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New subreddit: /r/PUAPolyamory

abcd_z
December 28, 2013
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Title New subreddit: /r/PUAPolyamory
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abcd_z
Upvotes 0
Comments 4
Date December 28, 2013 4:42 AM UTC
(12 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/1tuve1/new_subreddit_rpuapolyamory/
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[–]Exactly_what_I_think1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Seems like a contradiction. Please clarify.

PUA / spinning plates is more sex with women but not relationship or vary little relationship.

Polyamory is a type of relationship with several woman and probably having sex with them.

[–]abcd_z[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

PUA doesn't have to mean "no relationship". The reason that's a common assumption is because of something called the Madonna/Whore complex: either a woman is a slut and therefore not relationship quality, or she's a pure maiden and thus would never go for one of those nasty one-night stands.

PUA Polyamory bypasses this completely. With PUA Polyamory the end goal is not a monogamous relationship, so it doesn't matter how promiscuous of a woman she is, so it's perfectly acceptable to turn those one night stands into healthy, rewarding long-term relationships.

[–]_whistler1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Seems redundant.

[–]abcd_z[S] 1 point2 points3 points 12 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Many men on TRP will judge women negatively for being promiscuous. This is because many men are suffering from the Disney Fantasy where they will find That One GirlTM who's Not Like The OthersTM.

PUA Polyamory, in comparison, is about building a relationship that doesn't require her to be any different from the vast majority of women. She might see other guys, she might not. The relationship might last the rest of your life, or she might decide to trade up next week. It's about developing the tools to be okay no matter what happens.

A side-effect of the PUA Polyamory mindset is that you no longer see "sluts", you just see women who really love sex. :)

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