:52 PM
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It’s not possible because perpetrator requires a penis. This also affects crime surveys as well because they don’t include victims or perpetrators of sexual activity without consent.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 02:32 PM
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I think a guy would have gotten more but I wasn’t talking about the total length of the sentence. I was simply clarifying that you serve half your sentence in prison, that’s how it works in the UK. Which is why it says she should be out of prison after 2 years even though her sentence is 4 years.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 01:19 PM
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I don’t how much her sentence was increased or lowered but comparing the tables between rape and this offence, a man probably would have received 7 years.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 01:15 PM
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They are usually light in the UK but yes, I think she would have got more as a man. At least going by the guidelines her sentence fell under category 3, culpability A for sexual activity without consent involving penetration. The equivalent sentence under a rape charge is 7 years, so 3.5 years in prison. The average sentence for rape is 8 years according to The Guardian.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 01:09 PM
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I didn't even realise that was her till you mentioned it, I thought they accidentally used a photo of the victim.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 04:29 AM
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I’m shocked. She received the absolute minimum sentence a male rapist can receive, according to the guidelines and the sentence wasn’t suspended.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 12:58 AM
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That’s normal sentencing in the UK tbf. A half to two thirds of a custodial sentence is spent in prison the rest on licence.
/r/MensRights11/03/23 12:54 AM
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It’s super weird how common it is when you know they would not be okay with it in reverse
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:44 PM
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You’ll notice that a lot of their unfounded claims are just them projecting their own behaviour onto men.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:37 PM
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Exactly. Locker room talk, claiming that men’s advocates are only trying to suppress women’s rights, claiming that men’s abuse shelters will take away funding for women’s shelters, patriarchy theory, enforcing gender roles on the opposite gender, etc. The list is too long but these are all things feminists are scared of men doing because it’s something they are guilty of or desire in reverse.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 11:25 PM
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This is probably the third time I’ve seen this type of thread and the response is the same, they always pressure the guy to marry the mum. The “progressives” instantly become conservative.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 07:27 PM
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Good arguments. Adding to your points: 2) Even male child rape victims are punished by having to pay their rapists child support once they start working. 7) Men do need their partner's permission for a vasectomy in a lot of places.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:41 PM
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Meanwhile, women discussing sex or how their partners penis looks like is completely fine.
/r/MensRights10/03/23 03:07 PM
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I was also having a discussion about this with someone who claimed that the sentencing is exactly the same as for rape. I pointed out that only category 1 has the same sentencing. Categories 2 and 3 are more lenient and may be suspended if the judge feels it is appropriate. They then tried to argue that any woman charged under section 4 would realistically fall under category 1, where the sentencing starts at either 12 or 15 years. Lmao, the average rape sentence according to the Guardian is 8 y…
/r/MensRights10/03/23 02:01 PM
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You can't win with feminists because they are simply trying to silence men any way they can. They will tell you that men need to sort out their problems themselves and not to ask women for any help. Okay, I guess we're not allies then, but cool I don't mind. The whole 'ally' thing is a lie anyway since they've had decades to show that they're allies but have done nothing to return the favour. Anyway, when men start discussing their rights, feminists say that men don't face any form of systemic s…
/r/MensRights08/03/23 05:21 PM
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As a guy whose parents are from a third world country and know women from there, the latter aren't safe either since they are usually after visa and your money.
/r/MensRights07/03/23 07:50 PM
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I guess you've got misinterpret things and bring up Andrew Tate when there is no rational argument. The commentors seem to think that OP was talking about false accusations which is a reach for anyone who understands English. The only point made was that women cannot be convicted for rape at all in India, hence the statistics show that the pertpetrators of rape are solely men. Women's rights groups in India fought sucessfully against gender neutral rape laws.. Same story in the UK, so naturally,…
/r/MensRights07/03/23 04:36 PM
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Feminists: Just trust me bro, we know the life experience of men better than men do.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 01:37 AM
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I think they were referring to the custody part. Currently, Serrano has custody. Child support she'll get including back pay once he's 18.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 11:33 PM
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That's how I feel as well. If you're going to do it then get rid of the other parts of gender roles that men face like providing, protecting, etc. Right now all they're doing is socialising young men to be meek and telling them that they're bad. By meek, I don't mean displaying emotions or anything but men who have no self respect and won't stand up for themselves.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 09:31 PM
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It is 100% intentional. You know how feminists perform mental gymnastics to claim how the problems men face are actually misogyny? Fathers being treated unfairly in court is due to people believing women should be nurturers Men not seeking help because they don't want to be seen as feminine. etc. That is the reason they are adamant on the term 'toxic masculinity'. It places the blame back on men or the patriarchy. They believe or at least want society to believe that men's issues stem from misog…
/r/MensRights03/03/23 05:05 PM
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Internalised misandry would be the obvious choice since we call the female equivalent of toxic gender roles, internalised misogyny. Feminists are against that though since they would be admitting that misandry is a real phenomenon. They currently believe that problems men face are simply due to men being afraid of being seen as feminine, so they think it's misogyny.
/r/MensRights03/03/23 04:27 PM
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This is why I don't compliment women's appearance at all other than my gf. Some still try to fish it out lol.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 07:41 PM
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Also looking for attention but they don't want to admit it or want anyone to point it out. Try pointing out that a women wearing leggings knows her ass is visible, Redditor's will act like it's an accident or that they didn't know. Some of them are extremely self-concious of their appearance so there is no way they do not know. You're also telling me that your girl friends wouldnt point it out if you didn't realise it or that you don't notice it when other girls wear them? lol.
/r/MensRights02/03/23 06:06 PM
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I also enjoyed his bit about white women putting their problems at the forefront of every social movement
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:23 PM
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Not necessarily feminism related but they can be lazy when working too. Working in a female dominated office has taught me that some of them will try to fob their work off on you or ask to switch tasks when you have the easy stuff and they have the stressful stuff. They really thought that the guys were there to make their lives easier. Needless to say, all us guys left that place as soon as we could.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:14 PM
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It's weird how work does not hold any value in terms of labour and is seen as some sort of vacation (for men). Unless you're lucky enough to land your dream job or can turn your hobby into a business, work can be a massive chore which takes a huge chunk out of your day. I'd rather have the luxury to be spending time with family.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 07:07 PM
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Spot on. They want toxic femininity to mean when a woman is sacrificing her own well being for the benefit of others. You're supposed to empathise with a woman displaying toxic femininity since society is to blame for her actions and she is simply harming herself, not others.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:36 PM
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They will never admit to unrealistic expectations from themselves, they simply claim those things are just in your head due to your own insecurities or that your beliefs are misogynistic.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:20 PM
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My biggest issue is they use internalised misogyny for women. Makes it sound like it's society's fault for making behave in such a way. For men it's toxic masculinity, a term that gives the impression that it's men's fault and it is certainly used in that way even though some feminists fall back on the academic definition to try and deny it.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:59 AM
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Yeah, I never got how that works. I disagree with both sides because neither care for men so I can't really pick a side.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:45 AM
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Tradwives seeking validation and guys who push the narrative that it is a man's duty to provide and protect are some that I see here sometimes.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:40 AM
1

I have egalitarian beliefs so I should fit in on the left but in reality the left are conservative when it comes to men. Conservatives care more about traditional gender roles than they do for men's rights so I'm not a right winger either. Just because they also don't agree with feminists, it doesn't mean I'm on their side. So I don't fit in on either side even though I would technically be left wing on paper.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:27 AM
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Interestingly on the related sub under the other discussions tab, they are adamant that this is not an example of 'toxic femininity' since it's not feminine behaviour. They're not so specific when it comes to labelling men behaving badly as 'toxic masculinity'.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 01:00 AM
3

In the UK, I think the primary custodian is always awarded child maintenance. Usually the mother.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:31 AM
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That's correct. For example, if your partner paid towards the mortgage and has proof, that would count as beneficial interest. I think that's fair since they did actually contribute. There are other ways, such as a signed an agreement on how they intend to share the property. I don't know why anyone avoiding marriage would agree to that though.
/r/MensRights23/02/23 01:26 AM
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No cohabitation laws in the UK, which is financially much safer than getting married. In most cases, the guy is the one who has to put in the effort, buy an expensive ring, kneel, propose, etc. yet he will be fucked over in a divorce. Children will be gone and you'll be paying your ex even if she cheated on you.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 07:25 PM
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The new civil orders being trialled will also include electronic monitoring, and making it mandatory for abusers to notify the police of a name or address change. And a digital tool to help police officers identify likely perpetrators - even those without convictions - will be developed.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 07:56 PM
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The ones who are convicted aren't the issue here, although I personally think they should have a separate register for DV. The problem is that they are planning to give police the power to place people on the register even if they've never been convicted.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 06:57 PM
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Exactly. Although it seems we’re already at that point. Want to have someone killed? Be a woman or hire a woman to run that person over in a car. UK court will merely hand you a suspended sentence for it.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 04:06 PM
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As far as know, CPS normally prosecutes regardless of what the victim wants. Edit: Oh actually, it looks like she was sentenced, she just received a community order like most women convicted of crime in the UK
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:48 PM
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I'm surprised you've never ran into a modern woman who still expects men to fulfill their traditional gender roles when it comes to providing for and protecting them, but will call you sexist for wanting them to be a housewife.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:05 AM
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I don't need to make anything up, it's right there in your original comment. Feminists also have been telling men to step up and protect women from other men as though we owe it to them. I will protect the people close to me; man, woman, or child. Barring the children, they would do and have done the same for me. However, it is not my duty to nor will I put my life at risk for casual friends or strangers. I would simply call the people who do have that duty, the police.
/r/MensRights20/02/23 02:21 AM
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Yes and I still stand by my point
/r/MensRights19/02/23 04:16 PM
3

I disabled chat requests and direct messaging a while back so no
/r/MensRights19/02/23 03:43 PM
6

This why I've never trusted tradcons when they call themselves mra's, like the person you replied to. They often spout the same shit that feminists do.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 02:17 PM
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That is pretty common on relationship type subs. It gets worse than that. If you look at posts about fathers who commit murder-suicide, people will call him an evil asshole. When a mother does the same thing, suddenly people begin feeling sorry for the murderer. Making all sorts of excuses like mothers are just putting the children out of their misery because they can’t possibly have a good quality of life without them. If they can successfully defend women murdering children, they can defend an…
/r/MensRights19/02/23 01:42 PM
1

Included in my comment you replied to but it’s not rape either
/r/MensRights19/02/23 01:26 PM
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That's correct. According to UK law: Man forces himself on a woman = rape Woman forces herself on a woman = not rape Man forces himself on a man = rape Woman forces herself on a man = not rape Man forces himself on a child = rape Woman forces herself on a child = not rape This obfuscates female perpetrators from rape statistics. Also, the offence women get charged under allows for suspended sentencing.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 07:28 PM
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The post is referring to the UK where the law also says that rape requires a penis, meaning that women cannot be charged with rape for raping a man or even a woman. There was a post about it recently that explains it in detail.
/r/MensRights18/02/23 07:13 PM
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The misandry part is what's written in the comment of the tweet, not the image.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/02/23 05:10 PM
1

Oh, I didn’t realise. There’s a bit of hope for that sub then I assume.
/r/MensRights14/02/23 12:40 PM
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The last active mod of that subreddit got banned so the sub is currently ‘unmoderated’. I often see subs being banned for being unmoderated so I’m guessing it’s just a matter of time before it’s gone.
/r/MensRights13/02/23 10:05 PM
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Facebook needs to do something about these groups. You should be able to get that off with some isopropyl alcohol and a rag. Might need to clay bar it or polish the stubborn bits afterwards.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/02/23 11:35 PM
6

They want men to be “allies” when they have an issue like the recent abortion thing but when we have issues we’re on our own.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 03:46 AM
4

You’re right but OP did mention 50% for tests which are conducted, in the title.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 05:04 PM
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I don't agree with conservatives any more than I do feminists. However, the offenders identity has been surpressed and I don't see anything about the judge's political stance from a quick Google search, yet you're stating it as fact.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:58 AM
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Feminists aren't any better, neither of them care about men or boys.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 07:48 AM
1

I suspected that. I know they can legally change their gender from man to woman but wasn't sure if they could legally change their sex from male to female.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 07:15 PM
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I swear, tradcons are the only thing I dislike about this sub.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 07:11 PM
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My first job was female dominated. There were only four of us guys and the rest were women but the rota was setup so there would be only 1 or 2 guys in the office at the same time.. Me and the guys left as soon as we got hired elsewhere because some of the women would try to fob their work off on us even though they were not our seniors. The manager was the chivalrous type so he just enabled them. It was a shitty place to work but me and the lads are still in touch.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 06:51 PM
1

True
/r/MensRights02/02/23 06:41 PM
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They won't have a difference if you only focus on the maximum sentencing but how often are maximum sentences handed out? If you look at the lower end for the one you mentioned, section 4, it's only a community order, even with penetration involved. Prison sentences can also be suspended. Where there is a sufficient prospect of rehabilitation, a community order with a sex offender treatment programme requirement under part 3 of Schedule 9 of the Sentencing Code can be a proper alternative to a sh…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 06:37 PM
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What's weird is that the Office for National Statistics says 98.3% of rapists in England and Wales are male. They link to a spreadsheet in the appendix which contains perpetrators by gender. However, the table for females just has "~". The footnote explains: "~" Denotes that figures have been suppressed due to disclosure constraints. According to legislation, it should be 100% male. Guess they don't want people to know women cannot be charged for rape?
/r/MensRights02/02/23 06:29 PM
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Along with what Fearless linked, it's all baked into our legislations and sentencing guidelines. For example, the equivalent offence women are charged under for rape has different sentencing. Most notably, the minimum is a community order and custodial sentences can be suspended if courts believe there is a "prospect of rehabilitation", the latter seems to be quite common. Rape sentencing (which only men can be charged for) has a minimum of 4 years and the guidelines make no mention of suspended…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 06:01 PM
0

It's like they were collectively rejected lol Even here you get some dissenting opinions but there's always hive mentality on misandrists subs
/r/MensRights02/02/23 01:52 PM
22

Probably good old PPD and a history of abuse from male figures in her life so she can't be blamed for killing those little boys
/r/MensRights01/02/23 03:21 AM
30

Feminists and traditionalists see men as nothing but providers and protectors. Also, if we choose to stay single then they have no or less control over us. They resort to language such as virgin, incel, misogynist, SDE, etc, because they probably think they can make those men fall in line by shaming them.
/r/MensRights30/01/23 09:33 PM
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Yup, that's why Women's Aid filed a petition against government funding of gender neutral organisations. Less money for their pockets.
/r/MensRights28/01/23 01:04 AM
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This reminded me of that feminist article regarding how feminists have historically hidden abuse perpetrated by women in order to acquire funding for women's organisations. These goals included retaining domestic violence’s central and iconic framing as a women’s issue, preserving critical funding sources and infrastructure to serve victims, and thwarting obstructionist political challenges largely waged by men’s rights groups. We'll just lie, manipulate statistics and discriminate against men. …
/r/MensRights27/01/23 01:40 PM
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the notion of structural discrimination against men Written as though it's a laughable idea even though women cannot rape men (instead regarded as sexual assault) in most countries and it's not even considered a crime in some.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 01:29 PM
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This is something that bothers me so I often notice it. The ‘tradwife’ types post about how they love traditional men who provide for them on menrights and half the users just lap it up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/23 01:29 PM
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No doubt. Happened to me as a kid when walking home from school. My house was next to an all girl’s school and I’d sometimes encounter a group of girls who’d grope me whilst walking past. We don’t teach girls to not harass and some of them don’t see anything wrong with it when they’re doing it.
/r/MensRights26/01/23 12:45 PM
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Besides what’s been said, they’re probably also more aware of how divorce favours the partner that earns less. There was a lot of fuss when Adele had to give her ex-husband a huge chunk of her acquired wealth.
/r/MensRights23/01/23 10:29 PM
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A man's job it to Protect and Provide It’s cool if you want to but it’s not my job
/r/MensRights19/01/23 05:01 PM
3

These same guys will complain about being liable for spousal support as well when they walked themselves into the situation
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:56 PM
5

This is so spot on and why I always avoid traditional women or women who want a traditional man
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:40 PM
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100% Also, these guys talking about going into traditional relationship are probably going to end up paying alimony if things go wrong.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:38 PM
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That’s fine, I just believe we should have the choice. I personally don’t want to be providing for someone for my entire life and leave myself open to losing half my stuff in divorce or alimony.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:31 PM
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Well they live in the UK where prenups are not legally enforceable. Although the courts may respect a prenup if the husband and wife both work, this is not the case here.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 02:11 PM
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Agreed. I know there are some tradcon "MRA's" here but I can't stand the idea of how ingrained in society it is for men to fulfill their traditional gender roles. Tradcons often enable feminists so I don't see them as any better.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:53 PM
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Her husband has actually left himself open to be fucked financially if they divorce
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:50 PM
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Even when there are no kids involved and the woman is stay at home, the man must share some chores with her but when it's the other way round the man must do all the chores. My household chores vary between 1-3 hours/day throughout the week mainly depending on what I'm cooking, it's not that hard. A man earning money doesn't seem to hold much or any weight in terms of contribution.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:45 PM
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They always forget that money doesn't grow on trees. You do the work and someone else gets a chunk of your pay.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:32 PM
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It's well known but for some reason it's still the elephant in the room. I've heard older grandma's telling girls to marry a man who earns more money so that if they divorce he will have to pay alimony. That's why when I hear someone say "husband material" I assume they're talking about your financial status, possibly meek demeanor and thinking that you're a safe option, not that they're physically attracted to you.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:26 PM
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The CPS case mentioned "featured consensual penetrative sexual activity" so in that situation they are saying to charge under section 9 because they can get it to stick rather than sections 1-4 which specifically state the offences are for non-consensual sexual activity. So yes, the prosecution fucked up by using section 3. My point is that in cases where there is belief of non-consensual sexual activity, sections 1-4 are the offences that prosecutors will attempt to charge under.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 11:49 AM
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The consent determines which crime it’s charged under. If a teen does not consent then the adult would either be charged with rape or in this case sexual activity without consent since it’s a woman. If the courts think there was consent then it falls under sexual activity with a child as I linked above. There are separate legislations for under 13’s where consent does not matter at all. Edit:It's also stated by CPS: If there are difficulties proving the non-consensual offence, then an offence un…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:35 PM
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I didn't word it well. Only under 13's completely lack the capacity to consent in the UK, I didn't mean to imply the age of consent is 13. An adult who has sex with a 13-15 year old will face a different charge if the courts believe the child consented (Sexual activity with a child). If the courts deem there was no consent it would fall under rape or causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 04:44 PM
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It's quite weird. The age of consent is 16 but only under 13's are considered to lack any mental capacity to consent.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 04:10 PM
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It sucks. We've done a few petitions to make it gender neutral but the government ends up rejecting them. They say the maximum sentence for both crimes are the same, conveniently ignoring that the female equivalent offence starts off with a community order and allows the judge to give women a suspended sentence if they believe they can be rehabilitated.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:52 PM
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Yeah, it's pretty weird. It's still illegal for an adult to have sex with them but UK courts believe that 13-15 year olds have the capacity to consent to sex. If there's consent it would be 'Sexual activity with a child', if no consent then it's 'rape' for male offender and 'Causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent' for a female offender. Rape is the only one that has 4 years prison minimum.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:43 PM
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To be accurate, if the judge believed a 15 year old girl consented to sex with an adult he wouldn't be charged with rape either but this same offence. For some reason in the UK, age of consent is 16 but 13-15 year olds can be considered to have the mental capacity to consent to sex (still illegal), only under 13's cannot. Regardless, a woman still cannot be charged with rape even if no consent and I doubt the judge would believe a girl who was groomed consented to sex. Edit: Cleared up some word…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:30 PM
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Weirdly, it's only under 13's who cannot legally consent to sex at all in the UK. So technically, if the judge believed a female child between 13-15 consented to sex it wouldn't be rape either. However, I doubt a judge would believe a girl consented in the same scenario.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:22 PM
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This gets weird. So in the UK 13-15 year olds have to capacity to consent to sex, however it is still illegal for an adult to engage in sex with them. If the judge believes the child consented then there is a separate offence it falls under instead of 'rape' or 'causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent.' If you look at the sentencing guidelines, the judge initially charged her with Culpability A, Category 2 with a 2 year custodial order but this section below allows the judg…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:14 PM
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Cults/religions usually have some sort of nonsensical belief that they will adamantly claim is true without evidence.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 08:07 AM
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Scraping the bottom of the barrel to find systematic discrimination against you in a modern country where it's legally impossible for a woman to rape a man. You won't find her bringing any attention to the latter.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 07:58 AM
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Earning money. There are plenty of men who are willing to provide for women so some can work less hours or just stay at home. This comes down to society accepting both modern and traditional women whilst men are expected to be traditional. Publicly displaying sexism since most platforms are cool with casual misandry. Not 100% of the time but engaging in non-consensual sex. Even female paedophiles don't face much social backlash if at all. Papers will just call it a 'romp' since most countries do…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 02:05 AM
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Cheers mate 👍
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:22 AM
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Not having period related pains or mood swings. Not having to deal with pregnancy, although this means your reproductive rights just amount to abstaining from sex. Physical strength which makes certain day to day activities much easier. Can't think of any in regards to legal matters.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:16 AM
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Since they are only imprisoned for “serious crimes” we can conclude that the courts do not consider ‘causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent’, the charge for female rapists, a serious crime.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:11 PM
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Lol, it's almost always because their "facts" are misleading and are easy to pick apart if someone is willing to actually look into them. If I'm not mistaken, the "pay gap" is because collectively, women earn less than men. They do not earn less per hour for the same job. If that's the case then it's simply because women can choose whether to be modern or traditional. The latter means that women can rely on their partner to provide for them or work less hours. Whereas men are still expected and …
/r/AntiFeminists16/01/23 02:52 PM
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I agree with you. It's almost always propaganda. Men should all define masculinity on our own terms as individuals. I personally don't care what anybody else's definition of what it means to be a man, including other men. If your idea of a man is different to mine, I still think you're a man. I pity any guy who lets a woman define masculinity for him because often the women who do this are saying it for their own benefit even if it's detrimental to you. For example: "a real man believes that his…
/r/MensRights16/01/23 02:19 PM
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In general, you will get more honest advice on relationship subreddits if you post as a woman. The drawback being that people are much more willing to overlook your flaws. Posting as a guy, people often make unfair assumptions, comb through your history for dirt and if the woman in your situation is undoubtedly in the wrong then they will call your post fake or "incel fiction".
/r/MensRights16/01/23 01:46 PM
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Hypocrites, it was fine and dandy on the same subreddit when there were posts about him being guilty.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 06:00 PM
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I agree with Net_flux that it's due to conditioning. I've got to say that irl I don't find guys who think that way very often, if at all. Although it may have something to with my generation, I'm not sure.
/r/MensRights14/01/23 05:43 PM
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I've been there as well. It's what scares me off marriage and having children. The latter is something I want but I also don't want a life where I just accept not being able to complain or always have my complaints not be taken seriously. Personally, I don't keep things in just to avoid an argument but at some point it ends up taking a toll on my mental health, which is possibly why most guys avoid it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/23 05:28 PM
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Yeah, it’s something I’ve noticed as well. Not everyone enjoys working 40+ hours a week. You have people talking about ‘emotional labour’ but working to provide seems to hold no weight. I think people are so used to men being providers that they’re just taken for granted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/01/23 04:23 PM
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It’s because they believe men’s issues are caused by misogyny, hence the reluctance to use the word misandry or even acknowledge it.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:51 PM
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It’s a real phenomenon but I dislike the phrase itself and reason it is used. If a woman believes that a woman’s place is in the kitchen, we do not call it toxic femininity. Instead it is called internalised misogyny. A lot of feminists deny the existence of misandry which is why they prefer the term ‘toxic masculinity’. If you ask them why they don’t think internalised misandry is a thing, they will tell you it’s because toxic masculinity originates from misogyny.
/r/MensRights12/01/23 08:49 PM
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It’s clever use of language. The female equivalent they call misogyny or internalised misogyny. The reason they like “toxic masculinity” is that by using it, they don’t have to acknowledge that misandry exists. They believe toxic masculinity is caused by misogyny. For example, suicidal men don’t seek help because they don’t want to be perceived as weak. Weakness is a feminine trait and therefore, men not wanting to seek help is rooted in misogyny. In reality men seek help but don’t find it helpf…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/23 05:41 PM
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It’s the same in the UK, majority of the articles are about female teachers. There’s a separate legislation for female rapists and nonces for which the stats seem to be hidden. I’m guessing that’s why they’re adamantly against proposals for gender neutral rape legislation.
/r/MensRights09/01/23 05:17 PM
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Same here. The slur is often used to tarnish your character because there’s no legitimate argument to be made.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 12:57 PM
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I don’t think they can be trusted. The legislation for rape is different depending on the perpetrator’s gender in the UK. Which means women cannot be charged with rape. I could not find any statistics for ‘causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent’, the charge women receive for rape. I know the cdc had female-on-male rape categorised as “made to penetrate”. Also, even some feminists have written articles stating that female on male dv has been downplayed in order to acquire f…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:42 PM
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One thing that gets overlooked is that most people don’t get their dream jobs so the actual work itself can be boring and stressful. Like you said, men are still expected to fulfil their traditional gender roles when it comes to providing. So you spend most of your day doing something you don’t even like and it doesn’t get acknowledged in terms of effort you’re putting in.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 09:13 PM
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The insinuation is that small dick = bad energy
/r/MensRights30/12/22 01:13 PM
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Yeah, like if I want to call someone a 'fat bitch' I can just put 'energy' at the end and that makes it not offensive to fat women? No one's going to fall for that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 05:19 AM
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Same. The less you value validation from others, the less power they hold over you. So those "real man" type manipulation techniques don't work on me.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 05:13 AM
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I refuse to believe anyone actually thinks it's 'just about the energy' and not body shaming. They just don't care about body shaming men. It's not just directed at the recipient but at all men who aren't well endowed, intentional or not. That's the part they ignore. These same people would not be this obtuse if "gay energy" or some other shit was a thing.
/r/MensRights30/12/22 04:59 AM
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"It's not body shaming but about the energy given off by an insecure person". I don't understand how this is an excuse, they're literally equating penis size with good/bad energy. I feel like they're playing dumb given the type of people who use the phrase.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/12/22 04:30 AM
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Went to r/askfeminists to ask what feminism has done for me, a black man I think so as well, they posted this a few days back.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 10:05 PM
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Horrible post especially since it acknowledges male suicide but still makes fun of depressed men. On the other hand, it’s refreshing to see majority of the top comments being sympathetic towards men for once.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:02 PM
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The UK has similar non gender neutral rape laws
/r/MensRights28/12/22 04:40 PM
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Wasn't expecting to see conscription on there tbh
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:49 PM
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Similar tactics in the UK, the charge for women raping men is 'causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent' so they won't show up under rape statistics.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 03:42 PM
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It’s no use because these type of articles have moderators of sorts who will revert any edits that they don’t agree with or just completely lock the article and reject any requests for changes claiming your source is biased. People have tried. If you click the “talk” tab at the top of the page you can see their conversations.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 02:14 PM
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I’m guessing they think sex makes men fall in line and ignore any grievances they have so I think the answer to you second question is yes. Quite narcissistic if you think about it.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 02:39 PM
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https://np.reddit.com/r/fakedisordercringe/comments/ylcira/the_amount_of_people_diagnosed_in_an_autism/ Looks like you weren't kidding about most of them diagnosing themselves. Sad that they've invaded the sub and made it an unwelcoming place for actual people with autism.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 04:53 AM
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Depends where you live I suppose. In the UK you can contest a child maintenance claim by getting DNA testing done. There’s a fee for it and I think you have to use a court approved clinic.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 04:37 PM
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Well then the cheating ones will lose their partner and won’t be able to claim support if they separate.
/r/MensRights25/12/22 03:38 PM
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I’m brown. Why do you ask?
/r/MensRights24/12/22 05:02 PM
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I find men who throw other men under the bus so much more frustrating. I can't tell if they're being honest or just trying to impress women.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:44 PM
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Is it because it makes them feel rejected? I’ve had some weird comments from girls of my race when I was dating a white girl. I’ve never heard a woman be told off for fetishising.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 02:26 PM
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“You need to lower your standards, that’s why you’re not getting women.” End up in an unhappy relationship. “Where are you finding these women? Men have no standards.” You can’t win. I wouldn’t recommend asking for relationship advice on Reddit. Most of the subs dedicated to the topic are female dominated and usually side with the woman. Some will comb through your post history just to place blame on you.
/r/MensRights24/12/22 12:30 AM
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I don’t think it’s anything like menslib. The top comments are most often criticism of feminism, even some of my own. Your comment will be removed if you generalise all women but if you specify ‘some women’ then I’ve not seen anyone have an issue with it. That’s no different from this sub. You’re less likely to see tradcons masquerading as mra’s which is a positive for me. I’m left wing on paper but in reality neither side cares for men.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 08:22 PM
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Lol it’s a parody of Nintendo fanatics, mainly the diehard ones you’ll find on Nintendo subs and Twitter.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 03:37 PM
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Classic Reddit diagnosing her with depression to hand wave this behavior or suddenly worrying about not hearing both sides. Their minds can't comprehend a woman being abusive as though it's going to paint them all as bad. The main problem in this scenario is that marrying someone who wants to be a housewife or SAHM means you get fucked if there's divorce. There's no point in getting married anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/22 11:10 PM
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Honestly, cooking takes up maybe 1-2 hours daily for me, dishes 5 mins, laundry 10 mins, vacuuming/mopping and shopping is an hour per week each. I do all that whilst working full time. I dunno if these people are spring cleaning their entire house everyday or something.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:53 PM
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I used to work in a place with women like her lol. They used to ask the guys or younger girls if they can do their work for them. Manager didn't care, so I'd shred anything they left on my desk.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:27 PM
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It's complete BS that women have it harder in every facet of society. She just ignores the problems that men face, like asking her boyfriend to be the sole provider in their relationship. Money doesn't grow on trees but for some reason the amount of stress, pressure and effort required to earn money doesn't seem to hold much value. I don't enjoy working, I have other things I'd rather be doing in my free time. If they then decide to get married, it locks him into the relationship should anything…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:17 PM
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Don’t know why you’ve posted this here, plus it seems to be your only comment/post on this sub. They're not equivalent but I don’t agree with forcing women into this the same way I don’t agree with forcing men into war. I don’t know how you think this will progress their society.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 06:23 PM
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Feminists ascribing women with the accountability of a child is nothing new to them I guess. There was post on trueoffmychest about a guy’s 18 year old sister who made a move on him but got rejected. Dunno whether the post was fake or not but the top comments were really weird. They were calling her a “small child” or “young teen” who doesn’t know any better but I don’t know any 18 year old that doesn’t know incest is not normal.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 05:16 PM
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People are going to treat her like a small child or young teenager who didn’t know any better even though she’s an adult. An assumption but I doubt she herself would appreciate this behaviour from a guy towards her. We wouldn’t excuse a 19 year old guy by saying his brain’s still developing or whatever other rubbish they can think of.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 04:29 PM
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Yes, some women try to frame it as controlling but really they're just disrespecting your boundaries. They are usually not cool with it when the shoe is on the other foot. Don't let them shame you into accepting this behaviour.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 11:03 AM
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Hardcore feminist gamergate guy whose wife convinced him into an open relationship and proceeded to cuck him with 10 something men. Later divorced his ass and stole his Nintendo in the process. r/tomorrow but it's actually real
/r/MensRights22/12/22 10:54 AM
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That is a possibility I haven’t really gone to check out the sub. Your assessment of traditionalists is spot on though.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 08:20 PM
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They’re not feminists but traditional conservatives (tradcons). Not always easy to distinguish as their beliefs often align with feminists when it comes to women, I’m assuming due to chivalry.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 07:21 PM
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Haven’t clicked but already know which post you’re talking about. This top comment was a big Reddit moment: Good start, older brother. There's a lot of sickos and creeps out there that take advantage of family. But, you can do better for her. I'll explain. Chances are, she respects you. You're a guy, who shows her respect, love, and treats her sweetly. You get along. You have each other's back. It sounds wierd, but barring sex, she probably looks at you as the model for what she wants in a boyfr…
/r/EverydayMisandry21/12/22 06:36 PM
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I enjoy cooking as well, it's like applied chemistry which is what I studied lol. I also want to add tailoring to my list of hobbies so that I can do my own clothes. It doesn't seem too difficult to learn and I have some experience from my early school days.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 02:10 AM
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I like how they've flipped the Amber Johnny thing around by bringing up a text he'd written about his abuser. we prefer a light peck on the cheek like we are a Queen and you are our humble but loyal servant. lol
/r/MensRights21/12/22 01:55 AM
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The fact that it's endorsed and normalised almost everywhere is why it's so frustrating. You're definitely not alone.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 09:22 PM
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That is usually the case due to overlap with deppdelusion or deuxmoi subreddits, but tbf they've been getting heavily downvoted since she settled.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 09:16 PM
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Yeah, they've done studies debunking that myth. For medical issues I don't bother unless it's really serious because doctors make me feel like I'm wasting their time. Anecdotes and I don't know if it's incompetency or just lack of care but my dad and GF's dad were both dismissed by GP's for chest pain that led to heart attacks. The former was told that it's just chest muscle pain and the latter was told it's gastric pain.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 01:47 AM
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I can understand that since people will automatically label you an incel or misogynist just to shut you down. Most guys I know IRL see the double standards, they're just afraid to discuss it openly. Femcels are common on that sub so I was surprised to see they didn't get to control the narrative this time lol. As a side note, I hope Amber will shut up since she decided to settle but I know she isn't going to.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 01:24 AM
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Likewise my guy. If there’s anything I learnt from that relationship it’s to put myself first. As guys we’re often raised to put others first which puts us at a disadvantage. Glad to hear you got out of that rut as well.
/r/MensRights20/12/22 12:40 AM
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Female hypoagency vs male hyperagency. It’s why people sometimes sympathise with female sexual abusers, saying they were probably abused in the past but with male abusers they won’t even attempt to look into his history.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 10:42 PM
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The old “cute” psycho act. It is not attractive or cute in any way.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 08:36 PM
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I don’t think they even care about her deep down. They just don’t want their victim image shattered, probably because they’re abusive themselves.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 08:16 PM
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They both pretend to care by telling men to open up and then react negatively to it. Just something I’ve noticed having been with someone who has BPD, their behaviour is actually very similar to feminists. The lies, manipulation, double standards and their need to maintain their victim narrative. Bpdlovedones subreddit has many similar stories but if you’ve ever see it mentioned outside the subreddit it’s always called a misogynistic hate sub by people with BPD. Even the first Google search sugg…
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:38 PM
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They’re like this in the UK as well. My GF’s sister had a ball of tissue shoved in her vagina by another girl at school. A doctor found it months later after numerous infections and she was always smelling really bad. The idiot social worker thought it was a male relative who was sexually abusing and was trying to get the girl to “admit” it even though the she had already explained it was another girl from school. Bunch of pricks.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 04:04 PM
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Men tend to get left behind because feminists somehow convince people that women’s issues are always more important no matter what. Some people will even address it when talking about men’s issues by stating ‘I know women have it worse’ or whatever. Feminists say men’s issues will be fixed by working on women’s, which just amounts to trickle down equality. It will never actually fix any of men’s issues. They use this perceived importance of women’s issues to justify biased rape laws, statistics …
/r/MensRights19/12/22 03:50 PM
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Askfeminists is the place that thinks Amber Heard is an ‘imperfect victim’ and Johnny Depp is an abuser. They only say they care about men’s issues to appease people who care about men, in reality they are just misandrists. Some feminists may say feminism is for men as well but the best they can offer is trickle down equality. I prefer to call my self an egalitarian rather than feminist or mra. Though I lean towards the latter because those issues affect me more.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 05:50 PM
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They never complain but will pretend to be bothered when it’s bought up as a double standard. I never see it actively brought up.
/r/MensRights18/12/22 12:37 AM
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Haha! Had a feeling it cause that type of reaction. I just wanted to get the point across that when people try to define "real man" it's almost always manipulative.
/r/MensRights17/12/22 11:56 PM
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A real man is someone who places other people's life and well being above his own, sees his money as her money and her money as hers, doesn't get jealous or insecure when their wife wants to go on a weekend trip with her male best friend, splits chores 50/50 with his housewife who doesn't have an income, is willing to die in war for rich/powerful politicians, etc. I was being sarcastic obviously. I pity any guy who let's another person define manhood for him especially when that other person is …
/r/MensRights17/12/22 06:29 PM
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I've experienced this as well and I've heard and read similar stories from other guys. I guess it's easier to believe the issue lies with you rather than themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/22 05:31 PM
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A lot of western Muslim girls I know personally, openly believe in that ‘his money is my money and my money is my money’ idea. It’s very hypocritical how feminists are only bothered about the parts of masculinity that they deem negative but otherwise do not care about men’s liberation from their gender roles like they were with women’s.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 09:37 AM
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This was obvious but people like to pretend it isn't a thing. If it works for abusive women then obviously they are going to take advantage of it. Edit: I am surprised to see it has been posted on the UK sub and not deleted or locked
/r/MensRights15/12/22 03:53 PM
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It's so normalised that people are afraid to speak up about it or just blind to it. It also doesn't help that it's been labeled 'toxic masculinity' instead because some people think discrimination against men roots from misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/12/22 03:56 PM
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Yes, I think it should be and not just the USA. I guess people are against it though because it would expose a lot of them.
/r/MensRights12/12/22 03:03 PM
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Women's services were funded by the government since DV and sexual abuse were framed as a women's issue by feminist and domestic violence groups to acquire funding for their organisations. I don't see why men's shelters should be an exception. AFAIK, only gender neutral organisations recieve government funding now in the UK. Before someone brings it up, gender neutral organisation does not mean gender neutral shelters. Women's Aid tried protesting against this but failed. Must say that I still h…
/r/MensRights12/12/22 02:48 PM
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Neither side cares for men. Conservatives usually are just for traditional male gender roles, they don’t care about men’s rights. Their ideals often end up aligning with feminism.
/r/MensRights11/12/22 03:36 PM
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Most feminists are tradcons when it comes to male gender roles Depending on where you live, never leave the house as it can be seen as abandonment which means you are more likely to lose your kids or house.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:48 PM
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It would probably be fraud or some sort of crime if there was an equivalent act comitted by men.
/r/MensRights07/12/22 08:36 PM
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I've never put that together but it seems so obvious when you think about it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/12/22 03:36 PM
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I think you've misunderstood them. They're not generalising women or equating them as feminists but how going against feminism means those women are brainwashed (according to feminists).
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/22 02:00 PM
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Noticed the same thing. Reminds me of againsthatesubs picking on FDS due to transphobia but completely okay with the rampant misandry there.
/r/MensRights05/12/22 03:56 PM
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Even when admitting that feminist groups have historically hidden female on male abuse they are still dumbfounded as to why people protested against them. Relevant quote: These goals included retaining domestic violence’s central and iconic framing as a women’s issue, preserving critical funding sources and infrastructure to serve victims, and thwarting obstructionist political challenges largely waged by men’s rights groups.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 11:22 PM
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This is true. Also another factor is that female-on-male rape isn’t legally rape in a lot of countries like the UK. That means statistics exclude those victims as well. I don’t know much about US federal or state laws but the CDC showed that there a large number of victims who were ‘made to penetrate’ mostly by female perpetrators.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 11:06 PM
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It’s only natural for people to against a movement that thinks it’s synonymous with equality even though they have a history of focusing on one gender and paying lip service to the other. They claim to be “allies” when they need help but are nowhere to be seen when we do. Hope South Korea fairs better but as always feminists will probably start by infiltrating positions of power.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 10:44 PM
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They never care about things which mostly or exclusively affect men like paternity fraud, draft, suicide, genital mutilation, rape laws which exclude female offenders, etc. From personal experience, women who commit sexual assault often automatically assume they have consent or don’t think it matters when it’s female-on-male. The annoying thing is these consent teaching programs are almost always directed at men only.
/r/MensRights04/12/22 10:13 PM
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It’s weird how far people will go to hold men accountable for the smallest thing but will do the opposite for women. Even with female rapists they look for the closest male to blame instead like the father.
/r/MensRights29/11/22 03:28 PM
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The law is extremely frustrating as it stands currently. Of course men are 99% of rapists if you have separate legislations for women (the 1% I think are only charged with rape for aiding).
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:35 PM
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Ms Cadman-Smith later broke up with her boyfriend and suggested that she and the boy go away to spend a night in a hotel. At one point she messaged him: "I don't know what I did differently [last night] but I've got a bit of a sore throat today though." ... Giving her an absolute discharge, the judge said: "It is clear that sexual activity did take place between them. She was in a position of responsibility... [It was] a breach of trust." So the judge acknowledges that sexual activity took place…
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:19 PM
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It definitely exists. In general people make fun of men for having insecurities and believe the blame lies within. Some women use this to completely disregard boundaries in a relationship. Women's insecurities are blamed on external factors (like with a lot of things) and people have empathy for them. I remember an askmen post about whether guys would be okay with their wives going on a weekend trip with their male best friend and sleep in the same hotel room. Some women were calling guys insecu…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:16 AM
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In my experience, people who seek positions of power and influence almost always do it for selfish reasons.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 05:37 PM
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It's actually "causing someone to engage in sexual activity without consent" (section 4) which does have the same maximum penalty as rape but is more lenient in the lower range of sentencing
/r/MensRights18/11/22 03:39 PM
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Heard one of them say that they've never heard of any of these organisations or individuals so they must not be prominent lol. I can't tell if they were lying to save face or live in their own bubble of feminism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/22 12:28 PM
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That was basically half the responses to this story on justiceforjohnnydepp. They just bury their heads in sand and call themselves the real feminists, users of Reddit who have no power or influence.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/22 10:49 PM
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Feminists framing DV as a gendered issue is nothing new. They have a history of deploying a 'strategy of containment' to female perpetrated abuse and have denied evidence on gender symmetry in partner violence for decades. When the case was going on people were trying to downplay it as mutual abuse. Others hated the fact that it was all public, saying that the case should be private matter between those involved. I guess the usual method of supressing information is difficult when it's on TV for…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/22 02:58 PM
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Muslim, heard a guy call them that long time ago.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 07:54 PM
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Found on r/justiceforjohnnydepp, nice to see some people saying it as it is but others are still saying these organisations aren’t real feminists. National Organisation for Women, Women’s March, etc. full list here
/r/MensRights16/11/22 07:49 PM
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The bot seems to have missed me as well as I have not been banned from any subs for commenting and making posts here
/r/MensRights16/11/22 12:29 PM
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The real ones only come out on Reddit posts when they get called out
/r/MensRights15/11/22 09:08 AM
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It's easy to initiate divorce when the only thing you lose is the spouse who you now hate but you get to keep access to his money, the kids and the house. Typically, women don't lose out in a divorce.
/r/MensRights14/11/22 07:32 PM
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Some, perhaps most women still want traditional men because it financially benefits them, no thanks.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:49 PM
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They love bringing up the ‘you’re not entitled to x’ phrase at any opportunity. Like no shit, nobody even suggested it.
/r/MensRights08/11/22 11:43 PM
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Crimes that are often or exclusively committed by women towards men aren’t taken seriously. In some countries women cannot rape men in the legal sense. Paternity fraud is another one that instead rewards the offender. I’d imagine if maternity fraud was a thing it would be punished.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 10:15 PM
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Yeah, it’s very common to hear bi and straight women say they avoid bi men because they find them unmanly. They don’t even try to hide it on Reddit where they normally pretend to be progressive lol.
/r/MensRights01/11/22 08:14 PM
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It's either that excuse or that women spend more time and money on looking nice for you so they shouldn't be paying or splitting during the date. Like I thought they only wore makeup and dressed up for themselves.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:15 PM
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When the whole abortion thing kicked off people, especially on Reddit, were telling men to get a vasectomy and suggesting that it's a reversible form of BC.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 06:00 PM
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The classic "real" feminists only found on Reddit whilst the ones with actual influence lobby against joint custody, shelters for men, gender neutral rape laws, etc. Let's not forget that they all believe in the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:55 PM
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They just casually ignore the reasons he's feeling this way, non-stop anxiety, criticism and spousal rape. That doesn't make him a "twat" or mean he doesn't care about his kids. Looking at subredditstats I see only overlaps with women's subs, FDS being pretty significant. They're mostly mums over 30 and in a deadbedroom. The deadbedroom part makes sense with their responses to OOP.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 12:39 PM
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For saying I support government funding of gender neutral organisations for victims of abuse instead of women only organisations
/r/MensRights25/10/22 12:45 AM
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Also are a country of women going to accept getting impregnated and raise a child by themselves. I can't imagine they are going to be conscripted into it. If they're going to be at home raising the kids who's going to provide financial resources. Tax funding probably isn't going to cover it with the lack of working people. It may work for small tribes, but I can't imagine it's feasible on a large scale.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 12:08 PM
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A woman can unilaterally give her baby up for adoption as long as the father isn’t on the birth certificate. I don’t agree with forcing men or women into parenthood. The only choice afforded to men is the pro-life argument of abstaining from sex.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 09:14 PM
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Wikipedia are pretty open about it and you can see in the "talk" and "view history" section of OP's link that the article is constantly being reverted by an old guy that goes by Binksternet.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 07:42 PM
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That binky whatever his name is, keeps reverting changes to the article and dismisses any sources that don't talk about misandry from a feminist perspective.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 07:22 PM
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Ah the good old days when Tumblr feminists had their own platform and were generally isolated from the rest of the internet. Now they're everywhere, Wikipedia, Reddit (especially mods) and mainstream media it seems.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 06:03 PM
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Usually because they like framing men's issues as misogyny as well
/r/MensRights23/10/22 05:56 PM
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When he had sex with the woman, “I guess he thought he was a man then,” she said. “Now, he prefers to be considered a child.” Sounds like something a pedo would say. The whole thing is disgusting.
/r/MensRights23/10/22 11:16 AM
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Yeah, they aren’t some fringe online group. Not all are like that but I know quite a few irl and they’re very common on TikTok.
/r/MensRights22/10/22 10:28 PM
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It’s weird how some of them see the stuff men are expected to do as undignified
/r/MensRights22/10/22 04:35 PM
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Considering that one party is afforded financial security whether or not the marriage works out, you’d expect the majority of proposals to be the other way round.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 09:04 PM
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She’s also said she hates ugly men because if you give them a chance, they think they rule the world. She must be an FDS mod lol. I feel like being in a healthy relationship is going to boost your confidence regardless if you’re a man or woman.
/r/MensRights20/10/22 02:48 PM
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They’ll only agree that it’s gross as well when it’s bought up as a double standard but otherwise keep quiet about it and hope nobody notices
/r/MensRights20/10/22 02:34 PM
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I like how they speak for each other like some sort of hive mind. Someone once tried justifying why women shouldn't split or pay for dates by saying that they spend money and time looking nice for men. All I could think was they don't dress up or do makeup and for men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/22 01:53 AM
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Women’s Aid also wanted to limit government funding to women only organisations
/r/MensRights19/10/22 12:07 PM
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Folks are hyping it up a lot but I gave up on it because it felt like the latter seasons of Game of Thrones to me, especially how unnatural the dialogue feels.
/r/MensRights17/10/22 11:43 PM
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Non-American so might be wrong but the school's softball team seems to be all female? So the victim being a girl might have something to do with it
/r/MensRights17/10/22 04:19 PM
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Paper written by a feminist. It says the “iconic” framing of DV as a women’s issue was important to them, so that’s probably why. Conservatives don’t care about men’s issues either.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 06:38 PM
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The various petitions on UK rape laws have been rejected. The UK government defends it since the charge for women can potentially be a life sentence. Whilst that is true, it is very unlikely that someone will receive a maximum sentence. Only women who receive a harsh sentence will see prison as the sentencing guidelines recommends a community order even if facing a short or medium length prison sentence. For rape, it is 4 years prison minimum. Another annoying thing is that when rape stats are p…
/r/MensRights12/10/22 05:45 PM
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Fair enough. I’ll have a look into how it works.
/r/MensRights12/10/22 04:22 PM
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I like how she lumps in this subreddit with beatingwomen, creepshots and whatnot. Correct me if I'm wrong but it doesn't really go into any information on this subreddit. It starts off with MRA origins, then goes into Warren Farrell and then A Voice for Men.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 11:04 PM
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Feminists in positions of power like NOW lobby against shered custody because according to them men only seek it to avoid paying child support and men are abusive. It doesn't matter if random Reddit feminists say they're on our side. Might as well add this paper in which a feminist admits that the feminist movement has historically concealed female on male abuse as an "essential" strategy for the "iconic" framing of DV as a women's issue. The domestic violence movement historically framed its wo…
/r/MensRights11/10/22 10:03 PM
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r/justlegbeardthings
/r/MensRights11/10/22 08:38 PM
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Being made to penetrate or forced envelopment are excluded from the legal definition of rape so that most male victims of rape are excluded from rape stats. Like this report from the UK. Legally, the crime of a woman raping a man falls under “causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent” which is found no where in that report. That is how British websites exclude men who were raped by women from their statistics and aren’t up front about it. That’s pretty systemic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/22 07:51 PM
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Reminds of being called an infidel
/r/MensRights11/10/22 02:08 PM
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Makes sense since admins have openly stated that misandry is allowed on Reddit, so it's left up to the mods on whether to allow it or not.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 02:04 PM
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There is a wgtow subreddit although it's pretty small. Probably because women are able to openly talk about their issues without someone calling them an incel or whatever.
/r/MensRights11/10/22 01:59 PM
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Nowadays it’s simply just use as an ad hominem and has nothing to with the other persons sexual status. MRA’s or egalitarian people usually get lumped in. They probably love the connotation that men only complain about their rights because they’re unsuccessful with women. It’s fantasy for them.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 08:04 PM
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But getting 50-50 custody is difficult, I think? I forgot that part. I wish it were default everywhere. Even if you leave your house temporarily, if it's legally yours then she has to find another place to stay (she will get evicted) and you will get equal custody. I've heard some places see that as you abandoning your child, so it seems like Kentucky has made some progress.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 07:21 PM
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There were only 2 or 3 that were in my uni course. I never befriended them or bothered arguing with them because I’ve already seen how pointless it is online. There aren’t any feminists in my actual circle thankfully. Some still say stupid shit sometimes, I just call it out and most of the time they realise they were holding a double standard. That’s much more difficult to do with feminists in my experience.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:35 PM
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Do they have cohabitation laws there? Leaving is not a good idea. It’s usually a good way to lose your house and more importantly your kids. In some places like the UK you don’t need to pay child maintenance if you have 50/50 custody and there are no cohabiting laws. That’s not to say it’s great here, quite the opposite.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 03:19 PM
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Nah man, it's totally cool to let the other sex dictate what is romantic and manly, like giving them your assets and money.
/r/MensRights10/10/22 09:38 AM
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For once the accusation of abuse wasn’t considered. It’s the go to defence because the judge/jury often buy into it. Surprised the mum and daughter received heavy sentences.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 10:10 PM
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So men opt out because relationships are often one sided when it comes to who does the traditional stuff (providing, romancing, etc.) and plus the law favours women when it comes to child custody and the vast majority of divorces. What’s wrong with opting out? Is it the rejection that annoys them? They claim entitlement when men complain about not getting sex but are ignorant to the fact that they aren’t owed a relationship or marriage either.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 07:14 PM
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She had been lying in wait for the couple for two days, and shot Mr Bush twice in the head and once in the shoulder. The original trial judge accepted she had acted in a 'passionate state of mind' when he sentenced her. Good call, she was only waiting two days to put a bullet in him Kukucova had nearly two years knocked off her prison term in January 2017 when appeal judges ruled they were acquitting her of breaking into Mr Bush's holiday home six months after their split and were taking into ac…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 05:10 PM
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I think some women are more likely to see stuff from the point of view of other women. I was talking to a girl friend today about how a mutual friend could apply for child support and he’d receive it because he has primary custody over his kids, the mum only gets them on weekends. She mentioned that he shouldn’t apply because the mum already pays when she has them over and she doesn’t see the point in forcing a mum to pay child support if she doesn’t want to. Meanwhile, she is trying to convince…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 04:52 PM
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I’m not seeing the link between the two. I only oppose feminism, not women, due to its overlap with misandry. That doesn’t mean I am against women’s rights as I still hold egalitarian beliefs. My motive behind supporting men’s rights isn’t because I think women have it easy. Regardless, congrats to both you and your wife on the baby.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 04:27 PM
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Yes The problem is that it isn’t received will by others and men are usually taught from a young age that “men don’t cry”
/r/MensRights09/10/22 12:18 PM
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Misandry is why in most most places men don’t have shelters, have to fight for custody, no one cares that they die after being conscripted in to wars, men commit suicide way more, pay child support to their rapists, are stuck in gender roles whilst women have moved on and the list goes on. The feminist idea of misandry is probably just men reading “kill all men” on Twitter. Whilst this also should not be acceptable, misandry goes beyond just hurt feelings. They just don’t think men face systemic…
/r/MensRights09/10/22 11:49 AM
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They tell you to open up, then make it about themselves, how it’s actually worse for women, explain how any discrimination men face is actually misogyny and then tell you that fixing women’s issues will fix men’s.
/r/MensRights09/10/22 11:27 AM
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I browsed both of those when the Depp v Heard trial was going on and remember them supporting Heard. They have a habit of framing any issue as misogyny, even if it’s men being discriminated. They’re the type that say men’s issues will only be fixed by focusing on women’s, i.e. trickle down equality. It’s all bullshit. Forgot one. They say it’s not on feminists to sort out men’s issues which is fine with me but will demonise any group that advocates for men as well lol.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 02:14 PM
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Why is this moron applying statistics from Norway to the UK. More women than men work part time, and this makes it more attainable for women to adjust their labour supply when their taxes change. So he knows exactly why there’s a “pay gap” but wants to fix it by making men pay more tax. A group who more commonly works part time is going to earn less than a group working full time. Why should the former group be compensated for doing less work? That’s not a fix, that’s just moronic. Looks like we…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 01:58 PM
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I don’t like having what is to be a man defined or something to be earned, so for me a man is just an adult male. Unless they don’t wish to identify as men.
/r/MensRights08/10/22 12:49 PM
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Certain things that women do more often aren’t even considered criminal acts. Things like paternity fraud, marrying/divorcing for a paycheque, purposely not taking bc (stealthing), etc. aren’t punished but instead rewarded. If these were mostly male perpetrated they would probably be illegal, stealthing already is when men do it. Also what about getting pregnant by rape. Even underaged boys have been made to pay child support to their rapist once they turn 16, including back pay as well. The fac…
/r/MensRights08/10/22 12:29 PM
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If they’re going to associate incels and MRA’s with Roger’s, we can do the same with Valerie Solanas and feminists. You’re right though, misandry is so openly accepted on every platform that they don’t even realise that they’re no better than the “incels” they’re complaining about, or at least their idea of them. No one will do a study on them though because sociology is dominated by their kind.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 09:13 PM
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They both often see eye to eye on a lot of things
/r/MensRights07/10/22 06:58 PM
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The people supporting Amber don't seem like they actually care for her. They just want to maintain the narrative that men abuse women and that it doesn't happen the other way round. Even Amber's psychologist suggested that men can only be abused by other men. I see people saying Shia has admitted to abusing FKA Twigs, but he actually denied it. No way to know who's telling the truth there. Evan Rachel Wood is under investigation by FBI for fabricating evidence. Rihanna clearly was beaten up. I d…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 06:48 PM
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Me personally, I don’t care to fulfil that gender role one bit. My partner is a grown adult who earns money for herself, we spend money on each other (mainly food) and we both share chores at home. Worst is the kind women who want traditional men but aren’t traditional themselves i.e. want their man to cook and do chores around the house after a long day at work.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 06:25 PM
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I saw that post when it had around 40 upvotes. Had a feeling it would reach the top as it's right up their alley. In the study: several incels having committed murders (e.g., Elliot Rodger) Says several like they are abundant but can only think of one lol. Got the idea to switch the wording of the title in that post to see if it holds up. What do you guys think? 'A qualitative study of feminists says that they justify their misandry by seeing themselves as victims of men/patriarchy.' I don't thi…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 06:06 PM
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It’s just as shit in the UK. The only good things we have are no cohabitation laws and no child support if there’s 50/50 custody. Although getting shared custody is another matter. People always say men often get custody when they ask. “Ask” being paying legal fees for solicitors and court fees which not everyone can afford and whether your solicitor thinks it’s worth it. India seems to be making pointlessly gendered laws as well. Like the law only recognising female victims of rape or marital r…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 03:48 PM
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The science sub has always been like that. Studies that are negative of women usually get deleted by the mods over there. Anything positive of men rarely gets to stay up.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 03:29 PM
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You can see it in action over at /r/science. Usually, if a study is in favour of men, people will scrutinise every little detail and that's if the janitors haven't deleted the post already. When it's an article negative of men, most people accept the headline as truth without question because it falls in with what they want to or already believe. Sometimes there are one or two comments by people who've read the article and notice that the study is flawed, as is often the case with social science…
/r/MensRights07/10/22 01:09 PM
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Can't be in rape statistics if the law doesn't acknowledge it as rape in a lot of countries. Btw r/teacherswhorape shows how common it is. There's a new post almost everyday.
/r/MensRights07/10/22 12:51 PM
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Yeah, it's because neither side really cares for men. Personally, I prefer left wing ideas on paper but do not support any mainstream left wing groups because they're usually full of misandrists. On the other hand you have conservatives who say they advocate for men but don't want to liberate them from outdated gender roles.
/r/MensRights06/10/22 12:02 PM
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Women are the ones who spend hours caking themselves up with makeup This why I've never bothered comparing physical attractiveness between genders. Something as basic as eyeliner can do a lot for your face and a face full of makeup can make someone look unrecognisable. It's not something that annoys me but I think it's worth considering on these subjects.
/r/MensRights05/10/22 11:43 AM
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Feminists groups like NOW lobby against shared custody by default because men are just trying to “avoid paying child support”. That actual reveals a lot about their motives.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 01:02 PM
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It’s funny how you need to kneel and present a ring that you worked several months for, so if things fuck up you agree to pay alimony to a grown able bodied adult.
/r/MensRights04/10/22 12:55 PM
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Sorry that happened to you. Besides any physical abuse, the emotional and psychological abuse is also extremely damaging. I don’t know if my ex had BPD but a lot of the behaviour matches up and apparently ~1% of women are thought to have it.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 04:48 PM
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It’s the same thing some guys might find when they’re in a relationship. He’s told to open up more but by opening up he realises it often just means be more open about your loving feelings towards your partner. Society does the same to men.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 04:37 PM
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If they made it gender neutral then men will actually be included in rape statistics and women may face similar sentencing as men for rape. Tradcons and feminists wouldn't want that. That's why they always try to claim that it's just semantics.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:55 AM
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In her closing speech to the jury, Ms Archer said: ‘If a man is going to accuse a woman of forcing him to have sex, is he going to suggest [a position] whereby he was behind her? ‘Is he going to suggest one where he is on top of her? That isn’t going to add up or make sense with an allegation of forced sex. ‘The only position a man could suggest a woman was in if he was going to suggest he has been forced to have sex with her is one whereby she would have had to be on top of him.’ The complainan…
/r/MensRights30/09/22 09:08 AM
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Nobody said that
/r/MensRights30/09/22 08:59 AM
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Fair enough, here is a larger study which found the same thing. From the sample 82% sought help from their GP, 50% got referred for mental health therapy. In the UK it’s up to your GP to refer you for mental health unless you go private.
/r/MensRights30/09/22 01:08 AM
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They only see the world from their point of view. This was a while back but I remember someone in the UK sub telling a rape victim that he doesn’t deserve government funded services because it would take away resources for women.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:08 PM
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Exactly. It’s strange that most of these people trying to convince us to use the term ‘toxic masculinity’ are only concerned that we’re blaming everything on women. Their main argument is that men are doing it to each other so it is not misandry. Society is to blame but even if you want to believe only men contribute to men’s issues, it is still misandry.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:52 PM
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Men shouldn't need help, so why build the shelters? That is a bad example. Organisations for men don’t receive government funding due to misleading stats. I would also point out men dominate most levels of government. So an issue facing men, with men in charge, is not being addressed. Taking your statement at face value, men harming other men does not make something not misandry I don't see how "farmers are so strong, they don't need a hospital" is misandry. But it does instill an image that a "…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 05:15 PM
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Sucks that happened but yeah, no therapy is going to fix being alienated from you child and having your life savings taken.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 04:52 PM
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I remember having to take a psychology based module in my final year of university. It covered well-being but a lot of the subject involved feminist ideology and ideas based on studies by feminists. I wonder if that’s a reason a lot of men don’t psychological therapy helpful.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 04:21 PM
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In short it is viewing some problems that men face through the lens of feminism. Feminists don't like to see men's issues framed as misandry because they believe we live in a patriarchy. So for example, feminists believe suicidal men do not seek help because they are afraid of being seen as weak. They believe men do not want to be seen as weak because it's a feminine trait. Therefore, men not wanting to be seen as feminine is misogyny according to feminists. That is why they prefer to call it "t…
/r/MensRights29/09/22 02:45 PM
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r/mensupportmen/ malementalhealth gets brigaded and derailed by feminists from time to time because it's unmoderated (iirc).
/r/MensRights29/09/22 02:04 PM
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Where I live you need to have parental responsibility. So you only have rights if you're married, on the birth certificate or have applied for responsibility through court order. If not then the mother can give the baby away without you being aware or agreeing.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:14 AM
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The one's who handed out white feathers or shamed these men and boys into enlisting are the real cowards
/r/MensRights29/09/22 07:03 AM
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Sounds like a lot of feminists. Also, I like how those commenters are experts on “incels” or personally know a lot of them. Are they actual incels or just people they disagree with? Most Redditors use it to label the latter.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 06:46 AM
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Thanks. As usual, feminists are quick to point out male privilege but are incapable of acknowledging female privilege so I put a few together. Female genital mutilation is illegal in most countries Parental certainty (mix up could occur but that is rare) Abortion Give baby away for adoption if father isn't on birth certificate Safe-Haven law (I think this is a US thing) Child custody Lenient prison sentencing or more likely to receive a community order instead Support/shelters for female victims…
/r/MensRights28/09/22 06:33 PM
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How does patriarchy benefit men today? The most important benefit that every man enjoys under patriarchy is that he is not a woman Oh being a man in Western society comes with a vast amount of privilege Page not found... huh... It's not necessary for a man to be in a position of power over women. Just being a man means society allows men more and better choices than if they were women. That doesn't mean patriarchy is a net positive for all or maybe even most men. Good to know men have better cho…
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:41 PM
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Something tells me that penis rape is significantly worse than the rest Sentencing Council for England and Wales agrees with that unfortunately
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:27 PM
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Sentencing for rape is harsher than the one she's been accused of
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:08 PM
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This is one of those reasons why I will never have a joint account
/r/MensRights28/09/22 03:04 PM
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It always ends up being an out of the blue ad hominem attack on how we're all incels lol
/r/MensRights28/09/22 09:02 AM
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'Context? Have you asked her about her recent behavior? There could be something bothering her that you don't know about. Maybe she has PPD? Maybe she has a partner who doesn't do his fair share and needs constant reminders to do at least some chores. That's not a romantic relationship, that's a mother son dynamic.' Typical baseless assumptions made when giving relationship advice to men.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 05:33 PM
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Signed. Something that’s missing is that even if women fit the criteria for a medium or short length prison sentence, the guidelines suggests the punishment should be a community order anyway. Only the harshest of sentences (mainly category 1) carry a long prison sentence so most female rapists never have to worry about seeing prison.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 04:42 PM
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I wonder if she had to register on the sex offenders database
/r/MensRights27/09/22 01:50 PM
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But I totally believe they caught Osama and were kind enough to give him a burial at sea
/r/MensRights27/09/22 01:42 PM
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Yeah, no country would conscript women into becoming baby factories so the whole repopulating a country idea is silly
/r/MensRights27/09/22 01:36 PM
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“Plus-sized women admit they aren’t attracted to overweight men” - some news article. The same people who talk about body positivity for women will nonchalantly talk about how someone gives of “big dick energy”, “small dick energy” or call them a “neckbeard”.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 12:51 PM
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They were trying to make that a discussion on every unrelated or even non-American subreddit. Feminists on the UK subreddit were fear mongering over nothing, but then again that subreddit has been shit long before that.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 12:42 PM
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Talking of who does the important jobs, I saw a comment on askmen about what would happen if women disappeared for 24 hours. Someone commented that the world would collapse gave their reasoning which was utterly delusional. I thought they were trolling but they were serious lmao. Air travel: No stewards, and they are critical to flight safety and can't fly without them. Teaching: Don't have figures, but can't be far off 50/50 .... and yeah, no dinnerladies, so no food for the kids either. Hospit…
/r/MensRights27/09/22 12:29 PM
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Having read it fully yeah you’re right
/r/MensRights26/09/22 10:11 PM
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So it looks like they are looking to expand the definition of rape to include trans-men offenders. I’m assuming pre-op trans-women can already be charged for rape since they have a penis. You could easily solve this by making the rape law gender neutral but I guess they’d do anything but that.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 08:13 PM
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I would just reference the legislation, sentencing guidelines and comment on it. Sexual Offences Act 2003 Section 1: Rape (1)A person (A) commits an offence if— (a)he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis, (b)B does not consent to the penetration, and (c)A does not reasonably believe that B consents. This by definition means that only males can be guilty of rape. The equivalent charge for females is section 4: Causing a person to engage in sexual…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 04:36 PM
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Discrimination that people will probably justify by saying women are extremely vulnerable. It's crazy.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 02:34 PM
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Most people won't see "beating your wife" as masculine. I find it pointless to define masculinity as men and women have their own idea of it. I don't really care for it as I believe people should live their life the way they want (as long as they're not harming anyone of course), it doesn't make them any less of a man.
/r/MensRights26/09/22 02:22 PM
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It's usually the guy in the relationship who has to be the "rock". Most people will insult a guy for not being emotionally supportive to his partner. If anything, the stereotype is that men don't seek emotional support from their partners because: She finds it unmanly and tells you to 'man up' or loses attraction to you Gets upset, makes the situation about her and ends up with you consoling her instead (Personally experienced this one in the past) Uses it against the guy in an argument Tells ot…
/r/MensRights26/09/22 02:05 PM
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Women have been liberated from their traditional gender roles in western countries. Women are still allowed to be traditional if they wish. This has yet to happen for men and there doesn’t seem to be any rush to do so. People see men who provide, protect and are stoic as “manly” men. I guess because those men benefit society without complaining. Also, the empathy gap is a thing.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 07:41 PM
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My problem with it is mainly the phrase itself and the way it’s used to place blame. Pretty much any form of misandry is labelled “toxic masculinity” because they believe it takes root from misogyny. For example, they think men don’t want to appear weak because weakness is associated with women and therefore it’s misogyny, not misandry. This is why they are hesitant to even label it as sexism. Additionally, based on the reaction from a lot of men the term is obviously antagonistic which should b…
/r/MensRights25/09/22 06:03 PM
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The left being full of misandrist feminists does not make the right any better. Conservatives are misandrists as well and they remind me of white knights. They support male only conscription, alimony, tradition gender roles, are against reproductive rights for men, etc. They end up helping feminists in some aspects due to chivalry or traditional thinking.
/r/MensRights25/09/22 04:14 PM
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Is this sub in particular monitored? I’ve participated on here for years but have never received any notifications of a ban from other subs.
/r/MensRights24/09/22 03:51 PM
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They come around around to religiously defend their ideology usually by taking the post out of context (the post was about incels as a slur) but always end up failing
/r/MensRights24/09/22 12:26 AM
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Muscle weighs more than fat. It's too confusing. I know a girl that weight 180 and one 130 and they look exactly the same Lol definitely confusing for him. Neither have a set mass but muscle is more dense. This, only incels start posts like this. There’s the shaming language. Guarantee if women’s height mattered then there wouldn’t be a filter for it.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 10:43 PM
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Men need to raise money for themselves /s
/r/MensRights23/09/22 07:13 PM
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The comment section was refreshingly good but yeah these volunteer janitors ruin it for everyone
/r/MensRights23/09/22 06:54 PM
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Also shared custody. NOW opposes joint custody because it will reduce child support payments to mothers. Father's who want joint custody are apparently only looking to get out of paying child support. https://web.archive.org/web/20140512230817/http://www.nownys.org/fathers_resp.html
/r/MensRights23/09/22 06:19 PM
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This power imbalance stuff always gets ignored when it's the other way around. Women are wonderful effect in action.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:54 PM
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Even without the gender politics Netflix and Amazon content are mostly shit so I don't even bother with them anymore. They are just making thoughtless originals to fill out their catalogue since it's getting harder to license stuff with all the different streaming platforms.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:28 PM
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I'd rather pay the fine tbh
/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:18 PM
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One is a highly likely death sentence, the other option is prison or fine.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 05:17 PM
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Small correction. They don't even have to be single, virgin or even involuntarily celibate. The term is applied to men they just disagree with.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:53 PM
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The term has been expanded way beyond that though. Some Redditor's label all the men here as incels.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 04:46 PM
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Men need pussy to fix them or keep them in check is essentially what they're saying. If those "incels" just had sex they would be completely fine with any inequalities they face. Edit: Wanted to add that it doesn't really matter whether those men are actually involuntarily celibate or not, it's just used as a shaming tactic.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 03:31 PM
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Very much agree with your title. I've never been to couples therapy but I've seen the same sort of nonsense in advice subs where you get different advice just by switching the genders. Guy in a dead bedroom? A whole load of assumptions will be made such as he needs to take her out on dates more, do more chores around the house, look after the kids more or he needs to focus on pleasing her more during sex. He needs to earn sex and is not entitled to it. If switched, she deserves better and should…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/22 02:27 AM
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Sad thing is if he fought back and he'd likely get into trouble even if his life was in danger. It's a common misconception but when fathers pursue custody claims, they usually win. I don't know why this is so commonly used on Reddit as way to debunk family court biases. The "pursue" part should give them a clue but I'm guessing they hope people don't notice that mum's don't usually need to pursue custody. Persuing custody isn't cheap and not all father's are financially able to afford it.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 02:05 AM
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If they don't poop the only logical conclusion is that they don't eat either, so women aren't harming planet.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 01:42 AM
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Similar thing happened at my first job. Some women would also pass on some of their work to the guys even though they were not our seniors. Since the manager refused to do anything about it, anytime they gave me paperwork to complete I'd just shred it. Some of the girls there were pretty chilled out but the lazy ones just ruined it for everyone else. I applied for other jobs and got out of there asap. My other two male colleagues left a little after me as well.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 01:35 AM
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Some people grow up thinking men will fuck anything that moves so when a woman gives you attention you're supposed to be grateful, even if it's sexual assault or harassment. Some women will think you're gay and some guys will thing you should feel lucky. It's stupid.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 01:21 AM
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Another thing about false accusations is that some women will use it even after committing said crime because people are more likely to believe women. Amber Heard tried it because she knew this but her downfall was that the trial was public and she went overboard with her accusations. Even then some people still think Johnny Depp abused her.
/r/MensRights23/09/22 01:12 AM
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Pretty sure he's been diagnosed with bipolar disorder but refuses to take meds for it.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 04:45 PM
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Spot on. Anyone who tries to isolate you from friends and family is a massive red flag.
/r/MensRights22/09/22 01:22 PM
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Deffo not banned but seems to have restrictions in place probably to avoid getting banned.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 07:39 PM
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They went private for a bit, that was it.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:59 PM
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Tbf looking at their posts it seems heavily limited. They want the users to move to their website.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 04:58 PM
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Yes. Traditional conservative and feminist views align quite often. Conscription of men, alimony, support for traditional male gender role, etc. No major political party, left or right cares about men.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 02:03 PM
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Women complain about men as a whole and no one bats an eye. Men complain about a specific woman and it’s taken as an attack on all women. Hive mentality.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 01:57 PM
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They say it’s because they’re “punching up” so it makes it okay. Feminists aren’t allies of men, allies help each other. Feminists are like those “friends” that only contact you when they need something.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/09/22 08:02 PM
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Gay men are alt-right kkk? Also, what reproductive rights do men have? Feminists: keep it in your pants Okay, I’ll stop having sex with women Feminists: 😮
/r/MensRights20/09/22 05:41 PM
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Director Tim Miller blamed the hate towards Terminator Dark Fate on misogyny. Elizabeth Banks blamed the failing of her Charlie's Angels reboot on men as well. The gender of the lead doesn't bother me. I just don't care for gender-swapped reboots of old franchises, especially when they ruin the original characters to do so.
/r/MensRights20/09/22 04:40 PM
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It’s the same reaction we get from feminists. Men open up about their problems and they don’t want to hear it. There are tonnes of men saying they cannot be vulnerable in front of their SO because women lose attraction, get upset and make it about themselves ending up with you consoling them instead, you get told to man up or it’s aired to others when there’s a break up. No, not all women are shitty like them but it’s a such a common experience men have that it’s clearly a problem and men would …
/r/MensRights20/09/22 02:07 PM
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Until it’s used against them after they try blaming men for make up. Then it’s not all women.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 08:55 PM
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The people in there complaining that women aren’t a hive mind. I agree. The thing is they never speak up when other women speak for them. I’ve always heard them say they don’t wear makeup for men as though it’s universal.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 08:21 PM
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No, it’s like arguing with a religious person.
/r/MensRights19/09/22 02:44 AM
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I disabled my DM’s/chats on Reddit because of this
/r/MensRights18/09/22 03:05 PM
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This one reminds me of some past relationships, feminists insisting that men open up more but tell them to shut up when they don’t like what they hear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/09/22 11:18 PM
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I’m not even surprised. Male victims do not negate female victims or vice versa which feminists don’t understand. It’s often just projection on their part. Even in your example, they bought up FGM to dismiss lack of bodily autonomy for males.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 06:32 PM
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For sure. The crazy ones don’t see anything wrong with what she did. There’s also The Hunt where a teacher is falsely accused by a little girl. He still lives in fear after being found innocent.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 04:21 PM
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That’s the one
/r/MensRights17/09/22 03:54 PM
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Memories fuzzy on it but there was a movie with Michael Douglas and Demi Moore where her character sexually assaults or attempted to rape him and then falsely accuses him of rape. I doubt they’d make a movie like that today.
/r/MensRights17/09/22 03:36 PM
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Lol people noting that this isn't equality What is satire?
/r/MensRights16/09/22 04:50 PM
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Not shaming people anyone who has it or anything similar but people need to be upfront about this stuff and not just pass it on to others without letting them know
/r/MensRights16/09/22 04:32 PM
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Reminds me of the sex scene in Midsommar when a guy is tripping balls and has sex with a girl, surrounded by a cult and forced to continue when he is clearly uncomfortable. Most people think he consented when he took the drugs as though you can’t change your mind mid-sex. There’d be no confusion with the genders swapped.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 03:22 PM
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A lot of women on advice subs take everything as a personal attack. If you post as a woman you’d get different answers. Edit: The number of people with herpes in that post completely glossing over the fact that she didn’t inform him is worrying.
/r/MensRights16/09/22 02:42 PM
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You probably need to mention where you live. In England, 50/50 means no parent receives money from the other. Only a primary custodian can claim child maintenance if they wish to.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 05:23 PM
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I saw it as a sub that exposed a lot of misandry and it certainly did not have a small user base. Side note, I see a lot of similarities between them and a lot of girls on TikTok, especially western Muslim girls.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 05:11 PM
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They went private forcing their users to migrate to their website. A lot of subs go private just before a ban. They were possibly facing a ban for transphobia but not misandry. However, their posts seem heavily restricted which probaby saved it. They were never banned.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 05:06 PM
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Deadbedrooms is like this as well. Whatever a guy says, he’s in a dead bedroom because he’s not doing enough chores around the house, not taking her out for romantic dates, spending too much time at work or he doesn’t understand her “love language”. Woman “initiates” sex by (not exaggerating here lol) shaving her legs and walking into the bedroom in her undies? Guy has porn addiction, she needs to leave him. As you’ve seen, all the accountability falls on men in advice subs.
/r/MensRights15/09/22 01:34 AM
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Doesn’t really mean much as men in politics usually throw men under the bus anyway
/r/MensRights13/09/22 06:51 PM
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The sub is full of single mums so it makes sense they will defend this scam contract lol Marriage has been ingrained into boys and girls even though it's unnecessary. You're supposed to ignore the elephant in the room that is divorce and the alimony or loss of assets that come with it because worrying about that is not romantic and you're meant to switch your brain off.
/r/MensRights09/09/22 10:52 AM
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This is great. I will do the same when or if I have kids. Abuse is not always physical, it can be mental, financial, etc. This should be taught to both genders.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 09:01 PM
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I’ve always found it weird to be the first to compliment someone thankfully lol
/r/MensRights08/09/22 08:33 PM
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I bet they’re complaining in that sub about people bringing up male suicide. Meanwhile, in every post about male suicide: “women actually attempt more often”.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 07:37 PM
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I think signs of abuse in general are not taught to men at all and it’s even normalised. It’s common for guys to describe abusive behaviour from their wives and not even realise it’s abusive. Same for sexual assault.
/r/MensRights08/09/22 03:41 PM
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He’s the more popular actor so it makes sense. I’d say the same if she was the one bringing people in. I’m sure she knows this but is using “pay gap” as some sort of attempt to net herself more money in future.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 08:59 PM
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My guess is the girls are just FWB’s and some people can’t comprehend anything but their own desires for a relationship. Some women probably take his rejection of them personally and some guys probably want to be in his shoes. Both parties know what they’re doing and there’s nothing wrong with it.
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:51 AM
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I’m a Predator/Alien fan as well so I can understand that. Most people seem to like it as well, I’m in the minority.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:25 PM
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I get what you mean even though I also wouldn’t do it. Talking of slutshaming, notice how fuckboi gets completely overlooked even though it’s the same thing? Lol
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:21 PM
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No twerking but I swear people are extremely defensive of Prey. I don’t even have an issue with the plot elements, I just thought it was directed poorly and lacks any suspense but apparently it’s only incels who didn’t enjoy the movie.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 10:18 PM
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I was making a separate point in regards to your reasoning which applies to stealthing as well. It would be difficult, if not impossible to prove in most cases outside of a confession.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 08:39 PM
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It got worse after Tumblr banned porn and their users migrated to Twitter, Reddit or whatever. Even non-political TV and movie discussion subs seems to be full of people calling men incels.
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:46 PM
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You wouldn’t be able to prove whether a condom was removed intentionally either
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:36 PM
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There’s always an excuse so they’re never held accountable for anything
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:16 PM
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Whether it's considered rape is going to depend on if the jurisdiction has such a law. However, there's a difference between the two. In one, someone is putting something INSIDE another's body against their consent This intelligent person spotted a difference so men’s consent continues to be unimportant
/r/MensRights05/09/22 07:07 PM
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People and businesses profit from weddings and divorces so they want to keep it going. Also, people don’t really care about men’s issues in general and this is one of those things that mainly affects men.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 06:21 PM
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The movie 40 days and 40 nights shows a man getting raped for laughs and has him apologise to his girlfriend for getting raped. The writer essentially called a person a baby during an AMA for having a problem with it.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:11 PM
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Ah my bad. Sorry that happened to you. I don’t agree with the homophobic slurs just because your abuser was male. It really sucks there isn’t really any resources for male victims of abuse.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:46 AM
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Where did I do any of that?
/r/MensRights04/09/22 12:40 AM
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They treat men going to work as though they're going on a fun day out with the lads. Maybe they should think of ways to increase time that fathers can spend with their children, like paternal leave.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 07:05 PM
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He’s a traditionalist so I don’t really agree with him overall even though he does make some good points in his interviews.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 06:32 PM
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New justification I saw for starfishing is that men shouldn't expect their partners to do stuff you see in porn lol The blame is always external
/r/MensRights03/09/22 05:08 PM
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Usually right after they say "men only bring up their issues to dismiss women's".
/r/MensRights03/09/22 05:00 PM
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TIL
/r/MensRights03/09/22 03:32 PM
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Sorry it’s happened to you mate but good to hear there’s a doctor helping you through it
/r/MensRights03/09/22 03:19 PM
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It kind of needs to be discussed so that we can get some sort of support structure in place. There’s no shelters for men near me and the only place to discuss it online.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 03:01 PM
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Not sure why it’s separate but that’s good to hear Edit: on further reading, it doesn’t say it’s just for male prisoners. I assume then it would be for men and women. So female offenders get extra funding even though their population is smaller.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 02:45 PM
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Basically, feminists want you to not blame women at all for any of it (or anything really) but the reality is both men and women as a society contribute to male suicide.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:59 AM
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Actual rehabilitation? This is good but why are men excluded? I’m guessing they’re going to have their criminal records expunged to help them get jobs. While women who commit the most serious crimes will always be sent to prison Women raping men or boys isn’t considered serious then.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 11:35 AM
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Thanks. I actually get that part. The state would rather have fathers pay child support to mothers rather than fund the family with tax payer money. In this instance you have a father who has custody, applying for child support. So wouldn’t the state rather acquire that money from the mother rather than pay from its own pocket? All that’s changed is the gender of the custodian.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 10:09 PM
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They didn’t?
/r/MensRights02/09/22 09:50 PM
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They’re absolute morons lol
/r/MensRights02/09/22 09:14 PM
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True. A lot of people dismiss misandry by saying it’s men doing it. Some people are just too self centred and see everything as a personal attack on women. It’s still misandry even if men are the ones pushing it. Honestly, I really do not want to die in a war. Is that so hard to believe? Lol
/r/MensRights02/09/22 08:02 PM
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In Don’t Worry Darling, Pine plays Frank, the founder of the suspicious utopian community at the core of the film – and Peterson was a major inspiration for the character. I don’t agree with some of Peterson’s conservative views but he’s no movie villain lmao
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:44 PM
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Shouldn’t be a surprise that men don’t want to die in war either. Conscripted men should should have body cams so people who support this are forced to watch their fathers, husbands, brothers or sons in war.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 07:42 PM
13

I’m non-American so you probably know better but why would they award the mum child support if it’s in the states best interest and not the dad?
/r/MensRights02/09/22 06:49 PM
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If the contract is legally binding and she must hand over the child then I can see it working. Otherwise, if she can retain custody she would definitely get child maintenance where I live.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:33 PM
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The surrogate mother may change her mind about giving up the baby. You'd then be liable for child support.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 03:22 PM
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From my experience, most men are expected to be the "rock" in the relationship so it's not just female friends that women can open up with emotionally. The main problem I've had from opening up with my partners is that I don't really get to vent. They would get upset and sometimes cry so I usually ended up consoling them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/22 01:42 PM
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"best interest of the child" = best interest of the mum
/r/MensRights02/09/22 12:35 PM
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Locked and deleted from the sub by delicate mods over there
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:28 AM
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This isn't to discredit all the trauma men go through Writes a whole essay doing just that. Bruce as an individual seems to have faced more trauma than her but it doesn't matter because you have to see them as a group apparently.
/r/MensRights02/09/22 01:06 AM
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Insane how a definition can paint a completely different picture People who only bring up male victims to dismiss women and couldn't give a fuck otherwise %100 poison the well. These posts always attract self-absorbed crybabies who have to make it about themselves Edit: Post is now locked as expected lol, probably will delete any moment
/r/MensRights01/09/22 11:39 PM
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Not sure how I overlooked infant circumcision but it definitely counts as forced. In America it’s definitely routinely happening which is fucked.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 08:19 PM
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Sorry, didn’t mean in your comment thread. It was somewhere further down in the post.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 07:49 PM
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“I could be wrong but I'm going to assume there aren't mass forced circumcisions happening This pisses me off. Muslims routinely have forced circumcisions at around the age of 7 in third world countries. My parents had me done at the age of 10, never wanted it.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 07:26 PM
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Good to know the real feminists are the random ones on Reddit sitting behind their keyboards doing nothing at all, whilst the fake ones influence legislation and media. Edit: also someone dug up unrelated, out of context comments from OP because they don’t have a valid argument lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 07:07 PM
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When women commit crimes people look into their history with a fine tooth comb to see what might have caused them to behave that way. Even if they can't find anything, they will make something up to make them more sympathetic. There was a post on askreddit about men who've been raped by women. One thing I noticed is that when the female rapist is younger (16-19), they say that the behaviour was learnt somewhere, that the poor rapist was probably sexually abused by some male figure in her life. W…
/r/MensRights01/09/22 06:03 PM
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Conservatives have a lot in common with feminists anyway. Was going to say they often share the same viewpoints. For example, they both support draft for men only, are against 50/50 custody, share the same approach to domestic violence, etc.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:46 PM
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Checking the wiki, looks like they got rid of the circumcision section as well.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 05:35 PM
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When you have misandrists like Mary P. Koss behind statistics, who believe men cannot be raped, we end up with a lack of shelters for men because they appear unnecessary from given data. Women's organisations have been doing similar things in the UK by insisting that the significant majority of abuse victims are female. As a result, men's shelters are lacking and men were left to stay in abusive households, on the street, live in their cars or even suicide. Women's Aid recently petitioned agains…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/09/22 05:06 PM
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I’ve seen an uptick of hate for Leonardo DiCaprio this week. I guess jealousy can be difficult to handle. Meanwhile, complete silence when Madonna was dating a guy 30+ years younger than her and Caroline Flack, a 30 year old dating a 17 year old Harry Styles.
/r/MensRights01/09/22 04:12 PM
8

Crazy, Stupid, Love is a great example of this trope
/r/MensRights31/08/22 11:28 PM
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Common movie trope as well. Woman cheats on her husband who then tries to win her back and asks her for forgiveness.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 05:14 PM
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Agreed, only they will make it a gendered phrase somehow to push their men bad narrative
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:25 PM
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I thought women only wore makeup for themselves? So that time she spent is actually for herself not for her date. Also lol at the woman on Tinder who has to turn it around to make it sound as though the guy missed out. Got to protect that ego I guess. It’s like when you’re called gay after rejecting them.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:18 PM
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But the killings of children were actually committed by her hormones so it’s not her fault /s
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:13 PM
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All anecdotal with no source for the study she claims backs her up her viewpoint. Bunch of hypocrites in the comments want to ban the phrase “not all men” over this.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 01:10 PM
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The scientific argument will never be enforced the other way around anyway, unless they’re suggesting we force mass pregnancy upon women to repopulate a city. Feminist should be against that.
/r/MensRights31/08/22 12:56 PM
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This should be “mutual abuse” according to what those gormless users were saying during the Depp trial. As usual though, this only applies to men because they supposedly hold power over women. Truth is, they want no accountability when they’re abusive to their partners and scrounge for any excuse that lets them off the hook.
/r/MensRights30/08/22 08:13 PM
3

I see we’re just going to ignore the whole height issue lol
/r/MensRights30/08/22 06:08 PM
4

The latter is probably because of the ‘all women are beautiful idea’
/r/MensRights30/08/22 06:04 PM
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More broadly, the article needs to take more care not to equate the extent of gendered violence against men with gendered violence against women and other genders. This article is going to accumulate more and more MRA nonsense unless watched carefully. There are indications of that in the current See Also section. The inclusion of links to [[SCUM Manifesto]] and [[Boys are stupid, throw rocks at them! controversy]] are dubious at best, and that latter one might be a more plausible deletion case …
/r/MensRights29/08/22 06:48 PM
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You don’t even have to mention MGTOW. If you mention that you’re not interested in dating, people (especially Redditors) assume you’re an incel or a misogynist.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 02:21 PM
4

Just be dad and you’ll get told by some women that you’re doing certain things wrong
/r/MensRights29/08/22 12:17 PM
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Feminists will ask men to lower their standards but also say that men have to meet women’s standards. Don’t lower your standards, being in a relationship you’re not happy in is way worse than being single.
/r/MensRights29/08/22 11:58 AM
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Fuck boy when you do it Finding themselves when they do it
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:18 PM
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Falls under “causing someone to engage in sexual activity without consent”. Unlike rape the sentencing guideline for this charge has a clause which recommends a community order instead of prison unless they get a harsh sentence which is rare.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 07:52 PM
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The uk sub is full of these feminists. I remember one of them telling a male victim of rape that he doesn’t deserve help because it would take away resources for female victims.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 08:11 AM
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UK women can’t be convicted for rape either which I’m sure affects stats. Also, certain crimes falling under ‘violence against women and girls’ regardless of the sex of the perpetrator or victim is fucking it up even more.
/r/MensRights24/08/22 08:08 AM
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People on that sub saying men should discuss this on a post about men as if that sub will approve an article that calls out bad behaviour by some women
/r/MensRights24/08/22 08:05 AM
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She actually patronised someone after complaining about ‘mansplaining’ lol
/r/MensRights23/08/22 10:02 AM
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For one thing, they are far less likely than women to see their rapist convicted (UK data). Even when convicted, female rapists are much more likely to get a community order rather than a prison sentence due to sentencing guidelines in the UK.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/22 08:06 PM
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Yeah, allies don’t use you when they need you and then leave you on your own when you need help. Feminists have never been allies. They’re like those “friends” that only call you when they need something, usually money.
/r/MensRights22/08/22 11:47 AM
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It’s because women have hormones unlike men. These sexist chemicals can manipulate their bodies similar to how Remi did with Linguini in Ratatouille.
/r/MensRights16/08/22 10:46 PM
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Same here lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/22 10:32 AM
17

Those are great personalities
/r/MensRights14/08/22 10:23 AM
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They're at least up front about it. Reddit likes to pretend it's a male-centric site that is riddled with misogyny lol.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:30 PM
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I think thanks to men's places online, more men are becoming aware of how unfair dating or marriage can be, generally speaking.
/r/MensRights13/08/22 03:14 PM
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If you look at the sentencing for equivalent charges you’ll also see that mostly a community order is recommended instead of prison. Which is why women who have a “romp” with boys often get away with community service, curfew or basically no sentence at all even after conviction. Minimum for rape is 4 years iirc. Edit: Here is the jail free part for female paedophiles/rapists: Where there is a sufficient prospect of rehabilitation, a community order with a sex offender treatment programme requir…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/08/22 11:56 AM
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Government decides that only gender neutral abuse charities will be funded by local authorities. Though local authorities must allocate funds based on stats in their area. VAWG crime considers male victims as victims of VAWG reducing male victims and over-inflating female victims. Local authority begins funding women’s charities again and male victims get to stay in abusive homes or sleep on the streets as usual.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 03:24 PM
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They wouldn't force mass impregnation upon women anyway so it's a shitty excuse
/r/MensRights12/08/22 10:02 AM
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"Not real feminists" or "misandrists masquerading as feminists" is what I often hear. The latter is the only time they acknowledge misandry lol.
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:27 AM
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Also women in the UK cannot be labelled as rapist legally so I'm sure that skews the stats quite a bit
/r/MensRights12/08/22 08:22 AM
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On the contrary, I think it might be due to men realising that online dating and divorce laws can be unfair to them, especially now that there's been a lot of talk regarding it in recent years. These type of feminists love to put men down about it and seem to get an egotistical kick out of feeling superior.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/08/22 08:07 AM
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I can picture Redditors looking into her history to see which man they can blame it on, starting with her father. I feel sorry him and his parents.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 09:04 PM
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Also you need to pay a therapist for that kind of treatment because it's usually a one way street
/r/MensRights10/08/22 02:20 PM
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The courts will probably ignore that she took the kids and use the fact that the dad is no longer living with the children as leverage against him.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 01:30 PM
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Society seems to see view prison rape as a valid punishment for male prisoners unfortunately
/r/MensRights10/08/22 01:04 PM
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Slumping on a chair makes you a misogynist now? 🤣
/r/MensRights10/08/22 12:39 PM
3

You’re right, I forgot about anti-stall features. I’m used to driving older cars lol.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 10:05 AM
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Also unless that car has a decent amount of torque wouldn’t it stall trying to go over a human body at that speed? Or at least you would have to give it some gas and feather the clutch but you’d know you were driving over something.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:58 AM
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Not a problem for women in the UK since statutory rape law doesn’t apply to them. IIRC they’re charged under ‘causing a minor to engage in sex’ which is much more lenient. Lenient as in they’re likely to get a community order or rehabilitation but not prison.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:48 AM
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It’s pretty simple how men are at fault regardless, let me give you an example. With postpartum-depression it’s the delivery of xy sperm dna into her system that wreaks havoc on her hormonal balance so truly men are really to blame for the murders women commit. Now you might say that men can suffer from PPD as well but they can simply choose not to engage in sex.
/r/MensRights10/08/22 09:39 AM
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My mum used to say that my girlfriend doesn't need to give me gifts on my birthday because my girlfriend is the gift lol. Thankfully, I got her to see how stupid that sounds.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 03:21 PM
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Unfortunately, male centric YouTubers tend to be tradcons from my experience so I avoid them. The only channel I subscribe to is Aba & Preach and I know a lot of women enjoy their content too.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 02:25 PM
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Wow, this is actually quite scary. She is clearly mentally unwell, I wonder if this is a sign of some sort of emerging mental health disorder with such a rapid and confusing behaviour shift. There's the absolvement of blame I was expecting lol. Sometimes people are just shitty.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 02:11 PM
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That's how I see it as well. Recognising that dating and marriage is currently unfavourable for men since we're stuck with outdated gender roles encouraged by society and law and deciding to opt out. That's it. I point out hypocrisy and double standards when I see them but I have no hate towards women. People associate it with the subreddit, I've heard it was bad but have no first hand experience.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 02:00 PM
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Yeah, I’d personally find it weird as well lol
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:45 PM
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I think because men are expected to put in most of the effort whilst dating and during the relationship. So if it fails they blame your lack of effort. Even when you're married, you need to be taking your wife out on dates and be doing romantic things. Men are expected to bring in income in a relationship, but the effort that goes into that gets completely overlooked as though we're just going on a fun trip with mates. Furthermore, if your partner is jobless, you are still expected to share chor…
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:20 PM
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I see on the other discussions tab the article somehow got posted on the UK sub. Not surprised to see the idiots there think she accidentally ran over his head.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 12:00 PM
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So if you ever want to off someone make sure you do it in your car
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:52 AM
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They are very hypocritical when it comes to spaces. I've seen some blame it on "locker-room talk" which is actually something they are mostly guilty of. I've never heard a man describe a woman's vagina the way some women describe their partner's penis and sex life in detail.
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:39 AM
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It's narcissism on their part. You choose to remain single? No, it's must be because you're a loser incel who can't get women. If these guys just got laid they wouldn't care about getting fucked in a divorce or their own mental wellbeing. They don't even care whether you're an actual virgin or not. By calling these men incels they're implying men need pussy to 'fix' them. There's nothing wrong with wanting to live life single, it doesn't mean "no contact with women".
/r/MensRights09/08/22 11:29 AM
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Each individual lgbt subreddit seems to be infested with misandry, it’s pretty saddening. There are some levelheaded trans and gay men on this sub though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/22 12:35 AM
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Also, you wouldn't hear about it anyway since women cannot be charged for rape in the UK and therefore wouldn't be reported as such.
/r/MensRights05/08/22 01:04 PM
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In turn they are being childish lol
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:05 PM
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In short: it’s okay because women are “punching up”
/r/MensRights01/08/22 07:03 PM
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Feminists have expanded the use of the term to apply to men they disagree with, even if they aren’t virgins or incels. Still, the implication seems to be narcissistic in the sense that the reason you’re not a feminist is solely because you’re unsuccessful with women. Speculating here but it seems like some sort of fantasy of theirs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/22 11:41 AM
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But they act like the woman has been doing the man a favour by sitting at home and allowing the man to slave away and earn money for them both so in a divorce she’s entitled to his money
/r/MensRights31/07/22 12:10 PM
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I found it funny when the BBC posted an article advising girls to get married because there are no common/cohabiting laws here in the UK. Thank fuck lol.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 11:47 AM
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That's true. We don't teach men to look out for signs of physical, mental, sexual or financial abuse. Just to be grateful a woman wants to spend her time with you and is choosing you out of all the other men.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 11:40 AM
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Sorry, yes. My comment chain was in regards to uk where I live. I don’t understand why it works that way in modern day America, not that the uk is any better in other areas of the law, like paying child support to your rapist or even rape laws themselves.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 12:20 AM
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I’m actually not sure about the stats on that but I doubt it. Also, if you can get 50/50 custody then no one is liable for child maintenance.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 04:52 PM
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The only way I see anything being done in regards to child support is if we begin giving out primary custody to fathers more often so that more mothers are liable for child support (that’s how it works in the uk anyway)
/r/MensRights25/07/22 12:59 PM
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Focusing on the maximum sentence ignores the other sentences. Rape is a minimum of 4 years, for the charge you mentioned it’s community order. Even if facing short or medium sentence, the guidelines suggest a community order anyway. Where there is a sufficient prospect of rehabilitation, a community order with a sex offender treatment programme requirement under part 3 of Schedule 9 of the Sentencing Code can be a proper alternative to a short or moderate length custodial sentence. It’s not just…
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:23 PM
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Where there is a sufficient prospect of rehabilitation, a community order with a sex offender treatment programme requirement under part 3 of Schedule 9 of the Sentencing Code can be a proper alternative to a short or moderate length custodial sentence. Even if given a short or medium length prison sentence it recommends not actually making them serve that sentence. It’s the same if the victim is an underaged boy as well. They’re just taking the piss at this point.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:17 PM
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I agree but feminists only point out the maximum sentence because they’re the same to make it seem as though both charges are equal even though they’re not. It’s the same reason given every time this petition gets denied.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 10:00 PM
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Signed but as usual they’ll probably say the female “equivalent” charge carries a life sentence as well even though they are rarely given out and the other sentences are extremely lenient for women
/r/MensRights24/07/22 01:55 PM
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No, the charge requires use of your penis so you’d need to get rid of that first.
/r/MensRights24/07/22 01:50 PM
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It’s even considered ‘incel’ thinking now
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/22 01:15 PM
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A big problem we have in society is that girls automatically assume they have consent, so why are we only teaching boys to seek consent? We should be teaching boys to look out for signs of physical, sexual, mental or financial abuse as well, not just girls.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 12:25 PM
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Girls as young as 12 can get the pill, and most GPs will keep it a secret for them. I get it's for their own safety but this reminds of when I worked at a GP surgery for a little while in the UK. Muslim girls even the very religious looking ones usually have a popup warning when you load up their records saying to not mention sexual history in front of husband or family.
/r/MensRights23/07/22 12:17 PM
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Gender neutral organisations don’t exclude any victims
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:41 AM
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By your logic let’s just say fuck it to homeless women and female suicide victims as well because they’re just a small minority. You sound inhumane.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 01:04 AM
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It seems more like an excuse to justify being an asshole to men who've suffered abuse. It would just push men away further.
/r/MensRights09/07/22 03:02 PM
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Usually around puberty when you begin looking like a young adult. People become less affectionate, maybe because they don’t see you as an innocent child anymore. It’s something I noticed with my teachers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/07/22 03:06 PM
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How can you wrongly call someone a paedophile over nicking a sausage roll? Poor guy
/r/MensRights21/06/22 08:54 PM
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If I'm basing my answer on LGBT subreddits or Twitter, then no. They are riddled with misandry from my experience, which also alienates trans men as well. I've never met one in a casual setting so I don't have any trans people in my social circle. In my experience, people are much more reasonable IRL compared to Reddit which becomes more like Tumblr by the day.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 07:50 PM
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This is something our society should be focusing on. We teach women to say no to unwanted sex, to recognise signs of abuse, etc. We're taught to respect women, seek consent before having sex, not rape, etc. None of these things are gendered issues and should be taught from a gender neutral perspective.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:48 PM
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It seems there’s nothing women can have – not even their status as a marginalised sex class – that men will not expect them to share Guess we should just forget all about equality then lol
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:38 PM
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I remember when Adele fan's were upset she had to pay her ex husband a huge divorce settlement. I should feel bad about it but we've been ignored on it for so long and seeing the shoe on the other foot is kind of funny.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:25 PM
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What I find frustrating is that women state that society treats then really bad and as a man I will never understand and if I don't take them at their word I'm a terrible person. I really hate that this is true whilst as a man you're whining and told to man up. We can focus on multiple issues at the same time but people won't even acknowledge our issues.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 05:14 PM
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I guess because society benefits from traditional men who provide, protect and are sacrificed during wars. Anyone who gives me shit for not conforming can go fuck themselves
/r/MensRights20/06/22 01:09 AM
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I think it's good to be looking into mental health issues to prevent these sort of things happening. The problem is that when it's a man, no one cares if he has mental health issues, they just want him locked up. Here in the UK, they've been getting rid of women's prisons in favour of rehabilitation. The stupid thing is that all their excuses for doing so equally apply to men as well.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 09:26 PM
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I was surprised to see Google with a Father’s Day doodle. Happy Father’s Day to all the dad’s here!
/r/MensRights19/06/22 11:05 AM
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100%, whenever I see someone talk about men not opening up about their feeling, I always notice that they ignore the root cause for those feelings. People aren’t eager for men to lose their traditional gender roles as it benefits society.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/06/22 12:03 PM
15

If you’re asking about her not being in his will, she found out shortly after their wedding.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 06:13 PM
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Talking about that case, I have a hunch Amber's plan was to get rich from getting Johnny to die from an overdose. It might explain why there are random photo's of him passed out and why she was pissed when she found out she wasn't in his will. I have no doubts that our UK courts would find her innocent.
/r/MensRights08/06/22 04:27 PM
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One thing apparent on r/justiceforjohnnydepp is that some people automatically believe themselves to be feminist just because they equate the label with equality and that is it. The reaction to this trial has made them realise that Reddit, Twitter and mainstream media feminism is riddled with misandry. My main gripe with feminism is the patriarchy theory, which I think is too simplistic of an idea for which they blame everything on whilst removing accountabilty of other groups. Real life is much…
/r/MensRights06/06/22 06:00 PM
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No, the definition of penetration is as follows: go into or through (something), especially with force or effort. You could call it envelopment though
/r/MensRights17/05/22 03:19 PM
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Feminists often describe misandry as toxic masculinity because from their viewpoint the problems men face are rooted in misogyny, not misandry. For example, men not crying openly is due to men not wanting to appear feminine or weak. In reality, there are a lot of men who've been rejected by women for opening up and we're raised that way by teachers and parents. It's just misandry, not toxic masculinity. The latter term is also unhelpful when it comes to helping men. I often see feminists more bo…
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:34 PM
3

Reminds me of some religious people. Thank women/god for the good stuff and blame men/self/satan for the bad stuff.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:20 PM
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I've seen Reddit posts about why we shouldn't care about celebrity lives and that this should be a private matter between the couple, but then also claim that both were abusive so they've clearly have been reading up on the case lol. Best thing about the trial being public is that the people who have been watching it aren't buying into the media narrative.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:13 PM
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In the UK they do get charged, however, the equivalent offence for female statutory rapists (since they can’t be charged for rape) recommends a community order instead of prison.
/r/MensRights17/05/22 12:46 AM
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Feminists do the same thing as well. They think they understand what men go through so when men bring up their issues, feminists will chime in to femsplain why you're wrong and why they're right.
/r/MensRights15/05/22 03:05 PM
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I can agree that we’ve done a lot for women in terms of liberation from their gender roles but I don’t agree when it comes to men.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 08:27 PM
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Pretty fucked up that that causing or inciting statutory rape has a harsher punishment than being guilty of the actual act.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 08:21 PM
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The part that most ignore is that the process of earning money isn’t enjoyable for most people. I would personally love to stay home and not work. There’s also the fact that you don’t really get to see your children much or bond with them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 06:37 PM
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Briefly looked over it so I could be wrong, it doesn’t seem to fall under rape either. For males it would fall under section 5, sentencing and offence: Rape of a child under 13 (1)A person commits an offence if— (a)he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person with his penis, and (b)the other person is under 13. (2)A person guilty of an offence under this section is liable, on conviction on indictment, to imprisonment for life. For female offenders it seems to fall unde…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 06:09 PM
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Translation: We don't care if men are dying, stop trying to make women look bad, remember it's the patriarchy's fault.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 04:35 PM
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Haha MensRights? You mean OurRights
/r/MensRights14/05/22 03:59 PM
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Because men are still expected to be traditional in a relationship. You are the provider. If you read posts on relationship subs it's not your money or property but both of yours.
/r/MensRights14/05/22 03:48 PM
3

I've learnt from this comment that there is a separate offence for female on male rape: "Causing a person to engage in sexual activity without consent". Whilst the very maximum is the same, the range for sentencing guidelines are not. Not only that, but there is a major discrepancy: Where there is a sufficient prospect of rehabilitation, a community order with a sex offender treatment programme requirement under part 3 of Schedule 9 of the Sentencing Code can be a proper alternative to a short o…
/r/MensRights14/05/22 03:07 PM
3

It's sad that there have been so many petitions but results are always the same and completely ignores the range.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 03:46 AM
9

Bloody hell, you've researched this a heck of lot more than I've been able to. Thanks for writing all this out.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/22 03:37 AM
5

PIV rape cannot carry a life sentence though
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:33 PM
7

It doesn't mention anything about forced enveloping, but then again I'm not sure if such a law exists in any country. Maybe not but it should fall under rape
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:28 PM
14

Unless it missed somewhere, being forced penetrate isn't included. What you're describing is essentially sodomy.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 10:05 PM
1

Okay, thank you
/r/MensRights13/05/22 09:50 PM
14

Another issue is statics
/r/MensRights13/05/22 09:48 PM
19

Is there a source for that? Edit: so only for anal rape point still stands for PIV rape
/r/MensRights13/05/22 09:46 PM
39

Yep, it also makes sense now why female teachers who "have sex" with underaged pupils often don't see prison.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 09:14 PM
7

Why not here?
/r/MensRights13/05/22 07:52 PM
9

Go be a victim somewhere else. You mean not on a mensrights sub?
/r/MensRights13/05/22 07:45 PM
13

Yes, I don't believe that traditional gender roles are progress for men (or women). Conservative MRA's are usually against lgbt rights as well which I do not agree with. I mentioned the same thing about Think before you sleep here recently. The annoying part of it is that everyone lumps us in with them. When it comes to being "woke", its the anti-male sentiments that I despise, not gay, trans or people of colour being represented. It seems neither political sides care about men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/22 06:17 PM
33

I've also never been mugged so that must mean it never happens.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 02:34 PM
2

As well as not being able to repeat an attempt, men also have a higher rate of completion even when accounting for method.
/r/MensRights13/05/22 12:00 PM
15

I still see some feminists in r/justiceforjohnnydepp saying we should still believe women lol. It’s like they learnt nothing and only make exceptions for men they like.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 07:55 PM
19

Wouldn't this make more likely for businesses, especially smaller businesses to not hire women? If we consider a month 4 weeks then a woman may be working 25 days a month and man 28 days a month. That's also ignoring the lack of or disparity in paternity leave.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/22 04:16 PM
3

I bet they'll accuse those men of "fetishising" to shame them
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:59 PM
10

She the one who dated Harry Styles and committed suicide due to domestic violence charges? I have no idea why people felt sorry for her. Then again her fans watch Love Island so it makes sense.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 03:27 PM
1

Sorry, just saw this. I don't have any examples saved though I did find this with a quick search. Mothers taking their kids with them is not uncommon in the suicide scape. These actions are born out of twisted love for the child in a broken manner. or Good on the dude. And hopefully the woman got much needed help, and the child ended up somewhere safe. There are several other comments which are understanding/sympathetic of the mum's mental state, something we don't do for fathers.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 02:41 PM
2

I do fall in on the pro-choice side so I'm not actively against abortion but I'm also no longer bothered to offer my support either. I would attend protest with them if we were truly allies but we're not. Allies help each other, not just when you need help. Feminists have already demonstrated that when their goals are achieved, they minimise, ignore and actively harm men.
/r/MensRights12/05/22 01:57 PM
14

Another reason I see that the mother doesn’t believe anyone will care for her children properly so she’s killing them out of love apparently Edit: I meant when they suicide as well
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:41 PM
62

Our society in general is much more forgiving of mothers whether they’ve abused or abandoned their kids in the past
/r/MensRights10/05/22 11:02 PM
5

I don't usually save those comments but here's one I came across recently. Another one and two from the same post. This user and others are complaining about men hijacking women's issues numerous times in other comments as well.
/r/MensRights10/05/22 04:09 AM
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It's an indirect method of dismissing men's issues that I often see in posts regarding men, so they're guilty of it. They project their behaviour on us, as they often do. In a post about male suicide. Feminist: "I care about about male suicide but I hate that it's only brought up in bad faith to dismiss female victims".
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:58 PM
2

ffs was happy till I read the end of the title
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:42 PM
2

Yeah, it's just that western media tends avoid reporting on male victims or casualties like with boko haram.
/r/MensRights09/05/22 11:38 PM
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It’s sad that you need to be a saint in order to be a victim as a man, even before the relationship started. But I’m glad that majority of people are on his side after listening to his side.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 02:24 PM
2

You're right. I accidentally missed that part of OP's title.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 02:43 AM
1

Ah shoot, I misread OP's post. Neither movies work, my bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 02:38 AM
21

Misery, great classic about an author that has a car accident and is “rescued” by a deranged fan. The Loved Ones, girl kidnaps and tortures a guy for refusing to go prom with her. Regarding Harry Potter, the love potions are date rape drugs, though I don’t think JK Rowling intended them that way. Perhaps this might be why only girls used them as she thought it would be creepy the other way round. Also, Merope’s story was written in a sympathetic way whereas Tom was supposed to be a rich upper cl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/05/22 12:37 AM
12

Smashing the patriarchy
/r/MensRights07/05/22 02:10 AM
14

It’s like they think men more or less just receive money in the post
/r/MensRights06/05/22 08:25 PM
2

Organizations compete for funding Like Womensaid, which tried and luckily failed to petition against gender neutral funding
/r/MensRights06/05/22 04:07 AM
2

I’ve seen the second one but I’ll read through the first. Thanks!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 10:18 PM
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That's true actually. Typical way to shut down an argument for feminists when they have no rebuttal. My guess is that they either don't see certain things as wrong when they do it or they enjoy the fact that they can get away with way more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 10:06 PM
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They will never understand that calling out certain women for their wrongdoings is not hating all women. Unless they are guilty of those wrongdoings lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/05/22 09:56 PM
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Some folks have found out that she’s been quoting various movies in her opening statement. She’s probably seeing how much she can get away with, it’s all a game to her.
/r/MensRights05/05/22 11:42 AM
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This already in effect in the UK. Women are only imprisoned for serious crimes even though their arguments can just as well apply to men. https://www.london.gov.uk/press-releases/assembly/help-women-stay-out-of-jail Speculating here, but judging by the amount of female peadophiles who get community service or suspended sentences, it doesn’t seem to fall under serious crime.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/22 02:06 PM
4

It’s an attempt to downplay and dismiss the issue so they can keep the pretence that dv is a gendered crime. Notice how people also say they don’t care about “celebrity gossip” but then seem to know how they’re both abusive so they’re clearly interested.
/r/MensRights04/05/22 04:17 AM
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It’s funny how it’s reactionary now and not mutual abuse
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/22 04:04 AM
10

Her lawyers also claimed earlier that the sexual assault claim wasn’t against Mr Depp but this psychologist said he did sexually assaulted Ms Heard. I hope they caught that lol.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/22 04:03 AM
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It really doesn’t make sense. Do you know want to lock up everyone that doesn’t just sit there and take abuse from their partner quietly without reacting?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 10:55 PM
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People might use this to acknowledge other falsely accused men (which is bad): That's too bad, abusive women are likely to accuse their victim of abuse. Why wouldn't they? People are much more likely to believe them. Blame them, not male abuse victims. Why should men suffer just so you can maintain your pretence. You don't care about male victims, you just hate women and feminism: I keep seeing this one as though misogyny somehow explains all the hate Amber Heard is currently getting. Criticisin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 10:41 PM
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Nobody would be equating insults and slamming cupboard doors to physical abuse the other way round. People would scoff at the idea.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/22 10:08 PM
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I have no clue tbh. I was watching some video where he made some decent points but then went on a tangent about how society is fucked because women aren’t housewives anymore and that men aren’t able to fulfil their role as a provider. That’s around when I clicked off.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/22 05:33 PM
9

Are there any decent channels on YouTube? I was enjoying some of Think Before You Sleep’s content before realising he’s just a traditionalist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/05/22 04:34 PM
44

Just as Earth is flat, our society is also pretty black and white. There’s always a ‘good guy’ and a ‘bad guy’ so we can arbitrarily blame everything on the patriarchy.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 08:38 PM
4

I feel like it's become Tumblr
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:38 AM
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It's a case of abuse plus false accusation. I think feminists will continue to push the idea that false accusations are rare. Ignoring that female abusers are much more likely to falsely accuse their victims since it generally works in their favour.
/r/MensRights01/05/22 12:33 AM
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Married now but whilst I am happy, it’s also made me realise I was happy alone too. Should anything go wrong I’d be content being single for the remainder of my life. I don’t think women are bad but marriage laws aren’t favourable for men.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 08:24 PM
2

I had no idea but it explains why the true crime subreddit is pro Amber
/r/MensRights30/04/22 06:37 PM
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ACLU don’t care, they just saw an opportunity to push their agenda.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 10:48 AM
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Probably the type that treat gay men as a some sort of handbag or other accessory, not even friends.
/r/MensRights30/04/22 01:42 AM
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“You need to listen and be supportive when she’s venting” When you want to vent: “she’s not your therapist”
/r/MensRights29/04/22 07:34 PM
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They want you to express emotions about them not that you may be depressed or shit. There’s a reason why men don’t open up.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 05:58 PM
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Using the Depp v. Heard trial Feminists: men need to speak up about being abused more Abused men: my abuser accused me of abuse Feminists: believe all women Evidence which implicates the woman of being abusive Feminists: they were mutually abusive
/r/MensRights29/04/22 05:54 PM
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In other words, waiting for evidence to claim he's the instigator of abuse.
/r/MensRights29/04/22 12:41 AM
3

Very fitting that they dumped Reddit before it banned them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 08:42 PM
15

Great post! Feminism has an extremely simplistic view on things. That is to say everything is the result of patriarchy, no matter what the problem. Problems of every group, LGBT, racism comes back to patriarchy. Through a feminist lens, men avoid displaying weakness because it is regarded as a feminine trait. This is why they frame male issues as toxic masculinity and not misandry. For them, men’s issues are rooted in misogyny.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/22 05:22 PM
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Similarly, regarding your last points. People will almost always diagnose a woman with some sort of personality disorder, usually BDP and suggest that she needs therapy. When it’s a man, he’s just a dick, throw him in prison.
/r/MensRights27/04/22 10:06 PM
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It’s unfortunate most people don’t see it as a violation of human rights
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/04/22 06:30 PM
5

It seems like YouTube search results already do that?
/r/MensRights27/04/22 04:09 PM
5

Then I might choose to fight in a war depending on the circumstances but I don’t think people should be forced.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 11:36 PM
2

Is it really important in todays world to repopulate a single country?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 05:14 PM
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A misandrist country that forces you to fight for it isn’t a country I want to fight for.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/22 05:10 PM
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Just saw another comment from her on this sub: please don't make judgments in your real life to the "feminists" you find on reddit since it sounds like to me (& i'm just an average normal woman) Looks like we don’t need to judge her based on other feminists, she’s given a perfect example above lol. The average women I know irl are on Johnny’s side and don’t do mental gymnastics to paint them both as abusers.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 08:34 PM
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This is why I would just stay quiet and move on like JD planned on doing initially. People will likely take her word over it unless there is concrete evidence. If you have no evidence then it’s not worth the risk for men.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 06:53 PM
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Blaming people for something they haven’t done isn’t acceptable
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/22 06:24 PM
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Accurate. They don’t seem to understand that we can support men without diminishing women’s issues. It’s projection on their part since they’re guilty of the same thing they’re claiming we are. Feminists have downplayed men’s issues for decades. They won’t acknowledge that a huge tool a female abuser has in her arsenal is that people are more likely to believe her and the abusers are very aware of this fact. I think that’s a big reason why they hate this case even more.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/22 05:45 PM
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I don’t care about the personal lives of celebrities I've seen this quite a lot and it's usually because they hate the facts about this case and know it's a lost battle. Edit: Ran into a perfect example: https://np.reddit.com/r/rant/comments/ubhnez/extremely_tired_of_the_depp_vs_heard_case/ OP claims to not care but in the comments admits to extensively reading up on the case. Edit 2: They deleted their post after being called out but here are some screenshots: The post Comments What’s funny is …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/22 05:13 PM
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They should be consistent. The didn't care when Amber outed Johnny publicly but now that the story doesn't fit the narrative, they hate him for speaking up. The MRA's are happy that the actual abuser is being exposed and this is wrong for some reason?
/r/MensRights25/04/22 01:33 PM
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Apparently, there is a video of him throwing a glass bottle at her. The only thing I could find was him dropping a glass in the sink. They are triggered that Amber is the real abuser and are looking for any little detail to call them both assholes. Some of them are saying it shouldn’t be public information lmao.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 01:20 PM
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I think it’s against Reddit’s tos to generalise women so the sub may get banned for it. The feminist subs can say anything they want about men since the admins have explicitly stated they don’t care.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 05:02 AM
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💯
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 04:56 AM
3

Charged with sexual assault in the UK Law specifies the rapist requires a dangly appendage
/r/MensRights25/04/22 04:31 AM
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Don't know why you wouldn't. Netflix has tripled in price, is banning password sharing and introducing ads soon.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 02:35 AM
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Nope, Drake would be paying child support if she got pregnant. I know that in the UK only men can be guilty of stealthing. It's not criminal for women to poke holes in a condom or "forget" the pill. Statutory rape and rape victims are also forced to pay child support.
/r/MensRights25/04/22 02:28 AM
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It's actually a guy as well lol. Male feminists are another breed.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:53 AM
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I’m pretty sure the majority of main subs have mostly feminist mods and user base.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:02 AM
10

It’s not their gay shit that bothers me, just their men bad narrative.
/r/AntiFeminists24/04/22 11:38 PM
7

Seems to be in line with Tumblr banning porn so they probably moved here
/r/MensRights24/04/22 04:31 PM
4

We don’t teach boys to look out for abuse or girls on how they may be abusive. As a result, abuse from female partners is normalised and isn’t seen as abuse unless it’s very extreme. Physical abuse isn’t taken seriously and looking at Jonny’s case I would never report it unless I had video evidence, in case I get in trouble. One of my exes always used to complain that we never spend time alone together if I wanted to go out with friends. Whenever I did she would message me constantly to hurry an…
/r/MensRights24/04/22 02:32 PM
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Lol an oblivious psychologist
/r/MensRights22/04/22 08:25 PM
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There’s been nothing shown yet that suggests Johnny was even mildly abusive let alone ‘crazy abusive’
/r/MensRights22/04/22 07:10 PM
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Those people would have preferred that Depp stayed silent about it. You're right sadly, I don't see anything changing but I hope JD gets something out of this.
/r/MensRights22/04/22 12:06 AM
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Why would you propose if the system is unfair towards you? If anything it should be the other way round
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 07:54 PM
2

That makes sense, thanks.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 07:40 PM
2

Sorry, I wasn’t clear. Not a feminist. I meant getting banned on feminist subreddits for posting on here and other similar subs.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 07:33 PM
2

No, it’s a solution for men
/r/MensRights20/04/22 07:14 PM
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They are pissed off the Depp is causing a big stink over the whole incident. They’d rather he stay silent than expose a woman lying about being a victim because it goes against the message they’ve been spreading.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 06:48 PM
2

When do they decide to ban? I’ve been posting here and other men’s places for a while now and still haven’t received any bans.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:14 PM
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Of course they’d have ownership if you put their name on the title, you’d have to be monumentally stupid to do that. Otherwise, property is not automatically split 50/50 unless you are married. The non-owner would have to prove beyond doubt that they have beneficial interest to a share of the property. If you’ve signed an agreement saying you intend for the non-owner to have a share in the property then you’ve fucked up. If in the agreement you agreed for them to get a 30% share then the court w…
/r/MensRights20/04/22 05:04 PM
1

UK does not have common or cohabitation laws though? Buying a house here is fine if it's solely under your name and she's not contributing towards the mortgage or any construction work on the house. If she's paid half the mortgage then you will have joint ownership, which is fair.
/r/MensRights20/04/22 06:05 AM
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That's pretty typical for The Guardian and feminists love them for it. I'm pretty sure they also tend to avoid reporting female-on-male crimes as well. This reads like an onion article.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/04/22 05:22 AM
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Why do you assume men only bring up their issues in bad faith rather than to bring awareness? That seems to be a common feminist tactic used to shut men up from discussing their issues. Also feminists aren't synonymous with women. A person can believe in equality for men and women without being a feminist. Through the lens of feminism all societal problems are due to men, aka the patriarchy. The concept is similar to other conspiracy theories such as the earth being flat, it's too simplistic and…
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 05:02 AM
1

Being a woman does not automatically make someone a feminist but even if she is you are being mean for no reason
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 04:39 AM
9

No one expects their partner to be a therapist, it’s more a response to men venting or opening up emotionally.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 07:25 PM
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I swear if I liked even my female cousins posts on instagram I wouldn’t hear the end of it from my ex
/r/MensRights19/04/22 06:09 PM
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What do you mean mate? Real men take a bullet for women even if they’re complete strangers. Real men die in war or on a sinking ship. Real men are providers. Real men agree that his money is her money and hers is hers. Real men don’t let their wife do all the chores, even if he’s the sole provider. Real men don’t discuss their issues with their wife because women aren’t therapists. /s obviously, but it’s common for women to post these things on TikTok, Twatter and fds
/r/MensRights19/04/22 05:49 PM
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No doubt they’ll continue to teach men outdated traditions like having to sacrifice themselves for women and to be a provider.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 05:32 PM
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Virgin shaming is their favourite insult
/r/MensRights19/04/22 05:18 PM
5

So the therapist says the abuse was mutual, presumably because Amber told them so? lol
/r/MensRights19/04/22 03:28 AM
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Same story in the UK for both genders. Way more common for male victims to be paying child support though. It gets worse since rape or “stealthing” are legally gendered crimes that only men can be guilty of.
/r/MensRights18/04/22 07:38 PM
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I feel the same way as yourself. I agree with most left wing ideas but don’t agree with feminist theories and the way they treat men. Right wingers are anti-feminists so they may sound male friendly but in the end, they have their own ideas on how society should be. The mensright subreddit is a mixed bag, I’ve ran into both on there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/22 03:53 PM
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Kids don’t even know what mgtow is but if they’re afraid of boys not wanting to get married then maybe they should look at the reasons why, like alimony and child custody.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 06:43 PM
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According to UK tabloids, there are “many” reports of misogynistic language in schools so they want to teach people about incels.
/r/AntiFeminists16/04/22 06:41 PM
6

I was planning to teach whilst I was in uni but was discouraged by ex-teachers due to shit pay and because as a guy, certain students may get you in trouble. I do agree that we need more male teachers but not a lot are willing to take that risk.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/04/22 06:36 PM
1

If you say so
/r/MensRights15/04/22 10:20 PM
1

But you’re taught to respect women out of implied superiority/being a protector. Take that up with feminists if that’s the reason they teach men to respect women
/r/MensRights15/04/22 10:08 PM
1

My point was that people aren’t taught to respect men. Your brother and other men are taught to respect women in general, not just their spouse or parents like you were taught to.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 08:54 PM
1

So the rest of them are in public or non-religious private schools and pretty much all children are exposed to media.
/r/MensRights15/04/22 08:35 PM
1

That’s only around 6.8% of kids in America
/r/MensRights15/04/22 08:06 PM
1

I’m talking about media and teachers teaching boys in school How many kids read the bible
/r/MensRights15/04/22 07:50 PM
5

Tumblr users had to go somewhere
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 02:51 AM
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At least on TikTok you can’t deny that women are capable of misandry. On Reddit, it’s apparently mra’s larping as women since users are anonymous.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 02:50 AM
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They only think a man's body is traumatising. Everyone is supposed to be grateful to see their bits apparently.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 01:16 AM
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100% I just wish feminists would leave us actual egalitarians alone instead of slandering anyone that isn’t a feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 09:35 PM
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I don’t doubt it There’s just a lot of overlap with women’s subreddits as well https://subredditstats.com/subreddit-user-overlaps/menslib
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 09:29 PM
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I’m sure they’re fine with Cuties because a woman directed it.
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 09:22 PM
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Myself and I’m sure many other men were taught to respect women growing up. I’ve never seen it happen the other way round.
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:19 PM
3

This should fall under stealthing but nobody takes this kind of thing seriously
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:15 PM
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I have doubts that half of them are even men I know male feminists exist but the way some of the posts on menslib are written seem fishy
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 06:01 PM
6

Thanks, I'll check it out
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/04/22 12:29 AM
13

Old times, I remember H3H3 making a video on that lol
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 05:40 PM
37

Our popular news outlets trash men at every opportunity. Especially The Guardian which reported on this. Tbf, even though I am not single, it made me think twice about offering my empty bedrooms to refugees.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 05:38 PM
31

Sorry, yes. I meant single males housing female refugees.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 05:00 PM
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Funny you mention that. The top post on unitedkingdom right now is about not putting Ukrainian refugees with single men. I’ve not seen much about men being forced to stay, outside of men’s or egalitarian subreddits.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/04/22 04:30 PM
7

It is but feminists want to look progressive for not virgin shaming even though they're still doing it lol
/r/MensRights13/04/22 01:12 AM
13

Our media is overrun with fragile feminists but most I've met people seem normal
/r/MensRights13/04/22 12:50 AM
7

From mansplaining to dismissing mra's because we only bring up men's issues to dismiss women's. It's all projection.
/r/MensRights13/04/22 12:27 AM
9

It used to be virgin now it's incel
/r/MensRights13/04/22 12:24 AM
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Practically all of what you said. "there is no other point to marriage than An investment to women". And "women don't date down" and "it's always the woman" You’re intentionally misquoting me. majority don’t date down Is what I said and the last quote you completely made up
/r/MensRights12/04/22 09:44 PM
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What isn’t true though?
/r/MensRights12/04/22 09:34 PM
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It hurts when feminists say we don’t really care about men’s issues but instead want to diminish women’s. I don’t really think they actually believe that but instead are looking to prevent men’s issues gaining traction. They’re guilty of the very thing they accuse us of doing. Unfortunately for them, forum’s like this allow men to discuss our problems anonymously. So the only thing we can hope for is that more men start participating.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/22 09:28 PM
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And unfortunately, it just gets covered up. No mainstream media will expose this judge for blatant sexism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/22 09:20 PM
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Agreed. It’s mainly feminists on Reddit complaining that mra’s are using this case to make women look bad. Most people on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok have been supportive of Johnny. I wonder if the feminist userbase of Tumblr migrated to Reddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/22 07:58 PM
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Unfortunately, a lot of people online (especially Reddit) don’t really care about the primary victim when it’s a man. The top comment is often always that it’s going to reduce women’s trustworthiness. The odd thing about Depp’s case is that he lost against The Sun and not Amber Heard. Yet feminists see this as Depp being the abusive person or at least that they’re both abusive. Depp wasn’t allowed to use medical evidence or audio recordings and instead the judge went with her testimony because w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/04/22 07:47 PM
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In the UK you don’t need to pay if you have 50/50 or primary custody. Problem is getting even 50/50 custody can be an upward battle for men.
/r/MensRights12/04/22 05:31 PM
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This was her investment The elephant in the room that no one intends to address There’s no other point to marriage other than an investment for women. Marriage is an investment for the poorer person, which is effectively always women since majority don’t date down. If it doesn’t work then there are also safety nets from a divorce. On top of that, men get to kneel and request the privilege of signing over their finances by presenting a diamond ring. For men there is nothing you gain from marriage…
/r/MensRights12/04/22 05:26 PM
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Unfortunately not, it had +80 when I looked but most people were calling it baseless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/22 10:02 PM
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It’s as though they believe we see them as a monolith. You can’t criticise a woman without it being seen as an attack on all women or as though men just want to make women look bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/22 09:00 PM
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At least they’re allowed to set a bar for men. Men are shamed for having any standards.
/r/AntiFeminists11/04/22 08:47 PM
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Yes, when push comes to shove most countries will do the same. With the UK going the way it is, I’d rather go prison or die than fight for it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/04/22 08:15 PM
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It’s not even just “women have it worse” now but the assumption that men only bring up their issues in bad faith. There was a post on trueoffmychest earlier where someone said they were unsuccessful in getting funding to open a shelter for men. Someone replied saying: op is venting misogyny. op has no interest in helping the homeless.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/04/22 10:19 PM
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The internet has brought some awareness to men’s issues. I think it’s too late for our generation but hopefully it will become more popular with the next few generations of men. We’ve got to prevent feminists brainwashing them from early years and teach men to stick up for themselves.
/r/MensRights10/04/22 07:47 PM
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That’s feminists for you
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 06:31 PM
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Some pleb wrote: op is venting misogyny. op has no interest in helping the homeless. As usual, feminists come in to shut people up who try to do something for men Fragile mod removed post for not being personal lol
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 05:04 PM
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I’m sure they’re reading this so how about the lack of men’s shelters due to feminists omitting male victims of sexual abuse in stats? Women’s organisations received government funding and men’s got zero as a result.
/r/AntiFeminists10/04/22 04:46 PM
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