So I’m a husband, and I’m pretty red pill, in that I prefer when my wife defers to my judgement/is submissive to me, but I’m not an asshole about it. I think we have a pretty good thing going: I’m not controlling but she respects my leadership. If I say something she does it without question. She trusts me and I work hard to never abuse that trust. I’m reaching an issue where I have friends who seem scared of their wives; I can’t imagine that. If they go out with the boys their wife will get jealous or insecure, it’s really just all the stereotypes of the henpecked husband. My question to red pill wives is, how do I talk about and teach this with my friends? How do I talk about this with my wife? My wife is not red pill and would never consider herself traditional, even though she absolutely is. There are too many negative connotations to those words that she won’t admit that she’s there. Please help me present this stuff to the people around me. If I’m unclear about anything, I’m happy to clarify in comments. Thank you for your perspectives.